|
psychadelictrip
Stranger
Registered: 01/08/14
Posts: 1
Last seen: 10 years, 14 days
|
Do girls ever make sense?
#19386414 - 01/08/14 03:08 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
|
|
So a girl that rarely spoke to me but always wanted to be my friend started to like me after we hung out a lot right after we graduated from high school. She and her ex had recently broken up. She wanted the relationship to end though since he did not treat her well at all.
She wanted me extremely bad, and she did not believe that I would like her. As we were going out, she thought I was mad at her many times when I wasn't, she always thought I was going to stop liking her, but she never acted like anything was wrong with the relationship. Randomly, one day when we decided to hang out, she decides we have to talk about "college". Earlier on we had decided we will wait and see what happens and I made it clear I didn't want to break up during college since we would be 15 minutes away from each other. She told me she didn't know if she could handle going out with me in college(a week before she left). She would miss me too much and doesn't want to go through a relationship in the beginning of college.
This was not true at all since she ended up going out with her ex for like 2 weeks who is hours away. I decided that I would wait a little and then just be friends with her. Even though she doesn't want a relationship, she desperately wants to be good friends with me now. She almost begged me to go to something with her and her friend months in the future. Everytime we have hung out she acted just like she did when we were dating, she spent a lot of time talking to me in group talks, she touched me a LOT, and did things that any person would think is flirting.
When I confronted her about it she says shes sorry shes a flirty person and just wants to be friends. So she never really told me why she broke up with me, but it wasn't about college. I don't understand how a person can like someone as much as she acted like she liked me, than VERY randomly decide they don't.
Shes still not over her ex now. She wants to be best friends with him, but he doesn't really want to be like that with her.
Is it just me or is her behavior weird as fuck? Is there any chance she would change her mind about me? not even sure if I would want to deal with her, I just want everything to make sense haha.
|
berdinwall
<3 whooooshhh


Registered: 06/10/12
Posts: 4,276
Loc: West Virginia
Last seen: 2 years, 2 months
|
|
U a cop? ......jk. shes playin little girl games. She wants both of u. Dont worry tho college is gonna send yall ur seperate ways quick
--------------------
|
Immortal Jellyfish



Registered: 03/23/13
Posts: 192
Loc: Colorado
Last seen: 3 months, 21 days
|
Re: Do girls ever make sense? [Re: berdinwall]
#19386457 - 01/08/14 03:35 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
|
|
I had a similar situation happen with me and a friend of mine. women are way complicated.
--------------------
|
something super extreme
NIGGA YOU A FUCK NIGGA!


Registered: 10/29/12
Posts: 17,397
Loc: TURNT UP!
|
|
Your first post ever is lamenting a girl situation?
|
rockylampoon
Animal



Registered: 05/06/12
Posts: 334
Loc: Land of the Midnight Sun
Last seen: 7 years, 7 months
|
|
Nothing good is going to come out of that friendship.
Most people are cowards, women included. Don't expect anyone to be honest about anything that might upset you. Words don't mean shit, action speaks louder.
She dumped you and got back together with her ex. She doesn't want you. She only like your attention. To her, being with you is better than being alone but worse than being with someone else. That is no person you want to be around, she will ruin you.
You spending time with her will get you nothing but frustration. And that's time you could use to get to know other women. Better women. This girl wants you to be her pet. Fuck her. Find a woman that wants you to be the man that you are.
-------------------- I'll make sense when I run out of lemons. Until then I'll make lemonade.
|
MightyWhite

Registered: 08/27/08
Posts: 3,557
Last seen: 2 hours, 18 minutes
|
|
Quote:
rockylampoon said:
Most people are cowards, women included. Don't expect anyone to be honest about anything that might upset you. Words don't mean shit, action speaks louder
Truth x100
Edited by MightyWhite (01/08/14 04:20 AM)
|
lot_justice
C.L.I.T. commander



