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Loaning friends money
#21690065 - 05/17/15 10:40 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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It's such a bad idea. I knew this and have lost countless friends over it.
So this girl homie of mine who I generally catch rides out to work with (work about 25 miles out of town) her car broke down and she calls me to borrow 60$. I was like sure dude no worries it makes my commute easier.
I understand she has 2 kids and had to pay rent. I only asked for 20 back to get me to Friday. And now I'm getting the whole work around. Even don't talk to me ever again.
Holy shit you try and help people. Money is fucking terrible
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho] 1
#21690068 - 05/17/15 10:41 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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You're just full of bad decisions dude. 
I'm not saying it's right she didn't pay you back, but geez..
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21690070 - 05/17/15 10:43 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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dude, dont lend money out if you dont got it in the first place.
60 bucks on a friendship seems to be a pretty cheap price tag.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: rackem]
#21690074 - 05/17/15 10:44 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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is this the same guy who lent out his chocolate seamen fountain?
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If you're going to 'loan' money to a friend or family member it's better to just never expect to get it back before you even give it to them.
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Shit, 60 bucks ive lived with friends and thay haven't asked me for a dime
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: grower182]
#21690090 - 05/17/15 10:51 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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grower182 said: If you're going to 'loan' money to a friend or family member it's better to just never expect to get it back before you even give it to them.
Wise words!
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: rackem]
#21690092 - 05/17/15 10:51 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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rackem said: dude, dont lend money out if you dont got it in the first place.
60 bucks on a friendship seems to be a pretty cheap price tag.
I do it all the time. If I wrote out a list of every person that owes me money fuck it would be 10 pages long. I don't care about money it's just an object to get other objects. I help out my "friends". I could give a fuck less about it and I'm poor. Sure dude or dudette I gotcha.
But I will try and collect on it then bridges are burned. Mostly them not honoring there contractual agreements.
I was like uhhhhhhh I know this is a bad idea but sure.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: grower182]
#21690097 - 05/17/15 10:52 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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grower182 said: If you're going to 'loan' money to a friend or family member it's better to just never expect to get it back before you even give it to them.
Exactly.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho] 1
#21690105 - 05/17/15 10:53 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said: I understand she has 2 kids and had to pay rent. I only asked for 20 back to get me to Friday. And now I'm getting the whole work around. Even don't talk to me ever again.
You asked her to pay you back and she told you not to talk to her ever again?
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: psi]
#21690119 - 05/17/15 10:57 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yep. She literally lives 5 minutes away were in the same neighborhood. We used to walk to our other job together. You're telling me you can't stop by with even a little cash and say thanks that you have your car again?
When she called me up crying. I dunno how to ask you this but can I borrow some money? She doesn't do drugs or even smoke pot. I know the money went into parts but wtf man.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21690126 - 05/17/15 11:00 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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go take the flag off her mailbox, tell her she can get it back when she pays u
wait, no don't do that
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: grower182]
#21690142 - 05/17/15 11:03 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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grower182 said: If you're going to 'loan' money to a friend or family member it's better to just never expect to get it back before you even give it to them.
Friends, almost never. Family? They all get one shot. Nobodies shafted me yet
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. I don't care about money it's just an object to get other objects. I help out my "friends". I could give a fuck less about it and I'm poor. Sure dude or dudette I gotcha.
This is how I think about it. As long as I pay my rent and buy my beer and some cigs I'm fine with that. I don't want a big fancy house or any of that material bullshit to pass along to the kids I'll never have because why would I?
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21690167 - 05/17/15 11:10 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said: . I don't care about money it's just an object to get other objects. I help out my "friends". I could give a fuck less about it and I'm poor. Sure dude or dudette I gotcha.
This is how I think about it. As long as I pay my rent and buy my beer and some cigs I'm fine with that. I don't want a big fancy house or any of that material bullshit to pass along to the kids I'll never have because why would I?
And this is why you keep losing friends. 
It's good you want to help people, I respect that, but if it has the possibility of dissolving a friendship.. that's where you should probably draw the line in my opinion
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: psi]
#21690171 - 05/17/15 11:12 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said: I understand she has 2 kids and had to pay rent. I only asked for 20 back to get me to Friday. And now I'm getting the whole work around. Even don't talk to me ever again.
