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Rahz
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#19368336 - 01/04/14 01:42 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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A guy was telling me about this female. Said about a year ago he asked her if she was seeing anyone. No. He asked he if she would like to go out. No.
So the girl is around 5 months into a pregnancy, went into early labor. Turns out she also has some fresh bruises on her arms and scratches on her neck. He doesn't know what to make of it, asking me if he should be more aggressive, maybe girls like to be slapped around a bit, show them who's boss. He was a bit hostile about the situation, more upset with her than the idiot she's dating.
I told him females are human and some of them are just fucked up. Like daddy like boyfriend. And, who the fuck knows. My little speech didn't seem to aleve his confusion. What would you say to him?
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Re: Woman [Re: Rahz] 1
#19368346 - 01/04/14 01:44 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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If he thinks he should be more aggressive and "start slapping girls around a bit"... "You're a fucking idiot." is what I would say to him.
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Rahz
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I'm pretty sure he was being facetious.
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We teach people how to treat us. This girl needs to get a backbone IMO.
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Re: Woman [Re: cez]
#19368471 - 01/04/14 02:08 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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This one is destined to fail.
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Re: Woman [Re: Rahz]
#19368652 - 01/04/14 02:43 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Tell him to find someone else/
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Re: Woman [Re: Rahz]
#19368751 - 01/04/14 03:09 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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i would say that aggressiveness can be healthy, but not toward her. women are attracted to a man who can be aggressive, but only toward something external, like a threat.
even women with "issues" are attracted to healthy forms of aggression. they are not attracted to being beaten up, but they only are familiar with aggression towards themselves, so they respond to it in the absence of something better. they do not like aggression towards themselves, but it is familiar to them, just like fighting and arguing is familiar to many of us so we fight and argue in the absence of a better way.
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Re: Woman [Re: cez]
#19368947 - 01/04/14 03:54 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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cez said: We teach people how to treat us. This girl needs to get a backbone IMO.
interesting ideagasms.
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Re: Woman [Re: Tycoda] 1
#19369004 - 01/04/14 04:10 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Tycoda said: i would say that aggressiveness can be healthy, but not toward her. women are attracted to a man who can be aggressive, but only toward something external, like a threat.
even women with "issues" are attracted to healthy forms of aggression. they are not attracted to being beaten up, but they only are familiar with aggression towards themselves, so they respond to it in the absence of something better. they do not like aggression towards themselves, but it is familiar to them, just like fighting and arguing is familiar to many of us so we fight and argue in the absence of a better way.
I'm not sure whether she was abused as a child but I do know she was literally dropped off at the door of a children's home at a young age by her mother. She's beautiful, but shy and quiet. I don't meet many girls like that, can't help but think she was probably abused somewhere along the line.
I kinda feel bad for the guy, reminds me of myself in my 20s, but he seemed to be more concerned with why she didn't like him rather than whether she was okay, or expressing anger towards the other guy. I didn't feel the need to get into details because of that. It just occurred to me that I didn't have any general answers to his questions other than 'some people are fucked up'.
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Re: Woman [Re: Rahz]
#19369956 - 01/04/14 07:31 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I would tell him yeah, absolutely you should slap them around.http://www.jimgoad.net/pdf/violence/lets.pdf Fuck it, this is war and I'm going to be loyal to my own.
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Tell him to be more aggressive in finding out who the fuck is abusing this pregnant woman and putting a stop to it. This is the only ethical course of action. Incidentally, it would probably be a good step forward in your friend's quest to become a viable mate for women.
Honestly, what the fuck? What kind of person sees evidence of a pregnant woman being beaten, and subsequently thinks "Aha...I'm not getting any because I'm too passive" instead of "what the fuck is going on - I need to help this person."
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Re: Woman [Re: hmmn]
#19370111 - 01/04/14 08:08 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Bingo. I suppose that's bad on me because I kinda brushed him off about it. He's not really someone I would put much faith in, and I'm not optimistic about people in general. That's what made me feel bad about the exchange. hmmm
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Re: Woman [Re: Rahz]
#19370127 - 01/04/14 08:11 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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One of the things I've learned by living so long is that I never need people like your friend in my life. It's a total waste of precious time. I'd much rather be totally alone than have to hang with people I don't respect.
