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How much does age matter to you?
#21005157 - 12/20/14 08:54 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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Basically, I want to know how many people here would bang a hot 18 year old. A lot of people turn there nose up at big age differences, but if it's legal and consensual for both parties, what's the big deal?
Discuss
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Re: How much does age matter to you? [Re: guitardude3] 1
#21005243 - 12/20/14 09:08 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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age mattered to me back in highschool when everyone was in the same stage of life: live at home, have shit for income, worried about popularity, etc.
Ever since I graduated college, age doesn't matter a bit to me - it's all about stage of life and stage of mind. This is how i think about prospective partners:
stage of mind is the girl confident and happy with themselves? is she independent? do they make their choices based on the opinions of others, or of society as a whole?
stage of life is the person economic reliant? are they past their "lets go clubbing" stage? are our tastes and interests similarly aligned? are our long-term goals coincident?
but to answer your question: i'd feel creepy and dirty fucking an 18 year old. but if she was insistent upon hopping on my dick, knowing full well that there was no longevity to be had; i wouldn't push her off my lap. 18 is old enough to know wtf you're doing, even if the choices being made aren't necessarily sane or intelligent.
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Re: How much does age matter to you? [Re: memes]
#21005620 - 12/20/14 10:36 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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Anyone else care to take a stab here? Guys or gals! I'm pretty much with you on that one. It really depends on the level of mental/social maturity for me. I probably couldn't have a LTR with someone way younger than me, but never is a strong word. I just think people are way too weird about sex. If you're attractive, and I'm attractive to you, we aren't breaking laws or hearts, is there a problem? Or is this insecurity just part of our sexually oppressive social stigmas?
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Re: How much does age matter to you? [Re: guitardude3]
#21005746 - 12/20/14 11:14 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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Not looking for a relationship, so age doesn't really matter as long as they are attractive. Last guy I had sex with was 21 years younger.
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Re: How much does age matter to you? [Re: koods]
#21005943 - 12/21/14 12:20 AM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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Matters alot for LTR. Not so much for a fling/hookup, although I am not really into those, anything more than 4 years younger would probably make me feel guilty/weird, simply because many girls that age are still quite immature.
I feel like as we age (30's plus) age becomes less of an issue, because the transition from young to mature flattens out. ie. a 30 and a 40 year old are probably more compatible and in similar life stages than a 20 and 30 year old, in many cases.
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Re: How much does age matter to you? [Re: PDU]
#21006352 - 12/21/14 05:28 AM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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I prefer older, more to learn from and less pretentious.
Though I do have strictly platonic friends my own age.
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Re: How much does age matter to you? [Re: koods]
#21006839 - 12/21/14 09:39 AM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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koods said: Not looking for a relationship, so age doesn't really matter as long as they are attractive. Last guy I had sex with was 21 years younger.
last girl I was with was 25 years younger.
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Re: How much does age matter to you? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#21006954 - 12/21/14 10:11 AM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm in my 40s and 35 is about the low limit for what I'm interested in, although intellectual age counts for something... I had a relationship with a 29 year old recently who was as mature as anyone I've ever dated. Still, the differences in common experiences make it hard to find things to talk about sometimes. I saw Reagan say "Mr. Gorbachev, tear down this wall!" and she said "It's so weird that there used to be a wall."
We had a good time together because it wasn't anything serious for either of us. She listened to my stories about life before the internet and she explained how reddit works to me. The novelty of that wore off in a few months, and we parted ways as friends, but it would have been hard to have a serious relationship with someone 15 years younger than me.
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Re: How much does age matter to you? [Re: Srirachi]
#21007144 - 12/21/14 11:13 AM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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if you are talking about sex , then as long as everyone involved is of age and consents- nothing. i have dated older and established short term relationships, i just don't think we all understood each-other and sex was the only thing going for it.
I think if anyone is going for a young and old relationship, think twice about it. i would say its hard to get right for anyone, besides my own experience. If you are looking for just sex, then have fun. but it's hard not to want another drink after the first sip. And often you find yourself liking the drink and craving it.
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Re: How much does age matter to you? [Re: koods]
#21007511 - 12/21/14 01:05 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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koods said: Not looking for a relationship, so age doesn't really matter as long as they are attractive. Last guy I had sex with was 21 years younger.
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Re: How much does age matter to you? [Re: joe Biggs]
#21010367 - 12/21/14 11:44 PM (9 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm very attracted to older women (for me that's about 29-40).
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