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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: rulesq]
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Icyus
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Plastic sugery helps you look good for the blind.. plastic surgery isnt really about you... its like you take this piece of plastic, called our bodies and alter them... they do not change who you are..
I learned something.. tripping on mxe.. that our appearance changes with our mindset.. like we look stoned or stimulated for example.. we look anxious or devine.. after realizing this, one may learn to controll their mindset.. and change how we are percieved..
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: Icyus]
#19397677 - 01/10/14 07:34 AM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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Icyus said: Plastic sugery helps you look good for the blind.. plastic surgery isnt really about you... its like you take this piece of plastic, called our bodies and alter them... they do not change who you are..
I learned something.. tripping on mxe.. that our appearance changes with our mindset.. like we look stoned or stimulated for example.. we look anxious or devine.. after realizing this, one may learn to controll their mindset.. and change how we are percieved..
they change your looking, and in world sadly its the one of the most wanted thing. your personalty is important but its not visible"
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: jimmyguy]
#19397681 - 01/10/14 07:35 AM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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Icyus said: Plastic sugery helps you look good for the blind.. plastic surgery isnt really about you... its like you take this piece of plastic, called our bodies and alter them... they do not change who you are..
I learned something.. tripping on mxe.. that our appearance changes with our mindset.. like we look stoned or stimulated for example.. we look anxious or devine.. after realizing this, one may learn to controll their mindset.. and change how we are percieved..
they change your looking, and in world sadly its the one of the most wanted thing. your personalty is important but its not visible"
It quite much is.. called carisma.
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: Icyus]
#19397740 - 01/10/14 07:56 AM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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i think charisma is combination of your looking with personalty. but witout personalty if you are good looking you could still be charismatic but if you are not a lucky one no one will really think that you are charismatic without actually knowing your personality. but with all respect this is what i think.
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: jimmyguy]
#19397745 - 01/10/14 07:57 AM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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jimmyguy said: i think charisma is combination of your looking with personalty. but witout personalty if you are good looking you could still be charismatic but if you are not a lucky one no one will really think that you are charismatic without actually knowing your personality. but with all respect this is what i think.
Then It will make you very easy to manipulate..
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: Icyus]
#19397748 - 01/10/14 07:59 AM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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Icyus said:
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jimmyguy said: i think charisma is combination of your looking with personalty. but witout personalty if you are good looking you could still be charismatic but if you are not a lucky one no one will really think that you are charismatic without actually knowing your personality. but with all respect this is what i think.
Then It will make you very easy to manipulate.. 
why?
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: jimmyguy]
#19397754 - 01/10/14 08:00 AM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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jimmyguy said: i think charisma is combination of your looking with personalty. but witout personalty if you are good looking you could still be charismatic but if you are not a lucky one no one will really think that you are charismatic without actually knowing your personality. but with all respect this is what i think.
To be honest, looking at your pictures, you are actually pretty cute-looking. If you experimented with different facial hair and hairstyle and got out in the sun a little bit and maybe a couple tattoos, you would actually be pretty damn good looking in my eyes. IDK what it is about your face, but you could seriously rock the "alternative" look, you have just the image for a sleeve tat or something.
The fact that you had charisma would simply make you more appealing the longer you got to know them.
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: jimmyguy]
#19397760 - 01/10/14 08:02 AM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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The right half of my face is paralysed and I am therefore very asymmetric.
I have had reconstructive plastic surgery throughout my teens and to be honest, I wish it had never happened.
Plastic surgery is not an answer to the real problem.
The real problem is not how you look but how you feel.
These things may seem related but you will find out that they are not.
This is why you see people getting addicted to plastic surgery and having multiple things done. They thought a breast implant (for instance) would give them self esteem. It gave them boobs. The unchanged self esteem issues just got projected onto the next body part.
Do as you please, but you have been warned...
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: GoldenEye]
#19397766 - 01/10/14 08:03 AM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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GoldenEye said: The right half of my face is paralysed and I am therefore very asymmetric.
