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#19368336 - 01/04/14 01:42 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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A guy was telling me about this female. Said about a year ago he asked her if she was seeing anyone. No. He asked he if she would like to go out. No.
So the girl is around 5 months into a pregnancy, went into early labor. Turns out she also has some fresh bruises on her arms and scratches on her neck. He doesn't know what to make of it, asking me if he should be more aggressive, maybe girls like to be slapped around a bit, show them who's boss. He was a bit hostile about the situation, more upset with her than the idiot she's dating.
I told him females are human and some of them are just fucked up. Like daddy like boyfriend. And, who the fuck knows. My little speech didn't seem to aleve his confusion. What would you say to him?
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Re: Woman [Re: Rahz] 1
#19368346 - 01/04/14 01:44 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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If he thinks he should be more aggressive and "start slapping girls around a bit"... "You're a fucking idiot." is what I would say to him.
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I'm pretty sure he was being facetious.
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We teach people how to treat us. This girl needs to get a backbone IMO.
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Re: Woman [Re: cez]
#19368471 - 01/04/14 02:08 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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This one is destined to fail.
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Re: Woman [Re: Rahz]
#19368652 - 01/04/14 02:43 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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Tell him to find someone else/
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Re: Woman [Re: Rahz]
#19368751 - 01/04/14 03:09 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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i would say that aggressiveness can be healthy, but not toward her. women are attracted to a man who can be aggressive, but only toward something external, like a threat.
even women with "issues" are attracted to healthy forms of aggression. they are not attracted to being beaten up, but they only are familiar with aggression towards themselves, so they respond to it in the absence of something better. they do not like aggression towards themselves, but it is familiar to them, just like fighting and arguing is familiar to many of us so we fight and argue in the absence of a better way.
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Re: Woman [Re: cez]
#19368947 - 01/04/14 03:54 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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cez said: We teach people how to treat us. This girl needs to get a backbone IMO.
interesting ideagasms.
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Re: Woman [Re: Tycoda] 1
#19369004 - 01/04/14 04:10 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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Tycoda said: i would say that aggressiveness can be healthy, but not toward her. women are attracted to a man who can be aggressive, but only toward something external, like a threat.
even women with "issues" are attracted to healthy forms of aggression. they are not attracted to being beaten up, but they only are familiar with aggression towards themselves, so they respond to it in the absence of something better. they do not like aggression towards themselves, but it is familiar to them, just like fighting and arguing is familiar to many of us so we fight and argue in the absence of a better way.
I'm not sure whether she was abused as a child but I do know she was literally dropped off at the door of a children's home at a young age by her mother. She's beautiful, but shy and quiet. I don't meet many girls like that, can't help but think she was probably abused somewhere along the line.
I kinda feel bad for the guy, reminds me of myself in my 20s, but he seemed to be more concerned with why she didn't like him rather than whether she was okay, or expressing anger towards the other guy. I didn't feel the need to get into details because of that. It just occurred to me that I didn't have any general answers to his questions other than 'some people are fucked up'.
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Re: Woman [Re: Rahz]
#19369956 - 01/04/14 07:31 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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I would tell him yeah, absolutely you should slap them around.http://www.jimgoad.net/pdf/violence/lets.pdf Fuck it, this is war and I'm going to be loyal to my own.
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Tell him to be more aggressive in finding out who the fuck is abusing this pregnant woman and putting a stop to it. This is the only ethical course of action. Incidentally, it would probably be a good step forward in your friend's quest to become a viable mate for women.
Honestly, what the fuck? What kind of person sees evidence of a pregnant woman being beaten, and subsequently thinks "Aha...I'm not getting any because I'm too passive" instead of "what the fuck is going on - I need to help this person."
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Re: Woman [Re: hmmn]
#19370111 - 01/04/14 08:08 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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Bingo. I suppose that's bad on me because I kinda brushed him off about it. He's not really someone I would put much faith in, and I'm not optimistic about people in general. That's what made me feel bad about the exchange. hmmm
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Re: Woman [Re: Rahz]
#19370127 - 01/04/14 08:11 PM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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One of the things I've learned by living so long is that I never need people like your friend in my life. It's a total waste of precious time. I'd much rather be totally alone than have to hang with people I don't respect.
