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Female rape fantasies
#21700401 - 05/19/15 10:34 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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So this chick I started seeing is into some different stuff. Apparently she has rape fantasies and wants me to role play with her.
Girls is this common? Do you or your friends ever have rape fantasies? Or is this just some weird fetish like scat porn.
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My ex had a rape fantasy, she wanted me to rape her she said. In my head I liked the idea of man handling her, but when it comes to rape, that means forcing someone against their will. Realistically speaking if both of you sort of know what is going on and why you are doing what you are doing then she can role play. But that isn't 'true rape' But if she doesn't then you are in for a mess because they she will not like it. ya know?
She also liked pissing on me, and being peed on.
Also, regarding scat, I took a shit outside before and she was obsessed with having to see it. That is the closest to that I have seen a girl interested in something scat, but it wasn't at all at the same time.
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Edited by Suspector (05/19/15 11:56 PM)
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Re: Female rape fantasies [Re: Suspector]
#21700663 - 05/19/15 11:55 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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No this isn't scat, I wouldn't stay near a chick if she said she liked that.
Just rape fantasy.
I don't know if it's normal for a woman to have these types of fantasies. So I don't know whether to just go with it, or feel guilty like i'm contributing to some sort of fucked up pathology she has.
I just wanna know if rape fantasies are common for women if not common understandable, or this is pathological?
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I dont know but Ive always had a thing for the thought of an older woman 'forcibly taking' me, throwing me over counters, breaking glass and all that.. whispering in my ear "say uncle, saaaay uncle"..
I havnt been able to pull that off yet, but there it is. I'm sure it's common. Not 'rape' but agressive fantasies in a safe setting...
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Re: Female rape fantasies [Re: Amanita86]
#21700799 - 05/20/15 12:48 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I hadn't thought about male "rape" fantasies. I have never thought about it.
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Amanita86
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Ohhh I have, my brother...believe that.
I just cant seem to pull it off..
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Re: Female rape fantasies [Re: Amanita86] 1
#21700841 - 05/20/15 01:09 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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It is common, but this does not mean that they actually want to be raped. Because in your head, a rape fantasy seems "hot," because you are able to maintain proper full control when everything is in your head.
Honestly, in my head I always thought stuff like that would be hot. But one time I was tied up and blindfolded, and I really didn't enjoy that even. I felt extremely nervous and unsafe when it was really happening IRL even though it was all consensual. I never did anything like that again.
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Re: Female rape fantasies [Re: Amanita86] 1
#21700842 - 05/20/15 01:09 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Break into her house at night to make it super authentic. Make sure you wear a ski mask too
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Rape fantasy is very popular. Just think about it. Totally helpless, no control, being used by a man totally overcome with beastly animal instinct to fuck. That's fucking hot, right? In a way yes, very, but I think it's easy to not see the whole picture if you're just fantasizing. Actually getting raped is a horrendous nightmare for people.
Would it be as bad to get raped if you had a rape fantasy prior? I don't know. This sounds like an interesting research project for a behavioral psychologist. Obviously no tests just data collection you sick fucks.
We are probably the first species of all animals ever to actually consider rape bad. Take a look around. Animals are raping other animals constantly. I remember just a few years ago seeing a group of 5 manatees near the beach. 4 males we're trapping a female against some rocks and taking turns raping her. It was hard to see and I'm sure the female was hurting, but what I was seeing was the single most important part of life taking place: sex.
You know those blue damsel flies that hover above the water? They look like small dragon flies. When they mate it is horrible for the female. The male's penis is actually barbed on the end, covered with sharp spines that are meant to scrape and drag out the ejaculate of the male that was copulating with her just a moment earlier. Sometimes the males actually drown the female in their sexual fury. This isn't exactly rape per say but another example of how unpleasant it is for females of some species to have sex.
What I'm trying to get at is female humans come from a very long line of ancestors who have been getting raped for billions of years(not just modern humans but all lineage obv.). Of course some are going to have a rape fantasy. Rape is deeply primal and takes an incredible amount of emotional and intellectual ability to break free from that primal connection.
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Re: Female rape fantasies [Re: Crystal G]
#21700928 - 05/20/15 01:48 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Crystal G said: It is common, but this does not mean that they actually want to be raped. Because in your head, a rape fantasy seems "hot," because you are able to maintain proper full control when everything is in your head.