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this kind of argument based on sex is a lie .. that is how it didn't take long time for relations to end homosexual .. like now everywhere gays are the reference of love to justify and support, while what was used to recall as straight relations is now judged wrong and for divorce end necessarily
so that fact prove how the argument for sex is a lie .. fake excuse to exploit by opportunists nature which is now revealed being the evil nature of beings and existence freedoms
all religions are for evil life, like what jesus kept mentioning fruits and money to multiply as the way of right life ..
women in depth of means are the bodies of superiority where men are the inferiority free wills .. so existence is based on the evil nature of true freedom when it would have to be objective, like how superiors would mean to enjoy themselves superiority by forcing others to work for them, and inferiors would enjoy putting superiority down as the only way of feeling well within themselves
then in humans existence end, women became the fabricated down ruled by men, and men became the most inferior means and ways working for evil negative source of exclusive existence ends
the point of truth, is to show and prove how objective recognitions rights must come first, and how ones freedom are always wrong and evil wills
like right persons including myself, are the person that don't exist for themselves, they are conscious that they didn't choose to exist, it is just happening like everything exist most likely.. like existence is real
right persons are the persons that wont ask for anything, unless their conditions or states are going down to negative fact, then the panic of getting away from existence realities make them suffer and work hard to reach the constancy of rights away from evil freedoms.. which is abused by all evil powers and force, living by enslaving existing rights seen or known, that is how all became evil powers source and rights became the worse condition ends
existence is never through sex .. freedoms can be relatively sexual .. but only relatively, that is how or why sexuality in means is always a lie
freedoms are relatively sexual in the sense of pleasure and joy .. so what freedom fancy about .. like males freedom is more about taking advantage from knowing being really existing .. and females freedom is more about taking advantage from knowing being truly superior
so men fancy on forcing the concept of facts as being everything truth
and women fancy on getting everything to follow her like dogs
that is why when a man look having some dignity women are hot , like confused between willing to see him her dog and willing to get something real of him ..
same for men, when women look intelligent in facts men are hot, confused in willing to force her to look lost in everything reality, and the will to get something true of her
what is true is superior sense when truth is infinite superiority what is real is inferior sense when reality is the common denominator of all so always down reference .. and when nothing cannot be shared then it is always less to nothing existence.. that is why reality never matter and what matter is freedoms individualities of independent beings
so in fact sexuality is always wrong .. but when freedom is right then it can be managed freely
but in existence truth there is never any sexual aspect of being
that is how inferiority and superiority of beings are always translated objectively in things even and through everyone situations of beings
existence is objective mean it is everything at the same time, it can never be one when it is by definition infinite present things and living happenings of present things
that is how in truth, right persons are both objectively
like to be real they are free superior to realize it, and to be free they are else realities recognitions right, so the end of else rights realizations, free as positive conscious of being the plus of all beings
so I would say to your fictive guy, to go and fuck himself, to find another man like him and enjoy living more openly the fuck he means to all superiority
the only existence is about knowing how to be true in pointing superiority rights coming to always being objective first
which is why existence is impossible, obviously no one can be constant in that .. and that is why existence always end dramatically and I guess this is the real end
we as humans know how there is nothing from nothing how we cant get anything for free
messing with truth knowledge don't provide anything .. on the contrary it impose ways more respect to objective truth existence first then, when it is known existing before the subjective will to mess with
Edited by absols (01/05/14 02:04 AM)
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Re: Woman [Re: absols] 1
#19371259 - 01/05/14 03:08 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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absols said: this kind of argument based on sex is a lie .. that is how it didn't take long time for relations to end homosexual .. like now everywhere gays are the reference of love to justify and support, while what was used to recall as straight relations is now judged wrong and for divorce end necessarily
so that fact prove how the argument for sex is a lie .. fake excuse to exploit by opportunists nature which is now revealed being the evil nature of beings and existence freedoms
all religions are for evil life, like what jesus kept mentioning fruits and money to multiply as the way of right life ..
