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chicksgrowtoo


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My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away
#19360248 - 01/02/14 07:01 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I haven't gotten laid in like a year, mainly because I'm completely up front and honest about the kinky shit I'm into and the guys around here are afraid of anything that's not missionary position. My question here is should I just not tell them? I mean it seems kind of devious to get them into bed and spring some kinky stuff on them that they're not down with, but it's no fun for me and not worth the trouble otherwise....maybe I should just move to a more open minded place near a porn studio idk?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360276 - 01/02/14 07:07 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: I mean it seems kind of devious to get them into bed and spring some kinky stuff on them that they're not down with, but it's no fun for me and not worth the trouble otherwise...
Why is that devious? Whet their appetites with leading comments. Spring that surprise. I'm an old married man but if I were young and single again, I hope I'd have the adventurous spirit necessary. Go get 'em!
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: lemmingp]
#19360342 - 01/02/14 07:25 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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What kind of kink are we talking about here?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: 4nik8]
#19360359 - 01/02/14 07:29 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo


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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: 4nik8]
#19360387 - 01/02/14 07:35 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I like to bring girls into the mix, strap-ons, some bondage, roll playing and whatnot. I wouldn't be completely opposed to fucking the guy instead of him fucking me if you know what I mean
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo] 1
#19360400 - 01/02/14 07:38 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Oh and double dildo action with a girl while the guy watches, stuff like that
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360407 - 01/02/14 07:41 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: I wouldn't be completely opposed to fucking the guy instead of him fucking me if you know what I mean
Ha. This may be scaring some people away. Keep this on the low till you get to know the person a bit. The rest of the stuff doesn't seem too crazy.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360414 - 01/02/14 07:43 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I presume that most of the guys especially in the younger ages are shy. I certainly was (early 20s), but gradually grow out of it (after 30). So you could start to discuss the more traditional stuff and gradually go for the more “fun” stuff?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360416 - 01/02/14 07:44 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: Oh and double dildo action with a girl while the guy watches, stuff like that
uhhh where do I sign up?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: sunbleeder]
#19360427 - 01/02/14 07:46 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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I DO keep that one on the low lol....maybe they feel threatened by bringing another girl into it? Idk how guys feel about that sort of thing
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: JPDancer]
#19360440 - 01/02/14 07:48 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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JPDancer said:
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chicksgrowtoo said: Oh and double dildo action with a girl while the guy watches, stuff like that
uhhh where do I sign up? 
In bum fucking you gotta purdy mouth Georgia hahaha
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360457 - 01/02/14 07:51 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Can I be the creepy guy in the corner who watches?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: JPDancer]
#19360460 - 01/02/14 07:52 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Besides being fucked, I would have no problems indulging in your fantasies. I'd say you just have some pussy guy friends around.
In my human sexuality class some 30 year old said if her fiance ever brought up blindfolding she wpould break up with him right there. This 19 year old chick sitting right next to her said she'd run. In my mind I was like,"cool, two more bitches I have no sexual interest in".
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: FruitOfLife] 1
#19360468 - 01/02/14 07:54 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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FruitOfLife said: Can I be the creepy guy in the corner who watches?
I don't think it's creepy, I think it's hot and enjoy someone watching
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Atrium]
#19360478 - 01/02/14 07:57 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Jamesdnh said: Besides being fucked, I would have no problems indulging in your fantasies. I'd say you just have some pussy guy friends around.
In my human sexuality class some 30 year old said if her fiance ever brought up blindfolding she wpould break up with him right there. This 19 year old chick sitting right next to her said she'd run. In my mind I was like,"cool, two more bitches I have no sexual interest in".
Those frigid bitches! lol They must be very sexually frustrated
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360495 - 01/02/14 08:02 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Sooo...would it be too too kinky (guys) for a girl to lick your asshole in the middle of a bj? Or would that also be pushing it too far for most?
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360505 - 01/02/14 08:04 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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FruitOfLife said: Can I be the creepy guy in the corner who watches?
I don't think it's creepy, I think it's hot and enjoy someone watching
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360527 - 01/02/14 08:11 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: I DO keep that one on the low lol....maybe they feel threatened by bringing another girl into it? Idk how guys feel about that sort of thing
Well I presume it might depend on the guy’s background? Are we talking about guys that you just meet for one night stand/friend with benefits or are we talking about guys which you are in relationship with?
I can take myself as an example. When I was in my early 20s I dated a very open minded girl which was 3 year older and much more experienced than me. She proposed about week in our relationship to have an extra girl in the play so to say and I turned it down. This is probably the only mistake I would go back to correct. She also was interested in to invite another guy in which I was not so much happy about either.
Today, a good 15 years later, in relationship with a girl for almost 14 years, where we are married 8+ years, I would not have any problem and actually suggested to the wife if she is interested in such activities. One might ask what changed and why I am ok with this now and not back then? I presume, in my case it was lithe bit too early in the relationship. It might be different if we were more of a friend with the benefit kind of situation.
I think you might have better chance with older guys or rather say more matured ones.
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: Anonymous #1]
#19360547 - 01/02/14 08:17 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Friends with benefits situations with it very clear that I'm NOT looking for a relationship..... So more mature guys then? I'll see how that works out though I rarely engage in sexual activity with someone younger than me to begin with. Thank you for your advice
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Re: My honesty about how kinky I am is scaring guys away [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#19360568 - 01/02/14 08:23 PM (10 years, 1 month ago) |
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Hope it works for you. Can you give a loose age range of the guys you are “scaring” away?
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