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Re: So I had my first herpes outbreak, [Re: vandago]
#21692323 - 05/17/15 08:54 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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O o o o ' Reilly's, auto farts.
Sorry I know that's not funny.
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Re: So I had my first herpes outbreak, [Re: DTCharlieB] 1
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but you went ahead and posted it anyway. Good job, I hope you feel better.
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Re: So I had my first herpes outbreak, [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
#21692359 - 05/17/15 09:03 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Mr.GuessWork said: Keep up the good work, man . If you're feeling up to it and you think it can be done, try calling up your bro and talking out your immediate problem with him. He could be a big help in winning your legal battle. If he didn't want to press charges when that shit went down, then I'll bet he doesn't like the idea of you going to jail over that shit either. If he testifies in your favor, then you've got a HUGE advantage.
Also, you made the right choice by removing a rape van from the world. Thanks for that.
The court set a no contact order between my bro and I.
Now if he called me....it would be perfect...cause he would be the one in violation of the order and I would for sure win the trial.
The thing with the system is.....I want to reconcile with him.....but they are the ones pressin charges.....they make it so much harder putting me behind bars.....he never pressed charges, the states did.
Everyone knows this already. But. Fuck ohio.
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Re: So I had my first herpes outbreak, [Re: vandago]
#21692389 - 05/17/15 09:09 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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they put a no contact order in place? the fuck is that shit?
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DTCharlieB
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Re: So I had my first herpes outbreak, [Re: rackem]
#21692451 - 05/17/15 09:29 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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They do the same thing in wv. The state presses charges for any DV incident that's called in to the police and there's really no way to stop it. It's usually a waste of time and tax payer money because the majority of the time if neither party wants to pursue it it gets thrown out in court. Not to mention a waste of time and money to the defendants in the case.
Came about from girls getting beat up by their boyfriends all the time then pressing charges only to drop them a few days later then repeating the process. Usually cases like the ops get thrown out. But I'm not aware of past history of run in's with the law with the op so it's hard to tell how it will turn out. If he has a relatively clean record and his bro doesn't go into court telling a bunch of lies he should be good to go.
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Re: So I had my first herpes outbreak, [Re: DTCharlieB]
#21692516 - 05/17/15 09:45 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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yeah dude that whole state intervention thing sounds fucked.
i understand if they dont have a plaintiff they dont have a case they shouldnt take the role as the plaintiff, they had nothing to do with it. shitty loophole fix on the states part. they should just go with restraining orders and not fuck with peoples livelyhood
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Re: So I had my first herpes outbreak, [Re: vandago]
#21692704 - 05/17/15 10:41 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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vandago said: Aya brew would probably be a better choice then pulling the trigger.
I was actually thinking of mentioning that as my past experiences in ceremony were one of the things that really got me through my current situation. Sorry to hear it brother, but keep looking for that silver lining. It's there I promise. Around november i started developing odd neurological complications followed by a long and brutal cancer scare after they pulled a pseudosarcoma out of my face (a benign tumor that at the time could not be ruled benign because it so highly resembled an incurable and extremely rare connective tissue cancer which would be a perfect explanation for my neurological issues). Well by some stroke of dumb luck I made it out of that one. But I'm still here house bound because my neuropathy sucks so hard. Going to get tested for HIV tomorrow because it's the last unchecked and known cause of the symptoms I have. I'm scared to shit but it is what it is. The whole journey through this crap turned my life around for the better though (assuming I'm not just going to die or live in pain forever ). My eating habits have taken a 180, i'm exercising more, and in general just milking my reality for all it's worth. Taking the time to learn lots of cool things, relax and give myself space from the fast paced life i used to live, and doing whatever i can to better myself. I used to just sit around and study, then get fucked up out of boredom when i was done because i had no other hobbies. So constant annoying pain and a life of substance? Or no pain and constant dissociation from the things that are most beautiful in life? It's all in where you want to align your sights. Is this the end of your journey? Or the start down a new path? You can not change that the path you were on has come to an end, but you have all the control on where you go from here.
