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what's with this double standard? * 1
    #21709075 - 05/22/15 03:27 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Basically, if a woman cheats on a guy due to lack of him giving her intimate/romantic attention, he's in the wrong for being so cold and distant and taking her for granted. But if a guy goes and gets laid by some chick due to his girl never touching his cock, he's a fucking nasty man slut pig bastard motherfucker who should've just left her first and then after that, gotten with other girls. In fact if Jew even does leave her due to lack of sexuality in the relationship, he's a douche cunt and should've had better less pig like reasons to hurt the poor girl. Yet if a girl leaves a guy for that reason she'd be the innocent victim who left the son of a bitch just like he deserves, for being distant romantically.

Why does this obviously unfair double standard exist???? Please help me figure this out


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] * 9
    #21709078 - 05/22/15 03:31 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Woman are crazy

:themoreyouknow:

:lol:


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] * 2
    #21709088 - 05/22/15 03:37 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

nah i think it works both ways. if both are in what they believe to be a happy relationship and one cheats on the other, who ever did the cheating is definitely pulling a dick move.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: musiclover420]
    #21709125 - 05/22/15 04:19 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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musiclover420 said:
Woman are crazy

:themoreyouknow:

:lol:



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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] * 2
    #21709143 - 05/22/15 04:35 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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MagicalOrangutan said:
Basically, if a woman cheats on a guy due to lack of him giving her intimate/romantic attention, he's in the wrong for being so cold and distant and taking her for granted. But if a guy goes and gets laid by some chick due to his girl never touching his cock, he's a fucking nasty man slut pig bastard motherfucker who should've just left her first and then after that, gotten with other girls. In fact if Jew even does leave her due to lack of sexuality in the relationship, he's a douche cunt and should've had better less pig like reasons to hurt the poor girl. Yet if a girl leaves a guy for that reason she'd be the innocent victim who left the son of a bitch just like he deserves, for being distant romantically.

Why does this obviously unfair double standard exist???? Please help me figure this out




I have never perceived this double standard before, adulterers are pretty much summarily reviled amongst monogamists in my experience.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: propensity]
    #21709147 - 05/22/15 04:42 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Actually through out history I'm pretty sure it's the other way around.  If a woman cheats for whatever reason she's a whore. If a man does it we understand, because he's got a dick.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] * 5
    #21709149 - 05/22/15 04:45 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

What does the Jew have to do with this?


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Burke Dennings] * 6
    #21709163 - 05/22/15 05:03 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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What does the Jew have to do with this?





The Jewpacabras.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #21709194 - 05/22/15 05:32 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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Burke Dennings said:
What does the Jew have to do with this?




I think those rules he laid out in the OP are from the part of the bible that only applies to Jews. Duderonomy... Somewhere near the stuff about those abominable gays,


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Psychonautica]
    #21709197 - 05/22/15 05:36 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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Psychonautica said:
Quote:

musiclover420 said:
Woman are crazy

:themoreyouknow:

:lol:



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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Lucis]
    #21709426 - 05/22/15 07:35 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

double standards exist for a reason

don't forget everything is subjective

so double standards don't exist but at the same time they do.

its all in the eyes of the beholder.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Trichome_Delta9] * 3
    #21709440 - 05/22/15 07:41 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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Trichome_Delta9 said:
so double standards don't exist but at the same time they do.



Schrodingers Double Standards?


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Psychonautica]
    #21709485 - 05/22/15 08:01 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

But in this case the cat is screwed either way.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: koods]
    #21709519 - 05/22/15 08:15 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

haha yeah i think i have heard about that before but never knew exactly what it was about. i love that experiment. its a very good example of reality itself.

