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is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard
#19366583 - 01/04/14 01:12 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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why is it that i've had a couple fat and/or unattractive girls that i'm pretty sure developed a crush on me but i've never had a really pretty girl that i'm into develop a crush on me?
Aren't women all the same on the inside? Why would their outward appearance change their inner desires?
i barely talk to this chick and she's randomly texting me about guys hitting on her and asking me to hang out with her and stuff but i'm not that attracted to her but she's not a bad person either, just has some insecurities about her looks and sexuality. should i just hit that since i'm not getting anything from other girls?
but it's not fair why can't i get anything from other girls fuck why does life have to be hard like this i just wish pretty girls like me.
but why am i so shallow and only care about a girl's outward appearance fuck i'm messed up.
i think i may be broken and need fixing
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: evenbreak]
#19366587 - 01/04/14 01:15 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Good looking girls are up themselves and think everyone wants them, and in my experience they end up ugly and fat later on in life and the average looking girls turn out to be more attractive later on in life, so I'd suggest going for an average looking girl, and why wouldn't you hit that? Only live once you may as well fuck everyone you can right?
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: evenbreak]
#19366588 - 01/04/14 01:15 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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evenbreak said: but it's not fair why can't i get anything from other girls fuck why does life have to be hard like this i just wish pretty girls like me.
thats what the fat chick is saying when you dont text her back
but thats life
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: k00laid]
#19366595 - 01/04/14 01:20 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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k00laid said:
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evenbreak said: but it's not fair why can't i get anything from other girls fuck why does life have to be hard like this i just wish pretty girls like me.
thats what the fat chick is saying when you dont text her back
but thats life
do what makes you happy
Exactly
Depends on how ugly the girl is, that sounds sorta terrible. The girl doesn't have to be incredibly hot for me to wanna be with her, there are just certain things, unfortunately, that turn me off. That's usually someone who is excessively overweight, a lot of acne, or someone who is ridiculously skinny. I know some girls can't help those sorta things, but if I just dont find the girl attractive, I'm not gonna force myself to be with her ya know?
If she's average looking, with a good personality, goin for her is definitely worth it.
Also, a lot of the time the more attractive girls know they are attractive, and so unless your showing interest in them, they'll move past you, they've got options
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: OliverJames] 1
#19366604 - 01/04/14 01:27 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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This makes me wonder if every guy I've ever had a crush on secretly thought I was ugly.
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: Crystal G] 4
#19366606 - 01/04/14 01:31 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I think it's because your more confident towards uglier girls, your not afraid to be yourself. Act the same towards the hot ones and you will get the same results.
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: Dudits]
#19366614 - 01/04/14 01:37 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Dudits said: I think it's because your more confident towards uglier girls, your not afraid to be yourself. Act the same towards the hot ones and you will get the same results.
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: Dudits]
#19366615 - 01/04/14 01:39 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Dudits said: I think it's because your more confident towards uglier girls, your not afraid to be yourself. Act the same towards the hot ones and you will get the same results.
That's what i was going to say. Women whom are physically attractive also usually know it and develop a bigger ego. They have men talk with them more often and like anything, once it happens enough, it no longer phases them. Women who don't get a lot of male attention develop crushes easily because they're not accustomed to the attention.
The same goes for men whom have a lot of female attention.
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: evenbreak]
#19366645 - 01/04/14 01:54 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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evenbreak said: why is it that i've had a couple fat and/or unattractive girls that i'm pretty sure developed a crush on me but i've never had a really pretty girl that i'm into develop a crush on me?
You can't be sure of this. A wise man once put it "being a fat/ugly girl is the closest thing to being a man." 
In a way this is true. While guys chase after the "pretty" girls the ugly girls often find themselves in the same position as ALL men i.e. if want some action THEY must make the first move. As a result it may seem that only ugly girls are into you, but it's more likely that ugly girls are more forward about it because they need to be.
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evenbreak said: Aren't women all the same on the inside? Why would their outward appearance change their inner desires?
It has a lot to do with how they are treated. If you're an attractive lady you have the opportunity to "take your pick" when it comes to men. This leads to two obvious behavioral differences.
1. Attractive girls rarely if EVER make the "first move." 2. Attractive girls may turn you even if you're charming and handsome because they believe that with their looks, they can do better.
Think of it like a starving person. They'd jump at the chance to eat a nasty mcdonalds burger while I'm sure you would turn it down.
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evenbreak said: i barely talk to this chick and she's randomly texting me about guys hitting on her and asking me to hang out with her and stuff but i'm not that attracted to her but she's not a bad person either, just has some insecurities about her looks and sexuality. should i just hit that since i'm not getting anything from other girls?
