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Re: Tipping [Re: hTx] * 1
    #21246953 - 02/09/15 07:08 AM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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hTx said:
Most if not all servers make well below minimum  wage (think 2.13/hr) which serves to pay the taxes on their tips..which they survive off of.

If anything the social custom of tipping is cheapness on the restaurants half.
But its not your servers fault.
If nothing went major wrong i always tip at least 15 percent because they honestly live off of tips..and some restaurants do a tipshare  of 3-5 percent total sales. Which means if you do not tip, technically the server is paying for you to eat.

Point: your kind of a cheap asshole if you refuse to tip without solid reason. (Like the server ignoring your table)




Nah, it varies significantly by jurisdiction -all of the West Coast states make minimum wage + tips $9-9.45, $2.13 is the federal minimum tipped wage, pretty much all of the South goes by that, where the Midwest and Northeast states have laws to pay above the minimum wage, somewhere between $3-6.

http://www.dol.gov/whd/state/tipped.htm

The great variance in minimum wage is just another shitty reality of the situation.  Of course, we can just talk about how people who don't tip are assholes :shrug:, but I imagine most of us are in agreement on this, the idea was to scratch beneath the surface here.... It's a hard thing to do when people are so enamored with how good they are.


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Re: Tipper Gore [Re: Lakefingers]
    #21246960 - 02/09/15 07:12 AM (9 years, 3 months ago)

As bad as service is at many restaurants where tipping is customary, one can only imagine how much worse it will be where it isn't customary.  Further, if it isn't customary, unless somehow somebody gets offended by being paid more, then the tipper becomes the hero.

Whatever happened to Tipper Gore?


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Re: Tipper Gore [Re: LunarEclipse] * 1
    #21246980 - 02/09/15 07:19 AM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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As bad as service is at many restaurants where tipping is customary, one can only imagine how much worse it will be where it isn't customary.  Further, if it isn't customary, unless somehow somebody gets offended by being paid more, then the tipper becomes the hero.

Whatever happened to Tipper Gore?




I don't see why, if they had a salary instead, they'd still want to keep their jobs and get raises.. Sushi Yasuda, in NYC, has banned tipping - their employees get a salary and health care, their yelp review looks pretty good 4.5/5 w/ 1288 reviews:

http://www.yelp.com/biz/sushi-yasuda-new-york


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If we could look into each others hearts, and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care.

It takes a lot of courage to go out there and radiate your essence.

I know you scared, you should ask us if we scared too.  If you was there, and we just knew you cared too.

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Re: Tipper Gore *DELETED* [Re: LunarEclipse] * 1
    #21247008 - 02/09/15 07:30 AM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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Re: Tipping *DELETED* [Re: Rahz] * 1
    #21247039 - 02/09/15 07:43 AM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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Re: Tipper Gore [Re: Lakefingers]
    #21247046 - 02/09/15 07:47 AM (9 years, 3 months ago)

It varies greatly within this country, I've spent months in NYC and it was quite common place to call out when you are ready for your check... Lo and behold, they come give it to you.  In the  Midwest, people would sit and grumble about where the fuck is the waiter and judge how they're going to tip them.  I don't anymore, I simply call out "check please"... It works :shrug:.


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If we could look into each others hearts, and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care.

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I know you scared, you should ask us if we scared too.  If you was there, and we just knew you cared too.

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Re: Tipper Gore [Re: Lakefingers]
    #21247070 - 02/09/15 07:58 AM (9 years, 3 months ago)

Personally I hate the big display of "oh how's your meal" that typically happens about 3 bites into it.  The anxious ones always seem to time it just perfectly that you have a full mouthful then they stare you down and get impatient you don't want to talk to them that second.  Is that the kind of service you like?  Not me.  Come by when it makes sense, not when it's annoying and disruptive.  I'll let y'all know if the food sucks, trust me folks.


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Re: Tipper Gore *DELETED* [Re: LunarEclipse]
    #21247084 - 02/09/15 08:05 AM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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Re: Tipper Gore [Re: Lakefingers]
    #21247315 - 02/09/15 09:27 AM (9 years, 3 months ago)

so, some of us like to complain about service
and we all know they are paid very little
and some of us (not me) have traveled to many countries and have experienced better and worse behavior by hospitality service personnel under regimes of varying legislation about tips in places around the world.

:nocomment:


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Re: Gifting is not wrong [Re: redgreenvines]
    #21247356 - 02/09/15 09:41 AM (9 years, 3 months ago)

I tip 20% out of social obligation.  You have to really suck for me to short you.  Sometimes when I'm feeling cheap I might short it a dollar.  I usually tip $1 on drinks I get at the bar and think it is acceptable if someone tips under 20% say if they bought an expensive bottle of wine with the meal or something.

