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SleepyE
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: Buster_Brown]
#21702082 - 05/20/15 11:34 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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yeah dude just said practice it in a parking lot a few dozen times and il be a pro, at least i know what to expect for my next booking.
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Spankle
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: SleepyE] 1
#21710707 - 05/22/15 02:10 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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OP you do need companionship. Not necessarily a girlfriend but Humans are hyper-social animals. We crave the gossip and the connection that relationships facilitate.
Forgive me for my bluntness but I refuse to sugar coat things for people.
"I just feel like there is something psychologically not right with me in the sense that it hasn't happened for me.
im starting to think something is seriously wrong with me."
^That bit there is a problem. Relationships aren't just going to manifest themselves in your life. If you don't actively form them you will continue to be in the same boat as you are now. For someone with commitment it takes to hit the gym and have a nice physique your situation surprises me.
Approach it with the same tenacity you do the gym. Put your self in social situations, join a club or some sort of community activity. Hit up some meetup groups in your area. Talk to people. Join a dating website. Most importantly learn. Read books, watch videos and make a commitment to giving yourself a rich meaningful life full of many relationships. I can assure you it will pay dividends.
I have only once in my life experienced debilitating bouts of anxiety that were brought about by a non-functioning pancreas. Lasted only a few months so I can't speak much to chronic anxiety but all I can say is you have to get uncomfortable and fake it till you make it. I feel with a rich social life your anxiety will all but disappear. You seem to have a confidence about you to even say you look good so carry that in to a social life. Confidence is key just as it is in the gym.
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crkhd
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: Spankle]
#21716513 - 05/24/15 04:35 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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We humans need oxytocin to stay sane brah
Male on his own gets overwhelmed by male energy Mind heats up
Woman brings coolness http://www.girlfriendcircles.com/blog/index.php/2013/07/friendships-stress-and-hormones-simon-sinek/
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SleepyE
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: crkhd]
#21717241 - 05/24/15 11:41 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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thanks, this job still is raping my mind, literally cant see anyone because of this bullshit.
I really have to find some solution to this,
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: SleepyE]
#21718790 - 05/24/15 08:38 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Hey SleepyE, it sounds like you gotta stomp your foot down with your boss about getting a weekend off now and then.
It is widely believed that having some relationships in your life is essential to a persons mental well-being. I bet that if you just tried, you'd excel in that area, if you had the time.
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: Vexx Junior]
#21718798 - 05/24/15 08:40 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Or, if you just wanna talk with someone, pm me, we can chat about anything man. I'd like to help if I can.
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SleepyE
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: Vexx Junior]
#21718913 - 05/24/15 09:23 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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thank you, you are completely right, its not a problem for me to meet people when i have the spare time but i havent seem my friends in a month now because of this job.
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SleepyE
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: SleepyE]
#21718936 - 05/24/15 09:28 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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problem is they have been wanting me to work more and i have to turn it down because i cant handle all that working and i have other things i need to get done,
then it looks like they get angry, maybe im imagining it, i just feel a bit sketched about asking anything from them.
but i only agreed for 3 days, actually 2 but then they were like oh we need this from you now, and now they constantly want 4 and im likke nooo i cannt.
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Edited by SleepyE (05/24/15 09:28 PM)
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R0B0G3N3S1S
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: SleepyE]
#21725197 - 05/26/15 03:03 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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To the op, I feel that we are in similar boats. This is really where family comes in. And why your cousin seemed so attractive when you were young. Or maybe thats just me.
But yeah, maybe eventually you will go manic and then go out and talk to a bunch of people and be a crazy dude for a while and find some friends. The relationship part... I'm still trying to figure out. It seems easier to go at it backward your first time ->sexual attachment ->emotional motivation->relationship building skills. Much of a persons flexibility and mental plasticity comes from the people around them and constant practice. Well, we don't practice really... but expect a few fuck ups, and get rid of the shyness. (haha actually that's when your releasing your pheremones, so even if you feel shy you should still talk to that totally hot girl who has been staring at you).
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: R0B0G3N3S1S]
#21749697 - 06/01/15 06:17 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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OP atleast you have hobbies and work-_-
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