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what's with this double standard? * 1
    #21709075 - 05/22/15 03:27 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Basically, if a woman cheats on a guy due to lack of him giving her intimate/romantic attention, he's in the wrong for being so cold and distant and taking her for granted. But if a guy goes and gets laid by some chick due to his girl never touching his cock, he's a fucking nasty man slut pig bastard motherfucker who should've just left her first and then after that, gotten with other girls. In fact if Jew even does leave her due to lack of sexuality in the relationship, he's a douche cunt and should've had better less pig like reasons to hurt the poor girl. Yet if a girl leaves a guy for that reason she'd be the innocent victim who left the son of a bitch just like he deserves, for being distant romantically.

Why does this obviously unfair double standard exist???? Please help me figure this out


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That makes the heart's eye cry
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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] * 9
    #21709078 - 05/22/15 03:31 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Woman are crazy

:themoreyouknow:

:lol:


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] * 2
    #21709088 - 05/22/15 03:37 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

nah i think it works both ways. if both are in what they believe to be a happy relationship and one cheats on the other, who ever did the cheating is definitely pulling a dick move.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: musiclover420]
    #21709125 - 05/22/15 04:19 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

musiclover420 said:
Woman are crazy

:themoreyouknow:

:lol:



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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] * 2
    #21709143 - 05/22/15 04:35 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

MagicalOrangutan said:
Basically, if a woman cheats on a guy due to lack of him giving her intimate/romantic attention, he's in the wrong for being so cold and distant and taking her for granted. But if a guy goes and gets laid by some chick due to his girl never touching his cock, he's a fucking nasty man slut pig bastard motherfucker who should've just left her first and then after that, gotten with other girls. In fact if Jew even does leave her due to lack of sexuality in the relationship, he's a douche cunt and should've had better less pig like reasons to hurt the poor girl. Yet if a girl leaves a guy for that reason she'd be the innocent victim who left the son of a bitch just like he deserves, for being distant romantically.

Why does this obviously unfair double standard exist???? Please help me figure this out




I have never perceived this double standard before, adulterers are pretty much summarily reviled amongst monogamists in my experience.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: propensity]
    #21709147 - 05/22/15 04:42 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Actually through out history I'm pretty sure it's the other way around.  If a woman cheats for whatever reason she's a whore. If a man does it we understand, because he's got a dick.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] * 5
    #21709149 - 05/22/15 04:45 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

What does the Jew have to do with this?


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Burke Dennings] * 6
    #21709163 - 05/22/15 05:03 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

Burke Dennings said:
What does the Jew have to do with this?





The Jewpacabras.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Burke Dennings]
    #21709194 - 05/22/15 05:32 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

Burke Dennings said:
What does the Jew have to do with this?




I think those rules he laid out in the OP are from the part of the bible that only applies to Jews. Duderonomy... Somewhere near the stuff about those abominable gays,


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Psychonautica]
    #21709197 - 05/22/15 05:36 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

Psychonautica said:
Quote:

musiclover420 said:
Woman are crazy

:themoreyouknow:

:lol:



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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Lucis]
    #21709426 - 05/22/15 07:35 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

double standards exist for a reason

don't forget everything is subjective

so double standards don't exist but at the same time they do.

its all in the eyes of the beholder.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Trichome_Delta9] * 3
    #21709440 - 05/22/15 07:41 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

Trichome_Delta9 said:
so double standards don't exist but at the same time they do.



Schrodingers Double Standards?


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Psychonautica]
    #21709485 - 05/22/15 08:01 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

But in this case the cat is screwed either way.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: koods]
    #21709519 - 05/22/15 08:15 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

haha yeah i think i have heard about that before but never knew exactly what it was about. i love that experiment. its a very good example of reality itself.

im not a physicist so i don't know exactly how to word some of the ideas i have had and i know someone out there has always put my ideas into proper wording so thanks for tellin me about that experiment. ya learn something new everyday that's for sure.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] * 1
    #21709547 - 05/22/15 08:28 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Everything you described is congruent with a woman that is dissatisfied with a man's failure to lead the relationship.
He's not playing the role she expects of him and thus she has become sexually disinterested in him.
If he cheats then it affirms that he not playing the role she wants. It shows that he wants to and will sleep with many women. If he is the man that she expects him to be, then he should be able to do that anytime he likes as a single man. The only reason a man like that would become monogamous is because they truly love the lady.
If hes cheated then he's basically just told his partner that he is a horrible person and she is too for believing in him.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: MagicalOrangutan] * 3
    #21709556 - 05/22/15 08:31 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

MagicalOrangutan said:
Why does this obviously unfair double standard exist???? Please help me figure this out



It doesn't. You're paranoid and made it up.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Magenta] * 1
    #21709577 - 05/22/15 08:38 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

Quote:

Magenta said:
Everything you described is congruent with a woman that is dissatisfied with a man's failure to lead the relationship.
He's not playing the role she expects of him and thus she has become sexually disinterested in him.
If he cheats then it affirms that he not playing the role she wants. It shows that he wants to and will sleep with many women. If he is the man that she expects him to be, then he should be able to do that anytime he likes as a single man. The only reason a man like that would become monogamous is because they truly love the lady.
If hes cheated then he's basically just told his partner that he is a horrible person and she is too for believing in him.





people should just leave if they are done with the relationship. torturing people emotionally is a sick form of misery loves company but hey that's just me i see it as a cheater is a cheater.

play the game by the rules don't cheat haha


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Trichome_Delta9]
    #21709604 - 05/22/15 08:47 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

I should have mentioned that most if not all the things i mentioned are done subconsciously.  :freud:


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Magenta]
    #21709694 - 05/22/15 09:09 AM (8 years, 8 months ago)

only for fembots.... haha:bender:



but on the real i get what youre sayin.


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Re: what's with this double standard? [Re: Trichome_Delta9]
    #21710565 - 05/22/15 01:34 PM (8 years, 8 months ago)

I don't think y'all even understood the point, what I'm saying is that if a guy refuses sex or intimacy to his girlfriend then society won't look down on her for finding it elsewhere but if a girl refuses that to a guy and he finds it elsewhere, he's a douche


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