women in depth of means are the bodies of superiority where men are the inferiority free wills .. so existence is based on the evil nature of true freedom when it would have to be objective, like how superiors would mean to enjoy themselves superiority by forcing others to work for them, and inferiors would enjoy putting superiority down as the only way of feeling well within themselves
then in humans existence end, women became the fabricated down ruled by men, and men became the most inferior means and ways working for evil negative source of exclusive existence ends
the point of truth, is to show and prove how objective recognitions rights must come first, and how ones freedom are always wrong and evil wills
like right persons including myself, are the person that don't exist for themselves, they are conscious that they didn't choose to exist, it is just happening like everything exist most likely.. like existence is real
right persons are the persons that wont ask for anything, unless their conditions or states are going down to negative fact, then the panic of getting away from existence realities make them suffer and work hard to reach the constancy of rights away from evil freedoms.. which is abused by all evil powers and force, living by enslaving existing rights seen or known, that is how all became evil powers source and rights became the worse condition ends
existence is never through sex .. freedoms can be relatively sexual .. but only relatively, that is how or why sexuality in means is always a lie
freedoms are relatively sexual in the sense of pleasure and joy .. so what freedom fancy about .. like males freedom is more about taking advantage from knowing being really existing .. and females freedom is more about taking advantage from knowing being truly superior
so men fancy on forcing the concept of facts as being everything truth
and women fancy on getting everything to follow her like dogs
that is why when a man look having some dignity women are hot , like confused between willing to see him her dog and willing to get something real of him ..
same for men, when women look intelligent in facts men are hot, confused in willing to force her to look lost in everything reality, and the will to get something true of her
what is true is superior sense when truth is infinite superiority what is real is inferior sense when reality is the common denominator of all so always down reference .. and when nothing cannot be shared then it is always less to nothing existence.. that is why reality never matter and what matter is freedoms individualities of independent beings
so in fact sexuality is always wrong .. but when freedom is right then it can be managed freely
but in existence truth there is never any sexual aspect of being
that is how inferiority and superiority of beings are always translated objectively in things even and through everyone situations of beings
existence is objective mean it is everything at the same time, it can never be one when it is by definition infinite present things and living happenings of present things
that is how in truth, right persons are both objectively
like to be real they are free superior to realize it, and to be free they are else realities recognitions right, so the end of else rights realizations, free as positive conscious of being the plus of all beings
so I would say to your fictive guy, to go and fuck himself, to find another man like him and enjoy living more openly the fuck he means to all superiority
the only existence is about knowing how to be true in pointing superiority rights coming to always being objective first
which is why existence is impossible, obviously no one can be constant in that .. and that is why existence always end dramatically and I guess this is the real end
we as humans know how there is nothing from nothing how we cant get anything for free
messing with truth knowledge don't provide anything .. on the contrary it impose ways more respect to objective truth existence first then, when it is known existing before the subjective will to mess with
whaaa???

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Re: Woman [Re: hmmn]
#19371299 - 01/05/14 03:35 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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duck yourself in your fancy of being filled to be eaten as sweet thing
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Re: Woman [Re: absols]
#19371505 - 01/05/14 06:24 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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i submit...just...please speak english
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Re: Woman [Re: hmmn]
#19371559 - 01/05/14 06:56 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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submission is a lie .. and I dare you to find anyone else who can talk about everything reasons and sources in better English then mine or in more clear terms
the only reason of your reply is for the content and substance that you saw of my means.. what I clearly state men inferiority forever and women superiority on men always.. so the opposite of your meaning wills
while again I repeat more clearly how sex divisions is wrong and don't concern any individual conscious rights like myself at all which are exclusively free first of objective existence conditions.. this point of truth also I am sure pissed off the most the opportunist will you are out of everything existence knowledge
your ways of reacting negatively by putting down the whole person as nothing but an animal word, show the one you are, who never even mean to react to else expressions but mean exclusively the business of looking at everyone as being none for yourself sense of being a living one
you are free to say whatever you want about another, and me too
go learn some more English yourself !
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Re: Woman [Re: absols]
#19371672 - 01/05/14 07:41 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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submission is a lie .. and I dare you to find anyone else who can talk about everything reasons and sources in better English then mine or in more clear terms
   
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Re: Woman [Re: Rahz]
#19371863 - 01/05/14 09:01 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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This question definitely shows the difference between younger guys and older guys. A lot of younger guys see it as women looking for an "aggressive" man but when you get older you realize they are seeking an "alpha type" man, which does not mean he smacks around his women but is dominate enough that the woman feels that he is her protector and in charge so that if something happens, he will be able to handle the situation.
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