You asked her to pay you back and she told you not to talk to her ever again? 
haha thats the part that stuck out to me too
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: D.M.T]
#21690177 - 05/17/15 11:14 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said: . I don't care about money it's just an object to get other objects. I help out my "friends". I could give a fuck less about it and I'm poor. Sure dude or dudette I gotcha.
This is how I think about it. As long as I pay my rent and buy my beer and some cigs I'm fine with that. I don't want a big fancy house or any of that material bullshit to pass along to the kids I'll never have because why would I?
And this is why you keep losing friends. 
It's good you want to help people, I respect that, but if it has the possibility of dissolving a friendship.. that's where you should probably draw the line in my opinion
Than they weren't that good of friends to begin with. 
I'll never stop helping people if they ask. I can't. It's just who I am.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21690192 - 05/17/15 11:17 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I help out strangers too. I've paid for a lot of things that the person in front of me didn't have enough for. Generally people that I could were parents and trying to get milk. Obviously I don't pay for some randoms beer
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21690309 - 05/17/15 12:04 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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My best friend owes me almost a grand.
And he has no way of getting it back to me at the moment.
Fuckin' mistake.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Big Worm]
#21690328 - 05/17/15 12:10 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yep. I lost all my best friends. Don't trust people with money. I dunno why but it turns us into horrible people. I could give a fuck less about it but don't lie to me.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21690355 - 05/17/15 12:21 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I've only loaned out money once and will never do it again. Everyone seems to see loans as "hey free shit!"
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Shroomslip]
#21690369 - 05/17/15 12:24 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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What made you want to loan her money anyways, do you like this woman?
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We've kissed a couple times. I do like her. She's really cute. It's complicated.
Because I ride in her car. And that's how we get to work. I missed all last week because it was broken. So when she called me I said sure that's fine. And now apparently I'm fucked out of my money. And have to walk a distance to get to work.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Shroomslip]
#21690386 - 05/17/15 12:28 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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You just learned a $60 lesson.
Need to learn it again?
Nope, didn't think that was the case...
The answer is learning how to say NO, the right way.
Some people are really good at it.
You just have to learn how to harness the power of a positive NO.
Google it and there's tons of ways to "flake" without looking or coming off like a lame.
Yup, you're welcome.
Now, apply, rinse and repeat.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: IL0g1cal]
#21690406 - 05/17/15 12:31 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I just can't live like that. Money is literally nothing to me. I can use it to buy other things and do stuff. When a friend in need asks me for some sure. Take it.
What pisses me off is when I try to collect and they negate there contractual agreement. Fuck man I'm helping you here.
It's just dumb what money will do to otherwise good friendships.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21690424 - 05/17/15 12:35 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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i've had to help out people and i've had people help me. as long as everyone is on the same page it's not a problem.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: millzy]
#21690448 - 05/17/15 12:41 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Likewise.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21690468 - 05/17/15 12:47 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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She probably rationalizing something. Like you should help her becuase you like her or something shit like that.
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Probably she always calls me for help. Our entire relationship is based on me listening to her talk about her problems.
I pay gas money shit I just stopped by her house the other day just walking about and gave her a 20. I know she's broke I know she's barely surviving and working her ass off. I just don't understand this.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21690502 - 05/17/15 12:57 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Every statement you made before "I just don't understand this" gives a pretty clear picture of what's going on here.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: D.M.T]
#21690539 - 05/17/15 01:10 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'm just kind of pissed and venting. I don't even think I'm looking for opinions but some good ones have been given.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21690692 - 05/17/15 01:53 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I actually try to avoid people that are too nice. I feel like they have a hidden agenda of some sort.
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Nah I have no hidden agenda beside helping out fellow people. But when time comes to collect damn right I get pissed when they say you'll have this money on this day and then don't follow through.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21690737 - 05/17/15 02:09 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Damn that girl is nuts dude
Looks like she wasn't your friend really to begin with
SOrry bud,
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: SunnyD]
#21690749 - 05/17/15 02:14 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ya my history with her is ridiculous to begin with. More than I care to talk about.
I don't know a lot of people here. Well I do but I considered her someone I can actually talk to and trust. Real bummer I knew it was a bad idea.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho] 1
#21690782 - 05/17/15 02:29 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said: Probably she always calls me for help. Our entire relationship is based on me listening to her talk about her problems.