im not a physicist so i don't know exactly how to word some of the ideas i have had and i know someone out there has always put my ideas into proper wording so thanks for tellin me about that experiment. ya learn something new everyday that's for sure.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] * 1
    #21709547 - 05/22/15 08:28 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Everything you described is congruent with a woman that is dissatisfied with a man's failure to lead the relationship.
He's not playing the role she expects of him and thus she has become sexually disinterested in him.
If he cheats then it affirms that he not playing the role she wants. It shows that he wants to and will sleep with many women. If he is the man that she expects him to be, then he should be able to do that anytime he likes as a single man. The only reason a man like that would become monogamous is because they truly love the lady.
If hes cheated then he's basically just told his partner that he is a horrible person and she is too for believing in him.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] * 3
    #21709556 - 05/22/15 08:31 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

MagicalOrangutan said:
Why does this obviously unfair double standard exist???? Please help me figure this out



It doesn't. You're paranoid and made it up.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Magenta] * 1
    #21709577 - 05/22/15 08:38 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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Magenta said:
Everything you described is congruent with a woman that is dissatisfied with a man's failure to lead the relationship.
He's not playing the role she expects of him and thus she has become sexually disinterested in him.
If he cheats then it affirms that he not playing the role she wants. It shows that he wants to and will sleep with many women. If he is the man that she expects him to be, then he should be able to do that anytime he likes as a single man. The only reason a man like that would become monogamous is because they truly love the lady.
If hes cheated then he's basically just told his partner that he is a horrible person and she is too for believing in him.





people should just leave if they are done with the relationship. torturing people emotionally is a sick form of misery loves company but hey that's just me i see it as a cheater is a cheater.

play the game by the rules don't cheat haha


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Trichome_Delta9]
    #21709604 - 05/22/15 08:47 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

I should have mentioned that most if not all the things i mentioned are done subconsciously.  :freud:


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Magenta]
    #21709694 - 05/22/15 09:09 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

only for fembots.... haha:bender:



but on the real i get what youre sayin.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Trichome_Delta9]
    #21710565 - 05/22/15 01:34 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

I don't think y'all even understood the point, what I'm saying is that if a guy refuses sex or intimacy to his girlfriend then society won't look down on her for finding it elsewhere but if a girl refuses that to a guy and he finds it elsewhere, he's a douche


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: koods]
    #21710584 - 05/22/15 01:39 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

koods said:
Quote:

Burke Dennings said:
What does the Jew have to do with this?




I think those rules he laid out in the OP are from the part of the bible that only applies to Jews. Duderonomy... Somewhere near the stuff about those abominable gays,



My guess would be corinthians, theres loads of weird shit in there. (Peep show quote) :lol:


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] * 1
    #21710588 - 05/22/15 01:40 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

i don't think youre getting the point. that may be how you view it but others may see things differently.

blind leading the blind, everything is subjective blah blah.

if youre stressing out over it all i can say is don't worry be happy because in this life we have some trouble but when you worry you make it double so don't worry be happy.

idk what are you looking for here?


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #21710685 - 05/22/15 02:06 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Maybe that's what you believe and if the people you surround yourself with do as well then that's your problem. Find new friends and community.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] * 1
    #21710883 - 05/22/15 02:57 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

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I don't think y'all even understood the point, what I'm saying is that if a guy refuses sex or intimacy to his girlfriend then society won't look down on her for finding it elsewhere but if a girl refuses that to a guy and he finds it elsewhere, he's a douche



We get what you're saying. You're just wrong about that.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #21710902 - 05/22/15 03:02 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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MagicalOrangutan said:
Basically, if a woman cheats on a guy due to lack of him giving her intimate/romantic attention, he's in the wrong for being so cold and distant and taking her for granted. But if a guy goes and gets laid by some chick due to his girl never touching his cock, he's a fucking nasty man slut pig bastard motherfucker who should've just left her first and then after that, gotten with other girls. In fact if Jew even does leave her due to lack of sexuality in the relationship, he's a douche cunt and should've had better less pig like reasons to hurt the poor girl. Yet if a girl leaves a guy for that reason she'd be the innocent victim who left the son of a bitch just like he deserves, for being distant romantically.

