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megmegme223
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Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? *DELETED*
#21122006 - 01/14/15 07:19 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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Post deleted by megmegme223Reason for deletion: I don't want it up
Edited by megmegme223 (01/14/15 08:35 PM)
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Re: Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? [Re: megmegme223]
#21122038 - 01/14/15 07:26 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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You're going to cry. I did when I was trying to get with my wife. We had the EXACT same trip that night in that hotel.
After that we bonded so well that she WANTED to be with me and made time for me. When it was opposite prior.
If she'll do it, go for it. No better time to discuss feelings, than when you're opened up emotionally.
Edit: don't expect sex FYI. You don't want to upset her and have her try to drive home on shrooms. It's worse that driving drunk.
Edited by topherchris (01/14/15 07:28 PM)
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Re: Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? [Re: megmegme223]
#21122039 - 01/14/15 07:26 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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Dude just have a good safe time together. Your mind will be blown more over all the new exciting sensations and thoughts you are experiencing rather than developing a deeper relationship with her at least the first two and a half hours. Whatever happens will happen and I think the main thing you should be worried about is just having fun with the girl you care for. It will end up special either way.
Spread her eagle and fuck the dogshit out of her no questions asked at hour three though or youll regret it. or him...
Edited by BoomBoom (01/14/15 07:33 PM)
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Re: Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? [Re: megmegme223]
#21122043 - 01/14/15 07:27 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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I think this is a wonderful idea. Go for it. Tripping can go many directions though and sex isn't always the first thing on your mind when you start getting distracted by just about anything. But after a solid 5 hours of tripping and reaffirming your friendship, you might be down enough to get down.
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Re: Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? [Re: BoomBoom]
#21122289 - 01/14/15 08:07 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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BoomBoom said: Dude just have a good safe time together. Your mind will be blown more over all the new exciting sensations and thoughts you are experiencing rather than developing a deeper relationship with her at least the first two and a half hours. Whatever happens will happen and I think the main thing you should be worried about is just having fun with the girl you care for. It will end up special either way...
This is good advice. You may seriously complicate things if you surprise her with your feelings while your tripping. Honestly, I could see that going south faster than a junkie with a sub-woofer. Save it for after the trip. After all, the trip will be something intimate that you will have shared with her. Almost as intimate as popping her cherry. So, she will likely be more open to taking things farther after the trip and after she knows she can trust you.
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Re: Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? [Re: megmegme223]
#21122371 - 01/14/15 08:24 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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Note: I'm a girl, he's a trans dude.
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Re: Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? [Re: megmegme223]
#21122383 - 01/14/15 08:27 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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My bad. It wasn't obvious. Still, just try and have a good time with him. Wait till after to discuss feelings. You never know, he may make a move when you're tripping.
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Re: Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? [Re: 4HO-DMT]
#21122576 - 01/14/15 09:07 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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You are the Vessels, and psilocybin the river that guides. In the end there is only one destination and you will rejoice together when you arrive. That is my poem of good vibes to you
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Re: Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? [Re: BoomBoom]
#21122659 - 01/14/15 09:22 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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Just be aware that it may be harder to hide your feelings while tripping. I don't mean you're going to spill your guts and pronounce your love for him. I mean it will be harder to look at him without it being obvious that you have feelings. A time might come in the trip where he catches you looking at him fondly and he'll probably know at that point. Be prepared to handle that situation, it could be kind of awkward. Your best bet is to not just come out and tell him because you'll probably find that it's hard to express yourself with words when tripping. Just play it cool and act casual if possible. The non verbal communication is going to do most of the talking.
He might get the hint it could be the beginning of a beautiful relationship.
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Re: Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? [Re: searching]
#21122730 - 01/14/15 09:39 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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Uh, I think this might be something I'd want to know before committing to trip with someone. If this will be the focus of the 'session' then yeah, I'd say discuss it with the other person before hand.
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Re: Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? [Re: SoupSandwich]
#21122757 - 01/14/15 09:45 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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Oh, I'm not planning on bringing it up. I don't want it to go there yet, I just am unsure what me tripping will do/say because I don't really know much about tripping and how I'll act.
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Re: Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? [Re: megmegme223]
#21122776 - 01/14/15 09:48 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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Hm, well...I guess there's only one way to find out then! 
But seriously, I don't think you'll lose all control of your self censorship and inhibitions. Just, whatever you do...DON'T THINK ABOUT SEX. 
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Re: Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? [Re: megmegme223]
#21122784 - 01/14/15 09:49 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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megmegme223 said: do you think I'm setting myself up for disaster?
Disaster - no but--If it was me I would ask myself why I'm creating this question / scenario / hopes / drama in my head and feeding it a lot of juice ... what is at steak here? Going into a trip with a friend and an unspoken internal conflict doesn't exactly sound like the best recipe for happiness. The fact that many respondents here got your clearly stated gender wrong shows how 'loaded' this whole business of love and sex is for most humans. Good luck
Edited by laughingdog (01/14/15 09:54 PM)
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Re: Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? [Re: megmegme223]
#21122787 - 01/14/15 09:49 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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megmegme223 said: ...I don't really know much about tripping and how I'll act...
You've come to the right place. Welcome. This website is a treasure trove of information about tripping.
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Re: Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? [Re: searching]
#21122823 - 01/14/15 09:57 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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searching said: Just be aware that it may be harder to hide your feelings while tripping. I don't mean you're going to spill your guts and pronounce your love for him. I mean it will be harder to look at him without it being obvious that you have feelings. A time might come in the trip where he catches you looking at him fondly and he'll probably know at that point. Be prepared to handle that situation, it could be kind of awkward. Your best bet is to not just come out and tell him because you'll probably find that it's hard to express yourself with words when tripping. Just play it cool and act casual if possible. The non verbal communication is going to do most of the talking.
He might get the hint it could be the beginning of a beautiful relationship. 
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Re: Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? [Re: megmegme223]
#21122985 - 01/14/15 10:46 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's hard to say if it's a bad idea or not. With psychedelics your emotions can be extremely amplified and could make it obvious to him that you have feelings for him. You will still be in control of yourself, but it is possible that your body-language/facial expression while tripping could give you away.
If you decide to trip together, I would have some activities planned out that you can both engage in and just focus on the experience and not on your feelings for him too much. The whole 'Does he/she love me or not' spectrum of thoughts are torturous enough while sober. 
Good luck either way!
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Re: Doing shrooms with someone you have feelings for? [Re: Thetriangle]
#21123000 - 01/14/15 10:51 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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I mean ...what else are you gonna do in a hotel room? Maybe be sure to have a lot of extra shit to 'play' with or focus on.
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