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OfflineMescalean
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Mental well being... Loneliness/depression
    #21243534 - 02/08/15 12:19 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

Hey guys. Idk where to really begin, I was depressed after my last relationship ended. I'm past that bit now. I want to move on. Met a cool girl, actually hit it off great only to find out she has a BF. After this no idea why just this feeling of loneliness has hit. I'd call it depression but idk because I should be happy with the direction my life is moving in, opportunity in place to get hired on for a company where I could eventually end up doing my dream job, I'm in good health after a recent health scare. But I have no-one to love or share any of of the good shit with. Just depressing. I literally just feel like sleeping all day. How does everyone else usually handle these kinds of emotions. Been a while since i've felt this level of shitty


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Re: Mental well being... Loneliness/depression [Re: Mescalean]
    #21243622 - 02/08/15 12:31 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

I've been going through the same, loneliness/depression funk... I think the best thing to do is do fun things you really enjoy doing as often as you can. Try to meet new genuine people. :smile: Push yourself to do more things and interact with more people more every day...

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Re: Mental well being... Loneliness/depression [Re: Mescalean]
    #21243647 - 02/08/15 12:37 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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Re: Mental well being... Loneliness/depression [Re: SleepyE]
    #21243721 - 02/08/15 12:52 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

Tried meeting new people, met this girl with the bf. Can't get her off my mind either which I don't think is helping.


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Re: Mental well being... Loneliness/depression [Re: Mescalean]
    #21243732 - 02/08/15 12:54 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

What do you mean, she has a BF?

Is she actually in love with him? Is she pregnant with his hellspawn?
Does he deserve her more than you do? By that I mean, is he a much cooler guy than you are?

Did you go pedal to the metal to win this girl over, and she actively chose that guy, her alleged bf, over you?

It ain't over til the fat lady sings, and IMO these matters are challenges. Even if she thinks she has a bf, if you're a cooler guy than he is, she's basically wasting her life with him and you should simply show her that. You don't even have to push him away. Simply meet, spend time, if she sees that she connects with you better than with him, things will go your way. If you're more
- attentive
- smart
- funny
- caring, emotionally

Than this other guy, then who do you think the girl will go for?

What is this "have a boyfriend" crap? I've never understood it really. If she doesn't like you, then fine, you're out. If she actually likes him more than you, then yeah, you're out. But boyfriend? Give me a break. As soon as she met you, she USED TO have a boyfriend, now the game is, will she continue living under that delusion, or actually get with the program and see things your way (which as far as you're concerned, is the truth, and that's your girl, until proven otherwise)?

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But I have no-one to love or share any of of the good shit with. Just depressing. I literally just feel like sleeping all day. How does everyone else usually handle these kinds of emotions. Been a while since i've felt this level of shitty



Push the matter with this one girl, see where it goes. It should go to
- she's your girl
- she's not your girl, she runs to that other guy
- she friendzones you, in which case it's the same as point 2 above.

Now if she's your girl, problem solved.

If she's not, then it's on you to get out there and meet more girls to be friends with. Look for friends with benefits, not all this love crap. You'll look for love stuff after you're properly sexed up and massaged and had a good deal of fun times, and are in a good mood to find true love.

If you've got some psychedelics available, microdosing as you go out should help you a long long way, as it gives you the boosted senses, making you more careful and attentive and responsive than most dudes out there. After you seduce the girl and orgasm her to kingdom come, you can feel free to drop the info on her, oh I was lightly shrooming or acid-ing when we met. She very likely won't care. Properly sexed up people rarely do, they're just feeling awesome to have luck shine on them so freely, to have someone to connect with :lol:

Just be clear in your mind that this whole "I have a bf" thing is purely a badly informed opinion on the girl's part, for the simple fact that they didn't know you exist. If they knew, they'd of course be your girlfriend, not waste time with some random shmuck. Now that you've shown up in her life, that guy is relieved of all duties, you can take over from here :biggrin:

Keep in mind that a whether intentionally or not, everything that everybody says is a test of your convictions. If we're both chatting up the same girl, and she says, "Sorry guys, I have a boyfriend" - the response and attitude to that is very important. To me, it's as if she said "I have some red shoes". If to you, that's like a signal to disconnect, go away and feel sad, then you're out of the race. Maybe I'd disconnect too, like if her BF was a convicted felon, a mobster, a serial killer and cannibal, but I'm saying if my disconnection threshold is much higher than yours, then you're likely to lose the girl. Why would you disconnect at the mere knowledge that some other guy exists in her life?

