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Moonshoe
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Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife?
#21338635 - 02/27/15 02:03 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife?
Do you regret it? Whats the story?
Share your cheating stories here or your opinions on cheating if you feel like it.
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: Moonshoe]
#21338657 - 02/27/15 02:09 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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I never cheated but I was cheated on
She went to a party got drunk and fucked this guy she secretly had a thing for
That was the beginning of the downward spiral which ultimately ended our relationship
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#21338682 - 02/27/15 02:16 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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How much longer did you date after she cheated on you?
Did she admit it or how did you find out?
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#21338698 - 02/27/15 02:18 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Nah. I'm in a relationship because I want to be. If I wanted to seriously cheat I'd end the relationship and go back to single romping days.
For me, I don't have the desire to cheat. Hell yeah I like to look, and I still talk to other girls, but nothing that would look uncomfortable if my GF saw it.
I believe people cheat because needs aren't being met. Communication is huge!
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: Moonshoe]
#21338718 - 02/27/15 02:23 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Moonshoe said: How much longer did you date after she cheated on you?
Did she admit it or how did you find out?
Roughly 6 months
And no I found out about it from another female friend when I confronted her about it she absolutely refused to admit it which kinda threw me off then after school I contacted the guy himself and asked him he said yes and sent me a picture of her in her panties and a tight revealing shirt hanging out with he and 3 other guys I personally knew
I can still remember the pure unadulterated rage I felt upon seeing that picture
I was absolutely devastated for quite a while she meant the world to me and at that moment my world fell apart
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#21338724 - 02/27/15 02:24 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Sorry to hear that 
Have you gotten over it or is it still fucking with you?
What did she do when you showed her the picture?
How did you finally decide to break it off?
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: Moonshoe]
#21338757 - 02/27/15 02:32 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Thank you for the sympathy
And I got over it a long time ago I mean I guess not entirely because I still think about her a lot and I haven't had a serious relationship since we split up
And I didn't need to show her the picture I sent her a text when she was at work telling her that I knew she was full of shit and we were over she proceeded to call me sobbing and begging for forgiveness which after a night of extremely passionate sex I granted to her
After that things were never the same we slowly started drifting apart there's a lot of angles to the story that I don't feel like getting into but ultimately she left me for another good friend of mine they've since gotten married and moved to New Hampshire
But I don't miss her anymore day by day I'm improving myself and becoming a faster stronger and wiser human being I know when the time comes I will find love again until then I stand alone
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: Moonshoe] 3
#21338803 - 02/27/15 02:43 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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No.
I don't tolerate it and would never engage in it. But if, for some crazy reason, I ever had thoughts entertaining it or was in a position where it was a possibility, I'd be damn sure I ended the preexisting relationship immediately, because doing otherwise is completely unacceptable, imo.
Hurting people like that is very messed up.
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: Hellogoodbyedeath] 1
#21338846 - 02/27/15 02:55 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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That it is
One thing I learned from going through that ordeal is to put all your faith in another human being is extremely foolish
Even when the skies are clear and the Sun is shining you must be prepared for the storm
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: Moonshoe]
#21338979 - 02/27/15 03:25 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Never cheated and have never been cheated on. Marriage ended because in the end we were just too different. Plus she went all squirreley after too many ayahuasca trips. Spirit guides told her to end our 10 year relationship. LOL
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No i havent
I just dont get it
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#21338988 - 02/27/15 03:28 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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OhMrJohnson said:
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Moonshoe said: How much longer did you date after she cheated on you?
Did she admit it or how did you find out?
Roughly 6 months
And no I found out about it from another female friend when I confronted her about it she absolutely refused to admit it which kinda threw me off then after school I contacted the guy himself and asked him he said yes and sent me a picture of her in her panties and a tight revealing shirt hanging out with he and 3 other guys I personally knew
I can still remember the pure unadulterated rage I felt upon seeing that picture
I was absolutely devastated for quite a while she meant the world to me and at that moment my world fell apart
Holy shit dude. I'm sorry that happened to you. If my girl did that I might actually kill someone.
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: JohnnieYen]
#21338989 - 02/27/15 03:28 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Never cheated on a significant other. I've unwittingly enabled two girls to cheat on their boyfriends. I wasn't happy about it when I became aware of the circumstances though.
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: JohnnieYen]
#21338993 - 02/27/15 03:29 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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JohnnieYen said: Never cheated and have never been cheated on. Marriage ended because in the end we were just too different. Plus she went all squirreley after too many ayahuasca trips. Spirit guides told her to end our 10 year relationship. LOL
Is there any chance you can do a write-up about that?
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: robbyberto]
#21339014 - 02/27/15 03:35 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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yeah, one day when I have time. I've been putting the pieces together since we broke up and she moved out. Which was 3 weeks before Christmas. We have 2 kids too so I hope it doesn't affect their future Christmases.
TL;DR
She started searching for her true calling about 3 years ago. Started with Feng Shui, to crystals, to psychics, to astrology, to energy healing, to mushrooms, to ayahuasca. Convinced she can communicate with spirits now. I supported and paid for all of it. Did ayahuasca around 5 times in 4 months, after the last one when I asked about her journey she dropped the bomb. Did everything I could to get her back but she moved out and we are going through with a divorce now.
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: JohnnieYen] 3
#21339034 - 02/27/15 03:39 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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JohnnieYen said: yeah, one day when I have time. I've been putting the pieces together since we broke up and she moved out. Which was 3 weeks before Christmas. We have 2 kids too so I hope it doesn't affect their future Christmases.
TL;DR
She started searching for her true calling about 3 years ago. Started with Feng Shui, to crystals, to psychics, to astrology, to energy healing, to mushrooms, to ayahuasca. Convinced she can communicate with spirits now. I supported and paid for all of it. Did ayahuasca around 5 times in 4 months, after the last one when I asked about her journey she dropped the bomb. Did everything I could to get her back but she moved out and we are going through with a divorce now.
Sounds like she has the mentality of a teenage girl who can never make up her mind. Sorry you're dealing with that man
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: JohnnieYen]
#21339035 - 02/27/15 03:39 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Wow that is brutal! Taking an ayahuasca trip together and losing your wife and the mother of your kids... jesus.
How was your trip? Did you get any insights from it?

Keep your head up!
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: JohnnieYen]
#21339046 - 02/27/15 03:41 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm really sorry that happened to you. It sounds like she shouldn't be around kids so maybe it is all for the best. Of course I have only your short paragraph to base my opinion off of. Good luck with everything.
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#21339055 - 02/27/15 03:42 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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OhMrJohnson said: That it is
One thing I learned from going through that ordeal is to put all your faith in another human being is extremely foolish
Even when the skies are clear and the Sun is shining you must be prepared for the storm
Great insight.
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Re: Have you ever cheated on a girlfriend or wife? [Re: Moonshoe] 1
#21339080 - 02/27/15 03:48 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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I didn't trip at all. No insights, just myself telling jokes in my head. I felt kinda drunk especially when walking. I drank the equivalent of the 8 other journeyers. Shaman said I consumed about a half kilo of vine, plus he gave me a superdose of light on my last drink. Still nothing I have a high tolerance for all drugs naturally and I also fasted for 2 days to go in super clean. I'm thinking my body metabolized everything before it could take effect.
I've only done one journey, compared to her 5. I did it to form a deeper connection with her, aya just doesn't really speak to me for some reason. I'd rather smoke DMT
thanks for the concern but I'm in a good place. She still wants to control me and pay for her to live on her own. wants between 1000-1200 a month, LOL fuck that, you left me!
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