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Mquire
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My relationship is on the rocks
#21707380 - 05/21/15 06:25 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Me and my girl are long distance ATM. We met in school, she still has a year left and i have graduated.
Things are pretty good when we're together. When we're apart, we fight a lot. Mostly because i forget to text her, or dont give her as much attention as i could.
But honeslty its hard being glued tomy phone all day. I love her to death but i get caught up in something and i either cant or forget to text her back.
I feel like ive struck gold with this girl, but things often dont feel right. Especially with us fighting all the time. I would break it off with any other girl, but i honestly love her and the thought of her moving on hurts so bad,
But theres so much difficulty. Our families are so far apart and neither of us really wants to leave them. Im from the city and she's from a small town, so she doesnt like my area and i sure as shit arent moving to a small ass town.
We're set to spend the summer together, so we'll see how that goes....but we just had another fight today, and im getting pretty sick of this.
And honestly...shes talking about a future, marriage, kids ect...i'm down with that, but i still have some flame in me. Part of me wants to run off with my buddies to a random ass country and fuck around, and nail a few more girls, and just be unteathered for a bit....i know the grass isnt always greener, and my buddies are jelous i found such a loving, trustworthy woman, AND I'm prepared to let that part of me go...
My ego is fucking with me too. I believe she can do better, and its going to hurt seeing her with a bigger and better dude.
Fuck. I'm 24 now. If i could talk to my 16y/o virgin self freaking out because i didnt have a girlfriend yet....well i wouldnt say anything i'd probably just slap his stupid ass and tell him to go have some fun.
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basqueshaman
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Registered: 04/01/11
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Re: My relationship is on the rocks [Re: Mquire]
#21707584 - 05/21/15 07:26 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Well that's quite a situation you have there, ask yourself if you can truly be faithful to her first, then ask are you ready for the commitment she is asking for. I was just starting out with my wife at 24, I hadn't experienced everything I wanted at this point in life, and I was preparing to be a father. Due to my lack of getting different types of girls out of my system and having various things happen in my life my marriage has some what run it's course, I have 2sons and I'm hoping with my seperation from my family that I can get a degree in mortuary science and work things out with my wife and have my family back. Well if you're able to make your relationship work I say do it because once you have meet your other half you can't ever replace them
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Thaj
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Re: My relationship is on the rocks [Re: basqueshaman]
#21708043 - 05/21/15 09:07 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Love is all about concessions from both ends and if you are not prepared to do it, I would suggest you to live your life with your buddies and let her go.
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basqueshaman
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Re: My relationship is on the rocks [Re: Thaj]
#21708048 - 05/21/15 09:09 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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psych_fck
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Re: My relationship is on the rocks [Re: basqueshaman]
#21708375 - 05/21/15 10:33 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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If you can't be faithful let her go and live your life. It's gonna hurt like hell but it'll go away with time. If you really think she's THE ONE then try your best to work it out and spend the summer together and see where that takes you. best of luck xx
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