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Alyssa
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Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual?
#20935489 - 12/05/14 10:22 PM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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I believe behavior in society is the result of social conditioning. Deeply rooted cultural taboos around female sexuality, bombardment with media that glamorizes male-dominated sexuality, the male-dominated paradigm being the only one presented by parents, schools and medical institutions and reinforced through social pressure and the suppression of sex education in general in favor of the patriarchal concept of the family are what I see as the main factors in the persistence of recreational penetrative sex.
The pleasure that is commonly attributed to the vagina is actually the result of clitoral stimulation during vaginal sex. Manual stimulation of the clitoris eliminates the pain of penetration and provides vastly more pleasure. Is this not a very well-known fact? And in cases where ignorance isn't the reason for consent, is it self-sacrifice to please males? Mutual masturbation is totally fair. I find it very disturbing, considering how obvious it is to me, how alone I am in saying this.
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Edited by Alyssa (12/05/14 10:23 PM)
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: Alyssa] 1
#20935665 - 12/05/14 10:54 PM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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because women love the dick. i will eat a girl out but she still wants to be fucked
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#20935987 - 12/06/14 12:42 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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I communicate with my lovers. Never had a problem with foreplay. You don't personally enjoy penetration?
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Edited by Euphie (12/06/14 12:51 AM)
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Alyssa
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: Euphie]
#20936016 - 12/06/14 01:05 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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Euphie said: I communicate with my lovers. Never had a problem with foreplay. You don't personally enjoy penetration?
I've never experienced it, just like I've never experienced putting my hand in a pot of boiling water. I'm not sure you understood my question, I'm asking why every sexual act I'm willing to engage in is considered foreplay.
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: Euphie]
#20936018 - 12/06/14 01:06 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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Euphie said: I communicate with my lovers. Never had a problem with foreplay. You don't personally enjoy penetration?
I have seen posts of her's before on the topic. She seems to suggest that true female sexuality does not involve penetration, which to me makes no sense. Foreplay is far less intimate than penetration, and far less likely to get the girl pregnant. Does not seem like true female sexuality to me.
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: Alyssa]
#20936025 - 12/06/14 01:08 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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Alyssa said:
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Euphie said: I communicate with my lovers. Never had a problem with foreplay. You don't personally enjoy penetration?
I've never experienced it, just like I've never experienced putting my hand in a pot of boiling water. I'm not sure you understood my question, I'm asking why every sexual act I'm willing to engage in is considered foreplay.
cause mutual masterbation does not shoot sperm into the vagina. I pose the idea that the vagina looks as it does for a reason.
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: thelanzii]
#20936028 - 12/06/14 01:11 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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Until you have a g-spot orgasm, you will think the clit orgasm is the best. And you can have a clit orgasm at the same time as penetration, you can finger yourself at the same time!!!
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: Alyssa]
#20936070 - 12/06/14 01:45 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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Alyssa said:
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Euphie said: I communicate with my lovers. Never had a problem with foreplay. You don't personally enjoy penetration?
I've never experienced it, just like I've never experienced putting my hand in a pot of boiling water. I'm not sure you understood my question, I'm asking why every sexual act I'm willing to engage in is considered foreplay.
You've never experienced it so you just assume its unpleasant? While I will agree that foreplay is still sex, I think penetration is very intimate and enjoyable. There is a reason it can be considered making love when done properly.
However I think oral sex and other forms of foreplay are still sex and very enjoyable to both partners. No one said it wasn't still sex, or non-sexual in anyway. Its called foreplay only because its the sex that happens before the more climactic "finishing event". However, in my experience, it can be equally as intimate.
No matter what gender I'm with the intimate moment is about both people, not just one, or one gender. Equal give and take.
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: Alyssa]
#20936291 - 12/06/14 04:51 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: Alyssa]
#20936473 - 12/06/14 06:52 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: because women love the dick. i will eat a girl out but she still wants to be fucked
Apparently, too many men leant how to go down on a girl from porn, and thus do a horrible job. You probably aren't doing a good job... no offense, just repeating what i heard from a girl.
In saying that though, there are complicated dom/sub roles that apply with couples to varying degrees; for some people these roles may be be important enough that they're needed for orgasm. Coitus is the oldest representation of these two roles. Some women may need penetration to gain the right mental state to orgasm.
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Distorted Vision said: g-spot orgasm
There's also that
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: Magenta]
#20936479 - 12/06/14 06:56 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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I have made chicks fucking levitate. They beg me for it, but chicks simply like the dick as well.
I did my homework read a few books on cunnilingus and watched a 90 minute video on pornhub about it. I wanted to be a good lover so they come back for more
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: Alyssa]
#20936484 - 12/06/14 07:00 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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Some women like having their g-spot stimulated. Also, vaginal intercourse triggers the release of oxytocin. This also happens during orgasm, but that doesn't make penetration moot.
Also also, humans have evolved to tie sexuality very closely to procreation on a subconscious level. I imagine the desire to put things (specifically a penis) into the vagina has to have at least a little to do with millions of years of genetic programming.
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#20936485 - 12/06/14 07:01 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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I have made chicks fucking levitate. They beg me for it
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watched a 90 minute video on pornhub about it
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: Masked]
#20936489 - 12/06/14 07:02 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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LOL
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: sun_spots]
#20936490 - 12/06/14 07:02 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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sun_spots said: Some women like having their g-spot stimulated. Also, vaginal intercourse triggers the release of oxytocin. This also happens during orgasm, but that doesn't make penetration moot.
Also also, humans have evolved to tie sexuality very closely to procreation on a subconscious level. I imagine the desire to put things (specifically a penis) into the vagina has to have at least a little to do with millions of years of genetic programming.

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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: sun_spots]
#20936492 - 12/06/14 07:03 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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sun_spots said: LOL
I'm in a weird mood right now. lol Just got off a night shift and went to my 12 hour shift very emotionally drained to begin with.
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: Alyssa]
#20936497 - 12/06/14 07:08 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've never experienced it


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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: Masked]
#20936501 - 12/06/14 07:10 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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-------------------- ShiVersblood said: shut ur fucking mouth. before a penis is are be enters LordSenate said: Cheese poop... Who gives a fuck gotta eat lots of cheese.
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: sun_spots]
#20936513 - 12/06/14 07:16 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: Why is non-procreative vaginal or anal sex ever consensual? [Re: Masked]
#20936537 - 12/06/14 07:25 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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-------------------- ShiVersblood said: shut ur fucking mouth. before a penis is are be enters LordSenate said: Cheese poop... Who gives a fuck gotta eat lots of cheese.
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