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Writing a note to a girl
    #21403273 - 03/13/15 05:45 PM (9 years, 2 months ago)

I work with a girl and caught feelings for her and I'm pretty sure she has them for me too.  She just got a new job and her last day is next Friday.  I feel like I don't want her out of my life but I don't want her only as a friend either.  I either want it all or I want to forget about her and never see her again.

We both have talked in the past about not caring about being in relationships and such but I want to be in a relationship with her.  I'm figuring how to play this here.  I originally thought ask her for drinks and just get to seeing where she stands with this thought.  I don't want to put her in a tough situation tho cause we are good friends and I would rather save both our faces if possible.

This is perhaps where the note would come in.  Im thinking maybe a handwritten note and write everything down by exactly how I feel/think and let her know I want a life partner and she potentially fits the mold, but I can't be just friends.  I have many goals and I would like her to join me in attaining those goals.  That's a brief synopsis.  It would be very playful but also serious and I would leave the ball in her court as to the next move. 

In my head this seems potentially romantic but also potentially cowardly so I am looking for feedback.

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Re: Writing a note to a girl [Re: Anonymous #1] * 1
    #21403310 - 03/13/15 05:53 PM (9 years, 2 months ago)

"Dear Chick,

I see a lot of potential for you to be my life partner. It's all or nothing, we can't just be friends. If you don't want to be my life partner, then I never want to see you again. I want you to help me complete goals in life. :blah::blah::blah:

From/Love

Me"


No, that's strange


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Re: Writing a note to a girl [Re: Sheekle]
    #21403317 - 03/13/15 05:55 PM (9 years, 2 months ago)

Oh nvm  I just read that you said it would be playful and so probably less weird as fuck.

Umm,

I dunno do what u want.


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Re: Writing a note to a girl [Re: Sheekle]
    #21403487 - 03/13/15 06:56 PM (9 years, 2 months ago)

If you wanna fuck her then dont write a note. You'll look like a pussy


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Re: Writing a note to a girl [Re: FruitOfLife]
    #21403654 - 03/13/15 07:45 PM (9 years, 2 months ago)

Notes are ok if youe werent already friends. Also since you said twice you dont want to just be friends clearly you mean it. If shes gonna be gone soon just sack up and ask her on a date. I went thru hell once trying to be friends with a girl I was in love with and it was a retarded waste of time. Better off all or nothing


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Re: Writing a note to a girl [Re: bloodsheen]
    #21403688 - 03/13/15 07:54 PM (9 years, 2 months ago)

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bloodsheen said:
Notes are ok if youe werent already friends.



Uhh....... pretty sure getting a note by someone u hardly ever talk to would be pretty fuckin weird man :lol:


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Re: Writing a note to a girl [Re: Sheekle]
    #21403705 - 03/13/15 08:00 PM (9 years, 2 months ago)

I would say notes are ONLY ok if you had already been friends, but as far as using a note to ask someone out I would think it was weird. Cute, but mostly weird.


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Re: Writing a note to a girl [Re: Euphie]
    #21403716 - 03/13/15 08:04 PM (9 years, 2 months ago)

If you were friends youd have her number or hang out on occasion. Kinda odd to use a note when you could ask a better way


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Re: Writing a note to a girl [Re: bloodsheen]
    #21403732 - 03/13/15 08:11 PM (9 years, 2 months ago)

Yeah exactly asking out is weird, but notes to friends aside from that is fun.


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Re: Writing a note to a girl [Re: Euphie]
    #21404071 - 03/13/15 09:19 PM (9 years, 2 months ago)

I have her number...The note is moreso a parting gift for leaving the job.  It would be goofy with some serious undertones in a situation that's mostly melancholy.  Whenever other managers leave (always been girls) everyone cries and hugs n shit and I expect this to be the same.  The note seems like a fun way to say bye but not really.  I'm gonna pursue with or without the note lol I just think it might be a nice maneuver in a weird way before I make the real play. :shrug:

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Re: Writing a note to a girl [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21404710 - 03/14/15 01:23 AM (9 years, 2 months ago)

I wouldn't. Just leave it open man, I think it would be her to look for you and stuff while you play it cool. You can sound corny, and that would damage you in her view.

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Re: Writing a note to a girl [Re: happydegenerate]
    #21404747 - 03/14/15 01:55 AM (9 years, 2 months ago)

i bid,,,  those thoughts of all that jazz you want to speak of, ya' know, the seriousness that this chick can be to ya', is just that, jazz.  let that music be played in the back ground to what is really happening when you two are there together.  keep it like a secret.  i bid, girls really like to be in the moment of what is happening now and then, putting all that wrap on this girl going to put weight on her mind that may overlay her vision of the now causing a separation from the awesome moment you and her to share.  if she accepts a date with you. 

ya' know what i mean, jelly bean?


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Re: Writing a note to a girl [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21409521 - 03/15/15 12:31 AM (9 years, 2 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
Im thinking maybe a handwritten note and write everything down by exactly how I feel/think and let her know I want a life partner and she potentially fits the mold.





Writing notes that you like someone is cute when a 12 year old girl does it. Other than that it's weird.

Coming off really strong on a girl and having a relationship as your first thing in mind scares them off really quickly. You don't 'tell' a girl you like her, you show you like her by flirting with her. It's way more fun and sexy that way.

Here's what you need to do
Invite her out for drinks after work one of these days. It's casual and cool right, just some co-workers going out for drinks. Start off with light flirting. Tease her and joke with her, throw her some handsome smiles, start with light casual touching and slowly move towards more intimate touching. Have fun and make moves bro.

Okay now super serious time. You never need to ask a girl for a relationship. All you need to focus on is hanging out, having fun, and hooking up. IME as long as you're doing those things it's only a matter of time before she asks you for a relationship.

Edited by gref (03/15/15 12:52 AM)

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