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Invisiblebasqueshaman
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31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in
    #21713772 - 05/23/15 10:52 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

OK figured I'd try and get some feedback from the ladies of the shropmery,
As the title says I'm 31 and I'm not don Juan by anymeans. I typically scare girls with out even talking to them (same with older women)  I'm fairly intelligent and can hold a conversation, though I rarely make it that far, don't get me wrong ice been married and had girlfriends in the past. I've gone out a few times since my wife and I have seperated, public places, Tryed making conversation with out just being overly forward and nothing, I've hit the bars around town solo and with my friends and when I go with my friends the girls flock to them and I'm left in the dust, I'm not jealous by any means of my friends success but it does nothing to help me. So far the only success ice had is one girl from fetlife. I soupose  I should just accept I'm not attractive to the majority of females around Prescott Arizona, I guess it doesn't help I'm over weight. Yet I cant fathom why I scare a good majority when Im not aggressive and that people who have taken the time to get to know me say I'm one of the nicest guys they know and that my heart is amazingly large
Well I'll attach a picture
I do have some self confidence because I grew up believing I was ugly and I learned through the course of my life I'm not though I know I'm no movie star


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: basqueshaman]
    #21714122 - 05/23/15 01:00 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

I'm not a lady but from your picture i can recommend that you lose some weight. You have a good looking face but it is overpowered by the weight that you carry. Exercise isn't horrible or anything like that, as long as you pace yourself. Start out slow and find a pace that's comfortable for you, the key is to do it every day and incorporate in into your lifestyle. Start by going for walks, then maybe get a bike or get a gym membership or something.

Also i would recommend growing a little hair if you can, because big bald men are looked as as dangerous by people in general. I'm not saying you're aggressive or anything, but people will judge you no matter what, so if you want to make those judgement positive you have to do what needs to be done.

But if you get in shape and still want to rock the bald look then it probably won't be a problem.


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Cosmopolite]
    #21714131 - 05/23/15 01:03 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

I don't see an issue. Except I'm a gym freak myself but hey, I'm not 110lbs lol I like bigger men.


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: VivaLaMushie]
    #21714145 - 05/23/15 01:06 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Working out will help. You'll better your physical appearance plus it'll do wonders for your confidence.


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: VivaLaMushie]
    #21714150 - 05/23/15 01:07 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Lose weight and learn how to make the ladies laugh.


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Distorted Vision]
    #21714300 - 05/23/15 01:54 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Well I'm fairly active I walk a minimum of 60 miles a week as I am a pedestrian, it's not that I can't interact it's just I really don't get the chance. I guess I just have a darkness to my aura and a slow motabolism, I've been trying to loose body fat all of my life except for the period of my life I was using amphetamine. Im just me but I didn't include this information in my original post. I know some females prefer larger men but I've yet to actually meet one other than my astranged wife.  Maybe I'm just ment to be alone or perhaps I'm just not meant to be with anyone right now, I'm mearly a man wondering through life here in northern Arizona. But then again I've never been anyone's first choice
That's before I cut my hair


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: basqueshaman]
    #21714361 - 05/23/15 02:21 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

The problem is not you - it's your location.

I lived in the mountains of "Preskit" for many years. I've dated a few of the local women and now will go out of my way to frequent Flag or even Phx.

Prescott is a joke of a town and is only getting worse as the place gets more popular.

Move. Anywhere else (okay, stay out of PV, Mayer, Jerome, in fact the whole 89a trip, up until at least I40). You'll find that your situation will greatly improve.

And get a vehicle. WTF?

Try signing up on POF, and maybe the Tinder app once you're out of that town.


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Arctic W. Fox]
    #21714421 - 05/23/15 02:41 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

If you cut out processed foods and sugars and start eating more fruits and vegetables instead, you will lose weight. Unless you have a medical condition, it isn't an enigma. You have to burn more calories than you take it. Sometimes walking isn't good enough, i suggest getting your heart rate up on a regular basis in the gym, or in a pool, or out on a bike.


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: basqueshaman]
    #21714453 - 05/23/15 02:54 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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basqueshaman said:

That's before I cut my hair



I'll give you this, bas, if I walked into a resturant and saw you as protray'd in that photo alarm bells would sound.  Those are some intense eyes youre sporting there.  Im not going either way here, but I would subtly make sure everyone I was with was aware of your presence.  Just sayin'..


