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XUL
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Spacerific said: When it seems that you will never, ever, ever get inside another wet tight welcoming vagina, ever again 
What do, shroomery? How do you deal with the bad vibes? So far I got sleep exercise be creative meet new fun people. Anything else?
Well. You could ask out a girl?
I suck at asking out women but I realize that if I ask out 100 women I think are good look -- maybe 50 of them is going to say yes. I go on 50 dates and it turns out 20 of them only want a follow up date. I go on a second date and find a girl who digs me.
The numbers are all skewed in my example, but it's the idea that matters. Go ask out a shit load of women and one is bound to like you, and possibly jump in bed with you.
Ask them at Walmart, Barns and Noble, on the street, or anywhere.
One summer I realized if I can get over rejection then my girl problems are over.
Approaching women is not so bad because the intention is already known. Going out to parties or to the bar is something else. Women, from my experience, can almost smell desperation.
Some of my friends go to the bar and try to get laid and I just laugh watching them try because they try so hard which seems to throw them off course. I am no pro. No.
Hell, since I cut out girls for school I sometimes tend to ignore non-verbal gestures and cues, which lead to good times. Last fall I was at a party simply talking to women about random shit and told them bye. My friend was told me a girl liked me up there. I was like "WTF, girl, what?" He explained further and so I went back inside and within 5 minutes some sexy muffin was walking with me down the street to her place. Sloppy drunken sex, but good sex.
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Re: That moment [Re: XUL]
#19807233 - 04/07/14 09:01 AM (9 years, 10 months ago) |
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I'm with you XUL 
Only slight problem is that when lonely and feeling down, each rejection takes on massive proportions, starting a whole other cascade of bad vibes and so on. Not because it makes any logical sense, but in practice it does happen.
If I'm feeling chill enough to ask a few girls out, or even spend enough time with a few girls who are somewhat sane and available, then from that point on it's not a problem at all, I got it covered.
Anyway I'll take it easy with specific focus on dating/getting laid, I'll chill, go out and paint, enjoy the city, the parks and whatever awesome stuff I find there, and I'm sure nature will take its course soon enough.
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For truly, I say to you, many prophets and righteous people longed to see what you see, and did not see it, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it. - Matthew 13:16
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Cyclohexylamine
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@timoteusz3 - I don't know who pissed you off or screwed you over, to me it seems like you carry around a bit too many bad vibes about PUA topics, compared to what I personally put in my posts. May want to have a look at that.
If someone disagrees with you it does not mean they must have been "pissed off or screwed over in life" - that line of thinking though is more of the same mentality. But I have already said what I wanted to. At the end of the day, you came here looking for help because you are having issues with ever seeing "wet vagina" again (btw: referring to women as wet vagina is a prime example of thinking of women as objects for your personal gain)... I didn't make this thread - you did - and so I must be doing something right considering I do not have these problems.. Since the approach you currently have does not seem to be working well by your own admission, perhaps it would be a good idea to swallow your pride and take into consideration what other people say even if it is not something you want to hear...
Rhetorical question: Why do people come for advice on here when they only want to hear one thing? What is the point of asking advice? To have yes-men reaffirm what you are doing?
And I'm done with this.
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Masked
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@timoteusz3 - I don't know who pissed you off or screwed you over, to me it seems like you carry around a bit too many bad vibes about PUA topics, compared to what I personally put in my posts. May want to have a look at that.
If someone disagrees with you it does not mean they must have been "pissed off or screwed over in life" - that line of thinking though is more of the same mentality. But I have already said what I wanted to. At the end of the day, you came here looking for help because you are having issues with ever seeing "wet vagina" again (btw: referring to women as wet vagina is a prime example of thinking of women as objects for your personal gain)... I didn't make this thread - you did - and so I must be doing something right considering I do not have these problems.. Since the approach you currently have does not seem to be working well by your own admission, perhaps it would be a good idea to swallow your pride and take into consideration what other people say even if it is not something you want to hear...
Rhetorical question: Why do people come for advice on here when they only want to hear one thing? What is the point of asking advice? To have yes-men reaffirm what you are doing?
And I'm done with this. 
I've been following this thread.
As always man, dishing out the wisdom and great advice
OP, I strongly suggest you at least contemplate what this man has been saying.
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pwnasaurus
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Re: That moment [Re: Masked]
#19808388 - 04/07/14 02:59 PM (9 years, 10 months ago) |
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Masked said:
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tymoteusz3 said:
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@timoteusz3 - I don't know who pissed you off or screwed you over, to me it seems like you carry around a bit too many bad vibes about PUA topics, compared to what I personally put in my posts. May want to have a look at that.
If someone disagrees with you it does not mean they must have been "pissed off or screwed over in life" - that line of thinking though is more of the same mentality. But I have already said what I wanted to. At the end of the day, you came here looking for help because you are having issues with ever seeing "wet vagina" again (btw: referring to women as wet vagina is a prime example of thinking of women as objects for your personal gain)... I didn't make this thread - you did - and so I must be doing something right considering I do not have these problems.. Since the approach you currently have does not seem to be working well by your own admission, perhaps it would be a good idea to swallow your pride and take into consideration what other people say even if it is not something you want to hear...
Rhetorical question: Why do people come for advice on here when they only want to hear one thing? What is the point of asking advice? To have yes-men reaffirm what you are doing?
And I'm done with this. 
I've been following this thread.
As always man, dishing out the wisdom and great advice
OP, I strongly suggest you at least contemplate what this man has been saying.

This. Tymo is a kind, smart, and level-headed guy. He almost always has great advice. There is a reason he is a mod after all.
I agree with everything he has said in this thread. Take it or leave it, but I suggest you really take a moment to think about it.
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koods
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OP, I've always noticed you have a rather "clinical" way of thinking about women. I think that throws some people off.
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ManianFH
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Just try to hang out with a girl u like until eventually one of you kisses the other, or she tells you to go away. It's not rocket science. It's loooooooooovvvveeeeee
Your quality of experiences will increase if you approach women and people in general with respect, and not to take advantage of them.
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