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gref
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Attractiveness VS Personality
#21325977 - 02/24/15 11:34 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Guys and girls, how important are the traits of attractiveness and personality to you in a partner? How do they stack up against each other?
For me personality is more important but looks do matter. Attractiveness is like a prerequisite. For example using an attractiveness scale of 1-10:
If a girl has the most amazing personality ever, but she's a 3 in the looks department. I'll never be romantically interested in her ever. The physical attraction has to be there.
However if I had to choose between a girl who's a 6 with an amazing personality and a girl who's a 10 with a shitty personality, I'd choose the 6 every time.
Your thoughts?
Edited by gref (02/24/15 11:45 PM)
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Re: Attractiveness VS Personality [Re: gref]
#21326092 - 02/25/15 12:16 AM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Absolutely. I think most males will agree with this. If you aren't physically attracted to the person then sparks won't really fly. As far as a rating system goes I think that's very personal and situational.
What if you could choose between your hypothetical 6 and 10, but you only had 1 month to be with the one you chose. You might find that looks outweigh the personality in that case.
Basically, never say never
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Re: Attractiveness VS Personality [Re: Black_Sunset]
#21326129 - 02/25/15 12:30 AM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Yeah rating attractiveness is very subjective. Someone I think is a 6 another might think she's an 8 or a 4. 
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Black_Sunset said: What if you could choose between your hypothetical 6 and 10, but you only had 1 month to be with the one you chose.
Once again I'd take the 6, she's fuckable and her personality is amazing. The only time I might choose the 10 would be a one night stand, but even then...
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Black_Sunset said: never say never 

Edited by gref (02/25/15 12:42 AM)
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Re: Attractiveness VS Personality [Re: gref]
#21326180 - 02/25/15 12:51 AM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Would you fuck justin beiber?
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Re: Attractiveness VS Personality [Re: Black_Sunset]
#21326225 - 02/25/15 01:15 AM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Black_Sunset said: Would you fuck justin beiber?
Let me reframe that...
If you had to fuck one of these which one would you?
vs well that escalated quickly.
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Re: Attractiveness VS Personality [Re: gref]
#21326263 - 02/25/15 01:36 AM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm at a point where I don't have a "type", nor do I even have a preference in looks for. I've seen what others would call a 5, and that I thought was beautiful, and have likewise seen what others would consider a 9 and that I just thought "who cares, nothing special" about. I dont have a preference for tit size, butt size, nor even waist size (as long as not obese).
I've always been the interest of fat girls tho. All my girlfriends have been fat, as fat girls just feel safe with me, I guess, so they just latch on. I didnt even try. So if I ever get into another relationship again, I want a not fat girl. Fuck if she has the best personality. If she's fat, it aint gonna happen.
Now I'm in a weird situation right now. I'm not really sexually attracted to 99/100 girls that I'll see on a daily basis. That spark isnt there anymore, and I have no idea why. Maybe its because they are mostly hispanic, and I dont really like hispanic girls. Who knows. Also, I wouldn't be interested in being emotionally involved with someone. Dont care for love, nor do I want it. Fuck that.
To answer the question, I'll be a rarity and say that looks matter most right now. I'd rather "date" a girl that was a total slut, evil, and stupid if I thought she was physically attractive. That would let me not be emotionally invested, and she'd be fucking other guys so I wouldn't have to try as hard sexually, nor with money. And of course at least one of those guys would meet her emotionall needs, because I sure as hell wouldn't.
I also dont like vaginaz. I think they're ugly. EXCEPT if they're on a Asian woman. Only then do I not hate vagina. So in the end, its still LOOKS for me.
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happydegenerate said: I also dont like vaginaz. I think they're ugly. EXCEPT if they're on a Asian woman. Only then do I not hate vagina. So in the end, its still LOOKS for me. 
I think asian vagina's look pretty similar to caucasian vagina's. What's the difference to you?