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21714609 - 05/23/15 03:42 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

tbh bro u don't look that bad and that's from a guy... but you gotta loosen up. Don't wear a tie unless its your job,wedding,funeral or your on a damn cruise or something.

Ive got a friend thats atleast got 75 lbs on you with no hair at all. And he just roped a girl thats ten years younger and way too hot for him.

There are plenty of girls out there that go purely on looks. But there are a big percentage that go on personality, and the way they are treated


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21714669 - 05/23/15 03:57 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
Quote:

basqueshaman said:

That's before I cut my hair



I'll give you this, bas, if I walked into a resturant and saw you as protray'd in that photo alarm bells would sound.  Those are some intense eyes youre sporting there.  Im not going either way here, but I would subtly make sure everyone I was with was aware of your presence.  Just sayin'..




Someone may have an anger problem?  Just a hunch?


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #21715081 - 05/23/15 06:11 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Lay off the Hentai, loose some wieght, don't try and work a girl over.  Just talk to them like they're another human being and find somebody who's into what you're into.  Numbers are just numbers anyway, I'd rather have a solid woman who'll take care of you in the bedroom because there is something to be said for being comfortable with the person you're lovin on.

Women are just other people OP loose the nerves and they will come.  Also, so what if you found some chick on Fetlife?  I bet that was fun as hell!  Just go out and meet some people get drunk and make bad decisions like the rest of us.


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Arctic W. Fox]
    #21715082 - 05/23/15 06:11 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

I was just going to a job interview when that picture was taken.
Quote:

Arctic W. Fox said:
The problem is not you - it's your location.

I lived in the mountains of "Preskit" for many years. I've dated a few of the local women and now will go out of my way to frequent Flag or even Phx.

Prescott is a joke of a town and is only getting worse as the place gets more popular.

Move. Anywhere else (okay, stay out of PV, Mayer, Jerome, in fact the whole 89a trip, up until at least I40). You'll find that your situation will greatly improve.

And get a vehicle. WTF?

Try signing up on POF, and maybe the Tinder app once you're out of that town.



Probably the best peice of advice so far atleast they:shrug: know the area


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: basqueshaman]
    #21715209 - 05/23/15 06:54 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

I just happened to come by and read this.. and it kind hit home for me..

Listen man. I was in the same position before. You're not a bad looking guy. Maybe just a little overweight. But I was 300 pounds about 3 years ago.. I couldn't even talk to a girl because I couldn't even handle looking at myself in the mirror. BRO. You got something I want. I'm very attractive now save for the skin on my stomach from my weight loss. And it's still hard for me to talk to girls nowadays. But outwardly I act like hot shit and treat most of them like they aren't even worthy. I'm 190 and i've been working out for about a year.

Don't do what I did. Sure. Workout. Eat right. Do this and that. But when you see the RESULTS. Don't let it get to your head. I did. You know what happened with me? I developed a really big ego because deep down I felt that I was so much better than everyone because of how far I've come and how good I looked.

But in all honestly. I've come the realization girls don't really even care most times what a guy looks like, as long as he has a good personality and is nice to them. Because if they only cared about looks.. I would be getting my dick sucked 24/7. But mainly a girl just wants you to be nice to them. Make friends with as many girls as possible. One of them sooner or later is going to bite.

Message me if you want to talk more.


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: JustForToday] * 1
    #21715226 - 05/23/15 07:01 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

uh maybe smile?


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: JustForToday]
    #21715228 - 05/23/15 07:02 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

So, if you get your dick sucked 24/7, sooner or later one of them is going to bite?


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: LunarEclipse]
    #21715233 - 05/23/15 07:04 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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So, if you get your dick sucked 24/7, sooner or later one of them is going to bite?




:rofldrunk:


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: JustForToday]
    #21715236 - 05/23/15 07:04 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

At least you're modest.


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Amanita86]
    #21715243 - 05/23/15 07:07 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Dick sucking is a priority:shrug: I get that the comment was taken totally out of context and has no relevance. But a prime example of how the media does the exact same thing


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Re: 31 and the kind of guy nearly no women is intrested in [Re: Tomandjerry58]
    #21715972 - 05/23/15 11:04 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Honestly losing weight is much more important than getting girls, your whole life will be more enjoyable. You will be able to fuck better, do everything more comfortably, and feel comfortable with your body.


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