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this kind of argument based on sex is a lie .. that is how it didn't take long time for relations to end homosexual .. like now everywhere gays are the reference of love to justify and support, while what was used to recall as straight relations is now judged wrong and for divorce end necessarily
so that fact prove how the argument for sex is a lie .. fake excuse to exploit by opportunists nature which is now revealed being the evil nature of beings and existence freedoms
all religions are for evil life, like what jesus kept mentioning fruits and money to multiply as the way of right life ..
women in depth of means are the bodies of superiority where men are the inferiority free wills .. so existence is based on the evil nature of true freedom when it would have to be objective, like how superiors would mean to enjoy themselves superiority by forcing others to work for them, and inferiors would enjoy putting superiority down as the only way of feeling well within themselves
then in humans existence end, women became the fabricated down ruled by men, and men became the most inferior means and ways working for evil negative source of exclusive existence ends
the point of truth, is to show and prove how objective recognitions rights must come first, and how ones freedom are always wrong and evil wills
like right persons including myself, are the person that don't exist for themselves, they are conscious that they didn't choose to exist, it is just happening like everything exist most likely.. like existence is real
right persons are the persons that wont ask for anything, unless their conditions or states are going down to negative fact, then the panic of getting away from existence realities make them suffer and work hard to reach the constancy of rights away from evil freedoms.. which is abused by all evil powers and force, living by enslaving existing rights seen or known, that is how all became evil powers source and rights became the worse condition ends
existence is never through sex .. freedoms can be relatively sexual .. but only relatively, that is how or why sexuality in means is always a lie
freedoms are relatively sexual in the sense of pleasure and joy .. so what freedom fancy about .. like males freedom is more about taking advantage from knowing being really existing .. and females freedom is more about taking advantage from knowing being truly superior
so men fancy on forcing the concept of facts as being everything truth
and women fancy on getting everything to follow her like dogs
that is why when a man look having some dignity women are hot , like confused between willing to see him her dog and willing to get something real of him ..
same for men, when women look intelligent in facts men are hot, confused in willing to force her to look lost in everything reality, and the will to get something true of her
what is true is superior sense when truth is infinite superiority what is real is inferior sense when reality is the common denominator of all so always down reference .. and when nothing cannot be shared then it is always less to nothing existence.. that is why reality never matter and what matter is freedoms individualities of independent beings
so in fact sexuality is always wrong .. but when freedom is right then it can be managed freely
but in existence truth there is never any sexual aspect of being
that is how inferiority and superiority of beings are always translated objectively in things even and through everyone situations of beings
existence is objective mean it is everything at the same time, it can never be one when it is by definition infinite present things and living happenings of present things
that is how in truth, right persons are both objectively
like to be real they are free superior to realize it, and to be free they are else realities recognitions right, so the end of else rights realizations, free as positive conscious of being the plus of all beings
so I would say to your fictive guy, to go and fuck himself, to find another man like him and enjoy living more openly the fuck he means to all superiority
the only existence is about knowing how to be true in pointing superiority rights coming to always being objective first
which is why existence is impossible, obviously no one can be constant in that .. and that is why existence always end dramatically and I guess this is the real end
we as humans know how there is nothing from nothing how we cant get anything for free
messing with truth knowledge don't provide anything .. on the contrary it impose ways more respect to objective truth existence first then, when it is known existing before the subjective will to mess with
Edited by absols (01/05/14 02:04 AM)
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Re: Woman [Re: absols] 1
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absols said: this kind of argument based on sex is a lie .. that is how it didn't take long time for relations to end homosexual .. like now everywhere gays are the reference of love to justify and support, while what was used to recall as straight relations is now judged wrong and for divorce end necessarily
so that fact prove how the argument for sex is a lie .. fake excuse to exploit by opportunists nature which is now revealed being the evil nature of beings and existence freedoms
all religions are for evil life, like what jesus kept mentioning fruits and money to multiply as the way of right life ..
