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Redwood

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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: NotTheDevil] 3
#21529040 - 04/10/15 03:16 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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It's not like that's a minor detail. After being together years it should have come up somewhere in conversation that you were a male. I think you'd really have to try to hide that. And what if their partner wants to be with a woman or wants children? You just wasted their time.
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: TopPmz] 1
#21529045 - 04/10/15 03:17 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Lol its not 'pc nonesense. It's the DEFINITION OF THE MOTHER FUCKING WORDS
'pc nonsense' would be saying that we HAVE to treat transgendered people as whatever gender they want, or that we should not feel icky about dating one.
I sure as hell wouldn't date an 'ex man' and in my eyes there's a huge difference between a true-born-woman and someone who aspires to be a woman, but was born with a dick.
You're misusing the words. I personally think gender is stupid and near meaningless now, so we should merely pay attention to biological sex, since gender means jack shit anyhow or soon will
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: Redwood] 1
#21529048 - 04/10/15 03:17 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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wouldn't say it was wasted time, more like an awesome experience ended abruptly by trnshrt
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: Sheekle]
#21529059 - 04/10/15 03:21 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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I hope you feel the pain of accidently fucking a man ... Unless that's what your into... If that's the case then that would explain a lot about you
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: Shroom Kitty] 1
#21529066 - 04/10/15 03:22 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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i wouldn't consider a post-op transgendered person a "man" but whatever
what exactly would me fucking a dude explain about me?
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: Redwood] 1
#21529076 - 04/10/15 03:25 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Redwood said: It's not like that's a minor detail. After being together years it should have come up somewhere in conversation that you were a male. I think you'd really have to try to hide that. And what if their partner wants to be with a woman or wants children? You just wasted their time.
Why would it. "That was a good movie, BTW I was once a man." If people don't act all weird about it and are comfortable with who they are then it would never naturally just come up. Usually if someone wants children they will have discussed it already at some point and the person might simply say they can't have kids. What if someone who was dating someone who they didn't know was infertile wanted kids? Would their relationship have been a "waste of time"? And wants to be with a woman? Wow... I thought love conquered all.
Man
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: Shroom Kitty] 1
#21529079 - 04/10/15 03:25 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Ah yes, just tell me how horrible it was for you to fuck all the guys you've fucked.
I bet it was so horrible to get your dick pleasured by another man, you must be so traumatized that you can't even get hard anymore. You should probably go to the government and tell them all about it so you can get on disability
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: Sheekle]
#21529090 - 04/10/15 03:27 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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So that's what your into? Fucking men? If that's your thing then that's your thing. But you have to realize that some people wouldn't consider that normal. I bet that woman lying about not being able to get pregnant is ok to huh
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: Uzziel]
#21529098 - 04/10/15 03:29 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Lol I'm merely trying to prove a point that it's a big deal to be lied to like that
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: Shroom Kitty] 1
#21529101 - 04/10/15 03:29 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Who gives a shit what 'some people' consider normal.
But ya to me that would be a huge deal, to lie about your original gender...
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: Shroom Kitty]
#21529108 - 04/10/15 03:31 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Shroom Kitty said: Lol I'm merely trying to prove a point that it's a big deal to be lied to like that
Except there was no fucking lie in the first place...
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: NotTheDevil] 1
#21529111 - 04/10/15 03:32 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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NotTheDevil said:
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Redwood said: It's not like that's a minor detail. After being together years it should have come up somewhere in conversation that you were a male. I think you'd really have to try to hide that. And what if their partner wants to be with a woman or wants children? You just wasted their time.
Why would it. "That was a good movie, BTW I was once a man." If people don't act all weird about it and are comfortable with who they are then it would never naturally just come up. Usually if someone wants children they will have discussed it already at some point and the person might simply say they can't have kids. What if someone who was dating someone who they didn't know was infertile wanted kids? Would their relationship have been a "waste of time"? And wants to be with a woman? Wow... I thought love conquered all.
Man
"I love you"
Tran
I love you to"
Man
"I hear you once had a penis. We're done, our relationship was a waste of time."
Damn.
If you had been together for years it's likely you would meet their family and everything. Becoming a "female" is a huge life change, why wouldn't it come up? You generally talk to people about your childhood and your life, it would be unnatural to not say anything about it.
So you're bisexual? You wouldn't mind dating a man?
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: Shroom Kitty] 1
#21529118 - 04/10/15 03:35 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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I don't think you're proving a point. I think you're just trying to make a thread to bash people in, really. If you couldn't tell they were a man from day one, you probably have some issues too.
I can understand why someone wouldn't point it out, especially if they had been rejected many many times for telling people, only to be turned down because they were a "man" before. Yet for a "long time" you never knew. You're probably just as insecure as that person, deep down. I have a feeling maybe you're using this thread to come out of the closet, perhaps you want to turn into a female? This might be a coming of age, it's hard to tell. You seem very young to be fantasizing about these ideas.
It isn't like they forced you to date them and if you had sex with them and enjoyed it, what does that say about you?
