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OfflineSushiKing
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Im a little uncomfortable with how I deal with this
    #21712647 - 05/23/15 12:13 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

lol this is weird to explain but I have pretty much always been single except for a brief 8 months or so.

My body says I want a relationship but my mind often fights the urges and says to focus on school and practice music and work. I'm not even sure if this is a valid excuse in my mind. Sometimes I just think this validates my actions of being so cold towards these women.

While I am working, girls hand me their numbers but I never call them back. I don't even text them or anything..

I constantly feel terrible about doing this.. I kinda think I am freaked out to play the game again. I feel deep regret because its terrible to give your number to someone and they never call you back.

When they come back to my work they are always like "sorry to have given you my number, I'm embarrassed." I just tell them there is nothing to be embarrassed about, knowing that it was my end that went cold and dead.

They put themselves out there and I just wont have it... that feels cold just to type.

Even if I were to text them, I wouldn't even know what to do with them, where to take them, what activities to plan. I just sit at my house and do my thing ya know.

Jeez, this is such a stupid problem I have, knowing that some people on here have said if only girls would pursue me I would have a girlfriend.

Idk, that felt good to type out just putting that in to words..
Thoughts?


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Re: Im a little uncomfortable with how I deal with this [Re: SushiKing]
    #21712724 - 05/23/15 12:47 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

I get where you are coming from in terms of having nothing planned if you are going to take a girl out. The big thing for me is not knowing the amount of time i will be invested in the relationship if there is one at all.

In high school, I would often ignore girls that were interested in me partly because i wasn't 100% attracted to them but also because I was very insecure in myself during that time. The feeling of "not knowing what I'm getting myself into" kinda thing will always be there in the dating world, but I've realized it's best to approach it with an open mind and let things happen in the moment instead of constantly worrying about what might go wrong.

I'm going into my junior year of college and I feel that although I have limited experience in the dating scene I feel that it's a good thing because now I have more confidence in myself than I did in high school, and I'm much more selective and know what qualities I'm looking for in a girl.

Once I turn 21, Im gonna hit the bar scene and see how that goes. :rockon:


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Re: Im a little uncomfortable with how I deal with this [Re: Psilosoulful]
    #21715441 - 05/23/15 08:02 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Yup, pretty much wanna stab you in the face for bitching about girls giving you their number.

Be alone and STFU


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Re: Im a little uncomfortable with how I deal with this [Re: bloodsheen]
    #21716163 - 05/24/15 12:34 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Your body wants women because sensuality, sex and relationships are a natural human NEED. Why are you really afraid to pursue them? It's easy to hangout with someone. They're giving you their numbers? Awesome man. I'm sure they won't totally rely on you to make date plans in that case. There's so much you can do. I'm not even going to list date ideas because you sound capable of finding some or at least googling date ideas. It's really not a big deal and you'll have fun once you're out!

Sounds like you need to incorporate a little more girl time into your life by what you said. If you really don't feel like spending any time with them just tell them you're seeing someone but you are absolutely flattered by them giving you their number instead of stringing them along and crushing them.


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Re: Im a little uncomfortable with how I deal with this [Re: bloodsheen]
    #21716931 - 05/24/15 09:30 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

bloodsheen said:
Yup, pretty much wanna stab you in the face for bitching about girls giving you their number.

Be alone and STFU



Don't worry, they all start with 555


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