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Ballerium
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: Sleepwalker]
#18397078 - 06/10/13 12:23 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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closed veil said: It's a 2 year old thread that got bumped by a puppet,  No-one cares if we are off-topic.

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Ballerium said: the way I see it is that we're both going to have to get better at communication at some point
Not necessarily. I hope it works out though.
Thank you. But what do you mean not necessarily?
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: Ballerium] 2
#18397115 - 06/10/13 12:31 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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In a better world we would all continually improve ourselves, and no-one would get stuck in a rut. Now, I don't know you or your dude, but it's quite possible that things will not get any better. It sounds like you are ready to put in the effort, but will he reciprocate?
My point is, he could go his entire life and not get a bit better at communicating without causing trouble. On the other hand, he could snap out of it, realize what you mean to him, and try harder to make it work. There are just no guarantees and I hope you can continue to keep a realistic eye on things and get out if you have to.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: Sleepwalker]
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Ballerium
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: Sleepwalker]
#18397398 - 06/10/13 01:40 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Sleepwalker said: In a better world we would all continually improve ourselves, and no-one would get stuck in a rut. Now, I don't know you or your dude, but it's quite possible that things will not get any better. It sounds like you are ready to put in the effort, but will he reciprocate?
My point is, he could go his entire life and not get a bit better at communicating without causing trouble. On the other hand, he could snap out of it, realize what you mean to him, and try harder to make it work. There are just no guarantees and I hope you can continue to keep a realistic eye on things and get out if you have to.
Ahh yeah, I see what you are saying. I'm hopeful that if I make an effort, he will do the same. Certainly not blaming all the problems on him, as I do have a hot temper at times myself and when you have two people that suck at communicating like we do, buttons get pushed pretty easily haha. We'll see what happens.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: broken] 1
#18398125 - 06/10/13 04:15 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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closed veil said: It's a 2 year old thread that got bumped by a puppet,  No-one cares if we are off-topic.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: Ballerium] 2
#18398210 - 06/10/13 04:36 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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I've been in relationships where I kept saying it was external circumstances that prevented us from being happy, from progress together, etc. The reality is that I waited and waited for those circumstances to change thinking that once they did, everything else would work out. I'll tell you from experience the only thing that happened was wasting a lot of time where I could've been happier doing something else, somewhere else, alone or with someone else. Life is too short.
You know your relationship better than anyone else here but I can say that you are obviously very beautiful, intelligent, loving, and sweet. Maybe it's time to add 'happy' to that list as well.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: keyohnah]
#18399204 - 06/10/13 08:14 PM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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keyohnah said: I've been in relationships where I kept saying it was external circumstances that prevented us from being happy, from progress together, etc. The reality is that I waited and waited for those circumstances to change thinking that once they did, everything else would work out. I'll tell you from experience the only thing that happened was wasting a lot of time where I could've been happier doing something else, somewhere else, alone or with someone else. Life is too short.
You know your relationship better than anyone else here but I can say that you are obviously very beautiful, intelligent, loving, and sweet. Maybe it's time to add 'happy' to that list as well.
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CaptainFantasy said: Because it's like being choked with a hot dog, but at least the hot dog tastes okay..
you could always flavor it with some tasty oils lol
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: Ballerium] 1
#18402531 - 06/11/13 11:23 AM (10 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ballerium said: I need him to get on my page on a lot more things than just sex. Communication is our biggest problem and every time I try to discuss an issue with him, it ends up blowing up into an argument with me crying and him threatening to leave me. Nothing ever gets solved. Maybe I should go make a thread on communication because I seriously need advice. 
Damn girl. That's a really unhealthy relationship. You deserve better. As painful/hard as it'll be at first, I really think you need to drop the axe on this relationship. Move on, focus on yourself for a while, then find a man that'll treat you the way that you deserve to be treated. You'll be way better off & happier in the long run if you do this.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: mushiepussy]
#18584504 - 07/20/13 11:18 AM (10 years, 7 months ago) |
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If you watch the movie Bachelorette (on Netflix) when shes on the plane is explains Blow Jobs perfectly. WATCH IT
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: mushiepussy]
#20568808 - 09/14/14 09:46 PM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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I am one of those chicks who hated blow jobs so I understand what you are dealing with. I even made myself really good at it so when I felt I had to do it that it wouldn't last that long. I'm very much so into it now. It is sometimes hard to admit. My last bf had no idea. I never told him how much I loved seeing his reactions to what I was doing. I would say if you are involved with a chick who isn't into it do something for her to make her want to get you off in that way. Also, sometime encouragement and letting her know what like when she does it might be helpful.
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Not all girls hate blow jobs. Some like it a lot. You marry the one that likes it a lot.
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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: pwnasaurus]
#20570557 - 09/15/14 12:37 PM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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keyohnah said: I've been in relationships where I kept saying it was external circumstances that prevented us from being happy, from progress together, etc. The reality is that I waited and waited for those circumstances to change thinking that once they did, everything else would work out. I'll tell you from experience the only thing that happened was wasting a lot of time where I could've been happier doing something else, somewhere else, alone or with someone else. Life is too short.
You know your relationship better than anyone else here but I can say that you are obviously very beautiful, intelligent, loving, and sweet. Maybe it's time to add 'happy' to that list as well.

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Re: Why do girls hate blowjobs? [Re: pfxtc] 2
#20574036 - 09/16/14 05:49 AM (9 years, 5 months ago) |
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pfxtc said: Not all girls hate blow jobs. Some like it a lot. You marry the one that likes it a lot.
the girls with a penis like it a lot
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