Why does this obviously unfair double standard exist???? Please help me figure this out




That's weird. IME the double standard has always been the opposite. Women who cheat are sluts and whores, whereas men cheat because they "need" physical affection and don't have the ability to turn down sex. Because they (according to the double standard), are so stupid and so dumb, they are incapable of controlling themselves.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: D.M.T] * 1
    #21710908 - 05/22/15 03:03 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Listen, when either man or woman cheats on the other for whatever reason, he/she is the asshole no matter the reason.

There's no double standard. If there are sex issue or emotional issues in the couple, cheating is no answer


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Crystal G]
    #21710916 - 05/22/15 03:05 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

Crystal G said:
Quote:

MagicalOrangutan said:
Basically, if a woman cheats on a guy due to lack of him giving her intimate/romantic attention, he's in the wrong for being so cold and distant and taking her for granted. But if a guy goes and gets laid by some chick due to his girl never touching his cock, he's a fucking nasty man slut pig bastard motherfucker who should've just left her first and then after that, gotten with other girls. In fact if Jew even does leave her due to lack of sexuality in the relationship, he's a douche cunt and should've had better less pig like reasons to hurt the poor girl. Yet if a girl leaves a guy for that reason she'd be the innocent victim who left the son of a bitch just like he deserves, for being distant romantically.

Why does this obviously unfair double standard exist???? Please help me figure this out




That's weird. IME the double standard has always been the opposite. Women who cheat are sluts and whores, whereas men cheat because they "need" physical affection and don't have the ability to turn down sex. Because they (according to the double standard), are so stupid and so dumb, they are incapable of controlling themselves.



I have never in my life heard a non-cheater justify a cheater's actions.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: D.M.T] * 1
    #21710945 - 05/22/15 03:14 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

You could apply parts of that too girls as well Crystal G, women are so "innocent" that guys 9/10 times are the ones who "take advantage"

Not saying that doesn't happen but how many stories of the dumb slut who cried rape have we been seeing in the news lately?


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: musiclover420]
    #21711003 - 05/22/15 03:31 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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musiclover420 said:
You could apply parts of that too girls as well Crystal G, women are so "innocent" that guys 9/10 times are the ones who "take advantage"

Not saying that doesn't happen but how many stories of the dumb slut who cried rape have we been seeing in the news lately?




Yeah, I guess you could use that excuse. Especially if you were known to be really girly or something. I don't think anybody would believe ME if I told that lie, just saying. :lolsy:

That just reminds me of this story I heard, apparently some personal trainer was going around sleeping with all the wives of some rich LA suburb community. 1 of the husbands found out about it, and got together with all the husbands, and apparently they all got together and almost killed the guy or something. :lol:


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Crystal G]
    #21711103 - 05/22/15 03:55 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Yeah I guess it does depend on the people :shrug:

I would hate to be that personal trainer, I wouldn't be surprised to hear someone was actually killed over something like that.

Hopefully nailing all those LA milfs was worth it :rofl:


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: musiclover420]
    #21711113 - 05/22/15 03:57 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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musiclover420 said:
Yeah I guess it does depend on the people :shrug:




Yeah, I don't think I could keep a straight face honestly. I would start cracking up in the middle of the sentence: "I was taken advantage of!! DEFEND MY HONOR." :rofl:


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Crystal G]
    #21711116 - 05/22/15 03:58 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

I got blackmailed into fucking a girl because she was going to play the rape card. :frown:

Bitches be fucking crazy man.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Psychonautica]
    #21711118 - 05/22/15 04:00 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

So she raped you


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: D.M.T]
    #21711122 - 05/22/15 04:01 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

I mean would that be rape?

I was already fucking her before.

I never really thought of it that way.

Oh my god you guys. I got raped :frown:

How do I sign up for feminism now, apparently I need it.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Psychonautica]
    #21711157 - 05/22/15 04:12 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)



"The people will get more from the idea he represented, not from the jelly bean he actually was."

:stoned:


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: musiclover420]
    #21711165 - 05/22/15 04:13 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

HOW DOES THAT HELP ME I'VE JUST FOUND OUT I GOT RAPED.
:gocrythen:

Actually not that big of a deal, I laughed a bit. I totally did get raped though, fuck.


