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Black_Sunset
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Cosmopolite]
#21716116 - 05/24/15 12:16 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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you're a good looking dude. Since everyone else is saying it...sure you can lose weight but you already got the looks. you look much better without the mustache and the short hair.
Looks aside...why do you think you need a girlfriend? Are you really so longing for sensual pleasure and human connection or is that a cover and a distraction from some deeper needs. Do you meditate? Do you take time for yourself? Do you know what you SOUL needs?
What do you need? Find that and you align with what your soul wants. Do what you soul wants and you'll find happiness. Find happiness and you'll find the woman who will give you everything you need.
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Murzelpfrumpft
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Black_Sunset]
#21716564 - 05/24/15 05:19 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Let my 1000th post advise you:
Get physically fit, the rest will undoubtedly follow. First will come your confidence, then the girls will notice you.
You have the perfect physique for becoming bulk as fuck within half a year.
Believe me, working out has gotten me from the hospital to the time of my life.
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p4kSouL
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Murzelpfrumpft]
#21716727 - 05/24/15 07:25 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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You really need to work on your "inner game". Self confidence. You "think" your not good enough, but that isnt true. Its a belief system you have learned growing up through life. You need to erase that negative belief that women arent attracted to you, and view yourself in a new way. Your subconscious and beliefs effect the world. If you walk around thinking that women will always reject you, well that is what will come true. It will show in your body language, and it will show in your personality. Women are expert at reading non verbal communication such as body launguage and personality cues. Walk around the world and know women are attracted to you and just feel those possitive emotions. Not only will you feel a ton better but women will notice it and shit they might want to talk to you. It will make your conversations with them a lot better as well.
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LunarEclipse
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: p4kSouL]
#21716763 - 05/24/15 07:48 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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OP I'd shave your facial hair and work on your "Teddy Bear" image. A big strong Teddy Bear type. This is of course assuming you even want to portray yourself in some kind of way. Maybe those Vermont Teddy Bear commercials are influencing me. Those bears are big.
Anyway, you first have to be approachable first, then interesting can follow. For me, when I am smiling and happy life is a breeze in terms of people responding to that warmth in reciprocal ways. When I walk around pissed off and scowling, not so much.
Woman are people too, sort of. Don't be deceived into thinking the beautiful ones aren't self conscious and feeling inferior too. Sure, they pretend not to be but go home and eat ice cream while crying about their tits needing some change that you think are already perfect. It's a fact.
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basqueshaman
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: LunarEclipse]
#21717315 - 05/24/15 12:15 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
Black_Sunset said: you're a good looking dude. Since everyone else is saying it...sure you can lose weight but you already got the looks. you look much better without the mustache and the short hair.
Looks aside...why do you think you need a girlfriend? Are you really so longing for sensual pleasure and human connection or is that a cover and a distraction from some deeper needs. Do you meditate? Do you take time for yourself? Do you know what you SOUL needs?
What do you need? Find that and you align with what your soul wants. Do what you soul wants and you'll find happiness. Find happiness and you'll find the woman who will give you everything you need.
My soul tells me get back into school and get my masters degree in mortuary science and then beg my wife to come back and have my family like I used to but be able to be able to provide like I should have from the beginning. I'm a firm believer in always have a back up plan .Quote:
p4kSouL said: You really need to work on your "inner game". Self confidence. You "think" your not good enough, but that isnt true. Its a belief system you have learned growing up through life. You need to erase that negative belief that women arent attracted to you, and view yourself in a new way. Your subconscious and beliefs effect the world. If you walk around thinking that women will always reject you, well that is what will come true. It will show in your body language, and it will show in your personality. Women are expert at reading non verbal communication such as body launguage and personality cues. Walk around the world and know women are attracted to you and just feel those possitive emotions. Not only will you feel a ton better but women will notice it and shit they might want to talk to you. It will make your conversations with them a lot better as well.
I know some women find me attractive I was mearly reflecting on the possibility what I believe is false due to how attempted interaction has gone, I've never been the kinda guy who goes out to the bar, although I attempt to meet girls else where like the park or the library for example.Quote:
LunarEclipse said: OP I'd shave your facial hair and work on your "Teddy Bear" image. A big strong Teddy Bear type. This is of course assuming you even want to portray yourself in some kind of way. Maybe those Vermont Teddy Bear commercials are influencing me. Those bears are big.
Anyway, you first have to be approachable first, then interesting can follow. For me, when I am smiling and happy life is a breeze in terms of people responding to that warmth in reciprocal ways. When I walk around pissed off and scowling, not so much.
Woman are people too, sort of. Don't be deceived into thinking the beautiful ones aren't self conscious and feeling inferior too. Sure, they pretend not to be but go home and eat ice cream while crying about their tits needing some change that you think are already perfect. It's a fact.
well I guess I could shave but I don't think I look right with out facial hair of some sort, I get mistaken for being half my age clean shaven, that's why I don't go clean shaven. The teddy bear image I've always had with some girls like my friend Sarah who just moved to Washington State, she is an exfetish model who I met on fetlife, not the same one originally mentioned as she was only a friend. I don't do well with the accepted normal girls, typically if a girl watches anime and rps I'm a shoo in for being her friend with benefits or boyfriend. But then again I've been blessed with only getting any where with females who are interested in the heart and soul not material possessions and money. Well except for when I was a dealer. And also females are definitely people they are all different just like us males, well I consider myself a man, but I'm sure that statement makes sense
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: basqueshaman]
#21717554 - 05/24/15 01:46 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Mortuary science you say?
