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Moonshoe
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Threesomes with your wife and other women?
#21678010 - 05/14/15 07:51 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Do you guys think having threesomes with your wife and other women is a good idea ?
Would it strengthen the relationship or cause problems?
Anyone tried it ?
Assuming of course your wife is into it/wants to do it.
My wife and I are planning to have 1-3 threesomes while in Europe and I am excited but also have some concern it might somehow cause relationship problems although I'm not sure why.
Thoughts ?
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: Moonshoe]
#21678025 - 05/14/15 07:56 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Cant speak from personal experience but Id think that as long as you and your wife have a discussion and agreement upon it it sounds like a great idea.
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: Moonshoe]
#21678026 - 05/14/15 07:56 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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If you're both into it, and neither of you are talking the other into it, I don't see why there'd be a problem. If she's only into it because you've expresses that you really want to do it, or vice versa, there will probably be a problem.
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: Moonshoe]
#21678027 - 05/14/15 07:57 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Done it many times over the years, gotta separate sex from love and just view it as having fun,,, sex is fun!
Hell we have swapped with other couples, just because it happened, I don't trip, she don't trip, all good...
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: Moonshoe] 1
#21678064 - 05/14/15 08:15 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Haven't you made pretty much this exact same thread before?
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: larry.fisherman]
#21678076 - 05/14/15 08:20 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I think it would make the most sense doing it on vacation with people you never really have to see again
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: larry.fisherman]
#21678098 - 05/14/15 08:29 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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We've been talking about it for a while and played with a few different scenarios.
But we have finally figured it out and will be doing it in Europe in about two months , probably 1-3 times with a white girl and an asian
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: Moonshoe]
#21678103 - 05/14/15 08:31 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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You should watch her fuck two girls while you're at it.
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: Moonshoe]
#21678111 - 05/14/15 08:33 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
Moonshoe said: We've been talking about it for a while and played with a few different scenarios.
But we have finally figured it out and will be doing it in Europe in about two months , probably 1-3 times with a white girl and an asian
Do you just plan on finding a white girl and an Asian girl who are down, or do you already have the hookup on them?
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: larry.fisherman]
#21678221 - 05/14/15 09:19 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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XLCaps said: You should watch her fuck two girls while you're at it.
Or maybe two guys. Why not watch her fuck two guys? That's only fair.
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: larry.fisherman]
#21678231 - 05/14/15 09:22 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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There's no way I could watch my wife/gf get fucked by another dude. I'm just the jealous type I guess 
So couple swapping would be off the table for me. As far as threesomes go, as long as you think your wife will be chill. It just seems like it has the potential to cause more problems than the whole experience is actually worth
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: larry.fisherman]
#21678274 - 05/14/15 09:41 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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XLCaps said:
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XLCaps said: You should watch her fuck two girls while you're at it.
Or maybe two guys. Why not watch her fuck two guys? That's only fair.
I did the whole mfm thing a few times it's hot as fuck. Never did get my ffm though. So just make sure you get yours first op.
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: larry.fisherman] 4
#21678275 - 05/14/15 09:42 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
XLCaps said:
Or maybe two guys. Why not watch her fuck two guys? That's only fair.
Oh come on! two dudes is just different, cuz you know...its dudes and all. Every guy is down for a threesome until its two dudes and their wife.
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: badchad] 1
#21678283 - 05/14/15 09:44 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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As long as the dude isn't pounding my ass I'm ok with it.
He has to take me and the wife out to dinner first.
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: trekie] 1
#21678336 - 05/14/15 10:02 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I hate the one sided 3sum BS. Two chicks isn't even bonerific to me - but then again I grew up in LGBTQ community so same sex PDA was nothing novel to me.
But how can be so one sided 'I want to share you with someone else, but not another penis, I want more vagina than you have - how dare you want more penis that I have, I must not be man enough for you' How do you think it makes the woman feel, maybe like her vagina isn't enough for you - and most chicks that are into MFF are fucked in the head anyway.
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: drege]
#21678349 - 05/14/15 10:06 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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How are they fucked in the head for being into MFF, but you're not for being into MFM?
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: TopPmz]
#21678360 - 05/14/15 10:08 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Most people are fucked in the head :nod:
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: trekie]
#21678373 - 05/14/15 10:12 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Word.
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: TopPmz]
#21678381 - 05/14/15 10:13 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: trekie]
#21678395 - 05/14/15 10:18 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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So who wants to help Moonie in his sexual conquest and fuck his wife?
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: larry.fisherman]
#21678399 - 05/14/15 10:19 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I never mentioned what as you say "I'm into" This thread is not about me and my sexual preferences, my postings are commentary about the nature of other peoples preferences.