women in depth of means are the bodies of superiority where men are the inferiority free wills .. so existence is based on the evil nature of true freedom when it would have to be objective, like how superiors would mean to enjoy themselves superiority by forcing others to work for them, and inferiors would enjoy putting superiority down as the only way of feeling well within themselves
then in humans existence end, women became the fabricated down ruled by men, and men became the most inferior means and ways working for evil negative source of exclusive existence ends
the point of truth, is to show and prove how objective recognitions rights must come first, and how ones freedom are always wrong and evil wills
like right persons including myself, are the person that don't exist for themselves, they are conscious that they didn't choose to exist, it is just happening like everything exist most likely.. like existence is real
right persons are the persons that wont ask for anything, unless their conditions or states are going down to negative fact, then the panic of getting away from existence realities make them suffer and work hard to reach the constancy of rights away from evil freedoms.. which is abused by all evil powers and force, living by enslaving existing rights seen or known, that is how all became evil powers source and rights became the worse condition ends
existence is never through sex .. freedoms can be relatively sexual .. but only relatively, that is how or why sexuality in means is always a lie
freedoms are relatively sexual in the sense of pleasure and joy .. so what freedom fancy about .. like males freedom is more about taking advantage from knowing being really existing .. and females freedom is more about taking advantage from knowing being truly superior
so men fancy on forcing the concept of facts as being everything truth
and women fancy on getting everything to follow her like dogs
that is why when a man look having some dignity women are hot , like confused between willing to see him her dog and willing to get something real of him ..
same for men, when women look intelligent in facts men are hot, confused in willing to force her to look lost in everything reality, and the will to get something true of her
what is true is superior sense when truth is infinite superiority what is real is inferior sense when reality is the common denominator of all so always down reference .. and when nothing cannot be shared then it is always less to nothing existence.. that is why reality never matter and what matter is freedoms individualities of independent beings
so in fact sexuality is always wrong .. but when freedom is right then it can be managed freely
but in existence truth there is never any sexual aspect of being
that is how inferiority and superiority of beings are always translated objectively in things even and through everyone situations of beings
existence is objective mean it is everything at the same time, it can never be one when it is by definition infinite present things and living happenings of present things
that is how in truth, right persons are both objectively
like to be real they are free superior to realize it, and to be free they are else realities recognitions right, so the end of else rights realizations, free as positive conscious of being the plus of all beings
so I would say to your fictive guy, to go and fuck himself, to find another man like him and enjoy living more openly the fuck he means to all superiority
the only existence is about knowing how to be true in pointing superiority rights coming to always being objective first
which is why existence is impossible, obviously no one can be constant in that .. and that is why existence always end dramatically and I guess this is the real end
we as humans know how there is nothing from nothing how we cant get anything for free
messing with truth knowledge don't provide anything .. on the contrary it impose ways more respect to objective truth existence first then, when it is known existing before the subjective will to mess with
whaaa???

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Re: Woman [Re: hmmn]
#19371299 - 01/05/14 03:35 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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duck yourself in your fancy of being filled to be eaten as sweet thing
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Re: Woman [Re: absols]
#19371505 - 01/05/14 06:24 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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i submit...just...please speak english
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#19371559 - 01/05/14 06:56 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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submission is a lie .. and I dare you to find anyone else who can talk about everything reasons and sources in better English then mine or in more clear terms
the only reason of your reply is for the content and substance that you saw of my means.. what I clearly state men inferiority forever and women superiority on men always.. so the opposite of your meaning wills
while again I repeat more clearly how sex divisions is wrong and don't concern any individual conscious rights like myself at all which are exclusively free first of objective existence conditions.. this point of truth also I am sure pissed off the most the opportunist will you are out of everything existence knowledge
your ways of reacting negatively by putting down the whole person as nothing but an animal word, show the one you are, who never even mean to react to else expressions but mean exclusively the business of looking at everyone as being none for yourself sense of being a living one
you are free to say whatever you want about another, and me too
go learn some more English yourself !
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Re: Woman [Re: absols]
#19371672 - 01/05/14 07:41 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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submission is a lie .. and I dare you to find anyone else who can talk about everything reasons and sources in better English then mine or in more clear terms
   
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Re: Woman [Re: Rahz]
#19371863 - 01/05/14 09:01 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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This question definitely shows the difference between younger guys and older guys. A lot of younger guys see it as women looking for an "aggressive" man but when you get older you realize they are seeking an "alpha type" man, which does not mean he smacks around his women but is dominate enough that the woman feels that he is her protector and in charge so that if something happens, he will be able to handle the situation.