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I heard Asian vaginas are sideways ...jk they have glasses jk I'm a fish
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Re: Attractiveness VS Personality [Re: Rico1992]
#21327357 - 02/25/15 10:34 AM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Shit. She HAS to look good otherwise she don't stand a chance with me. I'm hot. Hot people go together. But, I earned it after being 300 pounds before. She can have a decent personality. As long as i'm the alpha male and she doesn't try to control me. We are good. I sincerely hate when a woman tries to pussy whip you into doing whatever she wants you to do. That's why I broke up with my last ex. Look. I haven't had pussy in a very long time and I don't intend on letting PUSSY control my every action and move.
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Albertheisenhouer said:
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happydegenerate said: I also dont like vaginaz. I think they're ugly. EXCEPT if they're on a Asian woman. Only then do I not hate vagina. So in the end, its still LOOKS for me. 
I think asian vagina's look pretty similar to caucasian vagina's. What's the difference to you?
None at all. It exists all in my head. Ill find 80/100 Asian girls attractive, whereas I may find only 5/100 of other girls attractive. Vaginas to me just look kinda ugly so for them to look good, they'd have to be on women that I find attractive (mostly Asians).
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It actually depends on how you know the girl. I've had a hot night and morning with a girl who at that time had been my best friend for 3 yrs. She wasn't much to look at but after spending every weekend and several weekday evenings with her those years, I could not look at her and see her outside. All I saw was love really. Platonic in one way, but still it was very logical to me to have sex with her. She wasn't my type, and I wasn't hers. It's kinda like looking at your sister, just can't tell how hot or not she is. (Boy, does that sound wrong in this context)
And outside of that situation that's possible for me too. If you get to talking and it just clicks, at somepoint looks might not matter one bit anymore.
There's this beautiful saying that goes "Your wife is not your wife because she is pretty, she is pretty because she is your wife." THAT says it all for me..
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Re: Attractiveness VS Personality [Re: gref] 3
#21328624 - 02/25/15 02:55 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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an amazing personality turns a 6 into an 11.
personality every time.
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Re: Attractiveness VS Personality [Re: Rico1992]
#21328639 - 02/25/15 02:57 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Rico1992 said: I heard Asian vaginas are sideways ...jk they have glasses jk I'm a fish
LOL
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Re: Attractiveness VS Personality [Re: gref]
#21328658 - 02/25/15 03:01 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Gref, I'd still choose that whale over Dwieber..
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Re: Attractiveness VS Personality [Re: LizardWizard]
#21328668 - 02/25/15 03:02 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Oh, and did you notice the running shoes?
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Re: Attractiveness VS Personality [Re: gref]
#21331272 - 02/26/15 01:07 AM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
gref said:
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Black_Sunset said: Would you fuck justin beiber?
Let me reframe that...
If you had to fuck one of these which one would you?
vs well that escalated quickly.

beiber. I'd make him cry during
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Re: Attractiveness VS Personality [Re: Black_Sunset]
#21331418 - 02/26/15 03:30 AM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Personality contributes to attractiveness.
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Re: Attractiveness VS Personality [Re: gref]
#21332642 - 02/26/15 11:37 AM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Personality is less important for casual sex. If we're just messing around, all I need is for her not to be annoying. Personality is crucial for a serious relationship. I don't care how hot a woman is: If we don't clique on some deep inner level, it's not going to last long. But there's also a minimum level of physical attraction that has to be there. I could be compatible with someone on a whole bunch of levels, but if there's no attraction there, the best we can be is friends.
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Re: Attractiveness VS Personality [Re: koraks]
#21332861 - 02/26/15 12:33 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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koraks said: Personality contributes to attractiveness.
Very true!!
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Re: Attractiveness VS Personality [Re: ShroomyBudz]
#21333569 - 02/26/15 03:07 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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In seattle the pretty girls flow like water. See a lot of them with very unattractive guys. But there is a surplus. Getting into a relationship is being in the right place at the right time. We all want someone to talk to and be nice to us. The person that provided that when we need it most is what you'll latch onto.
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