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Anonymous #1
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Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously...
#19381884 - 01/07/14 11:11 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
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Every day, for some reason, for 5 minutes, I start thinking that having a girlfriend wwould be awesome. But when I start looking online I realize that reading a bunch of profiles takes a long time. It's boring. It only feels like I'm browsing in a store. I know I'll have to come up with 50 original messages in order to get one reply. Seems like a lot of effort. My daily life includes practically 0 contact with real world women.
What I'm trying to say is that the process to get a girlfriend seems like too much work to be worth it. I always end up closing the website and doing something else.
Does that mean that global warming is caused by human activity?
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19385305 - 01/07/14 09:46 PM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
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Most of those girls on those websites probably have too high of standards anyway, and end up just picking a guy to date that they meet in person anyway. And just have the profile to build their self esteam but dont really give any of the guys on there a chance. I try those sites too and never a response.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19385364 - 01/07/14 09:56 PM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
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Anonymous said: Every day, for some reason, for 5 minutes, I start thinking that having a girlfriend wwould be awesome.
try jerking off the next time this happens, and then afterwards ask yourself if you think having a girlfriend would be awesome. your perspective may change.
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Anonymous #4
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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19385528 - 01/07/14 10:24 PM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
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lol i don't think the internet is the only place to get a girlfriend
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rackem



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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19385981 - 01/08/14 12:02 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
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the best and only way to get a girl is to not look...
once that statement digests, it happens.
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WhoManBeing
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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: rackem] 1
#19386007 - 01/08/14 12:09 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
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just carry on with life, do well for yourself, you to attract good things.
or, do as you please.
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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: rackem]
#19386026 - 01/08/14 12:14 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
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If you're looking for an American girl you'd be better off jacking off. American's are the most brainwashed fucktards on the planet. I see no benefit to an American male to be with an American woman except for sex, unless she's just cool to hang out with, which how common is that?
The only reason not to be with a woman just for sex is if you have religious beliefs/values that go against fornication. Marriage is out of the question, the sanctity of marriage is all but dead. Unfortunately from years and decades of social engineering and brainwashing through magazines, tv shows, etc., American women think they are men and are better than men, and are not willing to do what women were put here to do, cook, clean, tend house, raise children, take care of her husband.
It just comes down to how badly do you want that pretty pink puddle of goodness? Bad enough to have to deal with a nagging Jezebel everyday? Blessed are the men who have found a good woman, because they are rare.
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pwnasaurus
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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: happygolucky] 2
#19386152 - 01/08/14 12:56 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
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happygolucky said: If you're looking for an American girl you'd be better off jacking off. American's are the most brainwashed fucktards on the planet. I see no benefit to an American male to be with an American woman except for sex, unless she's just cool to hang out with, which how common is that?
The only reason not to be with a woman just for sex is if you have religious beliefs/values that go against fornication. Marriage is out of the question, the sanctity of marriage is all but dead. Unfortunately from years and decades of social engineering and brainwashing through magazines, tv shows, etc., American women think they are men and are better than men, and are not willing to do what women were put here to do, cook, clean, tend house, raise children, take care of her husband.
It just comes down to how badly do you want that pretty pink puddle of goodness? Bad enough to have to deal with a nagging Jezebel everyday? Blessed are the men who have found a good woman, because they are rare.

This is one of the most sexist and ridiculous posts I've read on this site.
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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: pwnasaurus]
#19386184 - 01/08/14 01:06 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
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dude just sounds bitter as fuck to me
haha....sorry u got fucked over
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: lunarpiscean]
#19387070 - 01/08/14 09:32 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
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Technically, all I would need out of life is a fuckfriend. Where do you get those?
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empty space
the void


