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Bodhi of Ankou
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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Magenta]
#21711257 - 05/22/15 04:34 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Magenta said: Everything you described is congruent with a woman that is dissatisfied with a man's failure to lead the relationship. He's not playing the role she expects of him and thus she has become sexually disinterested in him. If he cheats then it affirms that he not playing the role she wants. It shows that he wants to and will sleep with many women. If he is the man that she expects him to be, then he should be able to do that anytime he likes as a single man. The only reason a man like that would become monogamous is because they truly love the lady. If hes cheated then he's basically just told his partner that he is a horrible person and she is too for believing in him.
What about the part where she cheats and acts like the victim?
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musiclover420
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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Psychonautica]
#21711263 - 05/22/15 04:35 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Because it was a girl and you were already fucking her 
That's basically as funny as rape gets
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The5thBeatle
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Regardless of who's the cheater and the cheatee, infidelity is absolutely atrocious. Pop culture 1, morality 0
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The Doobie Dude


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: The5thBeatle]
#21711307 - 05/22/15 04:45 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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The5thBeatle said: Regardless of who's the cheater and the cheatee, infidelity is absolutely atrocious. Pop culture 1, morality 0
Dude that was a great post
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luvdemboomers
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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Psychonautica]
#21711442 - 05/22/15 05:24 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Psychonautica said: I mean would that be rape?
I was already fucking her before.
I never really thought of it that way.
Oh my god you guys. I got raped 
How do I sign up for feminism now, apparently I need it.
it's called menism, contact these guys
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musiclover420
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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: luvdemboomers]
#21711488 - 05/22/15 05:37 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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That is a huge ass crowd, pretty good trolling too.
That bitch at the end slapping his hat off
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Trichome_Delta9


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quick off topic question are you a Satanist or something?
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The Doobie Dude


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Let me check my zodiac for the answer to that question. It changes day to day.
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Trichome_Delta9


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so some days youre a Satanist? okay.
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musiclover420
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It all makes sense now
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The Doobie Dude


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: musiclover420]
#21711688 - 05/22/15 06:42 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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musiclover420 said: It all makes sense now
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Trichome_Delta9


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musiclover420 said: It all makes sense now
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musiclover420
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-------------------- Don't worry about me, I've got all that I need. And I'm singing my song to the sky You know how it feels, With the breeze of the sun in your eyes. Not minding that time's passing by I've got all and more, My smile, just as before. Is all that I carry with me I talk to myself, I need nobody else. I'm lost and I'm mine, yes I'm free
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The Doobie Dude


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The Doobie Dude said:
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musiclover420 said: It all makes sense now
Not that episode but that is where that .gif comes from
Flight of the Concords
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musiclover420
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I posted the song from the ep the gif is from, such a weird ass show
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Magenta
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She is the victem. Shit gets so confusing because people don't know how to articulate what they feel. To use a cliche, 'She was driven to the arms of another man' because her partner wasn't being a man.
It probably sounds like i'm white knighting here, but i'm not. The truth is most women like to live in a fantasy world where they believe that their partner could have any woman they desire, but their partner chooses them because their partner thinks they're the best. Anytime the man acts in a way that contradicts this fantasy, the woman begins to resent him.
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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Magenta]
#21711876 - 05/22/15 07:44 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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So she should communicate that with him or get out of the relationship. She isn't a victim, and yea you're being a white knight.
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Trichome_Delta9


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: D.M.T]
#21711900 - 05/22/15 07:52 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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yeah she is not the victim just being honest even though it is in the nature of both sexes to want multiple partners its the idea of society that has beaten into our heads that monogamy works. truly women want a man who can get any other girl but yes they choose to stay with that person because they are "special"
but when two people get into a relationship they should abide to their verbal contracts. open relationships exist and they do work if you don't want one partner you don't HAVE to have only one partner.
me personally i could do open relationships but that's just me.
but why hurt someone? its really that simple. don't fear honesty or the world you will live in will be all lies.
leave someone if you lose interest its not that hard and its VERY selfish not to leave them.
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The Doobie Dude


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: D.M.T]
#21711902 - 05/22/15 07:53 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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D.M.T said: So she should communicate that with him or get out of the relationship. She isn't a victim, and yea you're being a white knight.
I bet it's workin' out real well for him in real life too.
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Magenta
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Shit's going great for me in both real life and fake life fyi.
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