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Re: Woman [Re: Rahz] 1
#19371888 - 01/05/14 09:14 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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Rahz said: A guy was telling me about this female. Said about a year ago he asked her if she was seeing anyone. No. He asked he if she would like to go out. No.
So the girl is around 5 months into a pregnancy, went into early labor. Turns out she also has some fresh bruises on her arms and scratches on her neck. He doesn't know what to make of it, asking me if he should be more aggressive, maybe girls like to be slapped around a bit, show them who's boss. He was a bit hostile about the situation, more upset with her than the idiot she's dating.
I told him females are human and some of them are just fucked up. Like daddy like boyfriend. And, who the fuck knows. My little speech didn't seem to aleve his confusion. What would you say to him?
I'd tell him to stop obsessing about a girl who rejected him a year ago, he should have talked to at least a few dozen more beautiful ladies that night. Get over rejection, don't even worry about it, keep on truckin', it's gonna happen, just as he'll ultimately turn down some ladies himself. He doesn't need to act differently, he just needs to find his audience.
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it is a lie .. in the mind of a woman, a man is to work for being that she would enjoy not doing protecting from what ?? this is the fancy of man in imagining himself appeals to women minds
women are known willing to be in fanciful images free all the time, a plus
for any dangerous situation man is like a woman or even worse.. what can he do more then any other human body ..? nothing, he would look weak and impotent necessarily
men are looking positive only when everything seems well .. for the opportunities they seem then eager or ready to grasp .. while women knowing the importance of working through reality ends don't care about it much, for what reality might degrade their images of themselves in showing everyone limits and inferiority
that is how in general, successful women cant have a happy house whether because they would look too real so not superior image, or because they are already doing what men are useful for
and your way of perceiving women prove the lie
like what you said about young guys is all to their fancy about themselves fast reactions to force others to their wills
also what old guys would rather fancy on being wisely free in others minds
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Re: Woman [Re: absols]
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men can protect women from physical threats of violence with their more physically powerful forms, but not anything else.
if men's strength does not appeal to women's mind, then it does not need to because it is the natural order, so it should not be an issue at all. it only stands out when men let themselves be weak and pathetic since they do not fulfill their role that way, so it is immensely unappealing to women.
but women's mind is not appreciated by men, who say women live to serve men but this is wrong because women have the superior intellect, although it does not make them superior because men and women both have different merits that make them equal. but women's mind is superior in feeling, sensing, and reason while men's body is stronger, more capable physically, and his mind is more direct.
so when men do not appreciate women's mind, then they do not care about protecting them and they only care about what women can do with their bodies for men. whether they can work like men, please men with their sex appeal, or fight like men. but this is not the correct way to treat women because their value is in their kindness, empathy, love, and reason. but these things get ignored so that women can be evaluated by the same standards as men, even though men only evaluate each other based on strength, willpower, and stubbornness alone and never evaluate each other based on kindness, empathy, love, and reason.
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i disagree.. men cannot protect women at all, it is a lie of course
what are the threats that you mean ?? wars? animals aggressions ? rape ? diseases ??
men starts by putting women down, literally fucking is only about that, forcing superiority down to mean being superior to superiority as the nirvana thing reason of ejaculation
men physically mean to attack women, how can they protect them then from anything never
women fancy on getting something from men by seeing their weakness towards their superiority.. most of women fake loving men and can accept anyone
and the true loving ones could mean without knowing infinite objective existence true source.. which is the freedom reason of males forms, the first one that is why usually women love is associated with the certainty of getting something from that man when the first is sexy from being hundred percent able to provide positive things
but it is a fancy.. the first is infinite freedom superiority so never through anything realities nor through negative dimensions of existence
which prove that men are wrong, they cant be useful in anything because they cant be true
men truth is to infinite freedom alone so all men are faked done from the second one seen clearly, from what the idea of first was conceived for fake existence
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Re: Woman [Re: absols]
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men bring the most rape to women, but it is because they know not how to see women's merits. when they can see women's merits, kindness, empathy, love, and reason then they do not want to fuck women or treat them badly because it means they are hurting themselves, too, because when they mistreat women then they cannot benefit from women's merits, kindness, empathy, love, and reason.
men have usefulness because women are not as strong physically as men, so men provide protection to them like the guardian of a priceless treasure. but they can only provide protection when they understand what women's purpose and true value is, otherwise they will only trample women under their feet and use women for their own pleasure or satisfaction.
