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Anonymous #1

dunno what to do
    #21634817 - 05/04/15 01:30 PM (9 years, 16 days ago)

so a friend of mine just stopped talking to me after some argument we had, wont bother to say anything to me now. i don't understand at all, but it's not the first time this has ever happened, in fact it's happened quite a bit. people whom i consider close to me just drop out of my life on purpose, without giving any reasoning.

i feel like if you're friends with someone, arguments are gonna happen, and if you're going to sever someone from your life, you should at least have some decency to say what your problem was in the first place. instead some of my other friends who are now close with this person likely know, and it's like a cancer that grows and grows throughout your circle of friends. people always talking and talking but never saying to you directly what their faults with you are.

i don't really know what to do anymore. i've kind of stopped going places where my friends where at least online and what not, but most if not the vast majority of my friendships aren't really friendships but rather shallow aqcuaintances, i dont really have anyone that would get me in a pinch or anything i don't think.

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Anonymous #2

Re: dunno what to do [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21634958 - 05/04/15 01:57 PM (9 years, 16 days ago)

this has happened to me a lot and ime their is nothing you can do about it

infact I was off the boards for a while and just came back on a few months ago and hit up a friend who I turned onto this site and psychedelics/drugs in general back in high school via a :pm: since he was no longer answering my txts and he responded pretending not to know me.

some people are just wack like that.

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Anonymous #3

Re: dunno what to do [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21635232 - 05/04/15 03:06 PM (9 years, 16 days ago)

Perhaps look at yourself and ask why people would treat you this way? I have really only ever hung with a few select people. Of the three/four people who I spent most of my young adult life with, I only ever talk to one anymore. One is in another country now and I'd like to reconnect with him on some level when he returns to the states. One was mostly just my drug dealer and I suspected him of having something to do with burglarizing my apartment so I pretty much cut him out after that. And the fourth is now my ex-wife and she won't have anything to do with me, even going so far as to try and ignore me the last time I saw her in person at a music festival.

I am fortunate to have a small group of friends that hang around IRC semi-regularly so that is where 98% of my socializing occurs, with the other 2% happening at work or VIA text messages. Its not much of a life as far as real life interactivity is concerned, but my work schedule doesn't allow much time for that anyway.

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Anonymous #1 said:
so a friend of mine just stopped talking to me after some argument we had, wont bother to say anything to me now. i don't understand at all, but it's not the first time this has ever happened, in fact it's happened quite a bit. people whom i consider close to me just drop out of my life on purpose, without giving any reasoning.

i feel like if you're friends with someone, arguments are gonna happen...




You might really want to reconsider that last statement. Arguments are not the same as disagreements. Disagreements happen. Friends move on from them when they occur. Arguments are more serious and I would stop putting myself around people I argued with regularly.

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Anonymous #1

Re: dunno what to do [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #21640861 - 05/05/15 06:44 PM (9 years, 15 days ago)

i never argued with this person regularly, just the one time. that also doesn't justify not giving them reason, i'm typically upfront with how i feel and i expect it back. i've been known to cut people from social media before however and i usually dont think twice when i do it often out of sheer frustration with the person or situation, i guess that is kind of hippocritical, but it's usually when i either feel negativity from the other person. i often over think things.

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