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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: SleepyE]
#21696277 - 05/18/15 09:44 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Are there any hobbies or activities you like to do? Many have clubs where you can go and meet like-minded folks.
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SleepyE
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: Le_Canard]
#21696293 - 05/18/15 09:46 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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i could meet people if i didnt have this job.
they want me to work friday and saturday for the rest of my life and its not healthy for me right now because it causes me to become heavily isolated against my will.
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: SleepyE]
#21696302 - 05/18/15 09:48 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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i just cant stand it anymore, i just want to talk to someone outside.
my mind is boiling from this loneliness and isolation. im not thinking clearly or properly.
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Le_Canard
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: SleepyE]
#21696333 - 05/18/15 09:55 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ah. That sucks. Yeah, you really need down time. I guess you don't have time to find a new job. Can you talk to them and maybe try to get a bit more time off? Fuck them if they don't like it. And, if I'm not mistaken, I believe they're legally required to give you some time off. I dunno.
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SleepyE
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: Le_Canard]
#21696355 - 05/18/15 10:00 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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its just my friends dont really make plans in advance so i cant book off a day expecting to go somewhere because i tried that a few weeks ago and ended up spending the friday alone because no-one was doing anything that day
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: SleepyE]
#21696356 - 05/18/15 10:01 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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and i cant book off because very often because im the only guy they have to do my job.
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: SleepyE] 2
#21696438 - 05/18/15 10:20 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I don't know your situation but it sounds like you need a different job. Don't let money steal your sanity. And school is a good idea. You will meet more people. And those friendships last a long time.
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: The peg]
#21696476 - 05/18/15 10:26 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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it sounds stupid but yes jerking off with your hand is a constant reminder you're alone and will stress you out where as a girl would give you good chemical feelings even
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: SleepyE] 3
#21696479 - 05/18/15 10:28 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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its all cool dude dont think about it like that. just relax bro
have you seen that episode of Adventure Time where Jake the dog shapeshifts into a brick so that he may know what it feels like to be a brick in a falling brick wall, which was part of an old brick shack. So he kept a walkie-talkie to communicate with his friend, Finn. As time went on, Jake saw a bunny hopping around. Soon it started raining and the bunny crashed under a bush. the bush got hurt and it rained but animals showed up and hooked bunny up w shelter. By this time Jake was narrating and the story was broadcast throughout the Land of Ooo. In the morning a deer destroyed his new house, which was built by many friendly animals the night before in the rain, and after like 2 seconds the bunny hops off unaffected.
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: The peg]
#21696620 - 05/18/15 11:06 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
The peg said: I don't know your situation but it sounds like you need a different job. Don't let money steal your sanity. And school is a good idea. You will meet more people. And those friendships last a long time.
yeah i was thinking my sanity might be worth more than 13 bucks an hour, im getting having my g2 test tomorrow so im hoping that might make it possible for me to get out, but i usually finish work at 12 or 1 am for fuck sakes.
i dont know why this insist on making me cover both those shifts always. i cant take it anymore im gonna snap from isolation insanity.
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: SleepyE]
#21696848 - 05/19/15 12:36 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Life is awesome if you don't have brain damage, it really is. Mental illness is just another kind of brain damage, but since we see it happening only in certain areas of the brain we give it a name.
Let your brain heal.
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: circastes]
#21697594 - 05/19/15 09:06 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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i failed my g2 test because my mom did not teach me backwards parking and its the only thing they tested me on so i failed it.
im really upset now because i was counting on passing it to fix my isolation but now i cant even have it.
im hurting so badly, i just want to talk be with friends.
i hate my job so much, i just want to quit, i need my friday and saturday.
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Edited by SleepyE (05/19/15 09:07 AM)
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: SleepyE]
#21698209 - 05/19/15 12:23 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Backwards parking is so hard I avoid it if at all possible. It's so hard they even made a car that does it automatically, all you have to do is pull up alongside the car in front then your car does the rest.
I drove for 30 years then had to retake the test and failed the written but I practiced most on backwards parking and finally passed.
Is g2 Government? I would have thought the girls in gov't would be happy to date and keep the benefits within the family as it were. There's gotta be a department dating service, with hiv tests.
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#21698280 - 05/19/15 12:45 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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yeah i was pro at parallel and fucking 3 point turn but dude was like backpark and im like wtf dude,. my sister said they wouldnt test me on it.
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: SleepyE]
#21698532 - 05/19/15 01:59 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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just do what you've got to do and dont stress it
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: SleepyE] 1
#21700614 - 05/19/15 11:39 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Go to a bar, jesus. Couple pints and youll be talking to everyone.
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: Bodhi of Ankou] 1
#21700645 - 05/19/15 11:48 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I feel the same way . But trust me man, relationships can be equally as damaging and can make you feel like you are dead instead of dying.
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Edited by Rebelutionsssss (05/19/15 11:49 PM)
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SleepyE
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21700652 - 05/19/15 11:51 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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yeah i think i just need to get out more, like id be fine if my friday and saturday were free.
just going to have to do something about this job, or maybe just hold out until i get my g2 so i can get a little bit more mobility freedom to possibly reach my friends after work. 
my sanity should be more important than this shitty job.
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: SleepyE] 1
#21700694 - 05/20/15 12:08 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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SleepyE said: my sanity should be more important than this shitty job.
Fuckin' heard that right..
In answer to your OQ, I've found I tend to consider consequence more and take into consideration more repurcussions/results when Im around someone I care about, health considerations, etc.. all kinds of things.
The times Im alone I tend to drop off the map into a "I dont give a shit, too give a shit, about anything" zone..that tends to lead into 'undesirable areas', we'll say..
So thats just my findings. Of course like Reb said having someone around who doesnt click can backfire too. So I guess the answer to your question can be yes and no.
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Re: Is it mentally dangerous to go through life without companionship or relationships? [Re: SleepyE]
#21702053 - 05/20/15 11:24 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Oh, you mean like backing a boat trailer, yeah, when I'm in a tight spot I have to remember to turn the bottom of the steering wheel in the direction I want the back of the trailer to go.
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