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women merits is only superiority that men wants to fuck biologically
men don't get excited but when they fancy on a superior woman
those qualities you say is not about women .. it is more to men inferiority .. that mean positive as a will always like an intention that can never be real
women are known to be very selfish, barely caring about their children only because they are of her
your insistence to sell an inferior image of women in order to enjoy yourself image in superiority of men is too exhibited here
it is an obvious lie to say that men only fuck women they don't like on the contrary men are known for fucking only women they admire in all terms
and those images of women you say don't turn on average men
actually the first is a woman but in ways of man like the second is a man in ways of women
because always there is nothing but truth existence only, anything else is only free
so any is through everything else when everything is not any one nor ever a relative fact nor possible ways
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Re: Woman [Re: absols]
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i describe a superior image of women because kindness, empathy, and reason are more valuable than strength in body and fortitude. they are not valued in society, but the truth of reality is that kindness, empathy, love, and reason are priceless and valuable beyond measure.
but women become what we think we know about them today because of men's false beliefs about women. they changed themselves and became more like men so that they can be heard by men, who cover their eyes and ears to women's sensibleness and only look to other men for validation of their barbaric ideas. so to be heard by men, women became like men so that they suppress their own kindness, empathy, and reason otherwise men would say that they are weak and inferior because men think of women's real merits as being a sign of weakness.
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but if men allow themselves to see women's real merits, than men's attitude toward women will change, and women can then be their true selves so that their valuable qualities can flourish.
men say that women are harpies, selfish, and shallow but it is only a mirror of their own failure to respect and appreciate women for their true merits, because from their mistaken thinking, women adapt to live alongside men's serious error. it can be no other way since men and women have to live side by side, and so whichever side has more authority, the other side is forced to change or else they cannot survive.
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both sexs are messed up emotionally for the most part and it may just be the case that this is the way it's going to remain. I see no reason to think that humans are going to make some huge emotional transformation any time in the near future.
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Tycoda said: i describe a superior image of women because kindness, empathy, and reason are more valuable than strength in body and fortitude. they are not valued in society, but the truth of reality is that kindness, empathy, love, and reason are priceless and valuable beyond measure.
but women become what we think we know about them today because of men's false beliefs about women. they changed themselves and became more like men so that they can be heard by men, who cover their eyes and ears to women's sensibleness and only look to other men for validation of their barbaric ideas. so to be heard by men, women became like men so that they suppress their own kindness, empathy, and reason otherwise men would say that they are weak and inferior because men think of women's real merits as being a sign of weakness.
it is clearly religious what you are saying, which prove that it is not true and never real
truth cant be changed.. especially one would never change another you show the crap you mean
truth is always more objectively living when there cant be anything existing but true
you mean that all is created while also all is conscious reactions .. which is absurd
saying that smthg has an extreme value without being able to say what or point any positive reality of it .. is the print of crap
and no women didn't change at all .. that is how men became homosexuals to still mean fucking others superiority pretenses after killing the true superior reference of their minds
superiority is the ability to stay positive constant objectively, so in form of being truly existing .. this is the print of women like
while they are more clearly that in the world, where men obviously failed to sustain their pretenses, and end with so much needs to get anything positive for themselves beings
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the whole of humanity will not change for a long time, but everybody still has the power to change their thinking now, as individuals. that is the real power behind being an individual, which everybody talks endlessly about but never in the correct, life-affirming sense. they always mistakenly attributes individuality to cheap, meaningless things like getting to dress in a certain style or getting to speak in a certain manner or getting to listen to a certain type of music, eat a certain type of food, express a certain opinion.
but the real, meaningful value of individuality is controlling the way that you think, and in deciding for yourself what is the correct mode of conduct.
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Re: Woman [Re: Tycoda]
#19372314 - 01/05/14 10:56 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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I'm not sure that's really possible but it might be for a select few individuals. For the rest of us there's drugs.
