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Dr.Tooty
Eye see you.


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unam sanctum said: other people shouldn't comprise the foundation of your happiness. relationships are mostly lame anyhow 
Eh, what makes people happy differs vastly from person to person.
For some, family is more important than anything else...and how do families start? that's right, by dating (usually).
I know some people who have done quite a bit for themselves, and are bonafide badass people, but still feel that it means nothing without someone to share it with.
I want a relationship and i don't care how stupid it makes me sound.
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claraclairvoyant
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Re: Single and sad. [Re: rackem]
#19374991 - 01/05/14 09:52 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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look at all these single people in here..we should all get togetha
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withoutawire
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Dr.Tooty
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Re: Single and sad. [Re: Dr.Tooty]
#19375185 - 01/05/14 10:48 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Shroomery speed dating...Go!
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Rhizohunter
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Re: Single and sad. [Re: Dr.Tooty]
#19375195 - 01/05/14 10:50 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I'm single and sad, but am not sure if they are related at all. I wish I could find happiness within myself before I found happiness in someone else.
With the rate things are going I may be alone for a while...
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r00tuuu123
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Re: Single and sad. [Re: g00ru]
#19375227 - 01/05/14 10:59 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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g00ru said:
this, also listen to some music that opens you up emotionally.
Nah op sit down and SpeedMetalize/Punk up some Bullshit Emotional song.
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ModestMouse
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withoutawire said:

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sprinkles
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well now you can have several relationships and you're not limited to just one. work out, work on yourself, and upgrade to something better
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ManianFH
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ModestMouse said: On holiday break from college. Relationship just died. What more is there to say?
I feel like I should take up a new hobby. Maybe I'll dust off that old guitar sitting in the corner.
what do you like to play?
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ModestMouse
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Re: Single and sad. [Re: ManianFH]
#19377575 - 01/06/14 02:44 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I haven't fully learned guitar yet. I'd LIKE to play alt. rock/ indie shit. But it's going to be a while.
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lot_justice
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Snotfish
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lot_justice said: Been thinking about doing the same but my voice is raspy and non-existent. Am I the only one who realizes how much of a nightmare cold weather is to musicians? Not only does it send your body into several forms of shock, the constant flux of inside to outside, but indoor heating isn't good on the head. There's all sorts of nasal and auditory nooks and crannies that get stuffed up when I'm in a heated place. Don't really have the science to explain, but I know the end result is: stare at the wall. Wait for summer or probation to end. Relocate to warmth.
I actually play guitar/sing. The cold has definitely had effect on my fingers before but never my voice. May just be the way I sing.
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broken
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mushroom_sandwich said: pick up that guitar OP, do it nooow! let the sorrow flow through you and create wonderful music.
This is what a good friend of mine calls "string therapy"
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moonrockmushy
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unam sanctum said: other people shouldn't comprise the foundation of your happiness. relationships are mostly lame anyhow 
One of my biggest revalations in life taught me the opposite. I'd be interested in hearing something that is more important to a human than connections to other humans.
I'd say after the absolute essentials (air, water, nutes, stable environment) other people are at the top of my list.
"Relationships" are pretty lame though. I get that, but my loved ones, mostly family, definitely comprise the foundation of my happiness.
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mushroom_sandwich said: pick up that guitar OP, do it nooow! let the sorrow flow through you and create wonderful music.
I'm with mushroom on this one. Pain is just fuel for the creative fire
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showme
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unfortunately it takes time and only time. i'm there myself too, newly single. what is there to say? keep on, brother, do your thing. you are not alone in being alone!
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ModestMouse said: On holiday break from college. Relationship just died. What more is there to say?
I feel like I should take up a new hobby. Maybe I'll dust off that old guitar sitting in the corner.
Wooo! Exes! WOHHH!!
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Sorry or your loss.
I recommend a vigorous workout.
There is almost no emotional funk that a really intense workout can't cure, at least temporarily.
When you work up a major sweat and your blood is pumping the endorphins start rushing into your brain and soon you feel great.
It works for almost any kind of stress or depression.
In my experience the best possible way to relieve stress or depression is to work out on a heavy punching bag.
Doing some hot yoga is also amazing.
All the best to you
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Dr.Tooty
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Re: Single and sad. [Re: Moonshoe]
#19379626 - 01/06/14 09:44 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Moonshoe said: Sorry or your loss.
I recommend a vigorous workout.
There is almost no emotional funk that a really intense workout can't cure, at least temporarily.
I agree...somewhat...One can tell how depressed i am by how good of shape im in...more depression = great shape.
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A Day InThe Life
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lot_justice said: (also, don't play the guitar because your relationship ended. Just play guitar. If you pick it up with notions of, "oh I've been wronged lord! Time to crank out some blues!" the girl has won)
Is it really about winning or losing though?
I like to sing or dance, or joke around n shoot the shit with friends. Keeping busy is key I like to be productive and improve skills and myself. There will always be another, or so I'm told.. but sometimes I wonder if I'll ever find true love again. But I'm not really looking for a relationship right now anyways cause there's some aspects I don't miss..
Edited by A Day InThe Life (01/07/14 11:44 PM)
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