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I need some advice, ill try to make it not ignorant this time.
    #21074606 - 01/05/15 11:05 PM (9 years, 4 months ago)

Ok. I posted before, and I was feeling really shitty, and it came out really bad and misleading.  I'm attempting to fix that.

*DISCLAIMER*  Some of the things I will write about myself will be fucked up, as I am a fucked up person like we all are.  Please don't judge me, I only want help and positive criticism and advice.  I am not claiming to be perfect, yes I am casting an observation, a "judgement" on some parts of this world, whether I am wrong or right, that is up to any of our opinions.

Ok I live a normal ass life for an 18 year old white kid.  I'm sure you can imagine well enough. I will say that I am terribly misunderstood if you could see the things going on in my head. I guess aren't we all though? I ain't for one fuckin second trying to say I'm different, or I'm special. I'm not complaining.

I've done some dumb shit, I've been a pussy in the past, maybe I still am, I don't know. I've fucked up, and I've felt real bad about it, maybe too much for too long.

I know one thing, I've always been a thinker.  I've always tried to be analytical and tend to overthink things that came natural to some people.  For example, I see a kid with a girl I like and think a massive train of thought about "how did he do that, why, what should I do, in very great detail"  which obviously can only lead to the opposite of getting a girl.  just an extremely superficial example.

I'll sum up my problem with the government in one thought.  Psychedelic drugs open your mind to the possibility that the things that we've been "taught" (indoctrinated, brainwashed, whatever the fuck you want to call it)
are wrong, and ridiculous, and they allow you to see through barriers that we've created and that we've had created for us. The government doesn't want us taking these drugs for a reason, this reason is my problem with the government.  As Terence McKenna said "Psychedelics are illegal not because a loving government is concerned that you may jump out of a third story window. Psychedelics are illegal because they dissolve opinion structures and culturally laid down models of behaviour and information processing. They open you up to the possibility that everything you know is wrong"


I have a problem with people, especially the baby boomer generation, who spread their toxic disease of a mindset with thoughts like "if you don't respect the police you deserve to be shot, this country is turning to a bunch of dope smoker, pot is a terrible horrible evil drug (while this person love bud light and Marlboro reds)"  I have a problem with privatized prisons, I have a problem with the people who are supposed to enforce the law having power and influence over the creation of the law.  I have a problem with people creating new laws to bend and dodge the original set of laws, to get around them.  Is there a problem with any of this?

I have a problem where I trap myself compulsively in anxiety, and I end up wasting a lot of time.  I'm a functional addict.  I still function, but I'm very addicted.  every time you have an obsessive compulsion, it makes the anxiety hurt less for a split second, from a neurochemical change, then you repeat it, and it compounds, until your entire life is composed of obsessive compulsions.  This is extremely painful and fucked up. 

At one point, In an isolated incident, I attempted to escape from this temporarily.  I took Xanax 1 time, I'm not a pill head.  1 Time.  1 night.  I was out of fucking control, I snapped and I lost it, I got arrested.  I'm now on probation for two years after spending a little while in jail.  I obsess over my probation, well not actually my probation but the fact that I "like" ( who likes to smoke weed, we all love it) to smoke weed, but can't.  It leads to these thought spirals of why the law is this way, its all a sick game for money, all that good stuff.

So I think about this a lot.  Which I guess is only a small problem.  But I want to do something with my life.  I don't want to become a corporate zombie. or a person who works their ass of thanklessly and no one appreciates it.  I get kind of depressed and just have low self esteem, I want to change that.  I want to live life to the fullest extent.

I want to move to California or Colorado, I feel like there has to be something out there for me.  like maybe in this brand new industry of legal marijuana I would have the chance to get involved in a business, or create an invention, or really change something.  Work hard, and have it pay off.  I'm not afraid to work.  I mean, imagine if alcohol or cigarettes just came to the market last year.  there's so many possibilities of potential market ideas. There is so much potential.  maybe I'm just having delusions of grandeur?

What I really love is motocross.  My dream is to have 40 acres and a dirt bike track, just to live with my family and have my close friends nearby.  Just live life. enjoy.  no bullshit, just out in the country. tight knit group of people around me, live around dirt bikes and good people that I love.  Get away from the instagram boasting and Kardashian worshipping, the mass media and everything.  Sounds simple enough right?  I want to make it happen.

