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If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? 1
#19365413 - 01/03/14 07:51 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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At the age of 11 I thought that marijuana was a sin and that sex before marriage as well as masturbation would "make god mad at you!" (my literal words)
By 14, I had been wacking off on the daily to some swimsuit issue I had so sneakily smuggled into my house by 15, i was smoking weed regularly by 16 I had lost my vcard to someone who i thought I loved (in reality she was a bitch) by 19 (my age now) I have recovered and been clean from abusing a lot of stims. I dropped acid a fair bit, smoked dmt, and vape weed regularly
The question is; if that same 11 year old mentality was maintained till today, how would I be? What if it was until after marriage? Would I be happier? What if I only understood sex after marraige? What if i had only seen one woman naked my entire life?
Would my mind be purer? cleaner? Would i be a happier and superior person?
I personally think yes. I am not justifying bible fanboys to throw their opinion and crap logic onto other people. But if I were to stay faithful and only have sex after marriage, I think love for that person would be more preserved. And i would get to know that person more
That being said, i am going to go to this girls house tomorrow and have her taste some top notch penis(have sex with her). But hypothetically, i think it wouldn't be that bad of an idea to not fuck girls till marriage
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: topdog82]
#19365443 - 01/03/14 07:55 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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I wish that I would have waited. I waited as till I was 18 and basically was thought that to find another person that waited would be impossible. I wouldn't want to be the virgin in the marriage Now being 25, still not married, but have had sex with to many girls in my opinion. Like I said I wish I would have still....
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: topdog82] 1
#19365464 - 01/03/14 07:59 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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topdog82 said: Would my mind be purer? cleaner? Would i be a happier and superior person?
No, you'd simply be a different person. Probably worse off to boot - it's better to make mistakes and fall in love with the wrong people when you're young than waiting until your older. You'd be much worse off if you waited to marriage before you found out she was a bitch and spent the rest of your life paying alimony because you never developed your bitch detector at a younger age.
As for monogamy, I think it's silly. I've explained why in another thread. Sex should be treated as a casual, social activity, not as a perverse thing than you can only ever do with one person of the correct gender.
Honestly it sounds the only thing that's dirtied/corrupted your mind is your former mentality. 
Your mind would be much "cleaner" if you opened your mind to polyamory and free love.
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: topdog82]
#19365679 - 01/03/14 08:43 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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I knew a kid whose parents were practically in a cult, and he bought into the whole thing. No sex before marriage, repressed his masturbatory urges, and all that.
Just married a morbidly obese ultra religious chick. He's 27. Guessing that he just got tired of waiting and decided to marry the first heifer he could get his hands on dick inside.
Fuck that noise/
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: RiderOnTheStorm] 1
#19365705 - 01/03/14 08:49 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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I believe society would be PURER if all followed JESUS CHIRIST with there full hearts every knee should bend unto the LORD
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: Gilgamesh18]
#19365720 - 01/03/14 08:53 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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To be clear here, i have no reference to christianity. I was born a hindu and I dont even know what the fuck you would call my current belief system, but it seems to keep me happy and is fairly logical
anyways, I referenced christians because i always thought to myself "Fuck those dumbasses, sex is awesome"
But i feel that being exposed to these things at a young age ruined them for me. Sex and love is a lot more complex and losing my vcard at that age was nothing like the media brainwashes you to think it is
And same with weed. I think if I smoked for the first time at 25 I would be much more mature and able to handle mary jane with self control
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: Gilgamesh18]
#19366222 - 01/03/14 10:50 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Gilgamesh18 said: I believe society would be PURER if all followed JESUS CHIRIST with there full hearts every knee should bend unto the LORD
I find it funny that most christians wouldnt give a few bucks to a homeless man dressed in dirty rags but as soon as a man with a nice home, that wears a suit asks for 10% of their paycheck, they whip out the checkbooks and wallets
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#19366248 - 01/03/14 10:59 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Every knee shall bend before the almighty
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: Gilgamesh18]
#19366266 - 01/03/14 11:03 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Gilgamesh18 said: Every knee shall bend before the almighty
I only bend at the waist and that's only if I AM the one getting paid
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#19366277 - 01/03/14 11:05 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Senseless decadence!!!