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Re: Woman [Re: absols]
#19372317 - 01/05/14 10:57 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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absols said:
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Tycoda said: i describe a superior image of women because kindness, empathy, and reason are more valuable than strength in body and fortitude. they are not valued in society, but the truth of reality is that kindness, empathy, love, and reason are priceless and valuable beyond measure.
but women become what we think we know about them today because of men's false beliefs about women. they changed themselves and became more like men so that they can be heard by men, who cover their eyes and ears to women's sensibleness and only look to other men for validation of their barbaric ideas. so to be heard by men, women became like men so that they suppress their own kindness, empathy, and reason otherwise men would say that they are weak and inferior because men think of women's real merits as being a sign of weakness.
it is clearly religious what you are saying, which prove that it is not true and never real
truth cant be changed.. especially one would never change another you show the crap you mean
truth is always more objectively living when there cant be anything existing but true
you mean that all is created while also all is conscious reactions .. which is absurd
saying that smthg has an extreme value without being able to say what or point any positive reality of it .. is the print of crap
and no women didn't change at all .. that is how men became homosexuals to still mean fucking others superiority pretenses after killing the true superior reference of their minds
superiority is the ability to stay positive constant objectively, so in form of being truly existing .. this is the print of women like
while they are more clearly that in the world, where men obviously failed to sustain their pretenses, and end with so much needs to get anything positive for themselves beings
how can you say that i am the one with religious thoughts when it is you who believe that humans have no power to affect their perceived reality? would you say that women are evil because god created them that way? because you insist that women are selfish and cannot change as if they have no free will of their own. how else can you not be religious when you express that thought?
reality is truth, but humans do not live in truth. they live in madness, insanity, and delusion. and in madness, they believe that everything the way it is, is the way it has always even though this is a false delusion.
the truth does not change, but the expectation of reality does change based on how humans conduct their thoughts - and from this, the way that people perceive reality and truth can change, although in truth none of it is real since truth is absolute and objective. but their madness and delusion, too, is part of the truth of reality so it is subject to the same laws as everything else.
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Re: Woman [Re: Tycoda]
#19372321 - 01/05/14 10:57 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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it is funny how you mix individuality with being a gender
if you are a gender to yourself then an individual to you cannot be true
and if individuality is true then there cant be any gender object
but it is obvious that you mean to buy everything means that suit your own self wills of being positively alive without respecting facts known and existence truth
a lot of people enjoy that simplicity of being through creations even of selves .. and that is why the end is so horrible in all terms
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Re: Woman [Re: absols]
#19372352 - 01/05/14 11:04 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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people are individuals first, and they are their gender second. when you take away the gender, the body, what is left? it is the spirit itself of course, the experience of being alive. and so the gender does not define the individual, but merely affects how they perceive being alive.
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Re: Woman [Re: Tycoda]
#19372383 - 01/05/14 11:11 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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Tycoda said: how can you say that i am the one with religious thoughts when it is you who believe that humans have no power to affect reality? would you say that women are evil because god created them that way? because you insist that women are selfish and cannot change as if they have no will of their own. how else can you not be religious when you express that thought?
reality is truth, but humans do not live in truth. they live in madness, insanity, and delusion. and in madness, they believe that everything the way it is, is the way it has always even though this is a false delusion.
so the truth does not change, but the expectation of reality does change based on how humans conduct their thoughts - and from this, the way that people perceive reality and truth can change, although in truth none of it is real. but that, too, is part of the truth of reality so it is subject to the same laws as everything else.
reality is to truth of everything existing .. it is you the religious thinking ways that love to fancy on a life that don't include everything rights and true existence
it is you the religious that describe women as a gender qualities like plastic beings life, forcing your sense of making them inferiors as a general thing of all and you even dare say that all women changed their qualities and became men ... what can it be more religious then that to say
and how men didn't become all women too ?? hen?? while they are still waiting for women to change suddenly ?? so they become good men also suddenly ?? how do you know that when none of it exist now ??
being selfish is never being evil .. on the contrary, being evil is about abusing others and else existence , so existing by deforming what exist and without existing own self
being selfish in truth is to being free first and last, so never to be attached to anything but to own self fact true present positive existing sense
that is how it is degrading the image of women to say that they are empathy and blablabla
this is image for you the men out of your god who you say that is love ..
women has nothing to do with that
why that insistence to force getting from women all what you preach about for yourselves .. is the way of evil that abuse others and stay free careless about all and any but his incomes to flourish his powers on all and any through
men enjoy wars like a game because they don't care about anything at all
women whatever they can be mean or selfish they still act in respect of everything value
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Re: Woman [Re: Tycoda]
#19372405 - 01/05/14 11:18 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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Tycoda said: people are individuals first, and they are their gender second. when you take away the gender, the body, what is left? it is the spirit itself of course, the experience of being alive. and so the gender does not define the individual, but merely affects how they perceive being alive.
