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Thaj
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Enjoywho]
#21723109 - 05/25/15 11:29 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Marriage is very personal and u must follow your own intuition. If you marry and your husband is shitty, don't be afraid to divorce and start again
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Psychonautica
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Thaj]
#21723129 - 05/25/15 11:36 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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How is marriage very personal?
Marriage is a legal status for taxes. Other than that it doesn't mean shit
Love is personal, I'd say. But marriage isn't really.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Psychonautica]
#21723148 - 05/25/15 11:44 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ya I don't really understand it. But that's why I have no kids and have never been married.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Enjoywho]
#21723157 - 05/25/15 11:48 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said:
How's your marriage with one dude from last story going?
Oh, well I explained in another thread that technically we aren't legally married. What happened was, we applied for a marriage license and we were going to get married before the license expired, but then I had the worst relapse ever. And I kept hiding the fact that I was doing drugs from him and shit kept spiraling out of control thanks to my dumbass. The last thing that was on my mind was getting married. And honestly, I was so paranoid from all the drugs, about barely even knowing this guy that I was kind of glad the marriage license expired.
So he pushed to go back to California to go to rehab and get my shit together. We aren't legally married, but we're still together. I actually feel very lucky to have him, he's been my entire support system while I was in detox and in rehab.
As a matter of fact, he's here right now. He flew out to come see me. He's sleeping right next to me as we speak. We just had sex 3 times and I came super hard on his dick doggy-style.
See, this is why women should always choose partners who are good in bed. So that way they don't feel like they are some slave servicing the guy at all. Sure, if you're just sucking his dick and he's just cumming inside of you in 3 minutes and using you as a substitute jack-off tool then sex is going to be boring and you're going to feel used.
Frankly, this is also why I believe being a "slut" is a good thing for women. Because when you have lots of sexual experience with many different types of men, you get a really good feel for what type of man you like, what type of sex you like, it becomes much easier to orgasm, etc. I wasn't even able to cum from penetration until a couple of years ago, and I strongly believe it was my vast sexual experience that helped me to achieve that stage.
Edited by Crystal G (05/26/15 06:55 PM)
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Crystal G]
#21723172 - 05/25/15 11:54 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Marriage is wak
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
#21723236 - 05/26/15 12:16 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: All you married guys with wives who cook and shit are lucky.
The girls they're making now... I have been a better cook than any one of my exes. None could cook or would bother to learn.
If there is no sexual acts performed or cooking in it for me then why the fuck would I get married. Guys get the short end of the stick.
I love sex and I love cooking. Those are like the two household hobbies that I actively enjoy and read up or watch videos about constantly to improve my game at both. I'm super glad I'm with a guy who's a neat-freak and loves cleaning. Otherwise I would be cooking up gourmet meals and having sex in a house that frankly looks like a dumpster. 
Anyway, don't rip so hard on WAN's mom guys. I was reading in another thread that she is Asian, so I can understand where she's coming from.
Asian women of my mom's generation really were treated like domestic slaves. That is really not an exaggeration. This was back in the day when men didn't even open the door for women, women opened the door for men and held umbrellas for men when it was raining.
When my mom was 9 months pregnant, she was still expected to do all the cleaning and cook for 10 guests even though she was in a lot of labor/pregnancy pains. In America, it's the opposite. When your lady is pregnant and carrying your baby, the man is expected to cater to her to make her pregnancy easier for her.
My mom talks all the time about how jealous she is of me and my sister, because all of our boyfriends have been so different from how her husband treated her. And to us, we take it for granted because in America, we are so used to men treating us well. At least the men WE choose anyway, but that's only because me and my sister have a thing for nice guys. We don't pick assholes or trashy guys who will treat us like shit.
I can't help but feel sorry for my mom, because culturally she feels like she can't even get a divorce and is forever trapped now. I've tried to hook her up with so many of my friends, and she's never gone for it. She's still super hot too, she could totally land a young cub or another rich gentleman.
Edited by Crystal G (05/26/15 01:06 AM)
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Crystal G]
#21723240 - 05/26/15 12:19 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah. I'm a man. Sex and cooking are the shit. I love both.
Hell, I even like eating bitches out. I enjoy it myself, so I'm like, quite the catch for the ladies apparently.
Cooking leads to food, and sex leads to babies.
So cooking > sex
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Enjoywho]
#21723250 - 05/26/15 12:25 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said: I don't really get marriage myself. Instead of spending a fuck ton of cash on this stupid ceremony. Why not travel for a month and experience some shit together.
This. Weddings are overpriced and over rated
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: DOBAS]
#21723253 - 05/26/15 12:27 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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DOBAS said:
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Enjoywho said: I don't really get marriage myself. Instead of spending a fuck ton of cash on this stupid ceremony. Why not travel for a month and experience some shit together.