Honestly, in my head I always thought stuff like that would be hot. But one time I was tied up and blindfolded, and I really didn't enjoy that even. I felt extremely nervous and unsafe when it was really happening IRL even though it was all consensual. I never did anything like that again.
See that's what Im saying right there, and I think that's a part of why it hasnt happened. Like in my head Im all in a movie, getting thrown over counter and breaking glass...like I said up there, but if it ever came into my real life, Id get tossed over that first counter and go "whoa whoa whoa, crazy!"...and then some glass would get broke and "that was my great grandma's you crazy fuck!!!"
You know what Im sayin, but the fantasy still kicks a little electricity through my system.. the head and the hand, will never see eye to eye, ( that's not a masturbation reference for you kids out there. )
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Re: Female rape fantasies [Re: Amanita86]
#21700945 - 05/20/15 02:00 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Crystal G said: It is common, but this does not mean that they actually want to be raped. Because in your head, a rape fantasy seems "hot," because you are able to maintain proper full control when everything is in your head.
Honestly, in my head I always thought stuff like that would be hot. But one time I was tied up and blindfolded, and I really didn't enjoy that even. I felt extremely nervous and unsafe when it was really happening IRL even though it was all consensual. I never did anything like that again.
See that's what Im saying right there, and I think that's a part of why it hasnt happened. Like in my head Im all in a movie, getting thrown over counter and breaking glass...like I said up there, but if it ever came into my real life, Id get tossed over that first counter and go "whoa whoa whoa, crazy!"...and then some glass would get broke and "that was my great grandma's you crazy fuck!!!"
You know what Im sayin, but the fantasy still kicks a little electricity through my system.. the head and the hand, will never see eye to eye, ( that's not a masturbation reference for you kids out there. )
Honestly, I have fantasies about shit that I KNOW I would hate IRL and not enjoy at all, all the time.
Like in the past while coming down off meth, I have sometimes fantasized about taking a huge dick in my ass doggy style, even though I DO NOT like anal. AT ALL. Not even a little bit. And I don't like the feeling of enormous cocks in my vagina either, and it would just hurt so fucking bad if a big dick was in my asshole.
That's one of those things that's not enjoyable IRL at all, but for some strange reason it's super enjoyable in my head just as an image.
Lately I have been having crazy hot fantasies about jealousy. Like I always fantasize about coming home and catching my boyfriend sticking his cock in another chick's pussy. In my head, I would be jealous, but also really hot and bothered.
Then I go out and fuck some buff-ass, HUGE, tattooed guy behind his back. And in my fantasy I "accidentally dial" my boyfriend, drop the phone next to my head, and let him hear me moaning on this other guy's cock, screaming about how much better his cock is than my boyfriend's lol. The thought of making him SO jealous over it arouses me SO MUCH for some reason.
I can already picture just how angry he would get and it's turning me on so fucking much. Especially if the guy I was fucking was a black guy with a huge cock. I've seen plenty of race relations in porn to know that black guys with huge cocks is like every guy's worst nightmare. Because they know deep down they will never have a cock that big, they will never be as manly, they will never have that hard of a body… A ripped black guy with a huge cock is the ULTIMATE TOOL for revenge.
My fantasies go even further than that scenario sometimes. In my fantasy, my boyfriend gets so jealous and angry hearing me cum on another guy's dick over the phone, that he flies into a rage and tracks us down and busts down the door while we're having sex, and proceeds to fight the guy I'm getting pounded by. This is another thing that I find REALLY HOT in my head, but probably wouldn't even be all that aroused if it really happened. IRL I would probably be like "d0000d chill out, u rekt my swag m8, u mad bro?"
But in my fantasy, I sometimes imagine what would happen if Mr. Olympia buff dude ended up beating the shit out of my boyfriend. And I would get so FUCKING PISSED, that in my fantasy, I end up paying 5 black guys to brutally ass-rape this guy and catch it on film. Then I visit my boyfriend while he's paralyzed with broken bones in the hospital , and I proceed to show him the video while riding him and saying "I'm so sorry I did that, baby. I love you."
For some reason this type of drama really arouses me, but IRL I feel like it would be terrible and almost traumatic to experience such emotional extremes in a relationship. To be honest IRL if I came home to him cheating, I probably wouldn't be aroused at all. I would probably be upset and probably cry about it or some gay shit.
