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OfflineMoxyOx
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Re: How to tell wife about first grow [Re: Shpongle1]
    #19422277 - 01/15/14 10:51 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Bunch of low level thinking individuals in this thread. Ahem.

Do what you want to do. More than likely, it is YOUR house and you can do as you fucking please. Grow a pair and tell her upfront she can either trip with you or cry in the corner because you have made your mind up. You're acting like a little indecisive girl and it's probably why she won't take you seriously.

You are not at the whim of anyone but your own creed. Sheesh.


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The path the ancients cleared has closed.
And the other path, everyone's path,
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Re: How to tell wife about first grow [Re: MoxyOx]
    #19422293 - 01/15/14 10:55 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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MoxyOx said:
Bunch of low level thinking individuals in this thread. Ahem.

Do what you want to do. More than likely, it is YOUR house and you can do as you fucking please. Grow a pair and tell her upfront she can either trip with you or cry in the corner because you have made your mind up. You're acting like a little indecisive girl and it's probably why she won't take you seriously.

You are not at the whim of anyone but your own creed. Sheesh.



I'm betting there's no chance in hell you are married and probably have never been in a serious relationship.

When you marry someone and vow an oath to be with them for the rest of your life you have a responsibility to make decisions that can affect both of your lives tremendously (such as YEARS of jail time) together and to make compromises where necessary.  This is true of any serious relationship, especially once you are living together.

How is it HIS house?  How do you know they did not purchase it together, have both their names on the deed, and that it is in fact THEIR house?  Why should he have any more say than his wife about what goes on in THEIR home.

Telling your wife that "she can either trip with you or cry in the corner because you have made your mind up" is a good way to get yourself a divorce and have the police called on your grow.

Your input is extremely immature, self-centered, and sexist.


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Re: How to tell wife about first grow [Re: pwnasaurus]
    #19422616 - 01/15/14 12:31 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Yeah, that dude sounds exactly like one of those insecure, needledick types who has to "assert his authority and dominance" over his girl and prove his "alpha male status" to try to convince others and himself that he is "in control at all times".  That type of mentality is that of the weakest individuals, you'll realize that as you grow up MoxyOx.  Really feel bad for any girl who tries to date you, though I can't imagine it would take long for them to realize enough to move along unless you change that mindset.  True men don't need to force women into submissive roles to feel strong and powerful.  They naturally earn their girl's and others' respect by making wise decision, taking responsibility and being a good partner and leader.  You've got much to learn.


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There are more people imprisoned for the commission of drug offenses in the United States - close to 500,000 - than are incarcerated in England, France, Germany, and Japan for all crimes combined.  Examined in another way, the United States has 100,000 more people incarcerated for nonviolent drug offenses than all the countries of the European Union combined, despite the fact that the European Union has 100 million more citizens. :crankey: 

- "Drugs and Drug Policy: The Control of Consciousness Alteration, 2007.


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Offlinebluegill
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Re: How to tell wife about first grow [Re: Shpongle1]
    #19422779 - 01/15/14 01:09 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

You guys are a bunch of assumptive dickheads. I asked for advice and all you seem to be able to do is put me down and jump to conclusions about my personality and my life based on a single fucking thread that I posted when I was down. If you don't have anything constructive to say, then why waste your time insulting me?


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Re: How to tell wife about first grow [Re: bluegill]
    #19422807 - 01/15/14 01:16 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Nobody is insulting you.  Basically every poster in this thread has agreed that you made a terrible decision and have completely lost your wife's trust.  There is no advice to give at this point.  The damage is done.

It is akin to saying "I cheated on my wife and told her, what should I do now?".  There's not really any advice to give.  The ball is in her court and the damage is done.  Nothing you say or do at this point is going to have much of an effect as she simply doesn't trust you anymore.

You may be able to earn her trust back over the course of months or years but you also might not.

Sorry that you don't want to hear the truth but there it is :shrug:


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Re: How to tell wife about first grow [Re: bluegill]
    #19422814 - 01/15/14 01:17 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I'm not insulting you, I'm talking to MoxyOx and his shit advice to you.  However it's a little absurd for you to start acting like you're feeling resentment towards HER. And yeah, everything pwnasaurus just said.


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There are more people imprisoned for the commission of drug offenses in the United States - close to 500,000 - than are incarcerated in England, France, Germany, and Japan for all crimes combined.  Examined in another way, the United States has 100,000 more people incarcerated for nonviolent drug offenses than all the countries of the European Union combined, despite the fact that the European Union has 100 million more citizens. :crankey: 

- "Drugs and Drug Policy: The Control of Consciousness Alteration, 2007.


