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Re: is it ok to visit prostitutes? [Re: Janna]
#19375316 - 01/05/14 11:41 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Janna said: There is NOTHING wrong with visiting prostitutes, and it always makes me mad when people say otherwise. Prostitutes are real people, with real lives and real stories. A woman becomes a prostitute to support herself or those she loves, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with this. And there is absolutly nothing wrong with supporting these women either.
There's nothing wrong with BEING a prostitute, ill agree with you on that definitely. However, to say there is nothing wrong with visiting prostitutes 100% of the time (such as the thai jailhouse example I gave earlier), or that there is nothing wrong with HOW the industry works makes me realize you are not politically cognizant or aware of human rights issues.
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Re: is it ok to visit prostitutes? [Re: s240779] 3
#19375350 - 01/05/14 11:58 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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circastes said: I visited a prostitute because I was mentally ill and still a virgin at 23 or so. Being mentally ill you can't even hold down friends let alone girlfriends. I actually told the chick I was a virgin, kind of in front of the other prostitutes before we went into the room, because honestly I was kinda nervous and not paying attention, just wanted her not to expect me to launch into it... And when I got out of there and went past the other prostitutes again they were all smiling really kindly at me, it was awesome. It was my little rite of passage finally complete, and they were glad for me I guess. Even the receptionist had this huge grin.
What kind of a place was this and what was their ethnicity, just out of curiosity?
It was actually a pretty expensive place in the CBD of Melbourne, Australia. The room had a spa, shower and the bed/lounge was this big semi circle, the place was hella expensive looking. The girl was Romanian/white. Blonde, brown eyes I think, tall, skinny, and pretty damn hot.
I don't want to go into how much it cost me because it's a bit embarrassing but another little way out for me here is that being mentally ill the government was giving me a lot of money and I wasn't working, so basically the taxpayers paid for my stylish little virginity extinguishment.
I wasn't going to go to some cheap place. I did have some self-respect.
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Re: is it ok to visit prostitutes? [Re: circastes]
#19376764 - 01/06/14 10:53 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I would feel much more comfortable saying that I visit a prostitute who gets checked for STDs on the regular than saying that I go to the bar to pick up random women.
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Re: is it ok to visit prostitutes? [Re: Hobozen]
#19376807 - 01/06/14 11:06 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Me personally I don't understand where the gratification comes from if you have to pay for it.
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Re: is it ok to visit prostitutes? [Re: SeaShrooms]
#19376965 - 01/06/14 11:40 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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The gratification for me comes from the fact that I can have sex with an unbelievably beautiful asian woman who also seems to take pleasure in the sexual exchange. This just wouldnt happen otherwise. I dont let our stuck up cultural norms sway my enjoyment here. Plus, whose to say I cant be friends with my hookers.
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Re: is it ok to visit prostitutes? [Re: Hobozen] 2
#19376973 - 01/06/14 11:42 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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i visit prostitutes just so i can keep the sex trafficking business alive
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Re: is it ok to visit prostitutes? [Re: Bassfreak]
#19376986 - 01/06/14 11:45 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Bassfreak said: i visit prostitutes just so i can keep the sex trafficking business alive
I'd +5 you for this but I've opted out
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Re: is it ok to visit prostitutes? [Re: Bassfreak]
#19376987 - 01/06/14 11:46 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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People are so fuckin straight edged these days. If its illegal it must be wrong. Were born to be tools nowadays.
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Re: is it ok to visit prostitutes? [Re: Repertoire89]
#19376998 - 01/06/14 11:50 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Bassfreak said: i visit prostitutes just so i can keep the sex trafficking business alive
I'd +5 you for this but I've opted out
eh dont opt out
i think a lot of the ratings i get are hilarious. but since i got back from my 6 month ban ive had to tone myself down a bit to stay unbanned. so ive lacked funny ratings, but still. its funny how serious some people take the internetz
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Re: is it ok to visit prostitutes? [Re: Bassfreak]
#19377013 - 01/06/14 11:54 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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dont opt out, dont visit hookers, same shit different pile
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Re: is it ok to visit prostitutes? [Re: circastes]
#19392439 - 01/09/14 06:37 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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circastes, don't bother justifying yourself about using the service of prostitutes to anyone. Enjoy it.
I know I do!
Love the cheap Asian brothels here in Australia.
It's a power imbalance that a woman can lay there, get banged and earn more than you do in a day than you would in a week.
Feminism is so biased.
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Re: is it ok to visit prostitutes? [Re: Hobozen]
#19392862 - 01/09/14 09:48 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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blankk said: The gratification for me comes from the fact that I can have sex with an unbelievably beautiful asian woman who also seems to take pleasure in the sexual exchange. This just wouldnt happen otherwise. I dont let our stuck up cultural norms sway my enjoyment here. Plus, whose to say I cant be friends with my hookers.
I know right? Where else am I going to find these shibaru lovers 

Other then visiting mistresses for a certain niche I don't think i'd pay for a prostitute. The build-up towards an orgasm is far more exciting then the orgasm itself and knowing these women are professionals... 
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Re: is it ok to visit prostitutes? [Re: Beanhead]
#19401416 - 01/10/14 10:12 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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To op: It depends on what your definition of intimacy is. It's true that just being with someone and sharing a conversation or exchange is intimacy. Sex is also a form of intimacy, and love can be a form as well. Morality aside, you seem to be struggling with self-image issues among your moral standpoint on prostitution. Those issues may be a blockage for your socializing with other people. Socializing with new people can be hard when you haven't done it for a while. The longer you go without doing it, the more the fear grows in facing the change. But change comes with benefits if you keep at it. Like a self-imposed molting of yourself into a new, shiner skin more to your liking. The prostitutes and visiting/viewing them could be seen as a "safe" route to love and/or intimacy. This could also play into them being so tempting and alluring outside of other people. Asking yourself why they are so tempting to you may reveal some answers.
I believe that prostitution should be legal, and I believe this because then you can remove the legal barriers that prevent working girls from getting the medical/mental/moral support that they need. I also think that as quoted before that prostitution is similar to drugs in that you do not really know where the money is going, or what is going to be done with that money. There is an illegal side to everything in the world simply because there will always be people who don't want to follow rules and guidelines to things imposed in society. But, people, men and women, seek out sex workers for various reasons, and just because they are in it for various reasons they should not be condemned. You don't blame a homeless person for using discarded cardboard to make a shelter with when it's cold, do you? I believe people love and lust for many reasons. Some people want to exchange money for that lust. I think that the people who Willingly want to make that exchange should be allowed to without scrutiny and shame.
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