I pay gas money shit I just stopped by her house the other day just walking about and gave her a 20. I know she's broke I know she's barely surviving and working her ass off. I just don't understand this.
lol I kinda made a thread about this in the sexuality and relationship forum called "would you friends with a unavailable woman" The thread was about being friends with a woman and if its worth it because often they will just talk to you about their problems and use you for favors. Sounds like you got yourself up shit creek buddy, your doing all these nice things and being her therapist and your not getting anything physical from her except a kiss.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21690823 - 05/17/15 02:40 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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there are only very few people I trust enough to loan money to.. whatever the reason I know I can count on them to get it back in time.. others can fuck off.. unless the money would go for having fun together and the person has done right by me before, I don't mind spending a little on my friends.. I never expect it back tho.. nothing will drive a wedge between friends better than lending money..
I used to be pretty bad with money management in the past, but nowadays if it ever should come to that I have to take a loan from someone, I make it my first priority to repay it.. it's only fair for the other person helping me out..
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Individual]
#21690927 - 05/17/15 03:09 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I haven't done it in a long time. Because I knew it was a bad idea. I just wanted to help I dunno.
Theyres nothing between us except riding to work. That's what I helped fix. And ya I casually fuck with her and her me back. We've actually had a pretty good friendship until this.
All though she does talk about her problems too much. The other day she told a 20 minute story about the stove in her new place. So I just started randomly intetmitting stove related puns as book titles. 
Im going to be really sad if I lose her as a friend. 
Over 60$ it's literally nothing I'm not concerned about the money but the point of it.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21690943 - 05/17/15 03:14 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Don't loan money to people you aren't fine parting with. I've made the mistake before, but it was always with people that loaned me money in the past so I didn't have much of a choice. Brings up the next point, don't borrow money from people either.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: fapjack]
#21690957 - 05/17/15 03:18 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yep I've lost 2 many friends over it. Where everything is great until money is involved.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21690978 - 05/17/15 03:25 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Let me guess.
Because she gives you rides (which you pay for in gas money), she has the feel that she is entitled not to pay you back the 60$ is that it?
Somehow she suddenly believes that you paying her for rides is worth an extra 60$
Am I right or am I right?
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Patlal]
#21691018 - 05/17/15 03:33 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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No. I dunno what the fucks up. Probably more bullshit in her life that she's reflecting back. I have no clue. I'm baffled and stressed about the entire situation.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21691036 - 05/17/15 03:38 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Look at it this way
you paid 60$ to prevent her from fucking you over in the future
Money shows peoples real colors, SHe wasn't your friend to begin with
She sounds like scum
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: SunnyD]
#21691062 - 05/17/15 03:44 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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She's actually hella cool. Hard worker and mother. That's why I don't understand this.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21691080 - 05/17/15 03:51 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
Enjoywho said: She's actually hella cool. Hard worker and mother. That's why I don't understand this.
She sounds fake, if she would do that dude
I know some people who seem legit on the outside but deep down there fucking nuts
I sometimes am bewildered at the behavior of humans
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21691083 - 05/17/15 03:52 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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maybe she doesnt have the money yet to give it back to you.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: rackem]
#21691093 - 05/17/15 03:54 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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rackem said: maybe she doesnt have the money yet to give it back to you.
Of course she doesn't have the money... that's obvious
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: rackem]
#21691108 - 05/17/15 03:57 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I let an old friend borrow 1k a few years ago and haven't seen a penny of it. He asked me for 25k last week and specifically said he didn't want to sign anything. I tried not to laugh in his face but that's what happened. Some people.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: rackem]
#21691111 - 05/17/15 03:57 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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rackem said: maybe she doesnt have the money yet to give it back to you.
That would been somewhat ok and understandable but she said
Don't ever talk to me again shes a nutcase trash bag
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21691118 - 05/17/15 03:59 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Just ask her straight up next time you see her, "you're gonna pay me back the $60, right?". If she says no and makes a bullshit excuse, you should really question if you're letting her use you.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21691121 - 05/17/15 03:59 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I didn't even want it all back. I just wanted 20. I know she's struggling. Like all of us are. It's not about the money it's about her lieing to me.
She got paid on Friday as she's through a work thingy. Express. I get paid every 2 weeks. This coming Friday. It's Sunday now and she ain't picking her phone up.
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Re: Loaning friends money [Re: Enjoywho]
#21691134 - 05/17/15 04:04 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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We all get paid penny's for what we do. I make my company 8000$ A Day. Long hours it's all bullshit. God damn it she better call me soon she's one of my only good friends in this miserable small town.
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