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how to meet women when I don't have social interactions?
#20932281 - 12/05/14 10:43 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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So my situation is that I live alone, work from home, don't go to school, and am 20 so I can't go to bars. And in August i broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years due to her cheating on me, i'm kind of at a loss now for how to meet women as i'm never in social situations anymore. The closest thing i get to that is going to the gym 6 days a week, but everyone usually says thats a terrible place to approach women, i'll also go to a coffee shop sometimes to work. But i always felt it was weird to approach random women out of the blue to hit on them.
I'm obviously pretty rusty on my game to since i was with my last girlfriend for so long.
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Re: how to meet women when I don't have social interactions? [Re: psyconaught]
#20932651 - 12/05/14 12:07 PM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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Alcohol and MDMA at a club/bar
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Re: how to meet women when I don't have social interactions? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#20932701 - 12/05/14 12:19 PM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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20 so I can't go to bars
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Re: how to meet women when I don't have social interactions? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#20932710 - 12/05/14 12:21 PM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Alcohol and MDMA at a club/bar
Good idea, but he is only 20. Of course you can get a fake, or just wait till your 21. I know the world of internet dating is crazy and can be odd to say the least, but try that. POF.com is totally free plenty of bitches on there. sign on and have fun. Dont be scared to approach woman, as long as you are respectful, the worst that can happen is they ignore you or say no. In this game, 3 strikes dont mean your out. Just be careful the woman doesnt have a bf close by. lol Honestly i have had luck picking up ladies at the gym, cant go by some people's adage. Either way goodluck playa
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Re: how to meet women when I don't have social interactions? [Re: Gdivski]
#20932737 - 12/05/14 12:25 PM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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Dont be scared to approach woman, as long as you are respectful, the worst that can happen is they ignore you or say no. In this game, 3 strikes dont mean your out.
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Honestly i have had luck picking up ladies at the gym, cant go by some people's adage.
what do you usually do/say to initiate conversation? I have no problem once I start talking, its just approaching them in the first place outside of places where its expected that i get weird haha
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Re: how to meet women when I don't have social interactions? [Re: psyconaught]
#20932777 - 12/05/14 12:32 PM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well thats the hard part, lol. It is hard with some woman because they have them damn headphones in when they work out. If they are wearing something with a sports team on it, thats a good place to start. Another one is cheesy but works, is compliments on their form of technique. The gym is a little tough for picking a woman but can be done.
Hell when i was 20, I was introduced to 32 year old. WOOOOOOOOWWWW is all i can say. She opened me up to a whole new world. Probably is why I find it hard to be in a monogamous relationship now. I loved older women since. Something to shoot for, internet helps with that.
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Re: how to meet women when I don't have social interactions? [Re: Gdivski]
#20932794 - 12/05/14 12:37 PM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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The gym is a little tough for picking a woman but can be done.
unfortunately thats really my only outlet to meet women
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I loved older women since. Something to shoot for, internet helps with that.
i've never been with a women older than me, maybe something to consider haha!
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Re: how to meet women when I don't have social interactions? [Re: psyconaught]
#20932819 - 12/05/14 12:42 PM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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You dont know what you are missing. Women tend to hit their prime around 30's, while men tend to fall off their prime around then. This is one reason why there are so many failed relationships due to sexual needs, IMO.
Try POF.com, There are plenty of ladies on there. Its free. No credit card needed.
If you wanna spend money, there are sites out there that are for cougars, but you have to watch out for scams.
Its a totally different ball game with them. They know what they want and how to get it, not afraid to experiment, or show you something. Not saying all older women are like that. Just some. You have to find that one thats fresh off a divorce, but DONT GET ATTACHED.
You will look back on this an be like damn, I shoulda tried that at 18. lol Once again, you may strike out, but get back on deck and swing away.
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Re: how to meet women when I don't have social interactions? [Re: Gdivski]
#20932836 - 12/05/14 12:44 PM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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Are you near a college campus?
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Re: how to meet women when I don't have social interactions? [Re: Gdivski]
#20932864 - 12/05/14 12:51 PM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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i'll have to try hitting up some cougars more often
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Gdivski said: Are you near a college campus?
yes i am, a pretty decently sized one too. I live in a quasi college town.
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Re: how to meet women when I don't have social interactions? [Re: psyconaught]
#20932881 - 12/05/14 12:55 PM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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Only problem i foresee is your not 21 to go out with them to drink. But some women dont like bars. Hell offer them some shrooms, go on a great trip. Im in college, hands down best place to meet ladies. Go hangout there and try. Hell find the big party, take your party favors and walk on up. Bitches everywhere. Im at a hugh university, there are women of every color, size, shape, ethnicity. Cant go wrong there. Might help to carry a bookbag to fit in. lol
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Re: how to meet women when I don't have social interactions? [Re: Gdivski]
#20932894 - 12/05/14 12:58 PM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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just wander the campus asking about parties?
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Re: how to meet women when I don't have social interactions? [Re: psyconaught]
#20932934 - 12/05/14 01:07 PM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yea, why not. Or ease drop on peoples's convo. I dont know how things are set up where you are, but at our university there is alot of housing around campus, you can see the party or hear them at night.
Maybe meet some guy friends at the school who can steer you in the right direction.
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