I know this is just a mess of information, I just feel lost.  I feel kind of depressed, and I just want someone to talk to, some simple advice, any advice.  I know my life is good and not fucked up, I am lucky and blessed and I am truly grateful for the people around me and my circumstances and where I stand today.  My life is good, straight up, and relative to the people that have it a lot worse.


I have a small obsession with psychedelic chemistry, but people are so discouraging about it.  I'm somewhat intelligent, I think I could make it happen.  I'm sure as shit not albert hofman, but I'm also not a person who thinks that they're gonna find out how to synth lsd on the internet and ask people on forums "so how do you do this"  I realize anyone that knows how doesn't have to ask and isn't going to talk about it or even tell you they know.

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Re: I need some advice, ill try to make it not ignorant this time. [Re: Cung]
    #21074882 - 01/06/15 12:01 AM (9 years, 4 months ago)

You feel like a pussy? everyone is a pussy when it comes to something. I've seen hardcore motherfuckers that would fight a cop get nervous around a balloon.

Focusing on one girl and how someone else got them isn't good. Focus on how you got this/that girl and try to expand on that. Sure advice on getting girls may help, but that advice may have worked for someone with a very different type of charisma. It may not work for you.

Decisions got made and your on probation. Shit happens. Just play along, and be smart. you'll feel so much better once you finish it up.


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Re: I need some advice, ill try to make it not ignorant this time. [Re: Cung]
    #21074894 - 01/06/15 12:09 AM (9 years, 4 months ago)

Chapter 33

Those who understand others are intelligent
Those who understand themselves are enlightened

Those who overcome others have strength
Those who overcome themselves are powerful

Those who know contentment are wealthy
Those who proceed vigorously have willpower

Those who do not lose their base endure
Those who die but do not perish have longevity

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Re: I need some advice, ill try to make it not ignorant this time. [Re: Cung]
    #21074965 - 01/06/15 12:45 AM (9 years, 4 months ago)

I'm heading to bed but I just wanted to comment since I know how you feel. I too felt similar feelings (self-disappointment/loathing, fed up that the government preaches and practices lies and deception, almost every adult is misinformed about the true motifs of the government and doesn't even know about the higher up elite that control the worlds banks therefor controlling the world, annoyed that most people don't recognize that the pharmacutical company puts in millions and millions to spread negative propanda regarding safe medicines like cannabis and psychedelics all for the sake of money). I eventually began getting over the fact that so much that is taught and beilieved by both adults (physically atleast, I was more mentally an adult at 18 than most 30 year olds it seems) and the following generations is all lies. Although there is so much crap in life that is disappointing, there is also so much more than this physical world. This year, at 19 I have truely discovered spiriuality and it has completely changed my life for the better. The frequency that exists within all life known as god, or source, will allow you a complete reunderstanding of life and your true potential. I would definiely reccomend you start meditating, both with and without entheogens. Discover the oneness is all of life and petty day to day problems quickly lose any power they have over your mood or mindset. One of the most intriguing sites/ video series I have came across that introduces spirituality in a way that is less intimidating than trying to utilize Buddhist teachings is Spirit Science. It is a new age philosophy/ understand of the world that incorporates both spirituality and also science, making it all more understandable and practical. But my main point is, focus on seeking inner peace, do not blame yourself for your mystakes (I know this part is hard, even I still do it) but it truely serves no purpose other than to hinder your spiritual growth. Think of it this way, without that mistake that got you on probation, you wouldn't be searching for answers, and you would have never gotten this reply on your post seeking for advise. You create your own universe, literally. If you want that life with dirtbikes and good people around and ultimate inner peace, you must create that for yourself. It won't just happen out of luck. You know that, but you also know that you create your destiny. Just like how you created the possibility of getting arrested. Don't regret it, don't retret anything. But if you want something In life, you must choose to manifest it. There's no other way around it, I've learned. You can create the life you want, but karma is a serious factor in the universe and it does not make mistakes.
I want to leave you with an incredible book that I really suggest that you read, I'd also suggest checking out Spirit Science (you must keep your mind open, that doesn't mean it's not true, it just means it's not the stuff they teach in school of the stuff that is supported by the goverment. Meaning it could actually benifit you with a truely beautiful understanding of what "god" is and how to manifest the world you want to see. You will learn that you are immortal beyond your physical body and that the history books don't tell the true story of human life on Earth).  The book is called "Close your eyes & open your mind" by Dada Nabhaniilanada and I am pretty positive it will change your life so you should try to order a copy as soon as possible :smile: I hope life goes amazingly for you and that you end up with 50 acres, a great group of loving beings surrounding you, and constant inner peace. Focus on awaking yourself (you've already realized falsehoods I'm the gov, adult logic of "following tradition", maybe even the lies of religion. Keep going, seeking enlightenment always. When your ready, look into smaller things like how drinking fluoride is poisonous to the 3rd eye and body in general, how eating meat is harmful for the body, soul, and mind, and even how there are ascended masters like Buddha, Jesus, and THOTH (read the Emerald Tablets!) that have reached an immortal point of being that you too can get to with enough self discapline and spiritual growth. :smile: so my advice is read that book, embark on your spiritual path (spirit science videos help explain while Doaism and Buddhism lay out some very good teachings), and create the life you want. Don't get bogged down with the fact that you can't be assisted by the wonderful plant teacher Cannanbis, there's are far more benificial ways of obtaining introspection and euphoria, meditation being the best one I can reccomend (you won't feel the effects I'm talking about in the first few attempts , but I assure you that you will not be disappointed once you do tap into the infinite source of the universe :smile: ) There is so much out there you have yet to experience, just like there is for me. Forget material things, these will mean nothing to you once you return home to the universe :laugh: you will find inner peace, I know it. Create the wonderful life you want for yourself no matter how difficult it may seem at times, you always have a hand in what happens, no my tee what it may be :smile: namaste