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Re: Tipper Gore *DELETED* [Re: redgreenvines]
    #21248541 - 02/09/15 01:53 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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Re: Tipper Gore [Re: Lakefingers]
    #21248897 - 02/09/15 02:52 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

that's a generous warning, thanks


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Re: Tipping [Re: Lakefingers]
    #21251321 - 02/09/15 10:59 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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The only good point in abolishing tips is that an employee might be paying more into SS, though I feel certain most people who work for tips would find themselves making less. Many businesses would simply pay minimum wage. The trend is to pay out the least amount possible.




Let's assume that is the only good and correct point, then we have the underlying problem of wage legislation. Minimum wage is dismally low in the US, but changing it is difficult because the system is based on 'paying out as little as possible' and Americans have been disciplined into expecting to have to work in comparatively poor conditions for longer hours and for less pay just to stay afloat (Penelope_Tree made a thread, On the grind, about this a while back).




I don't see how this relates to tipping if doing away with it would generally result in servers earning less. Shouldn't the conversation be about how minimum wage should be increased?


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Re: Tipping [Re: Rahz] * 1
    #21251383 - 02/09/15 11:23 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

Interesting thread.

I'm a waiter and I make $4.25/hour. As was already said, most waiters don't keep a lot of their tips as we have to "tip out" other workers as well.

Until we have a better system for paying waiters fairly, please tip (or at least let your waiter know that you don't plan on tipping beforehand).

Here's the history of tipping, as done by CollegeHumor.



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Re: Tipping [Re: CosmicJoke]
    #21251476 - 02/09/15 11:52 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

It's a bizarre custom and a relic from a more aristocratic age. I found it disgusting when I was in the USA and I'm glad almost nowhere else does it.


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Re: Tipping *DELETED* [Re: Rahz] * 1
    #21251747 - 02/10/15 02:54 AM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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Re: Tipping [Re: Lakefingers] * 1
    #21251786 - 02/10/15 03:49 AM (9 years, 3 months ago)

On tangent, have you noticed how artists are being further pushed into what's comparable to a tipping sector? In an age of digital piracy, many musicians and authors are turning away from overly restrictive forms of copyright protection (DRM) and moving towards releasing their works for free under a creative commons license, which can be converted to any file format, copied and redistributed to others, etc. 

Rather than fighting copyright wars, which they'll never win (all forms of DRM are inevitably hacked), they're embracing a new business model of giving their stuff away and accepting donations, which, imo, amounts to a tip.  For some, like the author Corey Doctorow, this business model is greatly increasing his income, while preserving people's rights to do as they wish with their data (say convert their ebook from a Kindle format to some format for another brand of e-reader).

I don't think it's ideal for artists, but sometimes you have to adapt to the times rather than fight a losing battle.


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If we could look into each others hearts, and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care.

It takes a lot of courage to go out there and radiate your essence.

I know you scared, you should ask us if we scared too.  If you was there, and we just knew you cared too.

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Re: Tipping [Re: The Lizard King]
    #21251824 - 02/10/15 04:19 AM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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Here's the history of tipping, as done by CollegeHumor.






Good find.


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If we could look into each others hearts, and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care.

It takes a lot of courage to go out there and radiate your essence.

I know you scared, you should ask us if we scared too.  If you was there, and we just knew you cared too.

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Re: Tipping [Re: CosmicJoke]
    #21251871 - 02/10/15 05:01 AM (9 years, 3 months ago)

Man what a great idea that gave me.  I'll go over to Portland by a busy Metro station, take my guitar and my big old fancy hat, and play for people who walk by.  I bet a few might even drop in some $$.

Thanks.


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Re: Tipping [Re: Lakefingers]
    #21251874 - 02/10/15 05:06 AM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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Raising minimum wages to free ineffectively rewarded service personnel from an ineffective, meager, discriminatory, irrational dependency on tips would incorporate these people into a more balanced, rational financial framework. Accordingly, minimum wage would be adjusted so that waiters would earn what conincidentally equates to a few dollars more per hour than what they earn (tips plus minimum wage) today. Like in many places, you could still tip if you wanted to and maybe a new tipping culture would arise, but there wouldn't be a dependency on irrational tipping and the average wage would still be higher for most people working in the sector.

The very system of tip-dependency is in stark opposition to what is considered a modern labor system in other sectors in democratic societies. Imagine paying your doctor, your lawyer, your mechanic, your ISP, your gas company, your babysitter, your university, your grocery stores, your banks, your creditors, your employees, etc. only because you thought it was "polite" or only when it "made you feel good." You'd get locked up or beaten up if you tried it and people would see you for what an elitist narcissist you are.

OP is about the custom and social obligation of tipping and its economic effect, so yes minimum wage is an underlying economic issue.



my narcissim has not been hiding, so this is not a problem, but I guess your motivation is strong.


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