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: topdog82]
#19366309 - 01/03/14 11:12 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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At one of my jobs I worked with a mormon. He was alright, a little uptight and a little... I don't know stressed. Were we worked was kind of a male dominate job, but even the gals had a dirty mind and since of humor.
He really didn't fit in.
That was until he got married and left for his week long honeymoon.
When he came back, he was a new person. Still religious, but oh so much happier and stress free.
He wasn't more than 25.
I think holding back kills the soul, and forces you to marry the first thing that shows interest.
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: Gilgamesh18]
#19366322 - 01/03/14 11:15 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Sex with girls when you are developing is normal
Sitting in a dimly lit room with your dick in your hand, now thats perverse!
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: Konyap]
#19366335 - 01/03/14 11:18 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Illyabo said:
Sitting in a dimly lit room with your dick in your hand, now thats perverse!
You shut your whore mouth.
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: 4runner]
#19366345 - 01/03/14 11:21 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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anunnakian said:
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Illyabo said:
Sitting in a dimly lit room with your dick in your hand, now thats perverse!
You shut your whore mouth.
lolllll
But I guess the key here is moderation. Not to bathe in pussy and porn at a young age. But balance and discover at a healthy rate
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: topdog82]
#19366358 - 01/03/14 11:25 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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If you don't want prostate cancer you gotta beat that shit erry day
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: Konyap]
#19366383 - 01/03/14 11:34 PM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Is that accumulative? I swear my teenage years could cover the years up to my 50's.
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: Prisoner#1]
#19366446 - 01/04/14 12:00 AM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Prisoner#1 said:
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Gilgamesh18 said: I believe society would be PURER if all followed JESUS CHIRIST with there full hearts every knee should bend unto the LORD
I find it funny that most christians wouldnt give a few bucks to a homeless man dressed in dirty rags but as soon as a man with a nice home, that wears a suit asks for 10% of their paycheck, they whip out the checkbooks and wallets
Any parishioner in the Archdiosese of Philadelphia that threw money in the plate just paid bail for the release of an enabler of child molestors.
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Allison Steele, Inquirer Staff Writer LAST UPDATED: Saturday, January 4, 2014, 1:08 AM POSTED: Friday, January 3, 2014, 5:05 PM
PHILADELPHIA Philadelphia Archbishop Charles J. Chaput on Friday defended his decision to post bail for Msgr. William J. Lynn, saying it was reasonable and just for the archdiocese to help him.
"Msgr. Lynn presents no danger to anyone. He poses no flight risk," Chaput said in a letter to parishioners that was released by the archdiocese.
"The funding for his bail has been taken from no parish, school or ministry resources, impacts no ongoing work of the church, and will be returned when the terms of bail are completed.
"Nor does it diminish in any way our determination to root out the possibility of sexual abuse from the life of our local church."
Lynn, 62, was released from a Northeastern Pennsylvania prison on Thursday and taken to Philadelphia to have his electronic monitoring arranged. He walked out of jail a free man on Friday, following 18 months in prison for a child-endangerment conviction that was overturned by an appeals court last week. Lynn had been sentenced to three to six years in prison for his role in enabling priests to harm children.
Lynn's lawyer, Thomas A. Bergstrom, declined to say where Lynn would live while the Philadelphia District Attorney's Office pursues an appeal of last week's decision.
Victim rights groups and District Attorney Seth Williams have criticized the archdiocese for paying Lynn's bail.
"Chaput's action sends the worst possible message to current and former Catholic employees: No matter how recklessly, callously, and deceitfully you [endanger] kids and protect predators, the Catholic hierarchy will help you," Barbara Dorris of the St. Louis-based Survivors Network of Those Abused by Priests said this week.