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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19387213 - 01/08/14 10:14 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
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Craigslist?
In all honesty, once you have a fuckfriend, you'll want one that wants you for more than your penis.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: empty space]
#19387265 - 01/08/14 10:26 AM (10 years, 23 days ago) |
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empty space said: Craigslist?
In all honesty, once you have a fuckfriend, you'll want one that wants you for more than your penis.
I had one back in college. I can assure you that I did not care what she thought about me. All I cared about was the BJ, handjobs and sex.
I was in college back then so plenty of young horny chicks. Now that I'm a little bit older. I have no clue how to get one...
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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19391443 - 01/09/14 12:29 AM (10 years, 22 days ago) |
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I was given a fuck friend, now all I want is 3 more. I'm all fucked up, so going to counseling and healers, hoping not to live alone for too much longer. Of course I really want a wife, but I don't deserve one at the moment.
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usulpsychonaut


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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: happygolucky]
#19439663 - 01/18/14 08:28 PM (10 years, 12 days ago) |
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happygolucky said: If you're looking for an American girl you'd be better off jacking off. American's are the most brainwashed fucktards on the planet. I see no benefit to an American male to be with an American woman except for sex, unless she's just cool to hang out with, which how common is that?
The only reason not to be with a woman just for sex is if you have religious beliefs/values that go against fornication. Marriage is out of the question, the sanctity of marriage is all but dead. Unfortunately from years and decades of social engineering and brainwashing through magazines, tv shows, etc., American women think they are men and are better than men, and are not willing to do what women were put here to do, cook, clean, tend house, raise children, take care of her husband.
It just comes down to how badly do you want that pretty pink puddle of goodness? Bad enough to have to deal with a nagging Jezebel everyday? Blessed are the men who have found a good woman, because they are rare.
Its all very well to think like this if you fuck allot of american women and and non american women. The main reason most american men would be with an american woman is because they take what they get, that is the 1 woman that they get to connect with once in a blue moon. I'm feeling pretty bad about unintentionally pushing a straight woman away recently. I was hoping I could be with a straight woman really. Hell there was a drunk I was with for 10 years who was really great at hospitality. I fucked up leaving her. Since then its been real bad attitudes about cooking food, as if it were some kind of oppression! Yeah this is what you are talking about. But I can't just go out and meet women and sleep with them. Thats fucking impossible. My personality is fucked. Next opportunity I get to get laid every morning/long term relationship I'll take it, feminist, religious or (preferably) a new drunk. Plus I have nothing to lose anyway. I'm fucking poor, there would never be a house or anything to lose... There are other circumstances and shit you know. Most american men will settle down with american women regardless of strange ideas about sex equality, they don't really have a choice.
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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: rackem] 1
#19441140 - 01/19/14 04:39 AM (10 years, 12 days ago) |
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rackem said: the best and only way to get a girl is to not look...
once that statement digests, it happens.
this is solid advice right here.
i think you're making it harder than it is OP
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: Legend]
#19441552 - 01/19/14 08:26 AM (10 years, 12 days ago) |
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Legend said:
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rackem said: the best and only way to get a girl is to not look...
once that statement digests, it happens.
this is solid advice right here.
i think you're making it harder than it is OP
If not looking for a GF would find me one, I would be juggling 4 girlfriends by now
Edited by Anonymous (01/19/14 08:26 AM)
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19442261 - 01/19/14 12:11 PM (10 years, 11 days ago) |
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I never find a girlfriend when Im not looking for a girlfriend. It sucks.
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pwnasaurus
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Re: Wanting a girlfriend but not motivated enough to look seriously... [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#19442270 - 01/19/14 12:13 PM (10 years, 11 days ago) |
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I think there's a bit of misinterpretation about "not looking". IMO you don't have to go out "looking for a girlfriend", but you do have to meet girls and go on dates and stuff. Obviously sitting around in your room "improving yourself" isn't going to make a girl fall into your lap.
On Friday I went out with a buddy of mine who is completely fearless. He approached a ton of girls and we were talking and dancing with girls all night. I even have a date now on Wednesday with a cool chick that I met. You're never going to find a girl if you don't try at least talking to them.
I don't think I really approached a single girl all night but that was my first experience being out with someone that really goes for it and it was a lot of fun. Breaking the ice is the hardest part. At some point you do have to actively go out and meet girls and talk to them.
It doesn't have to be a bar but join a club, or a sport, or whatever interests you and TALK TO THEM. That's the only way.
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