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OfflineBassfreak
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idk what I should do
    #21664640 - 05/11/15 10:02 AM (9 years, 9 days ago)

ok so theres this chick ive known for a couple years, and shes so fuckin cool. shes like my perfect girl. shes hot, petite, likes allll the same music as me, loves going out to shows and festivals, and on top of that shes just a really cool down to earth girl. me and her see a lot of things like the same way and we always agree with eachother, like on the real, not just to be nice

so i met this girl thru this other kid who i met before her, she was his gf. met him at a show 2 years ago and were pretty good friends now, im just as good of friends with him as i am with her


so the other day me and this girl are talkin about festivals and our plans for them and when our convo was over she said "oh yeah, me and ____ broke up, i just had to tell someone". she didnt tell anyone else at all, like just me. i dont even think our other friends really know. im not gonna lie, ive always had a little crush on her but i never woulda ever done anything with her cuz like her bf is my friend too

but now that theyre broken up its like damn, i wanna be with this chick so bad. and on top of that i think she likes me too, just cuz all the shit i said in the first paragraph. we really get along well

so we went to a show the other night and all 3 of us were there and chillin (thriftworks and heyoka and god damn, that show was soooooo much fun). at first you couldnt really tell they were even broken up but they were a little weird around eachother. then for a huge portion of the show she was chillin with basically just me and idk, makes me believe shes more into me

then i didnt even ask and she just started talkin about how they broke up and said they dont want this to ruin our red rocks trip. like shes not gonna just say that shit to anyone ya know? then she told me a couple other things i never knew about, pretty private shit

idk what to do cuz i think she likes me more than her ex and i honestly just think me and her fuse a little better together than her and her ex. and neither of them really seem that depressed about it. and from what she was telling me, it sounds like it was her that kinda broke it off with him. lol i just dont know what to do cuz i think we like eachother but its like just such a fucked up situation and i dont wanna lose a friend. i know those 2 have had issues in the past as well

and on top of that were all going out to CO in a few weeks for bassnectar and hoooopefully shit doesnt get too weird. like id love to cuddle up with her at night but idk if thats gonna be possible lol cuz it could get super awkward and we all want the weekend to be nothing but good vibes

like ugh idk what to do


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Re: idk what I should do [Re: Bassfreak] * 3
    #21664657 - 05/11/15 10:08 AM (9 years, 9 days ago)

LOL not going to comment. But it's like an amusing post you made there, like. Cuz that's what it is like.

Good luck with the whole situation.

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Re: idk what I should do [Re: koraks] * 1
    #21664786 - 05/11/15 11:04 AM (9 years, 9 days ago)

Lol. I remember you making a post about how it was totally uncool for guys to bring their GFs to shows because they always ruin it and now you are acting like a Justin bieber fangirl.


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Re: idk what I should do [Re: koods]
    #21664837 - 05/11/15 11:17 AM (9 years, 9 days ago)

lol i knew i shuda done this anon

i mean yeah typically i agree, but some chicks can hang, most cant. ive known this girl for 2 years and she def can

like this girl knows just about as much music as i do and in this scene, thats pretty rare


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Re: idk what I should do [Re: Bassfreak]
    #21664993 - 05/11/15 11:56 AM (9 years, 9 days ago)

Look, it's really pretty simple. Either you start dating this girl and yes, that may hurt your friend. Or you don't want your friend to be hurt and therefore you don't date the girl. It's one of those choices you'll have to make in life and nobody can tell you which option is best, neither can someone give you the magic biker in which everybody is happy right from the start.

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Re: idk what I should do [Re: Bassfreak]
    #21665006 - 05/11/15 11:58 AM (9 years, 9 days ago)

My advice would be : if you consider this other guy a good friend, I would chill a while. Enjoy hanging with her and try to keep it cool. Eventually, you're going to have to approach your friend about it and tell him the situation. This is a sticky one for sure and can go sour if you don't handle it properly. Be careful too because she could be with you and possibly go right back to him. If you two are into each other he is gonna notice cause stuff like that is hard to hide. Be careful of girls who want to jump from one relationship to another too...


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Re: idk what I should do [Re: lillFish]
    #21665040 - 05/11/15 12:07 PM (9 years, 9 days ago)

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My advice would be : if you consider this other guy a good friend, I would chill a while. Enjoy hanging with her and try to keep it cool. Eventually, you're going to have to approach your friend about it and tell him the situation. This is a sticky one for sure and can go sour if you don't handle it properly. Be careful too because she could be with you and possibly go right back to him. If you two are into each other he is gonna notice cause stuff like that is hard to hide. Be careful of girls who want to jump from one relationship to another too...





yeah i was def planning on treading really lightly and giving her plenty of time. like i dont wanna be her rebound either, i actually really like this chick and i want her head to be clear when/if we ever get together

with this red rocks trip tho, shit could get real weird lol. im just gonna be super chill about it that weekend. i mean im gonns flirt with her a little bit but nothing too obvious. i mean the real plan for that weekend is to see bassnectar and trip my fuckin balls off lol. but like if shes on my dick the whole weekend and following me around its gonna be hard to say no

but yeah this is kinda a hard decision. been in a semi similiar situation before and i chose the girl lol


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Re: idk what I should do [Re: Bassfreak]
    #21665106 - 05/11/15 12:22 PM (9 years, 9 days ago)

Yea I have been in situations where I did the right thing and it backfired because the person was a complete asshole. It made me wish I had never said a thing. I hope it goes well though. I wouldn't say anything till after the trip is over. Just keep it to yourself and eventually let him know if he doesn't figure it out. He may have some things to say about her that you aren't yet aware of. G/L man!