This. Weddings are overpriced and over rated
I totally agree myself. Weddings should be modest and cheap. The real money you should be spending on is your honeymoon. I want the honeymoon of a lifetime. Fuck the $10,000 ring, it's just a FUCKING STONE. Who cares about a FUCKING STONE that comes out of the ground. Get me a 6 karat lab-made moissanite, it's not like any layperson can tell the fucking difference between the two. And fuck the $5,000 dress, I'm only going to wear it once, I'm cool with the $100 one. Get married on the beach or at the park and you can mostly budget and have a wedding for less than $1,000.
But when it comes to the honeymoon, I'm going balls out. First class airplane tickets, Cuban cigars, Dom Perignon champagne, skydiving, smoke some dank opium, I want to experience everythaaaaang. We've been discussing either Australia or Europe on a backpacking visa or a holiday work visa, that way we can go for over 90 days and legally find work at the same time we're there too.
Edited by Crystal G (05/26/15 12:36 AM)
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Trichome_Delta9 said: what about roofing in the summer? putting in dvds and cookin a dinner in an air conditioned house is harder than that? how about mining? is being a mom the hardest job in the world? not even close it can be a tough job sometimes im sure but don't act like its the HARDEST job in the world. so you can keep patting yourselves on the back ladies no ones gonna correct you cause they want to fuck you.
Not all men work those types of jobs. What about the men who work cushy office jobs?
I would say that raising kids is easier if they are older. At least 5 years old and above, because then they are in school for a large part of the day at least. But when they're still infants they wake up crying every 1-2 hours. This basically means that new parents never get any sleep. Can you imagine waking up every hour every single day for at least 2 years of your life? That alone would drive me batshit.
Then you have to deal with the terrible 2's where they have ear-splitting tantrums several times a day. You can't hit them, you can't scream at them to shut the hell up, because otherwise you will have to deal with the consequences years and years later when they turn into large children and then teenagers.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Crystal G]
#21724973 - 05/26/15 01:56 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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fuck the cubicle zombies.
there are women that work labor, construction etc. and what not. usually butches and dykes but hey, respect.
im not even necessarily talking about stay at home moms but dads too.
baby sitting is not hard if you parent right, its all about discipline don't over think that and beat your kid to a pulp.
also im joking around mainly.
I have done hard labor jobs my entire working life and that's harder work, as in more labor.
I admit it can be work (if I use the term loosely enough) and can be a stressful job but its not the hardest job in the world?
cmon.
that's narrow minded.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Crystal G] 1
#21724975 - 05/26/15 01:56 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Are we really getting child rearing stuff from you? Your sole experience of child rearing is from being one. Ya know I love you so out of that love I am suggesting you might want to shut the fuck up on this issue.
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Trichome_Delta9 said: fuck the cubicle zombies.
there are women that work labor, construction etc. and what not. usually butches and dykes but hey, respect.
No. I'm construction. There are no women. Some have tried. They can't do it. Flag person on the highway is about all. Facts are not sexist
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21725001 - 05/26/15 02:05 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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but hey they are still do something to help construction aye
I have seen them in landscaping as well. and I have also learned to never be narrow minded because once I think something don't exist or cant happen there it is before my eyes.
have seen a female help roofers too.
at least they aren't sitting at home popping in dvds in the blue ray in their pjs right?
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They can't do the job. It is just a fact. I've seen them try and all of them fail.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21725096 - 05/26/15 02:30 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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they can flag. they can pick weeds they can help out roofers. I never said they can lay pipe under the ground but at least they got a job.
grandpa women are allowed to have jobs now too
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I'm in the roofing industry, we've only had one female try to join us on the job, she got fired within a few hours because she couldn't get the bundle of shingles over her shoulder and up the ladder, apart from that we work with a lot of metal, she basically got a paper cut from some .019 trim we were putting on, and left the job to go get bandaids...I'm not saying every woman can't do it, but most can not.
The most they'd be good for in the roofing industry (most anyway, not all) would be handing someone the tools they need when they ask, other then that I haven't seen one be able to keep up.
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Help out roofers how? Hump singles up a 32 foot ladder? Bring them water?
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21725212 - 05/26/15 03:06 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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bring water and hand them tools yes.
im agreeing with they cant keep up but don't be so sexist about this. they can be useful.
im just saying a job is better than no job, and putting in dvds and making lunch isn't as hard as roofing I have humped shingles up a latter and wouldn't even let a women do it because im a sexist but that doesn't mean I think they are worthless or only good for sex and baby sitting.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: WAN]
#21725215 - 05/26/15 03:08 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Less taxes for married statute
and a whole plethora of other bullshit singles don't get
so yes, it's worth it
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