Registered: 08/10/13
Posts: 855
Loc: nowhere man
Last seen: 9 years, 3 months
|
Re: Do girls ever make sense? [Re: MightyWhite]
#19386532 - 01/08/14 04:47 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
|
|
Think about:
Girls have been oppressed in most societies for much of recorded history (not an across the board thing, but most of history seems paternalistic; although one could debate if history has been rewritten to come ass as paternalistic in order to perpetuate the paternalism that dominates now [R Crumb, when doing the book of genesis, claims the original documents which were translated into the modern bible read much more maternalistic; as if the women were in charge. We all know how the Catholic church potentially switched that one around]).
I assume you live in a first world country. I'd go even further to assume that situation for females in said country is probably THE BEST it's been in recorded history, as far as equality goes. I'll assume even further and guess that you're dealing with a young girl here, not a woman.
The repression of aeons past is latent with these young girls, these little she-devils. And you bet your ass that they are going to fuck us men up as much as possible in some sort of unconscious payback for the sins of our fathers.
As Jack White sang, "(Yeah) Cut off the bottoms of my feet Make me walk on salt Take me down to the police Charge me with assault A smile on her face She does what she wants to me
That's right and She don't care what kind of wounds she's inflicted on me She don't care what color bruises that she's leavin' on me 'Cuz she's got freedom in the 21st century (Alright)
(Listen) Two black gadgets in her hands All she thinks about No responsibility no guilt or morals Cloud of judgement Smile on her face She does what she damn well please
(Right) And she don't care what kind of things people used to do She don't care that what she does has an effect on you She's got freedom in the 21st century"
Do girls make sense? Yes. Why do they appear to not make sense? Because you've yet to ditch your abstract, lofty, male constructed moral ideals as to what is acceptable behavior.
Get your ass handed to you a couple more times kid, and then maybe you'll begin to see
Edited by lot_justice (01/08/14 04:50 AM)
|
ThatKidWithTheFace
R.I.P. ZIG R.I.P. Sloth


Registered: 09/30/12
Posts: 11,904
Loc: All Good in Allgood
Last seen: 6 years, 10 months
|
Re: Do girls ever make sense? [Re: lot_justice]
#19386619 - 01/08/14 06:14 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
|
|
THIS is your first post?
-------------------- Check Out My Beats SoundCloud
[quote]Sheekle said: [quote]ThatKidWithTheFace said: Is this the same aunt that fucks dogs?[/quote] u bet ur ass it is.[/quote]
|
mr sniffles
expert textpert


Registered: 06/03/13
Posts: 1,663
|
|
Quote:
psychadelictrip said: So a girl that rarely spoke to me but always wanted to be my friend started to like me after we hung out a lot right after we graduated from high school. She and her ex had recently broken up. She wanted the relationship to end though since he did not treat her well at all.
She wanted me extremely bad, and she did not believe that I would like her. As we were going out, she thought I was mad at her many times when I wasn't, she always thought I was going to stop liking her, but she never acted like anything was wrong with the relationship. Randomly, one day when we decided to hang out, she decides we have to talk about "college". Earlier on we had decided we will wait and see what happens and I made it clear I didn't want to break up during college since we would be 15 minutes away from each other. She told me she didn't know if she could handle going out with me in college(a week before she left). She would miss me too much and doesn't want to go through a relationship in the beginning of college.
This was not true at all since she ended up going out with her ex for like 2 weeks who is hours away. I decided that I would wait a little and then just be friends with her. Even though she doesn't want a relationship, she desperately wants to be good friends with me now. She almost begged me to go to something with her and her friend months in the future. Everytime we have hung out she acted just like she did when we were dating, she spent a lot of time talking to me in group talks, she touched me a LOT, and did things that any person would think is flirting.
When I confronted her about it she says shes sorry shes a flirty person and just wants to be friends. So she never really told me why she broke up with me, but it wasn't about college. I don't understand how a person can like someone as much as she acted like she liked me, than VERY randomly decide they don't.
Shes still not over her ex now. She wants to be best friends with him, but he doesn't really want to be like that with her.
Is it just me or is her behavior weird as fuck? Is there any chance she would change her mind about me? not even sure if I would want to deal with her, I just want everything to make sense haha.
sounds like you need a psychadelictrip
--------------------
|
highc
creator



Registered: 08/31/07
Posts: 3,592
Loc: maryland
Last seen: 7 years, 2 months
|
Re: Do girls ever make sense? [Re: mr sniffles]
#19386662 - 01/08/14 06:39 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
|
|
Whores make cents.
--------------------
|
memes
Blessed



Registered: 01/11/05
Posts: 27,785
Loc: In a Tree
|
Re: Do girls ever make sense? [Re: highc]
#19386673 - 01/08/14 06:45 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
|
|
sense? rarely
men miserable? every time
|
Magenta
I care!!