what is first cannot be second .. you cant understand that I suppose
the second is else never the same one
you describe everything you are as an idea while you exist for sure .. so what are you in real ?? a liar or an unconscious animal ways of being ??
an individual is not a perception of being mister
an individual is a fact of being present alone doing everything for yourself objective constant needs in having to stay constant consciously, till the death of being so the conscious death an individual is the knowledge that the present is only oneself conscious moves because what truly exist is freedom superiority which cant be then but through one own sensical way
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Re: Woman [Re: absols]
#19372410 - 01/05/14 11:20 AM (10 years, 26 days ago) |
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maybe you live on a different continent where life is conducted differently, and where women do not strive to live like men. but where i live near america, where all forms of american madness spill out into the world, women have been striving to be part of the men's club for the past century. they do it out of the thought that it will bring them equality, but has any of the women's movements brought equality to women so far? the answer is no of course, because for every instance in which women gain the freedom to live with human dignity, men create new privileges so that they can exclude women all over again. and even though those forms of privilege are meaningless and just the byproduct of men's imagination, their false privileges become associated with success, so that others mistakenly strive to gain entrance to the boys' club all over again.
women vote for example, and can participate in politics, but it did not change the face of politics. now there are just many female politicians as there are male who speak about peace and harmony while never actually living up to their promises because they are working in the setting that man created. and the setting for politics that was created by men can never produce peace and harmony because it is based on wrong modes of behaviour, like shmoozing and aggrandizing instead of harmonizing, understanding, and cooperating.
men used their force and might to set the stage for every wrong mode of behaviour eons ago, and now women cannot even imagine their own gender's purpose because it has been kept hidden from them. and because their minds, just like the minds of men, have been filled with false ideals about the correct way of living.
people call it "the rat race of life" and take it for granted in their day-to-day lives, even though on some level they are occasionally aware of its destructiveness.
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Re: Woman [Re: Tycoda]
#19372467 - 01/05/14 11:36 AM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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it is the opposite, you apparently insist to live on a continent opposed to all realities and rights of beings
I grew up in france so in europ basically, where women are all free from religions means, and where women superiority glow obviously
there is no gender purpose at all, when gender being is a lie
what matter is what anyone do alone, while in being conscious anyone necessarily do a lot individually
women are far more conscious then men, that is why they are more small and through free forms men are more animals ways, that is why they are more through physical objective perspectives and senses of being
conscious is being existing, because true existence is freedom superiority ends in objective positive constant value
divisions is to evil opportunists ways in abusing positive truth ends for powers over else existence without having to exist oneself, so for absolute positive incomes without having to give any constant effort for being nor doing anything right
you are opposed to truth realms, that is why you seem to not be able to consider what is superior and its rights of being free you don't appreciate else superiority for what you prefer limits of existence
while existence is only through infinite superiority always
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Re: Woman [Re: absols]
#19373114 - 01/05/14 01:49 PM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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the first is alone, so always the present reference to own free moves
the second know the existence of else by definition, that is why it is superior as being more right in objective truth
that is how the second is the reason of true objective existence fact
so the first cant be existing ever
the idea of men is to fall for women, it is an invention of fancy to mean that a man must become a woman to be existing
that is surely why it is said that the future don't know men, there will be only women existing
XX is to present confirmation so positive constant fact so existence
XY is to present constantly destroyed which can never be
enslaving women to fake loving you wont save you
anyway women obviously don't love men anymore on the contrary they hate them all over the world
one by definition is wrong, when truth exist from else rights
what is else while the same fact is what justify objective existence rights of truth
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Re: Woman [Re: absols]
#19373679 - 01/05/14 04:15 PM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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Dude, absols...please learn to write in unbroken, complete sentences. I spent 5 minutes reviewing your last couple of posts in detail and cannot extract a coherent statement from any of it.
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Icelander said: submission is a lie .. and I dare you to find anyone else who can talk about everything reasons and sources in better English then mine or in more clear terms
    
Icelander's favorite smiley Just about everybody on this forum writes more clearly than you. For example: I write much more clearly than you do. It's very easy to read my writing and understand what I mean because my sentences are either complete, or are written transcriptions of common spoken vernacular (e.g. the fragment that opens this paragraph).