Chaput's letter said the church remained committed to helping survivors of sexual abuse to heal.
"The Superior Court ruling does not vindicate Msgr. Lynn's past decisions," the letter stated. "Nor does it absolve the archdiocese from deeply flawed thinking and actions in the past that resulted in bitter suffering for victims of sexual abuse and their families."
Lynn is scheduled to appear Monday before Common Pleas Court Judge M. Teresa Sarmina, who in 2012 oversaw the case against him and sentenced him to prison. After setting his bail at $250,000 on Monday, the judge ordered Lynn to come to court so she could outline his bail conditions face-to-face.
Lynn is required to wear an electronic monitoring device and to report weekly to a parole officer, and he has surrendered his passport. Unless Lynn fails to appear for court or otherwise violates the terms of his release, most of the bail money will be returned when his case is resolved.
Lynn, who supervised priests as the archdiocesan secretary for clergy, was the first Catholic Church official in the country to be tried and imprisoned for crimes related to sex abuse in the church.
After a three-month trial, Lynn was convicted of endangering children in the late 1990s by allowing a sexually abusive priest to live and celebrate Mass at a Northeast Philadelphia parish, where the priest later assaulted an altar boy.
The Superior Court panel reversed the conviction, finding that prosecutors and the judge had misapplied the state's child-endangerment law when they prosecuted Lynn. Not until 2007 could supervisors such as Lynn be held criminally responsible under the endangerment law, the higher court found.
"I understand and accept the anger felt toward the archdiocese by many of our people and priests, as well as the general public, for the ugly events of the past decade," Chaput said in the letter. "Only time and a record of honest conversion by the archdiocese can change that.
"Msgr. Lynn has already spent 18 months in prison on a conviction which Pennsylvania's state appellate court has reversed - unanimously - as 'fundamentally flawed.' This reversal is not a matter of technicalities but of legal substance."
Ken Gavin, spokesman for the archdiocese, said Lynn has been on administrative leave since March 2011, and declined to comment as to whether Lynn could return to active ministry.
asteele@phillynews.com 610-313-8113 @AESteele
http://www.philly.com/philly/news/20140104_Archbishop_Chaput_defends_posting_bail_for_Msgr__William_Lynn.html
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: topdog82]
#19367070 - 01/04/14 07:02 AM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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topdog82 said:
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anunnakian said:
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Illyabo said:
Sitting in a dimly lit room with your dick in your hand, now thats perverse!
You shut your whore mouth.
lolllll
But I guess the key here is moderation. Not to bathe in pussy and porn at a young age. But balance and discover at a healthy rate
I was watching dog porn at 12
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: Gilgamesh18]
#19367171 - 01/04/14 08:05 AM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Gilgamesh18 said: I believe society would be PURER if all followed JESUS CHIRIST with there full hearts every knee should bend unto the LORD
i hope this post is being sarcastic
you dont need religion to have good morals...im not religious at all, god is fake and so is every other bullshit religion, but they teach morals
you dont need religion to be a good person, you just need a good upbringing and good morals
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: topdog82]
#19367194 - 01/04/14 08:17 AM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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I would still be a virgin
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: Gilgamesh18]
#19367330 - 01/04/14 09:18 AM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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It's impractical for men not to pursue sex. Chemicals dominant morality 10 out of 10 times. The only difference is you would have experimented older.
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: King Klick]
#19367339 - 01/04/14 09:27 AM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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Life is too short to be waiting for things to happen before a person engages in sex, drugs, or whatever is deemed "worth" waiting for, people do die young sometimes and never get to experience lots of fun stuff.
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Re: If we all were exposed to sex after marraige? [Re: qman]
#19367343 - 01/04/14 09:29 AM (10 years, 27 days ago) |
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If two people want to sure! I don't think it would fair well for everyone if they had to do it It would make up for some pretty goofy societies But who knows eh!
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