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Re: I need some advice, ill try to make it not ignorant this time. [Re: Weiliithinker]
    #21075140 - 01/06/15 02:30 AM (9 years, 4 months ago)

These seeds of the life calling you are starting to realize are more real than anything a naysayer could tell you, is more real than the doubts that are produced by your own mind, more real than the "physical" reality that you see around you. They are your truth capital T. Follow them and do your best to make all your mistakes while you are young and get them out of the way.

Don't trust your emotions so much. You aren't as smart as you think. Take the attitude of being constantly vigilant towards your own errors and you will learn more quickly. You're only 18, give yourself a break. At the same time, don't give yourself a break if you actually want the things you talked about. Getting there (wherever there is. you probably don't have a completely clear vision of it yet, that may not come for a while) will seem impossible at times and if you don't have the constitution to endure the journey there you will end up like all the other people with broken dreams.

Nature isn't kind to fools. I have the right to say that to you out of experience. These are the things that I've learned ever since I set out on my own at your age. It may not be prudent for you to do what you really want to do, it may be a bad idea. It may bring you a lot of pain and hardship. It may bring you to a life that is everything that you could ever want. You won't know until you find out.

If you decide to take this path, when the time comes to make it happen, jump in completely with the whole of your being and do the fucking work.  Whatever happens after that will happen. Don't ever take the game too seriously, it's just a game. Read the fountainhead by ayn rand. I'm not a randite, I think she's kinda kooky in some ways but howard roark is a great character to take characteristics from in terms of creating and working towards things.

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Re: I need some advice, ill try to make it not ignorant this time. [Re: saenchai]
    #21080174 - 01/06/15 10:20 PM (9 years, 4 months ago)

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Some of the things I will write about myself will be fucked up, as I am a fucked up person like we all are. 



Speak for yourself dude, I'm not "fucked up" at all. Even if I were, starting from that negative of a premise wouldn't help me get any better.

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I will say that I am terribly misunderstood if you could see the things going on in my head. I guess aren't we all though?



Nope.

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I know one thing, I've always been a thinker.  I've always tried to be analytical and tend to overthink things that came natural to some people.  For example, I see a kid with a girl I like and think a massive train of thought about "how did he do that, why, what should I do, in very great detail"  which obviously can only lead to the opposite of getting a girl.  just an extremely superficial example.




Dude that is the farthest you can ever come from a superficial example. Spend some more time on REALLY analyzing this issue, and you will find that it's an expression of the most fundamental processes of your life. I sometimes tell people to check out PUA, to learn at least some theory if they're at nerd level (which is fine, we all start that way) but it's not to "get some pussy" on a superficial level.