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Re: How to tell wife about first grow [Re: bluegill]
    #19424867 - 01/15/14 08:56 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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bluegill said:
You guys are a bunch of assumptive dickheads. I asked for advice and all you seem to be able to do is put me down and jump to conclusions about my personality and my life based on a single fucking thread that I posted when I was down. If you don't have anything constructive to say, then why waste your time insulting me?




What you need to do is keep the shrooms, ask her what she wants to do with them, and let her know that you would still trip with her if she wants to.

She knows you're interested in the mushies. You know you want to trip with her, even though at the moment you feel like it would be detrimental to do so.

At this point in the game, what the relationship calls for is a major overhaul and clarification of BOTH of your guys values. You need to sit down like it's a meeting with your psychologist and just talk openly and honestly.

First and foremost, apologize for tripping without her. One of the reasons she is probably so angry is because you acted like you wanted to trip with her, and then did it alone. She's feeling left out and betrayed....

So include her. Get her in on your project and this stress will go away. Start trusting that you two are good for each other and can be friends through this experience.


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When I became a man I was afraid to live.
But, when I became a little bit wiser, I became a child who walks with death.
Now, I play outside every day in a never ending summer; my glory days never faded.
And I smile ironically in the face of my doom.


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Re: How to tell wife about first grow [Re: Dense Cake]
    #19425607 - 01/15/14 11:42 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

That's good shit  :thumbup: ^^^


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There are more people imprisoned for the commission of drug offenses in the United States - close to 500,000 - than are incarcerated in England, France, Germany, and Japan for all crimes combined.  Examined in another way, the United States has 100,000 more people incarcerated for nonviolent drug offenses than all the countries of the European Union combined, despite the fact that the European Union has 100 million more citizens. :crankey: 

- "Drugs and Drug Policy: The Control of Consciousness Alteration, 2007.


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Re: How to tell wife about first grow [Re: Shpongle1]
    #19447381 - 01/20/14 12:21 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

She tripped this weekend while I was at work and now everything is good :thumbup:

Thanks for the advice. She is completely in on it now.

We are going to have some fun on Friday.


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Re: How to tell wife about first grow [Re: bluegill]
    #19447643 - 01/20/14 01:22 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

So now you have your answer kiddies. Wish I would have read this sooner, coulda saved ya some trouble. For your and anyone else's future considerations:
There are 3 schools of thought on this question.

1. HEART thinking- You are partners in everything, where one goes the other follows ....including jail. Then it's a tell all. No secret needed. You trust and support each other completely and no one will blame the other or narc when the shit hits the fan or goes south...you know...like losing the kids for drug manufacturing.
2. SMART thinking- All criminal activities are kept off property and tell no one ever! This is safest for all for obvious reasons. You take all blame for all fuck ups and no one is at risk but you.
3. If you have to ask this question then this is not YOUR hobby and you should probably refrain from any criminal activities.

And always remember High Times advice here that they got DIRECTLY from the DEA: 85% of all busts come from narcs and 90% of those narcs were pissed off family members and spouses!

Just my 2 cents


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Re: How to tell wife about first grow [Re: ZippyHippyinWA]
    #19448611 - 01/20/14 04:57 PM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I see where you guys are coming from with advice like that but damn... Feel free to let the DEA!! be the deciding factor in the level of honesty and the strength of your relationship with YOUR WIFE.  That's just sad.  How people end up with wives who either A.) aren't down for the things they are down for, or B.) that they feel they can't trust, is completely beyond me.  Then again, as my facebook is blowing up with engagement after engagement after pregnancy, I am taking my time and exploring options.  Maybe therein lies the difference I don't know.  But if you can't trust your wife, then be the fuck out, cause what's the point in that shitty relationship then anyway?  That's my 2 cents.


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There are more people imprisoned for the commission of drug offenses in the United States - close to 500,000 - than are incarcerated in England, France, Germany, and Japan for all crimes combined.  Examined in another way, the United States has 100,000 more people incarcerated for nonviolent drug offenses than all the countries of the European Union combined, despite the fact that the European Union has 100 million more citizens. :crankey: 

- "Drugs and Drug Policy: The Control of Consciousness Alteration, 2007.


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OfflineMoxyOx
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Re: How to tell wife about first grow [Re: bluegill]
    #19450906 - 01/21/14 12:42 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

Quote:

bluegill said:
She tripped this weekend while I was at work and now everything is good :thumbup:

Thanks for the advice. She is completely in on it now.

We are going to have some fun on Friday.




Everything ended well. Good.


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No one behind, no one ahead.
The path the ancients cleared has closed.
And the other path, everyone's path,
easy and wide, goes nowhere.
I am alone and find my way.


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