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: Shroom Kitty]
#21529123 - 04/10/15 03:36 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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I wouldn't be in this situation.
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: Shroom Kitty] 1
#21529131 - 04/10/15 03:38 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Shroom Kitty said: So that's what your into? Fucking men? If that's your thing then that's your thing. But you have to realize that some people wouldn't consider that normal. I bet that woman lying about not being able to get pregnant is ok to huh
you don't think gayness is "normal"?
no, i don't think it's ok for secret transgenders to lie about being unable to get pregnant
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: Redwood]
#21529137 - 04/10/15 03:40 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Redwood said:
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NotTheDevil said:
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Redwood said: It's not like that's a minor detail. After being together years it should have come up somewhere in conversation that you were a male. I think you'd really have to try to hide that. And what if their partner wants to be with a woman or wants children? You just wasted their time.
Why would it. "That was a good movie, BTW I was once a man." If people don't act all weird about it and are comfortable with who they are then it would never naturally just come up. Usually if someone wants children they will have discussed it already at some point and the person might simply say they can't have kids. What if someone who was dating someone who they didn't know was infertile wanted kids? Would their relationship have been a "waste of time"? And wants to be with a woman? Wow... I thought love conquered all.
Man
"I love you"
Tran
I love you to"
Man
"I hear you once had a penis. We're done, our relationship was a waste of time."
Damn.
If you had been together for years it's likely you would meet their family and everything. Becoming a "female" is a huge life change, why wouldn't it come up? You generally talk to people about your childhood and your life, it would be unnatural to not say anything about it.
So you're bisexual? You wouldn't mind dating a man?
To some people (myself included) gender is no big deal. For a tran (with an accepting family) it just isn't that huge a deal. They can still talk about they're life, childhood, and personality without having to announce what gender they were during those times. It's not like people just sit around talking like:
(the tran is robin)
Dad: (during baseball or whatever) Hey Robin remember you used to play baseball?
Robin: "Ha, yeah I was pretty good"
Guy: "They let you on the team?"
Dad: "She used to be a boy then"
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: Shroom Kitty] 1
#21529150 - 04/10/15 03:45 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Shroom Kitty said: So that's what your into? Fucking men? If that's your thing then that's your thing. But you have to realize that some people wouldn't consider that normal. I bet that woman lying about not being able to get pregnant is ok to huh
Wow, you know what? You act like you are either trolling or like you are one of the stupidest bigots I've seen this week.
"It's not normal"

"I bet you think intentionally ruining lives is ok because you think not announcing your gender is ok"
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: Sheekle]
#21529159 - 04/10/15 03:47 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Sheekle said:
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Shroom Kitty said: So that's what your into? Fucking men? If that's your thing then that's your thing. But you have to realize that some people wouldn't consider that normal. I bet that woman lying about not being able to get pregnant is ok to huh
you don't think gayness is "normal"?
no, i don't think it's ok for secret transgenders to lie about being unable to get pregnant
In all respect as possible your clueless hahah
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: NotTheDevil]
#21529184 - 04/10/15 03:54 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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NotTheDevil said:
To some people (myself included) gender is no big deal. For a tran (with an accepting family) it just isn't that huge a deal. They can still talk about they're life, childhood, and personality without having to announce what gender they were during those times. It's not like people just sit around talking like:
(the tran is robin)
Dad: (during baseball or whatever) Hey Robin remember you used to play baseball?
Robin: "Ha, yeah I was pretty good"
Guy: "They let you on the team?"
Dad: "She used to be a boy then"
To me it is important. I'm not attracted to women and I don't want to be with one. I'm not attracted to one and could not fall in love with one. It takes more than love for your relationship to work, it also takes trust. How could you trust someone who kept such a big secret from you?
If you're talking about you playing sports it would be pretty strange if it didn't come up. After a certain age you usually start playing sports with people of the same sex.
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Re: Ok If you found this out what would you do? [Re: Ezuma] 2
#21529203 - 04/10/15 04:00 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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NotTheDevil said:
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Shroom Kitty said: Lol I'm merely trying to prove a point that it's a big deal to be lied to like that
Except there was no fucking lie in the first place...
So what if she told you she has AIDS after yrs, rather than that she used yo be a man. Still no lies?
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Ezuma said: Lol its not 'pc nonesense. It's the DEFINITION OF THE MOTHER FUCKING WORDS
'pc nonsense' would be saying that we HAVE to treat transgendered people as whatever gender they want, or that we should not feel icky about dating one.
I sure as hell wouldn't date an 'ex man' and in my eyes there's a huge difference between a true-born-woman and someone who aspires to be a woman, but was born with a dick.
You're misusing the words. I personally think gender is stupid and near meaningless now, so we should merely pay attention to biological sex, since gender means jack shit anyhow or soon will
It totally is PC nonsense. That definition was made specifically to make transgenders feel normal. Wanna change your "gender?" Go for it. Doesn't affect me. But to think it's normal, in any way, is delusional.
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