I tell people to get better at this because to get the (at least non-drunk, non-retarded) pussy, one has to start noticing wtf they do.

The "tendency" (or more accurately allowing oneself to) overthink is a HUGE aspect of just how people give themselves a bad time. It goes to how you use your internal electricity, and it can go on one of 3 possible ways:
- in your head
- out the mouth
- out by the limbs, via action.

I can bet you that they guy with the girl used the last two, and if he's any good mostly the third one (didn't have to do much talking), whereas you're afraid to do shit (by the third way, actual movement) and so for now you dwell around the first two. Thinking in your head (A LOT) and talking talking, empty talk, not that much actual limb movement, which is what counts. This is a choice. Every day you have some amount of freedom to educate good habits (circuit 3, focused limb movement, doing shit on task) or idle and overthink and blah blah about it. YOU hold the key, whether you use it or not.

Analyze this stuff more in depth, it's FAR from superficial. It's great that you brought it up :thumbup:

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I have a problem where I trap myself compulsively in anxiety, and I end up wasting a lot of time.



Good that you know. Now you can actually get to work on it and it's very much a solvable problem.

Listen to this and listen well.

YOU give yourself the anxiety, and from there the shit starts.

YOu have the power to become anxious (by breathing incorrectly) or to be chill, by breathing chill.

ALL of your anxiety is in essence holding your breath. A poor thinking-to-moving ratio. Overthinking and under-moving. Notice that whenever you're sitting on your ass overthinking shit in your head, your breath is shallow. YOu should be MOVING every single day, as that will correct your breath and that in turns corrects your thinking, you get less anxiety, more deep breath and confidence and you actually fix problems, as opposed to fruitlessly worrying about them.

THERE IS NO WAY AROUND THIS. YOu either move, to learn proper breathing and that supports smarter, more relevant thinking, or you'll continue to remain a nerd, wasting your energy in your head with what coulda been shoulda been, useless thinking that goes nowhere really.

THat's your situation. Nerd/idle thinker, OR mover/breather/doer. Every day you move more towards the first or the second.

ANd that is YOUR ONLY problem. I can tell you I have the same restrictions and laws that you live under, but because I breathe better, I have more internal resources and laws and rules are completely irrelevant to me.

Nobody from the outside can stop you, if you're your own man. If you dictate how you breathe, you're the king. If others dictate it, if you have to wait on permission to breathe confidently about something (oh it's legal, now I'm allowed :rolleyes:) then you're basically still a nerd, a beta, a kid, a wuss. With poor breath comes the lack of imagination that fails to go around borders, laws, retarded rules. When that legality paper is gone, your confidence and peace of mind are gone too. Well if you have the breath, energy and imagination, you don't need laws and permission on your side, you have your own ways to get shit done. Not by whining, but by doing.

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It leads to these thought spirals of why the law is this way, its all a sick game for money, all that good stuff.



Dude, these are bullshit excuses for you to get yourself into some whiney bitch states. Learn to relax. Learn to breathe. Laws have nothing to do with it. YOur inability to lead your electricity properly (direct thoughts in your head) as well as inability to breathe fully, is what causes anxiety. So YOU cause your own anxiety in this way. YOU chose continually to ignore your own physical movement and how you work your lungs, and get lost in bullshit thought patterns about things you're too weak to control, at this point.

Put your own oxygen mask on first. Get powerful. Get control. BReathe well. Move. Exercise. Get stronger. THEN AND ONLY THEN are you to start tackling larger matters, like the laws or whatever. If you think about them now, you'll just waste energy and waste a bunch of pussy you could have been plowing and learning and growing from.

So the order of things is personal power - girls and new friends - then worry about laws and changing the world. If you can't be bothered with the first two, if you're lazy, rushed and try to skip steps, you'll just stay in the chaos and confusion and low energy.

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So I think about this a lot.  Which I guess is only a small problem.



On the contrary, this is THE MAIN PROBLEM OF LIFE. Can you control your thoughts toward something useful, clear, or are you getting lost in spam and minutia? Overthinking over the wrong topics is THE way to waste your life. Take control now or remain a victim. Nobody can do it for you. You either take charge and do it, or it doesn't get done.

