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bloodsheen
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Sex is pretty goddamn awesome but...
#21198709 - 01/29/15 08:01 PM (9 years, 3 months ago) |
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...the shit people have done and are currently doing to get it is insane. I mean seriously, if its someone you care about its pretty much the best thing on earth
But debasing yourself, risking your health, risking your safety for it? Drugs and alcohol with friends is a far better way to spend an evening. At least you are like 99% sure you won't end up crying in a ball or getting an STD.
I really enjoyed sex with the girl I was just dating but honestly if I had to choose between having sex with her with no feelings or the feeling I got when I held her in my arms its not even a competition.
Anyway, stories about either sex that made your life better (totally disproving my hypothesis), or regrettable sex decisions, would be appreciated
Discuss
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Re: Sex is pretty goddamn awesome but... [Re: bloodsheen]
#21199037 - 01/29/15 09:13 PM (9 years, 3 months ago) |
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bloodsheen said: I really enjoyed sex with the girl I was just dating
Sounds like it's the same girl as mentioned here and here.
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bloodsheen said: if I had to choose between having sex with her with no feelings or the feeling I got when I held her in my arms its not even a competition.
I'm sorry someone you really liked turned you a cold shoulder. It's crushing I know. It happens to the best of us.
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Re: Sex is pretty goddamn awesome but... [Re: gref]
#21199065 - 01/29/15 09:17 PM (9 years, 3 months ago) |
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I want a girl who wants to be with me forever and not just fuck multiple times because I'm hot. I want feelings.
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Re: Sex is pretty goddamn awesome but... [Re: gref]
#21199107 - 01/29/15 09:25 PM (9 years, 3 months ago) |
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That happy forever unconditional love and trust Disney fantasy doesn't exist.
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Re: Sex is pretty goddamn awesome but... [Re: gref] 1
#21199119 - 01/29/15 09:28 PM (9 years, 3 months ago) |
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gref said: That happy forever unconditional love and trust Disney fantasy doesn't exist.

this
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well there was that one time I tried to bang that chick in thailand who wasn't really a chick
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Re: Sex is pretty goddamn awesome but... [Re: Mr.PhilCybin]
#21200652 - 01/30/15 08:51 AM (9 years, 3 months ago) |
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I want feelings. I love feelings. I love being pussy whipped.
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Re: Sex is pretty goddamn awesome but... [Re: Mr.PhilCybin]
#21200740 - 01/30/15 09:11 AM (9 years, 3 months ago) |
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Mr.PhilCybin said: well there was that one time I tried to bang that chick in thailand who wasn't really a chick
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Re: Sex is pretty goddamn awesome but... [Re: gref]
#21201170 - 01/30/15 10:35 AM (9 years, 3 months ago) |
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gref said:
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bloodsheen said: I really enjoyed sex with the girl I was just dating
Sounds like it's the same girl as mentioned here and here.
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bloodsheen said: if I had to choose between having sex with her with no feelings or the feeling I got when I held her in my arms its not even a competition.
I'm sorry someone you really liked turned you a cold shoulder. It's crushing I know. It happens to the best of us.
Indeed, same girl. Its been keeping stuff like this on my mind
Actually, upon re-reading my OP it sounds far more emo than I had intended. I meant to make this thread about people that have totally destroyed their lives for random pointless sex.
I knew a guy who broke up with this girl at least five times and kept coming back and he even admitted all they ever did was have sex. Like goddamn dude, stop thinking with your dick
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Edited by bloodsheen (01/30/15 10:53 AM)
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Re: Sex is pretty goddamn awesome but... [Re: bloodsheen]
#21201361 - 01/30/15 11:10 AM (9 years, 3 months ago) |
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I had sex on the first date with my fiance. 5 years later, we're still together and more in love than ever. That's probably not very common, but it's what happened with us.
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Re: Sex is pretty goddamn awesome but... [Re: bloodsheen]
#21201693 - 01/30/15 11:46 AM (9 years, 3 months ago) |
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similar but not the same are the winding, unpredictable journeys people go on to find themselves, which is something that you can do regardless of where you are.
Only issue i've encountered wasn't from going out of my way to get sex, but rather that once I started having sex again I got too distracted by it and the relationship deteriorated.