Registered: 06/14/09
Posts: 20,322
Loc: The land of plenty
Last seen: 2 months, 6 days
|
|
Quote:
sVs said: Your first post ever is lamenting a girl situation?

Quote:
ThatKidWithTheFace said: THIS is your first post?

I don't think you're a puppet, but these two posts ^^ are fare points. I was like, wtf. On the other hand if you are a puppet, i'd like to know who by, because that is an interesting start. If it's a real issue that you are concirned about, we do have a sexuality and relationships forum. [url=/fo[/url]
Anyways down to business. I'm no relationship expert, but when i get on the internet, i like to act like i am, and in reality, i think i'm better than most others. It's up to you to decide if my advice is worth while or not.
Quote:
psychadelictrip said: She wanted me extremely bad, and she did not believe that I would like her. As we were going out, she thought I was mad at her many times when I wasn't, she always thought I was going to stop liking her, but she never acted like anything was wrong with the relation ships forum http://www.shroomery.org/forums/postlist.php/Board/36
The answer to this lies in the following reply.
Quote:
Immortal Jellyfish said: women are way complicated. 
Women are not very complicated at all once you understand them. If you don't then i can definitely understand why one would find them confusing. Your girl wanted what she couldn't have. and you gave it to her and she realised she over estimated the challenge. That simple. It's a prick of a situation, but that's the reality. She's one of them idiot girls whom are constantly attracted to guys who treat her like shit. Don't worry, you will do better! In fact, take it as an ego boost, many guys are in worse situations, falling into the friend zone. What would you rather; watching this happen and simply thinking; 'wtf?' Or watching this happen and thinking; 'wtf, i treat her exactly how she wants to be treated, what am i doing wrong?' That's the two differences between the two different types of people. You're on the better side of things, but could use improvement. Forget about a sexual relationship with that lost cause chick, but remmebr she does have friends that are likely attractive (birds of feather flock together). Push her into your own friend zone and cultivate a friendly but not timid relationship with her friends, for sex; mean while looking for a monogamous relationship else where, (if you want that of course).
--------------------
Edited by Magenta (01/08/14 04:55 PM)
|
Spacerific
- - - >



Registered: 10/13/12
Posts: 4,923
Last seen: 8 years, 9 months
|
Re: Do girls ever make sense? [Re: memes]
#19386713 - 01/08/14 07:06 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
|
|
OP, welcome to the shroomery, what ever made you start your activity here so abruptly, not even saying hi? 
Back on topic, your need for the world to make sense is useful in most cases, but with girls you'll find it will be often (and sometimes profoundly, violently) unsatisfied.
With this one however, things don't seem quite so bad, judging from your post. Consider these:
- What girls say (verbally) absolutely doesn't matter. Only what the actually do is worth any consideration. - Does she fuck you? Does she give you as much time/attention/respect as you want from her? Do you want to fuck her and is that going OK, or is she bullshitting you and fucking her ex instead? (I assume this girl is fucking someone or something, or this whole thread is not worth my time) - What do you even want from this relationship? Is being friends (buddies) or better yet fuck buddies with this girl, OK with you? Before you find reasons to answer no, please consider that you're both going to college, and having a female buddy / wingman will mean you get to meet many of the new female friends she'll make there, leading to plenty of action in your life. Most young man fail to consider this point, that a girl doesn't mean access to one vagina and set of boobs, but indeed a gift that keeps on giving, if you get on their good side and they don't need you to be some exclusive boyfriend.
She wants to be with her ex? Great! Let him deal with the drama, she doesn't sound so much fun anyway. Her next 3 to 5 female friends you meet and date will more than make up for these minor inconveniences.
There's more than one way to be friends with a woman, platonic or otherwise. Most of them can be highly rewarding and mutually beneficial, once you learn to deal with the mood swings and stuff 
I think you should focus on your real priorities in life, and more importantly in college, like "how do I get my first threesome?" If you start viewing the world from this perspective, I think you'll find a lot of potential in this girl, and indeed in all women in your life
-------------------- Blessed are your eyes because they see, and your ears because they hear.
For truly, I say to you, many prophets and righteous people longed to see what you see, and did not see it, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it. - Matthew 13:16
|
Hellogoodbyedeath