I have had reconstructive plastic surgery throughout my teens and to be honest, I wish it had never happened.
Plastic surgery is not an answer to the real problem.
The real problem is not how you look but how you feel.
These things may seem related but you will find out that they are not.
This is why you see people getting addicted to plastic surgery and having multiple things done. They thought a breast implant (for instance) would give them self esteem. It gave them boobs. The unchanged self esteem issues just got projected onto the next body part.
Do as you please, but you have been warned...
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: jimmyguy]
#19397788 - 01/10/14 08:11 AM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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jimmyguy said: i think charisma is combination of your looking with personalty. but witout personalty if you are good looking you could still be charismatic but if you are not a lucky one no one will really think that you are charismatic without actually knowing your personality. but with all respect this is what i think.
Also, I should add, that perfection should never really be the goal. Perfection is something that is going to be impossible for almost everybody to achieve, so by making perfection your goal you set yourself up to become a plastic surgery addict.
I can understand if there's ONE feature that really bother you that you want to change. But based off your post, it seems that you want to do this and that and this and that. You actually have nice features, but by wanting to become blessed with impossibly god-like looks, you already set such a standard for yourself that you will never be happy even after 10 operations.
I've thought about wanting to be perfect too. But that would require me to alter the shape of my eyes, plump my lips up, re-shape my nose, make my jawline more oval and "feminine" looking, implants in my boobs, etching on my stomach to make it look like I am always 8% body fat, and get some rib bones taken out to have a super-tiny waist. That all seems like a little bit too much work for me. I'm not that bad-looking that I need to get all that work done.
The goal should be improvement, not absolute perfection. And first before going under the knife, you should always seek out other methods of alteration that are less permanent. So for example, eyelash extensions, makeup (for women), tanning, different hair, exercise, a new wardrobe, losing weight... these are some of the things you should always try first before surgery. Hell, even Botox and Radiesse are less invasive, less expensive, and way less permanent than surgery.
Remember that even the best surgeons fuck up every now and then, so by getting that much work done you heighten the risk of your face coming out more and more fucked up. Michael Jackson is a great example of this, he had all the money in the world to buy the best practitioners and look how he came out.
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: jimmyguy]
#19397817 - 01/10/14 08:20 AM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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jimmyguy said: i started to think sending a pic here could be a mistake ( showing yourself in a narco site... i dont know) so instead i will send my hairy ass , and get your ideas on that and actually i would like the girls to do the same ... just for voting :B and we can talk about liposucktion to ass or some asslifting...:P
Just work out man, you can completely alter your body in under 6 months if you're doing the workouts right.
thanks for advice. but i am not that bad. https://files.shroomery.org/files/14-002/935184353-image.jpg] [/url]
Nothing wrong with the way you look. My guess is that if anything it's insecurity more than appearance that influences any negative impression people may have.
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: GoldenEye]
#19397831 - 01/10/14 08:26 AM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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jimmyguy said: i think charisma is combination of your looking with personalty. but witout personalty if you are good looking you could still be charismatic but if you are not a lucky one no one will really think that you are charismatic without actually knowing your personality. but with all respect this is what i think.
To be honest, looking at your pictures, you are actually pretty cute-looking. If you experimented with different facial hair and hairstyle and got out in the sun a little bit and maybe a couple tattoos, you would actually be pretty damn good looking in my eyes. IDK what it is about your face, but you could seriously rock the "alternative" look, you have just the image for a sleeve tat or something.
The fact that you had charisma would simply make you more appealing the longer you got to know them.
thanks crystal. i have very curly hair.. so i am just not cutting them for a while and yes i am thinking about a sleeve tattoo... they are truly beautiful i really like them. 
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GoldenEye said: The right half of my face is paralysed and I am therefore very asymmetric.
I have had reconstructive plastic surgery throughout my teens and to be honest, I wish it had never happened.
Plastic surgery is not an answer to the real problem.
The real problem is not how you look but how you feel.