Well it depends. Do you want to hit that? I don't suggest you lower your standards just to get laid. If you have a type - go out there and find it, otherwise you'll be unsatisfied.
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evenbreak said: but it's not fair why can't i get anything from other girls fuck why does life have to be hard like this i just wish pretty girls like me.
As I said before. I'm sure pretty girls like you, it's just they are being approached night and day by other guys. If you want a shot you have to put yourself out there, the harder you try the better you'll do. It's common sense.
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evenbreak said: but why am i so shallow and only care about a girl's outward appearance fuck i'm messed up.
i think i may be broken and need fixing
As I said before I don't suggest you lower your own standards just for sex. I mean if a womans outwards appearance is important to you, why settle for anything less. It's your life - be a winner, not second best.
Honestly i don't see you being attracted to a woman for her looks any different than her being attracted to you for your charm. Either way you want something from her, she wants something from you and that mutual desire is the first step to forming a greater bond.
I don't buy into that whole "lust is a sin" crap. Lust is wonderful and can lead to some of the best relationships.
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: Magenta]
#19366646 - 01/04/14 01:54 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I've honestly turned down good looking females because of the high maintenance of themselves and I that comes with the territory.
I'd rather be damaged and single then play those little games
Also I would say more hot chicks have come on to me then ugly chicks. Probably a confidence thing. This one chick wanted my D but after a little inspection I was not having that.
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: Konyap] 1
#19366649 - 01/04/14 01:56 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Illyabo said: I've honestly turned down good looking females
Pics or gtfo.
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: rulesq]
#19366660 - 01/04/14 02:02 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I had a number on a napkin written in red marker
she doesn't have a facebook, but yea we hung out
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: Konyap]
#19366748 - 01/04/14 03:06 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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do you know that feeling of feeling small and like you're not good enough?
i can't go to places like bars because everyone is so outgoing and pretty and i feel so small compared to them. i feel like i don't even deserve to hit on pretty girls like that.
why do pretty girls have to be so pretty...
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: evenbreak]
#19366802 - 01/04/14 03:56 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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evenbreak, are you a male or female?
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: Magenta]
#19366830 - 01/04/14 04:15 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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evenbreak said: i feel like i don't even deserve to hit on pretty girls like that.
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knightron said: evenbreak, are you a male or female?
I'm guessing male
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: matt1208]
#19366896 - 01/04/14 04:59 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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matt1208 said:
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evenbreak said: i feel like i don't even deserve to hit on pretty girls like that.
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knightron said: evenbreak, are you a male or female?
I'm guessing male
Don't be fooled. That behaviour is also consistent with hermaphrodites. I just want to get things straight before further commenting.
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: Magenta]
#19366901 - 01/04/14 05:02 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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knightron said:
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matt1208 said:
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evenbreak said: i feel like i don't even deserve to hit on pretty girls like that.
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knightron said: evenbreak, are you a male or female?
I'm guessing male
Don't be fooled. That behaviour is also consistent with hermaphrodites. I just want to get things straight before further commenting.
true but a bar isn't a place that girls go to meet other girls, at least not where I'm at anyway, never really know but my guess is male :p
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: matt1208]
#19366922 - 01/04/14 05:16 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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matt1208 said: true but a bar isn't a place that girls go to meet other girls
Exactly; but hermaphrodites on the other hand..
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: evenbreak] 1
#19366972 - 01/04/14 06:00 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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evenbreak said: why is it that i've had a couple fat and/or unattractive girls that i'm pretty sure developed a crush on me but i've never had a really pretty girl that i'm into develop a crush on me?
Aren't women all the same on the inside? Why would their outward appearance change their inner desires?
i barely talk to this chick and she's randomly texting me about guys hitting on her and asking me to hang out with her and stuff but i'm not that attracted to her but she's not a bad person either, just has some insecurities about her looks and sexuality. should i just hit that since i'm not getting anything from other girls?
but it's not fair why can't i get anything from other girls fuck why does life have to be hard like this i just wish pretty girls like me.
but why am i so shallow and only care about a girl's outward appearance fuck i'm messed up.
i think i may be broken and need fixing
If your unattractive, then those hotter looking chick's are looking at you exactly like your looking at those fat chick's, unwanted, needy, and a huge burden.
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Re: is it easier to get ugly girls? life hard [Re: evenbreak]
#19366976 - 01/04/14 06:03 AM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Uglier girls just try harder. These hot as hell girls got 50 dudes hitting on them 24-7...they dont have any need or want to look for guys. Ugly chicks though, they got like 5 dudes hitting on them 24-7 and they arent that desirable; so they look beyond that and try harder for dudes that might be outta their league assuming most guys will bang anything with a hole.
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Dawks said: the harder you try the better you'll do. It's common sense.
wrong.
trying too hard scares girls away
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