She just has a guy she's fucking right now, in no way does it mean he's any better than you, or will remain in her life for long after she met you. In fact he's probably worse than you in some ways, or the girl wouldn't have clicked with you in the first place. :thumbup:


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Re: Mental well being... Loneliness/depression [Re: Mescalean]
    #21243776 - 02/08/15 01:00 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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Tried meeting new people, met this girl with the bf. Can't get her off my mind either which I don't think is helping.



Sure you can, just bury your face in a different set of :boobs:, go have some fun with 2-3 other girls, that will charge you up to then be able to tackle this boyfriend problem better.

If you're in a low energy state and try to tackle this head on, you'll obviously lose her fair and square, because her dude probably has a better support structure than yours, and so you can't really offer much in excess of what he has.

BUT if you make more connections, fill yourself with proper good vibes, AND THEN talk to the girl, you'll see there's plenty of room for gf stealing right there.

I'm very lucky to have seen this work for me a lot at festivals. I see it failing a bit more in the city, but I also see how, what I'm doing wrong to make the magic not work.

Get the energy, get the good vibes. No woman that I've ever met, will stay with one dude because "he's her boyfriend" if there are much better alternatives coming her way.

If you're friends, find out about this guy. What's he good at? What's he horrible at? Simply get awesome at things that the girl wants that this guy doesn't provide and you'll be golden.

What doesn't work is sitting indoors and obsessing like a wuss. That's the best way to not only lose her, but also creep out several other women that you'll then try to hook up with.


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Re: Mental well being... Loneliness/depression [Re: Mescalean]
    #21243784 - 02/08/15 01:03 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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Mescalean said:
I'd call it depression but idk because I should be happy with the direction my life is moving in




Mental "should" statements will never serve you. You WANT to be happy with the direction in your life.

Those emotions do suck, but I feel the loneliness you speak of is a misconception - you believe finding someone will fulfill that void, but truthfully you need to fulfill yourself. Do stuff that you truly want to do for yourself and to help others; it may take some searching to find that.


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Re: Mental well being... Loneliness/depression [Re: LittleDaddy]
    #21243800 - 02/08/15 01:05 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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Mescalean said:
I'd call it depression but idk because I should be happy with the direction my life is moving in




Mental "should" statements will never serve you. You WANT to be happy with the direction in your life.

Those emotions do suck, but I feel the loneliness you speak of is a misconception - you believe finding someone will fulfill that void, but truthfully you need to fulfill yourself. Do stuff that you truly want to do for yourself and to help others; it may take some searching to find that.




Best advise so far. I just miss having someone there idk


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Re: Mental well being... Loneliness/depression [Re: Mescalean]
    #21243837 - 02/08/15 01:11 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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Mescalean said:
Best advise so far. I just miss having someone there idk




I feel for you, man. Been there before myself. If you feel my advice is right then pursue it for yourself! I'm confident you can do it! Maybe write down things you want to do and plans to execute. I promise it helps me tremendously. :cheers: brotha. message me if you need anything.


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Re: Mental well being... Loneliness/depression [Re: Mescalean]
    #21243845 - 02/08/15 01:13 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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Re: Mental well being... Loneliness/depression [Re: SleepyE] * 1
    #21243867 - 02/08/15 01:18 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

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people are such fucking retarded sheep, i walked out of the nightclub and EVERYONE was racing to watch a couple of drunk morons fight.
LITERALLY EVERYONE.

is that the fucking state we are in. Fucking primate leeches on society. and it was EVERYONE.

who on this planet is not a complete and utter fucking scumbag.




You were at a night club with a bunch of people who believe getting drunk will make them happy; that's why their ignorant selves want to see a fight. There are people who are empathetic and compassionate who realize happiness isn't found in selfishly fulfilling yourself and indulging. Maybe look for a club or group of people that share a similar interest besides indulging in drugs; surrounding yourself with a supportive group of people that parallel your true needs can really help.


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Re: Mental well being... Loneliness/depression [Re: LittleDaddy]
    #21243897 - 02/08/15 01:23 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

thank you, that makes sense to me :hug:


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Re: Mental well being... Loneliness/depression [Re: SleepyE] * 1
    #21243912 - 02/08/15 01:25 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

Yeah, homes! Respect :smile:


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Re: Mental well being... Loneliness/depression [Re: LittleDaddy]
    #21243942 - 02/08/15 01:33 PM (9 years, 3 months ago)

i feel like am a reciever for negative energy

like everyone is holding current and im the discharge.

i think its because my empathy channels are way too open that im getting overwhelmed.


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