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Anonymous #13
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Re: I beat up my 15 yr old step son [Re: Anonymous #6]
#21729907 - 05/27/15 06:55 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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OP just has to say he's sorry and buy the kid a gift or something maybe this'll teach the kid to stay out of fights he can't win
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Anonymous #6
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Does it occur to you that the kid called him "that asshole" for a reason? He was yelling at the kid's mother. You wouldn't stand up for your own fucking mother?
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Anonymous #28
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Anonymous #13 said: OP just has to say he's sorry and buy the kid a gift or something maybe this'll teach the kid to stay out of fights he can't win
you are sort of right about something there, if OP actually realized what he did was wrong(which he doesn't he just ashamed he got caught) and taught the kid how its not right to do that and that people need to work on themselves before problems get out of control. too bad that's not the world we live in. the world we live in people go to web forums to justify their actions.
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Anonymous #13
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Re: I beat up my 15 yr old step son [Re: Anonymous #6]
#21729944 - 05/27/15 07:04 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Anonymous #6 said: Does it occur to you that the kid called him "that asshole" for a reason? He was yelling at the kid's mother. You wouldn't stand up for your own fucking mother?
nah i thought the kid was there the whole time
my bad OP you sound nutz lol
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Anonymous #31
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OP sounds like a scumbag, who are you? Imma gonna kick your ass.
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Anonymous #26
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Edited by Anonymous (06/20/20 11:58 PM)
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Anonymous #32
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My dad never really laid his hands on me til I was about 21 but he didn't really have to he was big a scared the shit outta me. This kinda screwed me up mentally. When I deserved to be yelled at I was fine with that. But when I was helping him build our house if I didn't get something right away he had no patience and treated me like an idiot. I don't think he knew the damage he was doing to me.
His dad growing up used to beat him pretty good when he did something bad. So I think he thought mental abuse would do less damage then physical. But to be honest with I think I would have rather him toss me around a bit rather then belittling me for messing up stuff I've never done before.
I often catch myself doing this with my own step child who is 7 and who I've been his only father figure all his life. When I do catch myself I calm down and try to talk to him calmly but sometimes I do yell. When I do yell I always talk to him later and apologize. I have a 6 month old now and I feel like I have grown up a ton and am alot mote patient with the 7 year old noW.
Parenting is hard. And you learn as you go. You just have to learn from your mistakes and not make the same mistakes. Most of all I don't take most advice froM othets, especially people who donot have kids because they just talk out of their ass. And those who do have kids I take their advice with a grain of salt because every situation is different.
No matter what love your children and pay attention to their needs. Eventually you'll figure it out (somewhat).
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Anonymous #4
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Anonymous #30 said: For that level of disrespect the boy totally deserved it. Do you forget he tried to hit OP first?
You guys indeed come off like a bunch of hateful hippies. Get a grip in reality. You don't disrespect your parents.
You apparently have a 5th grade reading level. He was respecting his mother and making sure she was ok, and disrespecting some asshole with no blood relation screaming at her.
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As she leaves the bedroom she is met by the boy who says that he was coming to check on her because he "could hear that asshole yelling". As soon as I heard him say that I fucking saw red and lost it. I rushed out and pushed him into the kitchen table. He rebounded and tried to take a swing at me and I blasted him with a hard right hook,
He attacked a 15 year old for calling him an asshole. He shoved him into a table, the kid TRIED to hit him, so he "blasted" him with a hard right hook........ummm......
Sounds to me like he was screaming at a woman ( which is illegal as well, verbal/threat of domestic violence ) the kid asked his mom if she was ok because he could hear the commotion.....obviously the guy was being a fucking asshole.....but being called an asshole makes you "See red and shove a child into a table" You shouldn't be around kids.
Anyone that sides with OP should seriously reconsider ever reproducing, and if you already have.....fuck you.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: I beat up my 15 yr old step son [Re: Anonymous #4]
#21732246 - 05/28/15 11:52 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I don't think his mother should have him either if she's gonna let him get away with shit like that. That is, unless she's scared of the guy..
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Anonymous #33
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Re: I beat up my 15 yr old step son [Re: Anonymous #4]
#21732259 - 05/28/15 11:56 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Sounds like me when I was 15. I didn't have a dad, but if I did maybe he would have kicked my ass a little bit so that other people who don't actually care about me wouldn't have had to do it for real later.
Good job, OP. Sometimes kids need to be shown that they're not adults.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: I beat up my 15 yr old step son [Re: Anonymous #33] 1
#21732279 - 05/28/15 12:03 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Did you read the fucking thing? He didn't attack the guy, OP attacked the kid.
God damn, it's like all the same types of retards flock together with the same stupidity.
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Anonymous #34
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Re: I beat up my 15 yr old step son [Re: Anonymous #1]
#21732319 - 05/28/15 12:14 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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OP, you sound like a piece of crap. The kid might be lazy and disrespectful, but so is every 15 year old. I hope that the kid's actual father shows up and beats your ass, but barring that, you should be prosecuted. BTW, you should be prepared for divorce unless you think the kid's mother is as scummy as you are.
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Anonymous #35
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I can only speak for myself, but if I was 15 and you did that something like that to me something bad would happen. I would either run away and start doing my own thing, or murder you in your sleep. I couldn't be more serious
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Anonymous #3
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Anonymous #35 said: or murder you in your sleep. I couldn't be more serious
In my 15 year old state I'd want him to see me before I pulled the trigger. That split second realization would make it all worth it.
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Anonymous #36
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Re: I beat up my 15 yr old step son [Re: Anonymous #3]
#21732819 - 05/28/15 02:37 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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My step dad beats and threatens me as well as beating my 4 year old baby sister. Oh and my mom stays with him and does nothing about it.
You guys are fucked up and both of you should be In jail. congrats #1 dad
Get some fucking help you lunatic
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Anonymous #17
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Anonymous #36 said: My step dad beats and threatens me as well as beating my 4 year old baby sister. Oh and my mom stays with him and does nothing about it.
You guys are fucked up and both of you should be In jail. congrats #1 dad
Get some fucking help you lunatic
Where is your father? Any jackass beating my son isnt goint to be happy. No fucking joke, if I have to drive 5 hours away because of some bullshit a stepfather is pulling with my son it aint gonna be to "Chat"
OP ignore the hostility for a second, where is the real father?
Edited by Anonymous (05/28/15 08:13 PM)
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Anonymous #28
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I think this was a troll post OP didn't reply with anger and threaten to beat us up. he fell of the face of the earth.
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Anonymous #35
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Maybe his step son murdered him
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Anonymous #34
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if it wasn't a troll post, OP is probably sitting in jail, being served divorce papers
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