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Re: idk what I should do [Re: lillFish]
    #21665123 - 05/11/15 12:24 PM (9 years, 9 days ago)

haha yeah im gonna need it


im just gonna rage red rocks the way i normally would, be chill, and if something happens then it happens

i mean at the show on friday she was def being a little closer to me than usual


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Re: idk what I should do [Re: koods]
    #21665212 - 05/11/15 12:41 PM (9 years, 9 days ago)

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Lol. I remember you making a post about how it was totally uncool for guys to bring their GFs to shows because they always ruin it and now you are acting like a Justin bieber fangirl.



I was also initially thinking about how this dude is a total asshole to people who are trying to be emotional or whatever, I'm glad I wasn't the only one who noticed haha



Waiting for them to figure their shit out is def a good plan, if you fuck her at this show its gonna get really complicated really fast.

But I also don't buy into that Bro Rules bullshit, all is fair in love and war. It could get all fucked up for you, though, if you don't play it right

Also, hanging out with an ex is retarded and I recommend nobody do it ever for about a million reasons. I don't understand where this idea that you are supposed to be cool with all of your ex's came from. What ever happened to white-hot hatred?!


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Re: idk what I should do [Re: bloodsheen]
    #21665272 - 05/11/15 12:54 PM (9 years, 9 days ago)

ha ive honestly never really been cool with either of my exes. i havent talked to either of them in a long ass time and probly never will ever again unless we randomly see eachother somewhere


these 2 are only hanging out cuz we planned this trip like 3 months ago. neither of them wants the break up to ruin a dope vacation so F it

its gonna be real weird for the 2 of them cuz they booked a hotel room for the whole week before we get there too, plane tix booked and same with hotel and everything


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Re: idk what I should do [Re: Bassfreak]
    #21668015 - 05/12/15 12:05 AM (9 years, 8 days ago)

Dude I love heyoka

anyway, I think you should go for it but you always always have to give them time. They just broke up... She's going through a lot of emotional processing right now and she needs you there as her very close friend to give her some stability and grounding. She needs you bro! Be the best you you can be for her. Give her some time and then once their breakup has started to settle you can make your move. If you go for it now you really risk some emotional confusion and drama.

On the other hand, if you're out there after a show and she's cuddling up on you don't hold back from being that man you want to be for her. good luck!


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Re: idk what I should do [Re: Black_Sunset]
    #21668518 - 05/12/15 04:08 AM (9 years, 8 days ago)

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Dude I love heyoka

anyway, I think you should go for it but you always always have to give them time. They just broke up... She's going through a lot of emotional processing right now and she needs you there as her very close friend to give her some stability and grounding. She needs you bro! Be the best you you can be for her. Give her some time and then once their breakup has started to settle you can make your move. If you go for it now you really risk some emotional confusion and drama.

On the other hand, if you're out there after a show and she's cuddling up on you don't hold back from being that man you want to be for her. good luck!





haha i see a lot of music and heyoka/andreilien was legit some of the best shit ive seen this whole year. dudes a fuckin alien

but yeah i plan on giving it a bit of time for sure


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Re: idk what I should do [Re: Bassfreak]
    #21669451 - 05/12/15 11:03 AM (9 years, 8 days ago)

Dude....you can't stop love....it's like Brady and Belichek...it'll happen when it happens.

My advice to you is to just play it by ear....go with the flow. You will know when the feelings get to that point where nothing else matters....and, if your friend is a real friend....he will understand. Fuck playing stupid little games....life is too short Bass. My guess is that you are going to have the most amazing time at Red Rocks than you have ever had in your life.:sunny::peace:


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Re: idk what I should do [Re: Thayendanegea]
    #21669483 - 05/12/15 11:15 AM (9 years, 8 days ago)

haha well i went last year but this year its 3'days instead of 2 (nectars first 3 day run in any city ever) but yeah its gonna be dope as fuck

that trip isnt about gettin laid or getting this girl or anything, its really just about raging bassnectar and eating stupid amounts of L lol

but getting her would be pretty sweet but if it doesnt happen then whatever


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Re: idk what I should do [Re: Bassfreak]
    #21669859 - 05/12/15 12:51 PM (9 years, 8 days ago)

I know...like I said...just play the hand when it's dealt....If she's coming on to you and you're into her...it could be beautiful. Don't stop the train to suit your friend. It's over with them...not like they are married and have kids.:shrug:


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    #21669884 - 05/12/15 12:57 PM (9 years, 8 days ago)

haha very true


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Re: idk what I should do [Re: Bassfreak]
    #21672835 - 05/13/15 12:07 AM (9 years, 7 days ago)

I think you're good to go, dude :thumbup:


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Re: idk what I should do [Re: Black_Sunset]
    #21673976 - 05/13/15 09:40 AM (9 years, 7 days ago)

Hopefully, she's a Denver Broncos fan:wink:


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    #21673989 - 05/13/15 09:45 AM (9 years, 7 days ago)

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Hopefully, she's a Denver Broncos fan;)





dude im so wearing my pats jersey on my trip to denver later this month. almost wish it was a brady jersey now

fuck the haters who wanna pretend any of this shit is real. brady is the goat


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