Don't get me wrong, I would still DEFINITELY have sex with a hot muscly guy and record that shit and send it to him, but that would really be more out of revenge--to mask my own pain rather, rather than to do it for the purpose of sexual arousal. The whole situation is a lot more arousing in my head than it would be if it were to happen IRL. IRL there would be a lot of butthurt and anger.
Edited by Crystal G (05/20/15 03:11 AM)
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Re: Female rape fantasies [Re: Crystal G]
#21701035 - 05/20/15 02:58 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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The things I hear from you just astound me I have to say you're definitely one of a kind though
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Just think about all the people who run under that same system but dont feel the need to spell it out... "just talk about the weather"..
...you never know who it is, you're talking too.
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Re: Female rape fantasies [Re: Crystal G]
#21701076 - 05/20/15 03:30 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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For the longest time Ive had a kick on being with my girlfriend and her mom walks in and catches us. This was back when I was a kid..
..and then all chaos ensues. This 'older lady' thing is in my blood apparently.. mature woman makes me ruin my jeans.. it is what it is..
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Anonymous said: No this isn't scat, I wouldn't stay near a chick if she said she liked that.
Just rape fantasy.
I don't know if it's normal for a woman to have these types of fantasies. So I don't know whether to just go with it, or feel guilty like i'm contributing to some sort of fucked up pathology she has.
I just wanna know if rape fantasies are common for women if not common understandable, or this is pathological?
You shouldn't really be concerned with whether it's "normal". As long as she's comfortable with it and, like you said, it's not contributing to some sort of psychological pathology you should treat her requests as valid as any other. That's not to say not to be careful though. These are extremely risky grounds and you all need to discuss any boundaries that might be needed as well as what exactly it is that she wants.
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I love crystal Gs honesty. Its nice to hear women say what there thinking w/o a bunch of bullshit.
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Black_Sunset said: We are probably the first species of all animals ever to actually consider rape bad.
We're also, for all we know, the only species that has any rationality or ethics at all, so that doesn't say anything at all.
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Crystal G said: It is common, but this does not mean that they actually want to be raped. Because in your head, a rape fantasy seems "hot," because you are able to maintain proper full control when everything is in your head.
Well, agree, up to the point of 'maintaining proper full control'. I think what's essential to many women with rape fantasies is the element of loosing control - obviously to some extent. It's one thing to be 'raped' by your partner, which is really a kind of roleplay, but it's entirely something else to be actually raped by a random person (or, perhaps even worse, someone you know, which is also vastly more common). Anyway, just thought I'd clarify; I'm pretty sure you meant the same thing.
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Anonymous said: Girls is this common? Do you or your friends ever have rape fantasies? Or is this just some weird fetish like scat porn.
I'm not a girl and I can't speak on behalf of them, but in my experience, yes, this is quite common (of course still only a minority of women are actually into this), but by far more common than scat and I'd say probably more common than urolagnia (any form of piss sex, to put it bluntly). Totally different things and they don't have much to do with each other, of course. Either way, as long as it's consensual and everyone's happy, I see no problem with this at all.
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Anonymous said: I love crystal Gs honesty. Its nice to hear women say what there thinking w/o a bunch of bullshit.
it's one of the things i have always appreciated about her, she's honest and open, whether it's because she doesnt give a shit what we think or she intends to make sure we have a greater understanding probably depends on the circumstances she's giving those thoughts but they are always legit
I read a statistic somewhere that claimed about 35% of women have some kind of rape fantasy, around 45% liked to be handled roughly on occasion and that 10% of women have had their first sexual experience with an animal
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Re: Female rape fantasies [Re: Prisoner#1]
#21704230 - 05/20/15 09:15 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: I love crystal Gs honesty. Its nice to hear women say what there thinking w/o a bunch of bullshit.
it's one of the things i have always appreciated about her, she's honest and open, whether it's because she doesnt give a shit what we think or she intends to make sure we have a greater understanding probably depends on the circumstances she's giving those thoughts but they are always legit
I read a statistic somewhere that claimed about 35% of women have some kind of rape fantasy, around 45% liked to be handled roughly on occasion and that 10% of women have had their first sexual experience with an animal
I totally have with my Siberian husky.
He dead now. RIP m8
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