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Re: Ever feel like you're being used? [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace] * 1
    #19371374 - 01/05/14 04:35 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

People will use you, once you catch on you'll notice when it's happening, their voice, the way they say thanks or whatever they say will sound not genuine. They don't ever hit you up to hang out but whenever they see you they always talk about "how your awesome and oh by the way could you do this for me?"

I fell out of that bullshit kind of once I graduated high school, still took a bit for me to catch on though. Now I surround myself with people I enjoy for the way they think and what we do together, usually art now and just being goofy or talking. It's so much nicer to feel really human with people. I don't see as many people but that gives me time to devote to bettering myself and giving to true friends.

To everyone here saying its always a back and fourth, I'm really really sorry that's what you feel like human interaction has turned int for you. Maybe you always have to give to receive but it's emotion, care and humor, joy, ideas, music, actions...not just materials.


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Re: Ever feel like you're being used? [Re: Everything]
    #19371465 - 01/05/14 05:49 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

There are girls i call for one reason. And thats the only reason. Of i course I give them a different reason. Thats shitty too on my part. Do your drugless friends make up other excuses to come over or get you to come there?
If you want to make new friends go to a bar where you know no one and get drunk. It is on you to talk and be social too. Your new BFF isn't going to come up and knock on your door.
I have a zillion drinking buddies but no one to drive me to the airport. I get everyone drugs at no profit to myself but can't find anyone to feed my cat while i am away. You know what go for quality not quantity. Fuck now i am depressed too!


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Re: Ever feel like you're being used? [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace] * 1
    #19371540 - 01/05/14 06:42 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

sounds like you need to eliminate people out of your life. i end up feeling used with certain people but i have weeded those people out over the past couple years. the people i'm friends with now, it is close to 50/50. if youre down and out, i'll help you but it has be the same on the other side.

normally i can tell if someone is a "user" by small shit, like not throwing down weed ever. so i tend to avoid these types.


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Re: Ever feel like you're being used? [Re: ThatKidWithTheFace]
    #19371553 - 01/05/14 06:54 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

I think everyone feels that way from time to time, but I think it's most important to maintain kindness towards everyone. This doesn't mean allowing yourself to be walked on by other people. That sets a very poor precedent for them to follow in other relationships.


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Re: Ever feel like you're being used? [Re: my3rdeye]
    #19371563 - 01/05/14 06:57 AM (10 years, 1 month ago)

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my3rdeye said:

I have a zillion drinking buddies but no one to drive me to the airport. I get everyone drugs at no profit to myself but can't find anyone to feed my cat while i am away. You know what go for quality not quantity. Fuck now i am depressed too!



the problem with this mentality is; Ill drive you to the airport AND feed your cat so I can use it as leverage later.


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