Registered: 03/24/12
Posts: 2,904
Loc:
Last seen: 2 years, 17 days
|
Re: Do girls ever make sense? [Re: Magenta]
#19386718 - 01/08/14 07:08 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
|
|
A lot of people, regardless of gender, do not make sense. Whether that's out of fear or genuine ignorance, I do not know.
Anyway, there are a lot of really great women/girls out there, you just happened to stumble upon an immature one who likes playing dumb games. Let go of this girl and find one that is worth your time.
|
Bodhi of Ankou
*alternate opinion blocks path*


Registered: 06/02/09
Posts: 24,778
Loc: Soviet Canukistan
|
|
She just doesn't like you like that. Not really much more to it.
|
Mescalean
Burke is love, burke is life.


Registered: 01/18/12
Posts: 6,755
Last seen: 6 years, 10 months
|
|
Sorry to tell you this kid but get used to it. Now it the time to hone your BS detecting. Majority, not all, but majority of women are sneaky and conniving. You will meet very few straight shooters dating. Those are the ones you keep around. Any whore who thinks she can use you like her property toss her the fuck aside and wipe your dick on her cheek.
-------------------- FREE BURKE
|
k00laid
NEMO


Registered: 05/03/10
Posts: 19,636
Last seen: 6 months, 4 days
|
Re: Do girls ever make sense? [Re: Mescalean]
#19387148 - 01/08/14 09:56 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Mescalean said: Sorry to tell you this kid but get used to it. Now it the time to hone your BS detecting. Majority, not all, but majority of women are sneaky and conniving. You will meet very few straight shooters dating. Those are the ones you keep around. Any whore who thinks she can use you like her property toss her the fuck aside and wipe your dick on her cheek.
its sad but the dating game is lame as fuck these days.
-------------------- AMU - AMU Q & A - MyVideo Teks!
|
Cyclohexylamine
Turn on, Tune in, Drop out



Registered: 09/08/10
Posts: 14,327
|
Re: Do girls ever make sense? [Re: Mescalean] 1
#19387173 - 01/08/14 10:04 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Mescalean said: Sorry to tell you this kid but get used to it. Now it the time to hone your BS detecting. Majority, not all, but majority of women are sneaky and conniving. You will meet very few straight shooters dating. Those are the ones you keep around. Any whore who thinks she can use you like her property toss her the fuck aside and wipe your dick on her cheek.
What's wrong with you people. The majority of posts whenever someone mentions women problems is that the "majority of women are sneaky and conniving". Are you all that bitter? Mature the fuck up.. You might find that relationship issues start sorting themselves out.
-------------------- Yes this is tymo - I just changed my name Have you ever had a dream that you were so sure was real? What if you were unable to awake from that dream? How would you know the difference between that dream world and the real world? There is NOTHING better than feeling that warm dissociative fuzz creeping up your body from IM K Something abut that anaesthetic rush... Qualitative Research Chemical Effects and Experiences The Wonderful World of Methoxetamine The 3-Meo-PCP Chapters, Part One
|
k00laid
NEMO


Registered: 05/03/10
Posts: 19,636
Last seen: 6 months, 4 days
|
|
Quote:
tymoteusz3 said:
Quote:
Mescalean said: Sorry to tell you this kid but get used to it. Now it the time to hone your BS detecting. Majority, not all, but majority of women are sneaky and conniving. You will meet very few straight shooters dating. Those are the ones you keep around. Any whore who thinks she can use you like her property toss her the fuck aside and wipe your dick on her cheek.
What's wrong with you people. The majority of posts whenever someone mentions women problems is that the "majority of women are sneaky and conniving". Are you all that bitter? Mature the fuck up.. You might find that relationship issues start sorting themselves out.
protip: it's not just the women.
it's the oversexualized culture that we are brought up in.
human's are expected to have many different mating partners at any given time.
and to juggle these many flings. lies must be told.
-------------------- AMU - AMU Q & A - MyVideo Teks!
|
Turtletotem
Dutch Delight



Registered: 09/02/13
Posts: 3,763
Last seen: 4 years, 11 months
|
Re: Do girls ever make sense? [Re: k00laid] 1
#19387249 - 01/08/14 10:22 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
|
|
Yeah most people suck, male and female. Keep looking, there's good ones too man.
--------------------
|
|