These things may seem related but you will find out that they are not.
This is why you see people getting addicted to plastic surgery and having multiple things done. They thought a breast implant (for instance) would give them self esteem. It gave them boobs. The unchanged self esteem issues just got projected onto the next body part.
Do as you please, but you have been warned...
i am really sory to hear that . but you know in world things are changeable...surgery might be needed and might be good when its done or it might be just like you said ... its complex. i know people who are more happy than before after surgery.. they can smile ..and they feel better.. so it really depends on.with all respect to you and to others. yeah i think time shows.
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: Crystal G]
#19397858 - 01/10/14 08:39 AM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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jimmyguy said: i think charisma is combination of your looking with personalty. but witout personalty if you are good looking you could still be charismatic but if you are not a lucky one no one will really think that you are charismatic without actually knowing your personality. but with all respect this is what i think.
Also, I should add, that perfection should never really be the goal. Perfection is something that is going to be impossible for almost everybody to achieve, so by making perfection your goal you set yourself up to become a plastic surgery addict.
I can understand if there's ONE feature that really bother you that you want to change. But based off your post, it seems that you want to do this and that and this and that. You actually have nice features, but by wanting to become blessed with impossibly god-like looks, you already set such a standard for yourself that you will never be happy even after 10 operations.
I've thought about wanting to be perfect too. But that would require me to alter the shape of my eyes, plump my lips up, re-shape my nose, make my jawline more oval and "feminine" looking, implants in my boobs, etching on my stomach to make it look like I am always 8% body fat, and get some rib bones taken out to have a super-tiny waist. That all seems like a little bit too much work for me. I'm not that bad-looking that I need to get all that work done.
The goal should be improvement, not absolute perfection. And first before going under the knife, you should always seek out other methods of alteration that are less permanent. So for example, eyelash extensions, makeup (for women), tanning, different hair, exercise, a new wardrobe, losing weight... these are some of the things you should always try first before surgery. Hell, even Botox and Radiesse are less invasive, less expensive, and way less permanent than surgery.
Remember that even the best surgeons fuck up every now and then, so by getting that much work done you heighten the risk of your face coming out more and more fucked up. Michael Jackson is a great example of this, he had all the money in the world to buy the best practitioners and look how he came out.
the goal should be improvement ... i agree. its not about being perfect it might be about being happy with your looking. as i say this is very complex and its depended on alot of things ... but its something to consider ... there are people happy and the others after surgery.
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: jimmyguy]
#19397868 - 01/10/14 08:46 AM (10 years, 21 days ago) |
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i am really sory to hear that . but you know in world things are changeable...
It's all good, staring into the mirror making faces for the length of a full blown acid trip has showed me that my beauty is in the twinkle in my eyes and the cheekyness that comes with moving only one half of my face (mouth, eyebrows everything). It is unique and I am regarded as very charismatic. Which makes me believe that charisma is 100% dependent on character and confidence. Just as long as you do not look repulsive. With repulsive I mean open wounds or something out of a horror freak show.
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: GoldenEye]
#19397895 - 01/10/14 08:54 AM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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i am really sory to hear that . but you know in world things are changeable...
It's all good, staring into the mirror making faces for the length of a full blown acid trip has showed me that my beauty is in the twinkle in my eyes and the cheekyness that comes with moving only one half of my face (mouth, eyebrows everything). It is unique and I am regarded as very charismatic. Which makes me believe that charisma is 100% dependent on character and confidence. Just as long as you do not look repulsive. With repulsive I mean open wounds or something out of a horror freak show.
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: jimmyguy]
#19397909 - 01/10/14 08:57 AM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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jimmyguy said: the goal should be improvement ... i agree. its not about being perfect it might be about being happy with your looking. as i say this is very complex and its depended on alot of things ... but its something to consider ... there are people happy and the others after surgery.
I strongly suggest you watch two episodes of MTV True Life.