On that note there are some pretty cool anti-viral plants out there. Off the top of my head olive leaf extract and oregano oil. I have no signs of herpes so i don't know what affect they have on that, but it could be something to look into. If i remember correctly some of the reviews on a few products on amazon actually commented on how effectively OLE helped control the symptoms but i mightttt be confusing it with another STD. I don't think i am though. Just offering some random nugget of info in case you choose to pursue researching it. When I was told I might have a sarcoma for which there was no cure, and i knew that it was likely metastatic due to my pain, I was forced to really look outside the box in terms of options and I found that there were hundreds upon hundreds of scientific studies on chemicals found in ordinary foods for their natural (and sometimes very potent) anti-cancer effects, with no funding for followup research in humans. I don't know what the prognosis is like for herpes or what the side effects of conventional medication are in this particular case nor do i know what alternative options are present. But, i do know that empowering myself with that kind of information was really helpful to my mental state. By the time I was done researching I was almost disappointed to find out my tumor was benign because I was armed for battle I'm not making medical recommendations btw, just saying what helped me. Because in the end it's not about whether you live or die, or whether you're sick or healthy. It's how well you play the cards you're dealt and how good of a life you life while you're here. Pain aside my life is a 10/10 right now.
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Re: So I had my first herpes outbreak, [Re: vandago]
#21692725 - 05/17/15 10:48 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Mr.GuessWork said: Keep up the good work, man . If you're feeling up to it and you think it can be done, try calling up your bro and talking out your immediate problem with him. He could be a big help in winning your legal battle. If he didn't want to press charges when that shit went down, then I'll bet he doesn't like the idea of you going to jail over that shit either. If he testifies in your favor, then you've got a HUGE advantage.
Also, you made the right choice by removing a rape van from the world. Thanks for that.
The court set a no contact order between my bro and I.
Now if he called me....it would be perfect...cause he would be the one in violation of the order and I would for sure win the trial.
The thing with the system is.....I want to reconcile with him.....but they are the ones pressin charges.....they make it so much harder putting me behind bars.....he never pressed charges, the states did.
Everyone knows this already. But. Fuck ohio.
What a fucking stupid law. Instead of just letting this whole thing diffuse after the police show up, they fuck the situation up worse, and then waste the court's time with it. Ohio...
Can your lawyer or a friend contact your bro on your behalf? Maybe there's some work around like asking a trustworthy family member to indirectly mediate the communication.
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Re: So I had my first herpes outbreak, [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
#21693381 - 05/18/15 03:50 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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vandago said:
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Mr.GuessWork said: Keep up the good work, man . If you're feeling up to it and you think it can be done, try calling up your bro and talking out your immediate problem with him. He could be a big help in winning your legal battle. If he didn't want to press charges when that shit went down, then I'll bet he doesn't like the idea of you going to jail over that shit either. If he testifies in your favor, then you've got a HUGE advantage.
Also, you made the right choice by removing a rape van from the world. Thanks for that.
The court set a no contact order between my bro and I.
Now if he called me....it would be perfect...cause he would be the one in violation of the order and I would for sure win the trial.
The thing with the system is.....I want to reconcile with him.....but they are the ones pressin charges.....they make it so much harder putting me behind bars.....he never pressed charges, the states did.
Everyone knows this already. But. Fuck ohio.
What a fucking stupid law. Instead of just letting this whole thing diffuse after the police show up, they fuck the situation up worse, and then waste the court's time with it. Ohio...
Can your lawyer or a friend contact your bro on your behalf? Maybe there's some work around like asking a trustworthy family member to indirectly mediate the communication.
That would be badgering a witness, and still breaking a no contact order.
I have a HUGE criminal history, ALL drug related.....no violence, no sex, no thievery. but they still frown on psychedelics here like it's fucking murder.