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yeah, i said i was afraid of psychonautica


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Psychonautica]
    #21711212 - 05/22/15 04:23 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

I don't know I just thought it was funny and should be in this thread :tongue:

Obviously the only thing to do is tell the chicks parents she is a rapist to prevent future catastrophes.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: musiclover420]
    #21711231 - 05/22/15 04:27 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

#whyineedfeminism


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Trichome_Delta9]
    #21711245 - 05/22/15 04:30 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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Trichome_Delta9 said:
double standards exist for a reason

don't forget everything is subjective

so double standards don't exist but at the same time they do.

its all in the eyes of the beholder.



the fuck are you rambling on about with your hippie nonsense??

did you check the zodiac before typing this?


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: D.M.T]
    #21711248 - 05/22/15 04:31 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

I still can't believe I got raped..

Why am I laughing at that fact, too?


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Magenta]
    #21711257 - 05/22/15 04:34 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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Everything you described is congruent with a woman that is dissatisfied with a man's failure to lead the relationship.
He's not playing the role she expects of him and thus she has become sexually disinterested in him.
If he cheats then it affirms that he not playing the role she wants. It shows that he wants to and will sleep with many women. If he is the man that she expects him to be, then he should be able to do that anytime he likes as a single man. The only reason a man like that would become monogamous is because they truly love the lady.
If hes cheated then he's basically just told his partner that he is a horrible person and she is too for believing in him.



What about the part where she cheats and acts like the victim?


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Psychonautica]
    #21711263 - 05/22/15 04:35 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Because it was a girl and you were already fucking her :lol:

That's basically as funny as rape gets :shrug:


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
    #21711289 - 05/22/15 04:40 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Regardless of who's the cheater and the cheatee, infidelity is absolutely atrocious. Pop culture 1, morality 0


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: The5thBeatle]
    #21711307 - 05/22/15 04:45 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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Regardless of who's the cheater and the cheatee, infidelity is absolutely atrocious. Pop culture 1, morality 0



Dude that was a great post


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Psychonautica]
    #21711442 - 05/22/15 05:24 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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I mean would that be rape?

I was already fucking her before.

I never really thought of it that way.

Oh my god you guys. I got raped :frown:

How do I sign up for feminism now, apparently I need it.




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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: luvdemboomers]
    #21711488 - 05/22/15 05:37 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

:whathesaid:

That is a huge ass crowd, pretty good trolling too.

That bitch at the end slapping his hat off
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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: The Doobie Dude]
    #21711593 - 05/22/15 06:12 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

quick off topic question are you a Satanist or something?


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Trichome_Delta9]
    #21711613 - 05/22/15 06:19 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Let me check my zodiac for the answer to that question.  It changes day to day.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: The Doobie Dude]
    #21711627 - 05/22/15 06:22 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

so some days youre a Satanist? okay.:thatsinteresting:


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Trichome_Delta9]
    #21711658 - 05/22/15 06:32 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

It all makes sense now

:dandyzoom:


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: musiclover420]
    #21711688 - 05/22/15 06:42 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

musiclover420 said:
It all makes sense now

:dandyzoom:





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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: The Doobie Dude]
    #21711721 - 05/22/15 06:56 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

The Doobie Dude said:
Quote:

musiclover420 said:
It all makes sense now

:dandyzoom:







:freshwtf:


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: The Doobie Dude]
    #21711722 - 05/22/15 06:56 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)



:lol:


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Trichome_Delta9]
    #21711729 - 05/22/15 06:58 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

Trichome_Delta9 said:
Quote:

The Doobie Dude said:
Quote:

musiclover420 said:
It all makes sense now

:dandyzoom:







:freshwtf:



Not that episode but that is where that .gif comes from

Flight of the Concords


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: The Doobie Dude]
    #21711739 - 05/22/15 07:01 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

I posted the song from the ep the gif is from, such a weird ass show :stoned:


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
    #21711835 - 05/22/15 07:32 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

She is the victem. Shit gets so confusing because people don't know how to articulate what they feel. To use a cliche, 'She was driven to the arms of another man' because her partner wasn't being a man.