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But I want to do something with my life.



What? What specifically? Paint me a picture. Put it down here, what you DO want.

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I don't want to become a corporate zombie. or a person who works their ass of thanklessly and no one appreciates it.  I get kind of depressed and just have low self esteem, I want to change that.



Into what? Paint me a picture.

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I want to live life to the fullest extent.




In what way? Paint me a picture of it, clear, so I can understand. Give me details. Give me the list. I want to do this, this and this. If you don't have the list yet, then take 5, get up from your comp, take pen and paper and write a list. THen come back and put it down here. YOu'd better have more than 10 minutes of thinking time put into that list, because it's your life. Use LONG attention span on that one, not short. Get not just vague ideas, but get dates, budgets, when and where, how, who can help you, etc. Get some proper data to start thinking with. Your brain will come through for you, but feed it proper accurate relevant data to work with.

IF you want to do things right, try this combo:
- Get up from your comp.
- Go move, jump, do push-ups, do whatever you have to do to get a good sweat going
- Do this for a good 10-15 mins, on the clock. OR 3-4 songs in your playlist, just find some way to measure time accurately.
- THen and only then, after the jumping and sweating, then sit down and start thinking about what you want to do with your life, pen and paper in hand. As you do that, notice your breathing before the workout and after. Notice your emotions before and after. THose endorphins from the exercise go a long long way, toward giving you good ideas.

Now the catch is: if instead of exercising (running electricity into your limbs) you post some crap excuse about why you can't (second circuit, letting it out by the mouth) or think in your head and think to yourself that it can't work (first circuit, in the head) then basically you will remain in nerd mode. Sad as it may be, that's the truth. Your world, your choice :shrug:

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I'm somewhat intelligent, I think I could make it happen.



You can make anything happen, if you set your mind and breath and limbs to it, in the right order, with some patience and good design. BUt start with the beginning, move to the middle, and finish with the end.

Right now, no offense, I am telling you this straight up because I feel you can take it as it is, you strike me as an anxious nerd. Which is not that fun but perfectly fixable. I was one as well, so I know for a fact you can outgrow that. So start there. Fix the nerdiness, then based on that foundation, you'll be able to do everything else. Learn enough chemistry (or find other full blown chemists to team up with) to synth anything you want synthed, start a business, find inventions, improve the laws, save the planet, anything.

Just do things in the proper order.

IMO the places to start are:
- Get A LOT more Omega 3 in your food. I am talking greens, nuts, fish, healthy fats. If you can afford it, pills (fish oil) and spirulina/chlorella.
- Get A LOT more movement and exercise, outside if possible. You need A LOT more oxygen circulating through you. You've been extremely idle, and wasting A LOT of nutrients and neurotransmitters with idle overthinking about useless crap. No need for guilt trips, what's done is done, but start MOVING that body, not just sitting around overthinking. MOVE.
- Study some PUA on teh side. Head over to RSD on youtube for instance, or find any author, forum or info that you like, but start doing SOMETHING to connect better to the girls. I suggest video and audio material, as opposed to reading text, because video/audio trains your neurology faster to talk and be in a certain mindset, whereas books just don't have that, they don't transmit voice and body language.

Once you're
- fit
- eat right
- have some new friends and girls in your life
- have some written down plans with enough data

Then you'll notice a much clearer headspace, much more ability to feel good in your own skin and do what you want to do. Enjoy :biggrin:


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Re: I need some advice, ill try to make it not ignorant this time. [Re: Spacerific]
    #21082434 - 01/07/15 01:42 PM (9 years, 4 months ago)

You have an obsession with psychedelic chemistry? Perhaps use this to escape. Do you want to be a legit chemist or an underground chemist. There are different paths for each... I think you need something in your life to focus your energy on. You may think your life is a mess but you're still young and can turn it around. It takes determination and hard work. good luck

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Re: I need some advice, ill try to make it not ignorant this time. [Re: shroomnymph] * 1
    #21090007 - 01/08/15 09:40 PM (9 years, 4 months ago)

The late teens / early to mid 20s are confusing for literally everyone.  Corny or cliche perhaps, but the journey begins with a single step.  Rarely say no to possibilities or adventures and think about an ultimate place you want to be and set sail for that place.  Just as Columbus meant to arrive at India but instead found America, you too may find a place different than you expected.  That's part of the adventure.

