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Unfolding Nature Shop: Unfolding Nature: Being in the Implicate Order

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Re: My wife objects to using plants [Re: Nature Boy] * 1
    #19905340 - 04/26/14 11:39 PM (9 years, 9 months ago)

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I don't understand how a person ends up in a relationship/married to someone that doesn't agree with something that they do...in this case, using psychoactive plants.




That's easy to answer. I was married a long time before I re-discovered my earlier-in-life, long-forgotten interest in psychedelics, and subsequently established a network to obtain/cultivate said plants/products and took up the pastime once again.

That's how it happens.

My solution was to keep my psychedelic use a complete secret and trip only when my wife is out of town.  Her family lives 5 hours away, and she goes to see them often enough so it isn't a burden to me to wait on those occasions.

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she must wonder why you get so happy when she's about to go see her family...:lmafo:


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Re: My wife objects to using plants [Re: jboredone]
    #20750293 - 10/25/14 04:07 AM (9 years, 3 months ago)

I want to inform, more then a year after I started the thread.
After a lot of difficult struggle, including objection of my parents and our religious leaders I think we have managed to reach some peace.
We have had a conversation in which my wife asked me to tell her the truth of when I am using Ayahuaska, and to do it in times and places that she agrees.
And therefore with this compromise we have reached into agreement.
From my point of view it is a compromise since I cannot do it on night time, which I prefare.
I think her agreement relates both to the fact of my insistence, and that she sees the god results of the medicine on me.
Just to explain to those who don't understand her behavior. I think it is understandable that people fear hallucinogenic plant. And also she has many good qualities in her. you cannot  throw away the person because you don't agree on a few issues. I have learned and grown a lot from this relationship from both similarities and differences. I assume this is the way in every relationship. One interesting method is Imago and the book "Getting the Love You Want" that explains that power struggle is normal and overcoming it is a way to heal.  I suspect those who don't understand it might not have been in relationship long enough. 
Also one of the things one learns from the plants is to care and respect how other people feel, and I feel it is my responsibility to reduce her stress.


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