The only "witness" in the case is the cop that arrested me, and she omitted in the report that my brother pulled a gun on me. She's being sued to testify by my lawyer because she left that part out of her arrest report...
Her arrest report says I was drunk at 11 am, and that I came out of my room screaming and swinging at him. She is going to have to take the stand, and she's going to have to say there was in fact HIS gun laying on the kitchen counter when they were called.....so unless she lies under oath, I assume that I will win.....they are pursuing thefuck out of this.
I want my parents to testify because they were there, and they both know I didn't punch him, nor was a drunk, and he def pulled out a gun.....but they are refusing to testify on either's behalf.
Ohio is seriously fucking stupid.....and I knew this....yet stayed.....I have some really close friends here.....but goddamn it's just not working out here legally and emorionally. It's just as cloudy here as it is in washington most times.
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Re: So I had my first herpes outbreak, [Re: vandago]
#21693820 - 05/18/15 09:23 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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It sounds like you've got a lot going for you even without anybody's testimony. I doubt your bro will fuck you over when he's on the stand too. I was a bit worried you might have been too sad to handle this situation well, but I'm less worried about you now that I see you're seriously on top of this. That cop will probably walk out of the court room in embarrassment by the end of this bullshit. Enjoy that when it happens.
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#21694606 - 05/18/15 01:36 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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sVs said: wow you have cancer too? Gosh I am really sorry for being so brash! Hey man, life is always gonna get better and people will be nice to you 
It's totally not your fault and I think you are a great person going through a really tough time. There is just no way you could have wrecked your own personal life. Matter of fact, I think it's safe to say that having cancer absolves you of all responsibility at all. You should probably keep venting, sounds like you've got a lot to work on!!
What the fuck is this shit?
Why the fuck are you even here? You get little kicks out of being a fucking internet keyboard warrior or some shit?
God damn your life must be pathetic if this is what you do for kicks
I really don't get how you are not banned for this fucking bullshit, the level of fuckery in your posts is just disgusting really.
Fucking kids these days
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Re: So I had my first herpes outbreak, [Re: Uzziel]
#21694721 - 05/18/15 02:19 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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yeah he and I already hashed our shit out like adults, but you're welcome to keep venting your impotent, self-righteous indignation if it makes you feel any better.
god damn fuck shit fucking shitty fucks!
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sVs said: yeah he and I already hashed our shit out like adults, but you're welcome to keep venting your impotent, self-righteous indignation if it makes you feel any better.
god damn fuck shit fucking shitty fucks!
"Our" shit? You realize several people are criticizing you for being a dick right? Do you know the common denominator in that equation? Hint: it's you. OP made this thread for him and his problems and anyone who was willing to listen. You and OP have no mutual "shit" that needed hashing out. You were just a jackoff from the start. There was nothing "adult" about that either. Adults share a degree of relateability from life experience and use that to guide the inexperienced away from making the same mistakes. They don't hide behind a layer of constant dope-fog and pretend to be shining examples of success while blaming others for all the bad things that happen in this world. They accept responsibility as part of the problem and use that experience to move towards greener pastures.
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except our shit's been resolved and clarified via , we both admitted we were being fuckers, and the only people left with rustled jimmies about it are you and some other faggots. chill out
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Re: So I had my first herpes outbreak, [Re: vandago]
#21695366 - 05/18/15 05:55 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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what is it with ohio man? i could understand pursuing this if it was a man vs woman charge but 2 brothers? who gives a shit.
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Re: So I had my first herpes outbreak, [Re: rackem]
#21695383 - 05/18/15 05:59 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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If I got the cops called every time things got physical in my family we would all be in jail.
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sVs said: except our shit's been resolved and clarified via , we both admitted we were being fuckers, and the only people left with rustled jimmies about it are you and some other faggots. chill out
Well i can't be expected to know what happened in PM's can i? Only your unwarranted posts on here
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