In my view, your naive view of "corporate america" is flawed.  I am a white collar employee.  I party, see shows, go on adventures, whatever the fuck I want.  I felt the same as you about Colorado, so I moved there to see the bands I wanted to see.  It's great.  Probably the best place in the country. 

There is no magic, instant antidote to how you feel.  Live life and you just figure it out.  Accept the ride that you're on and don't try to control too much and you'll do fine.  Just make sure to finish your probation in a responsible way or you're going to get burned.  The key to being successful in your age range is to take a lot of calculated risks, get burned sometimes within limit, and trod onward through learning from your mistakes.  By having these thoughts, sounds like you are doing better than you think.


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Re: I need some advice, ill try to make it not ignorant this time. [Re: All We Perceive]
    #21103102 - 01/11/15 05:40 PM (9 years, 4 months ago)

Sounds like you focus on your thoughts too much. One of the greatest things I've learned recently is that the mind is a tool used to solve problems. This is great for building a house or rescuing a cat from a tree, bad for things that happen when you just let go.

That pick up shit is fake, manipulative mind games. Real relationships happen when you have something in common with people. That dude got that girl because they started talking and found out they really like eachother. That's it.

When my little cousins ask me how to flirt with girls, I tell them have a normal conversation or small talk with them, and every once in a while slip in a tease, a compliment or some sort of implication that you dig em.

Don't let your brain overcomplicate shit.

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Re: I need some advice, ill try to make it not ignorant this time. [Re: ChexMix]
    #21103352 - 01/11/15 06:38 PM (9 years, 4 months ago)

You want girl advice? Listen to them. Don't just hear the words they say. Actually listen to what they talk about, sincerely. Don't think about anything but what she is taking about. Girls like it when a guy listens to them, cause if your self absorbed your only gonna find an idiot chick with nothing good to say. IME it works.


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Re: I need some advice, ill try to make it not ignorant this time. [Re: Spacerific]
    #21103372 - 01/11/15 06:41 PM (9 years, 4 months ago)

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I'm not "fucked up" at all.






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Re: I need some advice, ill try to make it not ignorant this time. [Re: sprinkles]
    #21103557 - 01/11/15 07:22 PM (9 years, 4 months ago)

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sprinkles said:
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Spacerific said:
I'm not "fucked up" at all.






:ahahaha:




oh my god! That is some classic shit. Says the boy who claims to heal broken women with his dirty dick


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Re: I need some advice, ill try to make it not ignorant this time. [Re: azur]
    #21103824 - 01/11/15 08:12 PM (9 years, 4 months ago)

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Re: I need some advice, ill try to make it not ignorant this time. [Re: sprinkles]
    #21104218 - 01/11/15 09:10 PM (9 years, 4 months ago)

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sprinkles said:
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Spacerific said:
I'm not "fucked up" at all.






:ahahaha:




I'm surprised you read through that.  Spacerific always write huge manifestos in every post like he's like speeded out or something.


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Re: I need some advice, ill try to make it not ignorant this time. [Re: All We Perceive]
    #21104226 - 01/11/15 09:12 PM (9 years, 4 months ago)

Not speeded out. Just thinks he's a demigod


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Re: I need some advice, ill try to make it not ignorant this time. [Re: azur]
    #21105219 - 01/12/15 12:30 AM (9 years, 4 months ago)

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That pick up shit is fake, manipulative mind games. Real relationships happen when you have something in common with people. That dude got that girl because they started talking and found out they really like eachother. That's it.



The "pick up shit" runs the gamut dude, from superficial "what to say" crap, to much deeper matters like growing as a man and feeling OK in one's own skin, being ok with saying and hearing no, knowing one's limits and boundaries and so on.

If you look into Paul Dobransky's stuff for instance (and I still consider this to be related to PUA material) you'll find it contains zero tricks of what to say when meeting some chick somewhere.

I'd respond to these geniuses above but I just can't be bothered, you guys go wild, do your whining thing :shrug:


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For truly, I say to you, many prophets and righteous people longed to see what you see, and did not see it,
and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it.
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