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rackem



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a friend is claiming she got raped/roofied last night
#21505514 - 04/05/15 09:44 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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guess she went to the hotel bar where she works and ended up in the parking garage where her friend that was coming in to the other shift found her.
she is saying 'oh well gotta move on' 'cant do shit about it' and is severely downplaying the situation imo..
what the fuck do i do about this? or dont do for that matter?
ps ive known this chick for at least 16 years.
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Re: a friend is claiming she got rapped/roofied last night [Re: rackem] 3
#21505517 - 04/05/15 09:45 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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slurp out the semen and bring it to a lav for analysis
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Re: a friend is claiming she got rapped/roofied last night [Re: thelanzii] 7
#21505544 - 04/05/15 09:51 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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If she doesn't want to do anything about it, it is none of your business.
Let her live her life.
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Re: a friend is claiming she got rapped/roofied last night [Re: thelanzii]
#21505547 - 04/05/15 09:52 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Did she just get shit faced drunk or what? What makes you think she was roofied or raped?
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Re: a friend is claiming she got rapped/roofied last night [Re: rackem] 3
#21505566 - 04/05/15 09:59 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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She probably just got shit faced. I highly doubt she was roofied.
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Re: a friend is claiming she got rapped/roofied last night [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21505571 - 04/05/15 10:00 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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shes a single mom. her idea of getting wasted is 2 cocktails and thats with me, like i said ive known her half of my life.
maybe she did have a bad day and decided to slam them and fuck a random she usually tells me about the random pieces of ass though.
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Re: a friend is claiming she got rapped/roofied last night [Re: rackem] 10
#21505586 - 04/05/15 10:04 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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No need to be captain save a hoe dude. If the chick can just move then so should you. And honestly it just sounds like she's full of shit
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Re: a friend is claiming she got raped/roofied last night [Re: rackem] 1
#21505595 - 04/05/15 10:06 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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What can you do about it? Its her life let her decide.
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Re: a friend is claiming she got rapped/roofied last night [Re: rackem]
#21505603 - 04/05/15 10:08 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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rackem said: shes a single mom. her idea of getting wasted is 2 cocktails and thats with me, like i said ive known her half of my life.
maybe she did have a bad day and decided to slam them and fuck a random she usually tells me about the random pieces of ass though.
Well I say that because generally someone who was actually drugged and raped isn't just gonna be like "oh well". I mean they don't all go straight to the cops, but those who don't, generally don't tell anyone either. She seems very nonchalant about it. Seems more likely she just got hammered and someone took advantage of her.
Even if that's not the case, you can't press charges for her. If she doesn't wanna get the cops involved herself, not much you can do. You can call the cops and they can try and get her to press charges, but unless she wants to, they can't really do anything.
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Re: a friend is claiming she got rapped/roofied last night [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy] 1
#21505605 - 04/05/15 10:08 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Yea dude I'm calling BS. Sounds like she pounded a few drinks, blacked the fuck out and passed out in the parking lot. And to not look fucking stupid she said someone roofied her.
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Re: a friend is claiming she got rapped/roofied last night [Re: rackem]
#21505620 - 04/05/15 10:12 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Just keep your distance but be there for her I guess is what I'd do.
But it's her life and she's a fully functioning adult. Don't press the issue.
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Re: a friend is claiming she got rapped/roofied last night [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#21505679 - 04/05/15 10:25 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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eh im not trying to save any hoe dude. ive seen first hand what happens to women after they get raped.
it happened to my ex, and i couldnt deal with it then, now someone who i have known way longer tells me this shit.
i dunno..
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Re: a friend is claiming she got rapped/roofied last night [Re: Rebelutionsssss] 4
#21505681 - 04/05/15 10:25 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Rebelutionsssss said: Yea dude I'm calling BS. Sounds like she pounded a few drinks, blacked the fuck out and passed out in the parking lot. And to not look fucking stupid she said someone roofied her.
Yup! Classic female cop out. Whenever they do something they regret they either cry rape or roofied
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Re: a friend is claiming she got rapped/roofied last night [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy] 1
#21505740 - 04/05/15 10:42 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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People get roofied more often than you would think.
If she only had a couple drinks and blacked out like that, then she most likely did get drugged.
There are some super shady fucks out there.
And OP, if you have known her for 16 years, then you should be able to judge whether or not she would lie to you about something like that. Personally, I would think she's probably telling the truth.
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Re: a friend is claiming she got rapped/roofied last night [Re: chopstick]
#21505755 - 04/05/15 10:45 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Are we talking like the Hilton or a motel 8 in Compton
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Re: a friend is claiming she got raped/roofied last night [Re: rackem]
#21505762 - 04/05/15 10:46 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Maybe something did happen, sometimes people that find themselves in rape situations have a "no worries, it's all good" attitude for a bit, but later on the shit hits the fan and they feel like crap about it.
Maybe you're just being a nice guy, some ladies walk all over nice guys in the nicest ways possible, sucks that's just the way it is sometimes.
Maybe she wants your attention.
I have no fucking clue, but if she says she's cool then I wouldn't lose sleep over it, just keep it in the back of your mind so that if you observer any abnormal behavior you MIGHT know what's going on. If you have known her for as long as you say, then observing abnormal behavior should not be hard for you.
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Re: a friend is claiming she got rapped/roofied last night [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21505778 - 04/05/15 10:53 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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we are talking a little more classy than that. well, its def not in compton, one of the hotels on the strip in vegas.
i expect 'rape' stories from young chicks craving attention but from a 31 single mom, dont think the call for attention really applies here. although i could be wrong
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Re: a friend is claiming she got rapped/roofied last night [Re: rackem]
#21505799 - 04/05/15 10:59 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Well if its Vegas its definitely more possible, especially on the strip. Is she sure she got raped? Or does she just not remember anything?
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Re: a friend is claiming she got rapped/roofied last night [Re: rackem]
#21505800 - 04/05/15 10:59 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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There are people who intentionally target women in this manner and then justify it with "Well She didn't say No." Yeah because she was passed out from the drug they gave her.
A hotel in Vegas with lots of random people coming and going is definitely a place where this type of thing could occur.
It's a dark world out there. All you can do is try to protect your own and be there for the people who get hurt. LE ain't gonna do shit if even if she went to the cops.
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Re: a friend is claiming she got raped/roofied last night [Re: Lucis]
#21505802 - 04/05/15 11:01 AM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Fennario said: Maybe something did happen, sometimes people that find themselves in rape situations have a "no worries, it's all good" attitude for a bit, but later on the shit hits the fan and they feel like crap about it.
People do this with alot of serious things and I don't see why it's so hard to believe. I did this when my dog died. A family friend did this when his mom died. Sometimes shit doesn't really hit you until down the road.
And she might honestly not care much right now because she doesn't remember much.
OP, all I can recommend is to keep being her friend and keep checking on her every so often. Making sure she's emotionally okay as time goes by. Her memories could get clearer as well...
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