One is called "I Hate My Face." http://www.mtv.com/videos/true-life-i-hate-my-face/1637321/playlist.jhtml
The other is called "I Hate My Plastic Surgery." http://www.mtv.com/videos/true-life-i-hate-my-plastic-surgery/1638794/playlist.jhtml
A lot of people are happy after their surgeries, but many people are unhappy after their surgeries too. I researched a lot of plastic surgeons in this area and read their reviews on Yelp. Sooooo many unbelievably bad reviews, of people saying that so and so doctor made their eye shape uneven, or that they can no longer breathe out of their nostrils, and that they had to go to numerous other surgeons to get it fixed multiple times. And even the best and highest-ranked surgeons get a bad review every now and then. Imagine how many there are out there that simply aren't posting it online.
So, I strongly urge you, to: 1) Limit the number of operations you plan on getting. The more operations you have, the greater the chance you have of coming out more and more fucked-up looking. So try to minimize the number of operations you will be having.
2) Seek other means of changing your looks BEFORE going under the knife. As I mentioned before, there are tons of other things you can do first before automatically going to surgery. Exercise, tan, get a complete makeover done by professionals.
If it's something that you can change through other means, do it that way first. You mentioned wanting ass implants, well to be honest, you would get a nice, big old horse's ass simply by doing squats and deadlifts at the gym. Plus to be honest, as a woman, when I'm checking out a guy the last place I'm looking at is his ass.
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: GoldenEye]
#19397921 - 01/10/14 09:01 AM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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GoldenEye said: It's all good, staring into the mirror making faces for the length of a full blown acid trip has showed me that my beauty is in the twinkle in my eyes and the cheekyness that comes with moving only one half of my face (mouth, eyebrows everything). It is unique and I am regarded as very charismatic. Which makes me believe that charisma is 100% dependent on character and confidence. Just as long as you do not look repulsive. With repulsive I mean open wounds or something out of a horror freak show.
I agree with that too.
Consider Princess Diana, she is somewhat pretty, but not what people would consider "gorgeous" according to media standards. But, she still exudes tremendous beauty, because she has class and charisma.
In an earlier post, I mentioned it would be dumb to criticize a journalist or a scientist for their looks. Well, it's true. When you have intelligence, or have achievements and talents, and are highly educated, people will respect you even if you are the ugliest and fattest person on earth. They will overlook your looks because you have something else to bring to the table other than sitting there and looking pretty.
So don't just focus on looks, OP. You should also be strengthening your mind and improving your intellect first. Looks are just an added bonus to your other main features.
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: Crystal G]
#19397925 - 01/10/14 09:02 AM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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http://feelbeautiful.com/gallery/facelift and other sections i think they look better. what do you think?
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Re: i really want to have some plastic surgery. [Re: Crystal G]
#19397933 - 01/10/14 09:06 AM (10 years, 20 days ago) |
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GoldenEye said: It's all good, staring into the mirror making faces for the length of a full blown acid trip has showed me that my beauty is in the twinkle in my eyes and the cheekyness that comes with moving only one half of my face (mouth, eyebrows everything). It is unique and I am regarded as very charismatic. Which makes me believe that charisma is 100% dependent on character and confidence. Just as long as you do not look repulsive. With repulsive I mean open wounds or something out of a horror freak show.
I agree with that too.
Consider Princess Diana, she is somewhat pretty, but not what people would consider "gorgeous" according to media standards. But, she still exudes tremendous beauty, because she has class and charisma.
In an earlier post, I mentioned it would be dumb to criticize a journalist or a scientist for their looks. Well, it's true. When you have intelligence, or have achievements and talents, and are highly educated, people will respect you even if you are the ugliest and fattest person on earth. They will overlook your looks because you have something else to bring to the table other than sitting there and looking pretty.
So don't just focus on looks, OP. You should also be strengthening your mind and improving your intellect first. Looks are just an added bonus to your other main features.
crystal its i think its more than respect... its for personal happiness. be in piece with your body as a soul. and going with the rules of world.
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