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Rebelutionsssss
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Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did?
#21691798 - 05/17/15 06:37 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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As I grow older and explore psycedelics I realized I caused some pain to people that never deserved it and I'm feeling the need to say sorry. I've already talked to my parents and said sorry but I'm thinking I should call some other people and tell them? Anyone ever done this?
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21691825 - 05/17/15 06:42 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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yeah. i've also had random encounters with people that have forced me to apologize for what i've done. i have found myself doing this more and more as i'm getting sober....
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: sanchothestoner]
#21691839 - 05/17/15 06:45 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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nope
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21691863 - 05/17/15 06:50 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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this is more commonly known as step 4 in aa.. to my knowledge it is where most people relapse because sometimes reliving those encounters are rough.
so yeah, ive done it
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: Mescalean]
#21691871 - 05/17/15 06:52 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
Mescalean said: nope
By the way, Burke is free dude. Change your sig.
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21691897 - 05/17/15 06:58 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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No not really.
Most of the fucked up stuff I've done was done to people I didn't even know. The very few I would know how to contact that I don't know personally, I wouldn't for the simple fact that I'm not going to admit to a felony I already got away with. There are only 2 that come to mind. Both property damage, neither really deserved it, I was just a stupid kid. Most of the damage I've done was done to people I'd have no way of tracking down now, if I could even remember what I did to who. Anyone I've hurt or wronged that I knew personally I've long since apologized for whatever it is I did.
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: Shroomslip]
#21691916 - 05/17/15 07:01 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I took a shit load of acid once and pretty much confessed all the fucked up things I did and apologized to my closest friends for all the things I ever said or did wrong to them. It was very cleansing.
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: OsculateOfDemise] 1
#21691933 - 05/17/15 07:06 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Oh god yes. Mostly girls. Why we're all still friends. Not every day talky friends but we settled our differences. Moved on but settled the why are we even not friends or talking in the first place?
It feels good to squash that dumb shit. We all do dumb shit. What's the point on holding onto it as we're all moving forward?
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: TopPmz]
#21691934 - 05/17/15 07:07 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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TopPmz said:
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Mescalean said: nope
By the way, Burke is free dude. Change your sig.
its there to for ever be a reminder of the abuse of power that was witnessed that day.
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Rebelutionsssss
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: Enjoywho]
#21691941 - 05/17/15 07:10 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Now I'm wondering if they would be holding grudges and try to charge me with shit I never did anything really horrible but i definately don't want to go to jail for something I did 6 years ago
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: Shroomslip] 3
#21691955 - 05/17/15 07:14 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ya because I used to be a really ignorant straight laced youth pastor and rode my high horse all over people. I cringe at what I used to be.
I told a gay friend how wrong she was and gave her the whole "I don't hate the sinner, just the sin" 
She was really nice and composed in her response, and totally gave me more respect than I ever deserved but expressed her disagreement. I basically stopped being her friend.
5 years later, I'm completely changed. Not a Christian, into psychedelics and pro gay rights and completely remorseful of my previously held views.
I saw her on facebook and I know she probably thought I was the same old fuckface bible thumper. So I send her a message apologizing for the way I treated her all around as a human. We end up going back and forth on facebook and text and I introduced her to mushrooms and we get high together a few times and have become good friends. It is amazing how people can change. I no longer hold on to my perspective as absolute fact because i know my mind should always be open to change.
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Rebelutionsssss
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: audiophoenix]
#21691967 - 05/17/15 07:19 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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audiophoenix said: Ya because I used to be a really ignorant straight laced youth pastor and rode my high horse all over people. I cringe at what I used to be.
I told a gay friend how wrong she was and gave her the whole "I don't hate the sinner, just the sin" 
She was really nice and composed in her response, and totally gave me more respect than I ever deserved but expressed her disagreement. I basically stopped being her friend.
5 years later, I'm completely changed. Not a Christian, into psychedelics and pro gay rights and completely remorseful of my previously held views.
I saw her on facebook and I know she probably thought I was the Sam old fuckface bible thumper. So I send her a message apologizing for the WA I treated her all around as a human. We end up going back and forth on facebook and text and I introduced her to mushrooms and we get high together a few times and have become good friends. It is amazing how people can change. I no longer hold on to my perspective as absolute fact because i know my mind should always be open to change.
You guys were really good friends?
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audiophoenix
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21691972 - 05/17/15 07:20 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah pretty good friends before, but like I said, we stopped talking for at least 5 years because I was a dick.
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: audiophoenix]
#21691990 - 05/17/15 07:25 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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[flash=,]http://flash] couldn't help myself, but man i'm glad i called that guy..
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21692100 - 05/17/15 07:58 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I called an ex of mine and told her that I was sorry for telling everyone she was a damned liar,evil and many other off color things that I thought was true for a while. She didn't exactly lie to me but the last year of our relationship, she lied about loving me because I was changing as a person and I wasn't the person I was when we fell in "love". I thought she did it for shits and giggles.Also her church fucking brainwashed me but I did volunteer to try and be a good "Christian" with her. Even after 3 years of a very passionate relationship she maintained she wouldn't have premarital sex and I understand all that now. I should've just broke it off instead of converting my entire religion and pretending I was a model Christian.
Anyway I apologized about a year ago for shit talking her for like 7 years
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: Seriously_trippin]
#21692114 - 05/17/15 08:02 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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In 2013 I made a facebook for the soul purpose of apologizing to people I've wronged and I've also apologized in person to people for various things n stuff
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: Seriously_trippin]
#21692124 - 05/17/15 08:04 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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No. Fuck em. Don't go out of your own way to apologize, if you encounter these people and the situation is necessary to do so, then do so.
If you go out of your own way to do so, then all your doing is pleasing your own guilt. Your not helping them. Likely they don't even think about what you've done anymore.
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: MajickMuffin] 1
#21692128 - 05/17/15 08:05 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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MajickMuffin said: No. Fuck em. Don't go out of your own way to apologize, if you encounter these people and the situation is necessary to do so, then do so.
If you go out of your own way to do so, then all your doing is pleasing your own guilt. Your not helping them. Likely they don't even think about what you've done anymore.
Cynical much?
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: Seriously_trippin]
#21692130 - 05/17/15 08:05 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Sometimes, but in general I prefer not to end up in jail, so nope.
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Re: Have you ever called people from your past and apologized for things you did? [Re: Seriously_trippin]
#21692140 - 05/17/15 08:07 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Lol jesus man...
I am sorry you had to not have sex for 3 years. Honestly, I don't waste my time with those type of women. I don't have a religion. I don't feel the need for my kids to be brainwashed and tortured with the idea of hell, and being homophobic and what not, if one of them turns out to be gay which is very possible in my family. I have an uncle that is religious, and gay, he has never had physical relations with a man from what I know. but yeah, wasted his romantic life based off a lie. How do you tell someone that? anyways
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