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sincerelylexo
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are you naturally more dominant or submissive
#21323466 - 02/24/15 04:11 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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are you into bdsm at all?
do you like being dominant or submissive? or do you like both roles equally? Or does it depend on your partner?
i really like bdsm roleplay to be honest, it's just too much fun.
i think i'm great at being either. discuss anything bsdm related.
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: sincerelylexo]
#21323650 - 02/24/15 04:52 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Domme, but I switch.
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: sincerelylexo]
#21323688 - 02/24/15 05:00 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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When does that movie come out anyway?..
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: zZZz]
#21323694 - 02/24/15 05:01 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Ask your mom.
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: California]
#21323702 - 02/24/15 05:02 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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I am not forward, nor openly aggressive. But that has little implication over true dominance.
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: zZZz]
#21323706 - 02/24/15 05:03 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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I've neither had sex nor done BDSM anything, but upon honest self-reflection, I'd say I'm pretty submissive in general day-to-day life, so I don't imagine it would be all that different in the bedroom.
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Men shouldn't be submissive, but whatever floats your boat.
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: sincerelylexo]
#21323713 - 02/24/15 05:05 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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sincerelylexo said: are you into bdsm at all?
do you like being dominant or submissive? or do you like both roles equally? Or does it depend on your partner?
i really like bdsm roleplay to be honest, it's just too much fun.
i think i'm great at being either. discuss anything bsdm related.
I may seem dominant but all I want is provoking punishment.
Edited by Beanhead (02/24/15 05:05 PM)
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: D.M.T] 1
#21323720 - 02/24/15 05:06 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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D.M.T said: Men shouldn't be submissive, but whatever floats your boat.
Pffft, whatever, dude.
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: Acaterpillar]
#21323723 - 02/24/15 05:06 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Acaterpillar said: I am not forward, nor openly aggressive. But that has little implication over true dominance.
very much agree
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: Baby_Hitler] 1
#21323726 - 02/24/15 05:07 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Baby_Hitler said:
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D.M.T said: Men shouldn't be submissive, but whatever floats your boat.
Pffft, whatever, dude.
I said that just because I knew it would rustle some jimmies
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: D.M.T]
#21323737 - 02/24/15 05:08 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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Quote:
D.M.T said:
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Baby_Hitler said:
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D.M.T said: Men shouldn't be submissive, but whatever floats your boat.
Pffft, whatever, dude.
I said that just because I knew it would rustle some jimmies 
Your mom said it for the same reason.
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: Acaterpillar]
#21323746 - 02/24/15 05:09 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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It depends how I'm feeling, I've realized I like both. When I'm angry, I like to be a bitch and inflict pain onto my partner.
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: California]
#21323758 - 02/24/15 05:11 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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California said: Ask your mom.
Zing!
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sincerelylexo
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: zZZz]
#21323790 - 02/24/15 05:16 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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zZZz said: When does that movie come out anyway?..
that movie sucked.
I don't like how people automatically think of that movie when I mention BDSM. BDSM is far older than that stupid movie.
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: sincerelylexo] 1
#21323796 - 02/24/15 05:17 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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It's not even an accurate representation of BDSM as much as it an accurate representation of rape.
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: sincerelylexo]
#21323965 - 02/24/15 05:43 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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I'm an X-alpha so naturally I subjugate all my inferiors, whether they know it or not.
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: twighead]
#21324142 - 02/24/15 06:07 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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twighead said: I'm an X-alpha so naturally I subjugate all my inferiors, whether they know it or not.
>rekt
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Re: are you naturally more dominant or submissive [Re: Beanhead]
#21324299 - 02/24/15 06:30 PM (9 years, 2 months ago) |
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My ex was really into bdsm, and I obliged by being the sub in the bedroom, it was good I enjoyed it for the most part but I think I could switch it up from time to time.
If we're talking about life outside the bedroom I can take charge pretty easily. I've been in leadership positions before and it's not something that I really crave or whatever, but if nothing is getting done and no one is doing anything about that then I will step up and fill that role pretty fast.
Needless to say, group projects throughout school usually followed this path and I got stuck coordinating everything and everyone and making sure shit got done both through delegation and through my own means.
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