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Re: Sex is pretty goddamn awesome but... [Re: bloodsheen]
#21201703 - 01/30/15 11:48 AM (9 years, 3 months ago) |
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sex ruins friendships. any male friend I've ever been intimate with has ended very badly. friends dont have sex with friends, if you do it is destroyed and they get mentally and emotionally destroyed. some people can not separate sex from love. i hate those people.
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Re: Sex is pretty goddamn awesome but... [Re: sprinkles]
#21201892 - 01/30/15 12:17 PM (9 years, 3 months ago) |
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I've only had one successful friendship that involved sex.
It's pretty sweet, but I always wonder when down the line it might turn sour.
In all honesty, I think we just have the perfect dynamic for that kind of thing.
If we lived closer, we'd probably* try to just have a relationship, but as it stands now, we just have sex when one visits, and everyone is happy and unattached.
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bloodsheen
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Re: Sex is pretty goddamn awesome but... [Re: sprinkles] 1
#21210426 - 02/01/15 10:35 AM (9 years, 3 months ago) |
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sprinkles said: sex ruins friendships. any male friend I've ever been intimate with has ended very badly. friends dont have sex with friends, if you do it is destroyed and they get mentally and emotionally destroyed. some people can not separate sex from love. i hate those people.
I think in a way that is a good thing. Love and sex should be tied together, the fact that people try to divide them and fail proves IMO that they are inherently related
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Re: Sex is pretty goddamn awesome but... [Re: bloodsheen]
#21210928 - 02/01/15 01:06 PM (9 years, 3 months ago) |
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Yet it is possible to have love without sex, or sex without love, it's just that imo the best sex occurs within the valley of love.
I only had sex one time where I wasn't in love with her, but i still really cared about her and think of her as a friend. Even so, I felt immense warmth towards her for weeks after.
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Re: Sex is pretty goddamn awesome but... [Re: bloodsheen]
#21214988 - 02/02/15 08:13 AM (9 years, 3 months ago) |
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bloodsheen said: But debasing yourself, risking your health, risking your safety for it? Drugs and alcohol with friends is a far better way to spend an evening. At least you are like 99% sure you won't end up crying in a ball or getting an STD.
Risking your safety? We live in the time of modern medicine my friend. With proper precautions you can have sex, for pleasure, without getting STD's or getting pregnant. Pretty great right?
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bloodsheen said: Drugs and alcohol with friends is a far better way to spend an evening.
Why not combine all three. Drugs/alcohol + friends + sex = good times.
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bloodsheen said: At least you are like 99% sure you won't end up crying in a ball
Crying in a ball? Ummm.... what kind of shitty sex are you having?
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bloodsheen said: I really enjoyed sex with the girl I was just dating but honestly if I had to choose between having sex with her with no feelings or the feeling I got when I held her in my arms its not even a competition.
Why would you even create this dichotomy? I like to cuddle and have sex. If someone is capable of one but not the other I'd rather find someone that can do both.
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bloodsheen said: Anyway, stories about either sex that made your life better (totally disproving my hypothesis), or regrettable sex decisions, would be appreciated
I can't think of any sexual encounters that I regret. As for making my life better? Sure. Sexuality is a shared experience between friends that draws them closer. Sure taking drugs, drinking alcohol, telling stories and listening to music can bring people together - but not as much as blending your bodies senses together for mutual satisfaction.
Honestly I think the general public's perception of sexuality has been perverted a lot due to the forced concept of monogamy. Like I said, this isn't the dark ages. We live in a time where we can share sexual experiences between friends with virtually no risk what-so-ever.
Sex is nothing more than a pleasurable social activity. It's not dirty. It's not wrong. It's not sinful. It's not particularly dangerous. It simply feels good and brings people together.
I imagine if society viewed sexuality in a more liberal way than there'd be a lot less uptight people thinking that sex is some kind of magical yet horrible thing reserved for the one person you truly love.
And that's another thing that bugs the shit out of me about monogamy. This idea that you're only allowed to love one person. Ridiculous. You can love all your friends, male and female very dearly and share deep physical/spiritual connections with them. Love is most important, it's all you need. Then if you love someone it's only natural you'd want to share a sexual encounter with them, but not necessary.
This doesn't mean I'm against people having exclusive sexual relationships if they feel more comfortable this way. But limiting love itself to only one person is horrible.
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Re: Sex is pretty goddamn awesome but... [Re: Dawks]
#21215413 - 02/02/15 10:06 AM (9 years, 3 months ago) |
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Ah, now I get where you are coming from. Yea, just not my bag, man
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