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Invisibletak
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This girl i know
    #2022893 - 10/19/03 04:55 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

So... There was this girl I used to like about a year ago, but I moved out of state. We were really close on a friendship type level, never did anything too serious but it was obvious both of us were interested in eachother. It was just nice because we did what we wanted, when we wanted. :shrug:

So I moved away...and its been a year, and im back.

I saw her this weekend, and she was with two of her friends, they all are pill heads, rolling atleast every two weeks, and she has left home and is kinda wandering about. She has friends who are letting her stay with them, and isnt really in too much need, shes got a job and all that. I feel kinda bad though because she rolls so much, and im the one who i ntroduced her to it.

Her homelife was fucked up way before she did drugs, and she was doing this, so i feel a little better, thinking that she aint homeless because she is addicted. She doesnt spend too much money on them, or what not, but I would like her to use moderation with this shit.

She has a boyfriend right now, she was talking about leaving for some other dood a couple months ago, and that all sounds slutty and unstable to me, and really turns me off. I know I could probably have her if i wanted, and I know I am probably the only person she will listen to, and the only one who can make her be less frequent with the pills, and speed.

I dunno wtf to do. I might steal her and have her live with me. OR i could not give a shit, and just be another one of her friends who doesnt care.

I know she has more respect for me than probably anyone else alive. We have been through good and bad times, and ive always been there for her, kinda as a best friend, but also boyfriend you know...but we have never been officially together, and when i left, she was with a few guys, and never seemed to stable. Im pretty sure things would change, but i would hate for something to happen, and completely ruin me ;[


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Re: This girl i know [Re: tak]
    #2023157 - 10/19/03 06:42 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

Don't get caught up in it. You need to understand that people can't better their lives by having a person such as yourself around to "work them through it". Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that you're not a noble person for trying to set this girl in the straight and narrow. What I'm saying is is that you can't be her savior ... you have to be the beacon that shows her how to help herself. She needs to get into some therapy for the family problems, drug courses ... she needs to let a professional figure what she needs. You should definitely be there for her through it all, but you can't do this by yourself. You sound like a good man though. Good head on the shoulders and the such. Good heart. Hope everything works out for her and yourself though. Peace.


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Re: This girl i know [Re: tak]
    #2023280 - 10/19/03 07:26 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

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root-ninja-tak said:
Im pretty sure things would change, but i would hate for something to happen, and completely ruin me ;[ 




How sure is "pretty sure"? Obviously you care for her since there exists some doubt in your mind.

It seems to me you have adopted a brotherly outlook for her. You want to help her, but you fear the responsbility that comes with her. Now is the time you must decide:

1. Am I going to help my friend who looks up to me like a lil sis, and help her through hard times, but indeed have take much responsibility?

2. Am I going to leave her be, and feel depressed should anything happen to her that I could have prevented?

A test of your friendship, really.

Good luck, make a choice that fits you best. :alert:


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Re: This girl i know [Re: daba]
    #2023309 - 10/19/03 07:36 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

not like a lil sis, dont say that lol. that makes me feel sick ;]

for person #1, i dont think she will take professional help, nor does she need it. I guess it wouldnt be bad for some people, but you gotta understand where im coming from. She has no money for a doctor, she isnt addicted to heroin, she is just getting caught up in the fun, wich i have no problems with, i just think she needs to cut it back a lil for health reasons.

I am going to be there for her no matter what, but I also care for her in more than just a friend way, but she is unstable. I hope she doesnt become a complete wreck. ;]


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Re: This girl i know [Re: tak]
    #2023435 - 10/19/03 08:27 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

id help her out. fix her up, which is rare cuz i am the kind of "i could care less" BM attitude person. but ive had a broad like this and well, shes dead now, no major loss but still kind of like i let her down. if she straightens out she'll be like, "i thought this guy cared more about me" and w/e. but yo if i was u iwouldnt touch her, jus help her. none of me business tho.


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Re: This girl i know [Re: Solitude]
    #2024550 - 10/20/03 04:06 AM (13 years, 9 months ago)

you should steal her and show her that shrooms are the way to the light... not rolls... thats my take


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Re: This girl i know [Re: plexus]
    #2025594 - 10/20/03 02:52 PM (13 years, 9 months ago)

natural male instinct (to want to help her) but...
if you don't help
nothing good can come of it


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