Anyway, now I read OPs thread post. Fucking while abroad is a great idea, that way you have to try really hard to keep in contact with the 3rd party. The "strengthening you speak of is from enduring shit like people being a wedge between you two, when you can look back and say to her 'hey, remember when we slept with amber, then she was stalking me? Yea, we're never doing that again, what a fucked situation that was huh honey'
I've been a practicing polyamourus for a number of years. Its fun navigating the depths of other peoples crazy.
I'm not into MFM.Quote:
XLCaps said: So who wants to help Moonie in his sexual conquest and fuck his wife?
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: drege]
#21679167 - 05/14/15 02:50 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I would potentially be into MFM if she was I guess, maybe. I don't think she is though, unless It was like a hot bisexual guy who I could also fuck but thats a tall order
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: Moonshoe]
#21679183 - 05/14/15 02:55 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Whatever you're into. I could see myself possibly being able to do a ffm type thing but for sure not mmf unless some aspects of my personality drastically change but I recognize the hypocrisy there
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: Ezuma] 1
#21681038 - 05/14/15 10:22 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Moonshoe said: I would potentially be into MFM if she was I guess, maybe. I don't think she is though, unless It was like a hot bisexual guy who I could also fuck but thats a tall order
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: Moonshoe]
#21681065 - 05/14/15 10:28 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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During 4th of July a few years ago, one of my wife's best friends gave me a hand job while my wife made out with me. Me and her friend were pretty fucked up on bars. It's never caused any problems with me and my wife. The friend thought she blew me though, which we found out just recently. We laughed about it.
I guess it really depends on the trust in the relationship. She knows I'm not going to start chasing down her best friend behind her back trying to get more out of it or anything. So I guess it doesn't really matter.
The most paranoid person in that scenario was me. The friend and her BF had just broken up a few days prior and she hadn't moved out yet. It was in their apartment, in their bed while he was there. Him and all his friends were busy playing Halo though. But yeah I kept imagining him busting in on us. He didn't really like weed and she used that as the excuse for why we were in there.
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: Shroomslip]
#21681077 - 05/14/15 10:31 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I have never had a 3 some with a relationship partner let alone a wife. But from my experience it gets very weird, very quick.
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: Moonshoe]
#21681197 - 05/14/15 11:04 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Moonshoe said: I would potentially be into MFM if she was I guess, maybe. I don't think she is though, unless It was like a hot bisexual guy who I could also fuck but thats a tall order
See, I would be down with MFM if it were the right guy but my wife wouldn't. DP seems super fucking hot, and I wouldn't mind getting pounded while I screwed her. However, she's more conservative than I am sexually and the whole other man thing just doesn't appeal to her.
She had a 3way worked out with a lady friend of hers a while back but her friend ended up having some medical issues then getting a serious boyfriend in the interim so it fizzled out.
Then another friend of hers who is super dykey heard we were open to that sort of thing and announced that she just wanted fuck my wife and I could watch or whatever and I was like... yeah OK, I'll pass on that.
Oh well. 3way is probably not in the cards for me. It's hard to arrange one where there's no fucking drama and all 3 people equally want to fuck both of the other two people. It seems like it's only going to work if everybody is into the whole thing, rather than two people fucking with a third wheel or whatever.
The way I see it, if she finds a chick she wants to fuck with me she knows I'm down, but she has to want it and not be doing it just because she wants to please me. Maybe the perfect 3way will drop from the heavens someday, otherwise, honestly, I'd rather just fucking roll or candy-flip with my wife and merge into one sexy universal consciousness with the love of my life.
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: P.Zappatecorum]
#21681217 - 05/14/15 11:11 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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MMF is bi possible, MFM means no touchy touchy.
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The way I see it, if she finds a chick she wants to fuck with me she knows I'm down, but she has to want it and not be doing it just because she wants to please me. Maybe the perfect 3way will drop from the heavens someday, otherwise, honestly, I'd rather just fucking roll or candy-flip with my wife and merge into one sexy universal consciousness with the love of my life.

Yea, I'm in the same boat, I kinda had some fun a little while ago - she's cool with; until I told her, then she made a bunch of bad energy, then I was infected by it, go to this other persons house; luckily they just threw me down and impaled their face on my cock, melted my jitters away perfectly. Bitches are gonna bitch. No I love her, I just laugh at monogamy - its all so silly.
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Re: Threesomes with your wife and other women? [Re: RobZombie68]
#21681560 - 05/15/15 01:57 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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RobZombie68 said: Done it many times over the years, gotta separate sex from love and just view it as having fun,,, sex is fun!
Hell we have swapped with other couples, just because it happened, I don't trip, she don't trip, all good...
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