It probably sounds like i'm white knighting here, but i'm not. The truth is most women like to live in a fantasy world where they believe that their partner could have any woman they desire, but their partner chooses them because their partner thinks they're the best.
Anytime the man acts in a way that contradicts this fantasy, the woman begins to resent him.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Magenta]
    #21711876 - 05/22/15 07:44 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

So she should communicate that with him or get out of the relationship. She isn't a victim, and yea you're being a white knight.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: D.M.T]
    #21711900 - 05/22/15 07:52 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

yeah she is not the victim just being honest even though it is in the nature of both sexes to want multiple partners its the idea of society that has beaten into our heads that monogamy works. truly women want a man who can get any other girl but yes they choose to stay with that person because they are "special"

but when two people get into a relationship they should abide to their verbal contracts. open relationships exist and they do work if you don't want one partner you don't HAVE to have only one partner.

me personally i could do open relationships but that's just me.

but why hurt someone? its really that simple. don't fear honesty or the world you will live in will be all lies.

leave someone if you lose interest its not that hard and its VERY selfish not to leave them.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: D.M.T]
    #21711902 - 05/22/15 07:53 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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So she should communicate that with him or get out of the relationship. She isn't a victim, and yea you're being a white knight.



I bet it's workin' out real well for him in real life too.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: The Doobie Dude]
    #21711916 - 05/22/15 07:59 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Shit's going great for me in both real life and fake life fyi.  :whatever:


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Magenta]
    #21711951 - 05/22/15 08:10 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

That is what I bet on man.  Such hostility jeez.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: The Doobie Dude]
    #21711960 - 05/22/15 08:13 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

PLUR


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Magenta]
    #21711998 - 05/22/15 08:23 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

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She is the victem. Shit gets so confusing because people don't know how to articulate what they feel. To use a cliche, 'She was driven to the arms of another man' because her partner wasn't being a man.

It probably sounds like i'm white knighting here, but i'm not. The truth is most women like to live in a fantasy world where they believe that their partner could have any woman they desire, but their partner chooses them because their partner thinks they're the best.
Anytime the man acts in a way that contradicts this fantasy, the woman begins to resent him.




And what part of this isnt a double standard?


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
    #21712033 - 05/22/15 08:32 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

I never denied the double standard. I was trying to help MagicalOrangutan understand why the double standard exists as he requested in the op.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
    #21712054 - 05/22/15 08:38 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

All you did was fall into one side of it

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The truth is most women like to live in a fantasy world




And there we have it :lol:

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Woman are crazy

:themoreyouknow:

:lol:




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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: musiclover420]
    #21712268 - 05/22/15 09:49 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Yeah that's another resentment I have about dating....women want men who are attractive enough to get a lot of other women because then that woman feels like she's awesome because she's with a man who's awesome, the top of the evolutionary food chain. We spread our genes by sexual reproduction, therefore the men who can get the most women are the ones who are the shit, they're the superior males who are the top of the evolutionary totem pole. And women feel cool if their man is one of these rare men.

If a guy can't get other girls very easily, her respect and admiration in him will go flat and she'll be tempted to ditch him for a guy who makes her feel cool

This of course only applies to younger people of reproductive age


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #21712284 - 05/22/15 09:55 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

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Yeah that's another resentment I have about dating....women want men who are attractive enough to get a lot of other women because then that woman feels like she's awesome because she's with a man who's awesome, the top of the evolutionary food chain. We spread our genes by sexual reproduction, therefore the men who can get the most women are the ones who are the shit, they're the superior males who are the top of the evolutionary totem pole. And women feel cool if their man is one of these rare men.

If a guy can't get other girls very easily, her respect and admiration in him will go flat and she'll be tempted to ditch him for a guy who makes her feel cool

This of course only applies to younger people of reproductive age





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