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Xingu
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Well, that sounds a bit different from how you put it originally. Now we all sound like jackasses...clearly your fault, haha. If it's not that big of a deal, as you say, then why the frustration? Or is it more about the complaint about your nitrous than the bag?
Edited by Xingu (01/31/15 08:43 PM)
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Re: Well, my girls upset. [Re: Ezuma]
#21208769 - 01/31/15 08:43 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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this is a good idea, i should buy myself something stupid for valentines day.
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Re: Well, my girls upset. [Re: Xingu]
#21208781 - 01/31/15 08:46 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Ulfrick said: Does she not have a job? or her own money? how often does she buy you exensive gifts? why should it only be a one way street?
This. Too many people seem to think that equality means only perks. Glad I've dated ones that were perfectly happy to split dinner/bills.
Hate to be a dick op, but your girlfriend sounds a little pompously superficial. It's one thing if she received jewelry/accessory gifts and was very happy and greatly appreciated them for a long time after, but being already demanding more only a month after you gave her something nice? And getting pissed off at you spending your own money on yourself rather than her? Maybe not quite a red flag, but definitely a solid yellow card for her on that.
My opinion, back off a little from her and focus on your own purpose, health, etc. Not necessarily cold shoulder, but giving her less attention and doing something positive for yourself sends a strong but subtle signal.
She was and still is very greatful for her jewelry, she just wants a clutch to match her bag. It's not like we can't afford to get the bag that would be a whole other story. she gets whatever she wants four times a year, Christmas, anniversary, valentines day and birthday. She just wants to jump the gun because she wants her matching clutch. It's not like she won't get the thing, she just dosent want to wait till her birthday.
Gifts of affection isn't something to draw the line on. Like I said she very much deserves the clutch she just wants it before valentines day. I'm going to buy it for her as a surprise for vday. She was bummed because I told her no and then got some hippy crack lol
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Ezuma
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Ah, well now this story is hardly a story...
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Algo
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The Doobie Dude said: Word to the wise. When a girl starts demanding things like "thai food" or something even more expensive like a stupid designer bag. Get the fuck out there, they don't love you just the things you have!
This it a woman that supported me and all of my habits for over a year. She would even drive four house to get me wax and dro. I didn't do shit while she worked all day, she even got me my job, makes professional resumes for me and helps choose investments for us.
It's a bag people, just a 120 dollar bag, not that big of a thing..
Well then sounds like it's all your fault and you need to be kicked in the balls.
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Lmao, it's all good guys, I'm pretty fucked up too. I read my original post and I did make her seem all fucked up, lol. At least she won't see it lol
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Xingu
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Nitrous = hippy crack? Never heard the term...then again I've never tried nitrous.
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and now I feel like an ass... way to go op, I hadn't managed to fill my quota for dickishness yet today :p
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haha he can't afford a dooney clutch.
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Re: Well, my girls upset. [Re: sprinkles]
#21208823 - 01/31/15 08:54 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Wtf is dooney clutch?
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Re: Well, my girls upset. [Re: sprinkles]
#21208827 - 01/31/15 08:55 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Ulfrick said: and now I feel like an ass... way to go op, I hadn't managed to fill my quota for dickishness yet today :p
LMAO!! It's cool bro, I said it all fucked up to begin with..
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Re: Well, my girls upset. [Re: Algo]
#21208836 - 01/31/15 08:57 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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something you get at macys. or craigslist.
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Re: Well, my girls upset. [Re: sprinkles]
#21208855 - 01/31/15 09:01 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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Ooh OK, that narrows it down. I guess I'll have to buy a Dooney clutch for my wife sometime, I'm sure she would really like one.
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Re: Well, my girls upset. [Re: Algo]
#21208868 - 01/31/15 09:05 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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sprinkles said: haha he can't afford a dooney clutch.
When did anyone ever say that?
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The Doobie Dude said: Word to the wise. When a girl starts demanding things like "thai food" or something even more expensive like a stupid designer bag. Get the fuck out there, they don't love you just the things you have!
This it a woman that supported me and all of my habits for over a year. She would even drive four house to get me wax and dro. I didn't do shit while she worked all day, she even got me my job, makes professional resumes for me and helps choose investments for us.
It's a bag people, just a 120 dollar bag, not that big of a thing..
Then why did you make a thread about it >:( Enjoy your hippie crack!
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The Doobie Dude said: Word to the wise. When a girl starts demanding things like "thai food" or something even more expensive like a stupid designer bag. Get the fuck out there, they don't love you just the things you have!
This it a woman that supported me and all of my habits for over a year. She would even drive four house to get me wax and dro. I didn't do shit while she worked all day, she even got me my job, makes professional resumes for me and helps choose investments for us.
It's a bag people, just a 120 dollar bag, not that big of a thing..
Then why did you make a thread about it >:( Enjoy your hippie crack!
Hell I don't know guy, just to vent, she was giving me shit about not buying the clutch and then getting the nitrous.
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The Doobie Dude said: Word to the wise. When a girl starts demanding things like "thai food" or something even more expensive like a stupid designer bag. Get the fuck out there, they don't love you just the things you have!
I wasn't aware that Thai food was so fancy and high-end. You set an interesting precedent there.
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Re: Well, my girls upset. [Re: mantis]
#21208904 - 01/31/15 09:11 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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It's when someone DEMANDS something and shows no appreciation. That is when no matter what it is its a big deal. Do you follow?
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Re: Well, my girls upset. [Re: mantis]
#21208909 - 01/31/15 09:12 PM (9 years, 1 month ago) |
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The Doobie Dude said: Word to the wise. When a girl starts demanding things like "thai food" or something even more expensive like a stupid designer bag. Get the fuck out there, they don't love you just the things you have!
I wasn't aware that Thai food was so fancy and high-end. You set an interesting precedent there.
Thai place buy my house is spendy too.
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Ayahuascasoul
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The Doobie Dude said: It's when someone DEMANDS something and shows no appreciation. That is when no matter what it is its a big deal. Do you follow?
Oh I get it but that's not how it was. I just posted to talk about it. I will enjoy by the way, thanks!
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