This is very far off-topic; I apologize and will not comment further. I hope that absols will learn to write.
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Re: Woman [Re: Rahz]
#19373744 - 01/05/14 04:30 PM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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Rahz said: A guy was telling me about this female. Said about a year ago he asked her if she was seeing anyone. No. He asked he if she would like to go out. No.
So the girl is around 5 months into a pregnancy, went into early labor. Turns out she also has some fresh bruises on her arms and scratches on her neck. He doesn't know what to make of it, asking me if he should be more aggressive, maybe girls like to be slapped around a bit, show them who's boss. He was a bit hostile about the situation, more upset with her than the idiot she's dating.
I told him females are human and some of them are just fucked up. Like daddy like boyfriend. And, who the fuck knows. My little speech didn't seem to aleve his confusion. What would you say to him?
Bruises and scratches on her arms? so the fuck what. Maybe she's clumsy, or maybe she likes to terrorize cats..? Anyway, that doesn't mean shit.
He's more upset with her than the "idiot she's dating" because he's angry over being rejected. sounds like he's the one wearing meat curtains.
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Re: Woman [Re: hmmn]
#19375407 - 01/06/14 12:26 AM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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no i will not learn to write because I am the writer
if you do not see that, this is not normal so it must be your problem, I clearly don't need you to read nor understand what I write, so you can simply skip MY WRITINGSSS
and please leave your negative comments about others writings skills to your self !
here again you are doing the same thing, proving the previous point of our argument;
you are reacting to the content of my last post where I did went to defend women in radical ways against all men forever and you react to that in the most chicken way by attacking the form, showing to what extent you are useless as a man while you insist to be only that
again it is your problem not mine !
and btw the art of communication is not in words words are exclusively for complex points to sort it out in truth and not for cheap compromises .. which is against any communication principle of being
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Re: Woman [Re: absols]
#19375461 - 01/06/14 12:57 AM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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That's much better! Keep up the good work. 
I didn't respond to the ideas in your last several posts because they were largely incomprehensible, and I could not understand what you were trying to say - not because I'm trying to attack your ideas. I don't know what your ideas about this topic are! I still believe that you would benefit from putting some effort into consistently placing a subject, object, and verb in each sentence that you write if you want to be understood on English-speaking forums. I'm not saying this to make you feel bad - although I do find this very amusing, and I'm sure that comes across.

(ok for real, I am done in this thread)
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Re: Woman [Re: hmmn]
#19375575 - 01/06/14 01:53 AM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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again you redo the same thing .. it is all about you in your posts while even nothing don't exist for you
you have your own self to get what you want from others are not some tools or bodies to satisfy your wills ! it is incredible how conscious livings are suddenly now of that kind, imitating god model for a piece of bread in life ..
I said clearly what objectively, words are nothing .. they have ZERO value
while to you words show an up lifting work results.. creepy chicken you are
words value, like zero, are exclusively to bring things to truth so to break relative factors in any objective fact
then, speaking about absolutes is the right wording to express and to say like a normal thing ..
of course for you like for any chick, words are for the pleasure to picture oneself state over others and anything else, using things and others to climb upon as the easiest way to feel being someone by abusing the positive value of zero and force others to be through negative realms..
this is your own means that has nothing to do with anybody else nor with any objective fact
it is the voice of absolutes here .. we see everything while being totally free
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Re: Woman [Re: hmmn]
#19375783 - 01/06/14 04:13 AM (10 years, 25 days ago) |
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hmmn said: That's much better! Keep up the good work. 
I didn't respond to the ideas in your last several posts because they were largely incomprehensible, and I could not understand what you were trying to say - not because I'm trying to attack your ideas. I don't know what your ideas about this topic are! I still believe that you would benefit from putting some effort into consistently placing a subject, object, and verb in each sentence that you write if you want to be understood on English-speaking forums. I'm not saying this to make you feel bad - although I do find this very amusing, and I'm sure that comes across.

(ok for real, I am done in this thread)
If you have problems understanding him then do what I do, just leave his posts to those that do. Trying to get him to change something he's happy with is futile.
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