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basqueshaman
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Anonymous #1]
#21720034 - 05/25/15 08:20 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Well I just want to thank everyone who replied to my post. Every one had valid point of views.
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Patlal
You ask too many questions



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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: basqueshaman]
#21720143 - 05/25/15 09:26 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Like everyone daid, lose weight.
Also, you look like mob enforcer. It doesnt help your cause. Grow your hair at least an inch to two inches.
Here's something that will help you immediately. Go buy nice clothes and shoes. Have a salesman guide you and let him or her dress you up.
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basqueshaman
Todays scapegoat



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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Anonymous #1]
#21720265 - 05/25/15 10:09 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Patlal said: Like everyone daid, lose weight.
Also, you look like mob enforcer. It doesnt help your cause. Grow your hair at least an inch to two inches.
Here's something that will help you immediately. Go buy nice clothes and shoes. Have a salesman guide you and let him or her dress you up.
Not the first time I've been told I look like a thug, I do rock nice shoes mephestos and Clark's It would be nice to have some new clothing, I think I may have a gym partner now so I guess I'll keep posting as I make progress
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Anonymous said: Mortuary science you say?
Yes its the corset required to be a creamator and a mortician A job feild far from being flooded that I know I can succeed in, as well as being a contributing member of society for a change in my life.
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Tripsurfer
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: basqueshaman]
#21720727 - 05/25/15 12:34 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yes that is not creepy at all 
Maybe safe that information for the second date...
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Patlal
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: basqueshaman]
#21720813 - 05/25/15 12:54 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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basqueshaman said:
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Patlal said: Like everyone daid, lose weight.
Also, you look like mob enforcer. It doesnt help your cause. Grow your hair at least an inch to two inches.
Here's something that will help you immediately. Go buy nice clothes and shoes. Have a salesman guide you and let him or her dress you up.
Not the first time I've been told I look like a thug, I do rock nice shoes mephestos and Clark's It would be nice to have some new clothing, I think I may have a gym partner now so I guess I'll keep posting as I make progress
I didn't say you looked like a thug. I said you looked like a mob enforcer. That's whole other level of badassery
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basqueshaman
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Patlal]
#21721068 - 05/25/15 02:05 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Well thank you for that I guess
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Envix
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: basqueshaman]
#21721858 - 05/25/15 05:35 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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i'm just throwing this out there, but try martial arts. i started it recently and just being more aware of my body and surroundings and developing my kinesthetic intelligence has been making things more vibrant and life more lively. perhaps it'll lead somewhere, idk. i feel better tho
usually a good life is reflected in your outward appearance and expression, which you don't seem to show in you pictures
like have an appreciation for things. being aware of things will help you appreciate them. martial arts teaches you to be aware of the forces around you as well as your internal force. internal/external forces which you live with day to day
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WAN
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Envix]
#21722265 - 05/25/15 07:42 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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OP you should try to smile more (like someone else already said). From your second pic you have a very menacing look (sorry it's how I honestly feel)
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JustForToday
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: WAN]
#21722486 - 05/25/15 08:36 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Well. I honestly deep down believe all women are shallow to a certain degree. Some want a hot guy. Most want security. So most want men with money. That is how I feel though. It's what i've seen personally in my life. May or may not be true. But hey.. I'm pretty sure there are some decent women out there somewhere.
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Murzelpfrumpft
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: JustForToday]
#21723595 - 05/26/15 05:02 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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JustForToday said: Well. I honestly deep down believe all women are shallow to a certain degree. Some want a hot guy. Most want security. So most want men with money. That is how I feel though. It's what i've seen personally in my life. May or may not be true. But hey.. I'm pretty sure there are some decent women out there somewhere.
Do you consider possible, that your conception might change to the opposite, as you become wealthier but less attractive with age?
I do
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JustForToday
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Murzelpfrumpft]
#21726293 - 05/26/15 08:05 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Murzelpfrumpft said:
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JustForToday said: Well. I honestly deep down believe all women are shallow to a certain degree. Some want a hot guy. Most want security. So most want men with money. That is how I feel though. It's what i've seen personally in my life. May or may not be true. But hey.. I'm pretty sure there are some decent women out there somewhere.
Do you consider possible, that your conception might change to the opposite, as you become wealthier but less attractive with age?
I do 
That's my personal opinion that is how it goes really. It's what i've seen in my life.
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: JustForToday] 3
#21726764 - 05/26/15 10:01 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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[mod edit: stop trolling JFT]
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Edited by koods (05/29/15 08:49 AM)
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#21726786 - 05/26/15 10:06 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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jboredone
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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Amanita86]
#21726815 - 05/26/15 10:14 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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i think they know you like cartoon porn....
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