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LSDreams
Contemplative Stoner



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The time leading up to that moment fucking sucks though. So many opportunities to back out ect.
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NWlight
Just look


Registered: 01/12/10
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An excellent first date is something like "hey you want to get some coffee and study for that test/ do that homework assignment together?"
completely innocent, and you have something to talk about the whole time.
perfect first date for people in teh same class with eachother.
do this 
almost guarantee success if he has ANY interest in you.
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KremrBigSikter
Spränger Språnger




Registered: 07/23/11
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Cojo said: Men/boys of the Pub, what would you like a girl to do in this situation?
Be serious, now.
How about you don't think of what certain men want certain women to do in certain situations, but think of how you as a human want to interact with another human that you like.
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something super extreme
NIGGA YOU A FUCK NIGGA!


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Cojo said: Be serious, now.
Have I ever not been serious?
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T-Rex



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Hellogoodbyedeath

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Re: There's this boy [Re: T-Rex]
#19394984 - 01/09/14 05:58 PM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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T-Rex said: Remain friendly while flirting to drop hints you're into him. Your pretty so I'm sure you can have him wrapped around your finger in a few weeks.
I like that idea. Thank you.
I don't want him wrapped around my finger, though, haha.
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Bodhi of Ankou
*alternate opinion blocks path*


Registered: 06/02/09
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Cojo said: But...I don't want to have sex with him.
Well, my body does, but I DON'T.
So in other words you do but you wont admit it. Yup, definitely a woman
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Hellogoodbyedeath

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sVs said: Have I ever not been serious?

No!
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T-Rex



Registered: 04/05/08
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Men love the thrill of the hunt. So don't be to blatant about your feelings but do give off subtle hints. And if he has any interest in pursuing a relationship beyond friends he surely will put the moves on you.
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Hellogoodbyedeath

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Bodhi of Ankou said: So in other words you do but you wont admit it. Yup, definitely a woman
I am not trying to sound iffy or anything. Sexuality has just been a very odd experience for me. I can never quite connect with it. I absolutely have urges, but deep down, I know that it is not really what I want. Not at this moment, anyway.
Edited by Hellogoodbyedeath (01/09/14 06:03 PM)
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T-Rex



Registered: 04/05/08
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Quote:
Bodhi of Ankou said:
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Cojo said: But...I don't want to have sex with him.
Well, my body does, but I DON'T.
So in other words you do but you wont admit it. Yup, definitely a woman
Women are so strange.
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NWlight
Just look


Registered: 01/12/10
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Re: There's this boy [Re: T-Rex]
#19395019 - 01/09/14 06:03 PM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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T-Rex said: Men love the thrill of the hunt. So don't be to blatant about your feelings but do give off subtle hints. And if he has any interest in pursuing a relationship beyond friends he surely will put the moves on you.
not all men enjoy the hunt. I find it to be tedious.
if I really LOVE a girl not just banging her, yeah i'll do small surprises and favors and stuff to show affection. but im not like, hunting them lmao.
I wish this was in anon so I dont sound like a conceited asshole but I'm fairly attractive and I let the wimmminz come to me instead
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KremrBigSikter
Spränger Språnger




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Re: There's this boy [Re: T-Rex]
#19395030 - 01/09/14 06:05 PM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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T-Rex said:
Women are so strange.
Says the gender who loves the "thrill of the hunt".
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Hellogoodbyedeath

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Re: There's this boy [Re: NWlight]
#19395032 - 01/09/14 06:05 PM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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NWlight said: An excellent first date is something like "hey you want to get some coffee and study for that test/ do that homework assignment together?"
completely innocent, and you have something to talk about the whole time.
perfect first date for people in teh same class with eachother.
do this 
almost guarantee success if he has ANY interest in you.
i like this idea, too! I was running little scenarios through my head yesterday that followed the same pattern.
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Hellogoodbyedeath

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KremrBigSikter said: How about you don't think of what certain men want certain women to do in certain situations, but think of how you as a human want to interact with another human that you like.
The harsh truth.
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T-Rex



Registered: 04/05/08
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Re: There's this boy [Re: NWlight]
#19395041 - 01/09/14 06:07 PM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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Well I don't HUNT females either. I don't go to bars and prey on drunk women like many do. I am introverted but can be extroverted at times.
I meant more of a female you are comfortable with playing hard to get. Yeah I would much rather have a woman be straight out as say let's go to that bathroom stall and I'll suck your wang like a hoover vacuum. But in reality it doesn't happen so when women play hard to get I find the challenge somewhat fun.
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GoldenEye
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Registered: 05/24/13
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Cojo said: Check Pics of Pubbers '13 and '14. 
Also, thank you for the advice.
All hail the search function.
You're good!! 
Being a bit flirty should be enough to get him to chase.
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NWlight
Just look


Registered: 01/12/10
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Cojo said:
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NWlight said: An excellent first date is something like "hey you want to get some coffee and study for that test/ do that homework assignment together?"
completely innocent, and you have something to talk about the whole time.
perfect first date for people in teh same class with eachother.
do this 
almost guarantee success if he has ANY interest in you.
i like this idea, too! I was running little scenarios through my head yesterday that followed the same pattern.
yeah if you like this idea I'd go for it...
its ok to ask him because this isnt really a "date" so he wont feel emasculated by you "making the first move"
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4HO-DMT


Registered: 01/11/11
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Loc: County Line Road
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Quote:
NWlight said: An excellent first date is something like "hey you want to get some coffee and study for that test/ do that homework assignment together?"
completely innocent, and you have something to talk about the whole time.
perfect first date for people in teh same class with eachother.
do this 
almost guarantee success if he has ANY interest in you.
This is good advice. Here's a conversation starter: "Hey, you were in such-a-such class last semester! How did you do?" Good luck Cojo! You're beautiful, so he will likely be flattered that you recognized him.
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LSDreams
Contemplative Stoner



Registered: 12/05/10
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Im a male, and although I believe sex will come later.. Im not trying to fuck asap. Because theres wayyy more to life than primitive urges of sexual intercourse.
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